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Fmusty:
Yep, they have low spread.. I use them.

Any hidden high commissions?
Any limitation whatsoever?

Hi guys, can anyone verify if ICMarkets actually provides low spreads as shown in myfxbook

https://www.myfxbook.com/forex-broker-quotes/ic-markets/2320

Thanks in advance

TruthSpeaker:
Don’t get me wrong, not all pussy smells bad. I don’t have an idea of how many women you have had access to their pussy. Personally I have had access to more 50 (no exaggeration) and from like 15 countries. In my university days I had 2 course mates that dated for over a year before the lady allowed my male friend (because they were both my friends) to Bleep her. After sex, he was terrified that the girl wasn’t a Virgin as claimed, so the relationship ended almost there after.

Sorry about your male friend's experience but the lady should not have lied. Take me as I am is waaay better than take me as you think I am.

einsteine:
World Court route? The US is not a party to that court. I am assuming you are talking about the world court in the Hague. The US is not a party to the treaty that formed the court.

Something has to give way to make everyone feel they won something

Ewedegubbler:
Mike Pompeo just chipped in some words of wisdom in regards to Iran trying to start some proxy war with the USA. If they try that, the US will still deliver retribution on them directly inside Iran and nothing go happen..

One way Iran can 'win' this war is to take a chill and go about it the World Court route. They will only get decimated but the US will also get hurt as all its military bases in the region will be hit. The US had no justification for that assassination and even more on foreign soil. People around the globe have started talking. Trump will be the scapegoat and that in itself will be seen as a win without letting the conflicts go ballistic.

Fuckyoumod:
are you sure your in this world?


Forcing who on what?

America spent a lot on Iraq, the lost men and women in Iraq, they built a multi billion dollar military bases in Iraq.

Who is going to pay for all that? You? Or your big empty head?

So Iraq should pay up and America would leave.

Before you attack him take a look at this,

Trump says they have to pay for the military bases. No biggie but then states if you tell us to go, we will give you sanctions. Which does the opposite making them not to be able to pay up. I don't think any nation would allow the US have bases in their nation after this as conflict of interest would always come in one way or another.

Let's even go back to history.

The war on Iraq. Started from a false accusation that Saddam has WMDs. Without proof or justification, they made that place a shell of itself and with the demise of the warlord Saddam of the area, ISIS was born. Who should be claiming damages from whom.

In another thread https://www.nairaland.com/5616647/eeben-barlow-us-funded-buharis

“Our initial aim was not Boko Haram per se, it was to rescue the Chibok girls. They were the girls that were kidnapped and the western response was #Savethegirls (#BringBackOurGirls),” he said.

“That type of nonsense does not save girls. Unfortunately, these girls became victims of a situation where the security had broken down in a specific area, they were kidnapped and that was the first mission – rescue the Chibok girls.
...

“But we were never allowed to execute the entire operation. In one month, we took back terrain larger than the terrain of Belgium from Boko Haram. We were not allowed to finish because it came at a time that governments were in the process of changing.

“President Jonathan’s government saw the entire Boko Haram contract, if we call it that, as a last grasp to regain popularity. The incoming president, President Buhari was heavily supported by a foreign government and one of the first missions was to terminate our contract.

“We were told it was the United States and they had actually funded President Buhari’s campaign and the campaign manager for President Buhari came from the US.

“I’m not saying the United States is bad, I understand foreign interests but I’d have thought that a threat like Boko Haram on the integrity of Nigeria ought to be a priority but it wasn’t.”

When asked why the US allegedly aborted the mission, he said: “I think the US can answer that, I have come to realise that when a foreign interest clashes with a state’s interest and domestic interest, conflict is bound to ensue and those conflicts continue with no end.”

Even Libya would not have happened without the US. That spilloff hit us here as well.

Now with the attack on the Iranian general, what do you think that one would also escalate to? I won't be surprised they had an influence in the sudden rise of BH with funds and logistics to make them regroup stronger. I wonder why the zeal to let oil nations have conflicts?

Without a doubt, the US will best Iran in a straight out war and Iran knows this. This will give rise to 'other options' which would be drastic to both military and civilian targets. The pacification of this would be to oust Trump and deny him the chance of ever winning again. This will be a face saver for the US and back room deals with Iran would help calm the other heightened nerves.

A real war would leave Iran decimated but as well the US bruised. They might win the war but it will cost them their middle east command as well as leave them at the mercy of other super powers that want them weakened. There are 'friendly' wolves prowling and even the US knows its circle of friends have other agendas. They will (like France) come out to say they stand by the US by reason of war treaties but will swoop in to reduce US influence when its middle east command is in shambles and place themselves in the exact same places the US held influence.

If an economic recession was slow in coming, it would be hastened now. The creditors like China would start knocking and begin to lay claim on US resources. Still in the war mood, they will try out a military solution and that would be the beginning of no more lending to a credit built society. The dollar will crash, jobs will be lost and the American dream way of life will be a thing of history.

Win or lose (not likely in the next 10 light years), it is a losing situation for the US. No side can afford it except one with a crazy leader attempts it. I expected a businessman like Trump should have known better but who knows, a second term looked enticing but even that from the protests all around looks bleak .

matinos28:
He has nothing to apologize for. She 'manhandled' him

chidexleo:
apology accepted. ride on Daddy u are human too shouldn't be dragged that way

Could you update your post with this link as everyone is assuming he gave her an igbaju instead of freeing his hand from her grasp.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2y64doVfGc

Once again for newbies, apart from baby Pips school classes, watch these videos


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-tOh5FREsQ&list=PL3fKm29WxlbCj4lwo5yD082vfbJ8BzHBO&index=1



Results of the March 2020 contest Updated*
https://www.nairaland.com/5608088/forex-trade-alerts-season-20/294#88728961

As promised, the update on the contest award winner. The results are final.

A final look at the rules before I proceed.

teemy:
An Idea

I have an idea for a forex competition to help those beginners [/b]that need trading funds. The first part being [b]consistency in their trading strategy and sticking to it throughout the duration of the trial.

The Trial

A forex demo trading competition.

Everyone starts with a trading account of $10,000 which is coincidentally similar to a $100 account in cents (more on this later).

Contest starts and runs for the last two weeks of each month.

Awarding the prize

Winner is the trader with the highest ROI or highest balance since all accounts start with the same amount.

At the end of the contest, the highest ranked trader will give me a report of his/her trading strategy and I will authenticate that ALL trades made conform to the trading strategy. Any single off strategy trade will lead to disqualification and prize goes to the next highest ranked trader.


Prize is $100 or equivalent in naira paid into winner's Dom or Savings account. (I will see about raising this and increasing prize positions in coming months).

As an added bonus, I will automate the winning trading strategy into an expert advisor for the winner. I would advice winner should not sell it nor give it out (I will give recommendations on how to make more with it without giving out the farm). There truly is something called the law of diminishing returns.

Grounds For Disqualification

All gurus and pros are not entitled to participate. I would rather you add more to the prize pot. This also includes anyone who has dropped trading signals in any of the nairaland forex threads.

Any new nairaland account that was created from today ontowards is not entitled to participate.

A prize winner for a month is not entitled to a prize in the next immediate month.

The contest trading account should NOT have a drawdown more than 20% of the starting account balance. The concept is to ensure you will maintain money management rules so as not to blow the prize money in a swoop.

Conclusion

All interested participants should give me a mention while I work on setting up the demo contest (most likely on fxblue).

Wishing you well - Teemy

The rankings

Wiconse(45110293) who ranked first was disqualified due to posting signals and thus not a newbie.

wiconse post=86820733:
SELL LIMIT CADJPY 85.355
SL 85.755
TP 84.355

Ekesoft who ranked second preferred not to relinquish his strategy and so was skipped.

Voraz(30638720) third has been posting setups and is surely not a newbie

voraz:
This is USDCHF.
Looks like we could be getting reversal....
Notice the divergence
(Check out the attached USDCAD chart for an actual example)

It's not moving down fast enough so I've locked in enough profits.
We could see an Inverse Head and Shoulder formation around this point so upside is more likely now..... Enjoy!

Dreamscapar(6661027) fourth relinquished his right to the award as he was not in it for the money.

Viettastitches(8835053) who came fifth was disqualified for not following all strategy rules e.g No StopLoss.

Succhris the sixth position has given a signal in the past and thus disqualified.

Succhris:
after hunting sl, it is ready to move down to 1000pips.

tp 19200

Cutefine042(noble_fx), Sconp(8841387), signalmedia, Fucc12(8837358), Bolutumiii(boluwatife1), Darkpal(2090621693), Free6orn(8853544), JafunmiFx(4093514), SayDeejsy(2090622449) and other unlisted numbers were authomatically disqualified by the system.

In all, there was no awarded winner. Thanks everyone for your participation.

As stated earlier, I won't be hosting any future contests here.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Results of the March 2020 contest
https://www.nairaland.com/5608088/forex-trade-alerts-season-20/268#88378678

Update March 15, 2020*
I closed the former one and created this https://www.fxblue.com/competitions/ViewCompetition.aspx?id=1047

Update on March 14, 2020
Nairaland Trader of The Month Contest - March 2020
https://www.fxblue.com/competitions/ViewCompetition.aspx?id=1046

Update on March 9, 2020

teemy:
An Idea

I have an idea for a forex competition to help those beginners that need trading funds. The first part being consistency in their trading strategy and sticking to it throughout the duration of the trial.

The Trial

A forex demo trading competition.

Everyone starts with a trading account of $10,000 which is coincidentally similar to a $100 account in cents (more on this later).

Contest starts and runs for the last two weeks of each month.

Awarding the prize

Winner is the trader with the highest ROI or highest balance since all accounts start with the same amount.

At the end of the contest, the highest ranked trader will give me a report of his/her trading strategy and I will authenticate that ALL trades made conform to the trading strategy. Any single off strategy trade will lead to disqualification and prize goes to the next highest ranked trader.


Prize is $100 or equivalent in naira paid into winner's Dom or Savings account. (I will see about raising this and increasing prize positions in coming months).

As an added bonus, I will automate the winning trading strategy into an expert advisor for the winner. I would advice winner should not sell it nor give it out (I will give recommendations on how to make more with it without giving out the farm). There truly is something called the law of diminishing returns.

Grounds For Disqualification

All gurus and pros are not entitled to participate. I would rather you add more to the prize pot. This also includes anyone who has dropped trading signals in any of the nairaland forex threads.

Any new nairaland account that was created from today ontowards is not entitled to participate.

A prize winner for a month is not entitled to a prize in the next immediate month.

The contest trading account should NOT have a drawdown more than 20% of the starting account balance. The concept is to ensure you will maintain money management rules so as not to blow the prize money in a swoop.

Conclusion

All interested participants should give me a mention while I work on setting up the demo contest (most likely on fxblue).

Wishing you well - Teemy

In line with tradition, this is the 2020 thread for forex topics.

To a greater new year.

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3. Where there is money, there are scammers. Big money, big scammers. Take your time to watch what goes on before meeting someone by-the-side.

4. There are lots of experienced folks in here that are ever willing to answer your questions. Ask courteously and you will get the help you need.

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Happy new year folks!

https://www.nairaland.com/5608088/forex-trade-alerts-season-20

Year 2020 thread link above.

@biafrareform, the adult most likely to be affected here is the foster dad. Try to understand his feelings and decision on the dad.

You have to tell the girl before birth dad does. Since he knows the mother and was able to contact her, he can as well decide to accost the lady or be a nice 'uncle' somewhere and one day break the ice and ask her to confirm the story while adding Hus own version to it. If the girl asks the mum and there is a pause, that is all the 16 yr old girl needs to confirm her parenthood.

Tell her yourself and if the girl asks for time before the meetup, it is easier for the mum to now say, "she is not ready yet" which if the dad breaches would work against him.

One day, they will meet. She should not be brought into the feud of the past. Let her move ahead without carrying the hurt of the past. Medical records could come in handy some day. Please don't bill him for taking care of your girl. You did for her what you needed to do. Don't let him buy that off you. If he wants to do anything, let that be his own but determined by the foster dad.

Your sis is OK. The girl is OK. The foster dad will also be okay as lkng as he treated her well. Once the birth dad proves to be something else, she can drop him off her life but before the meetup, ask him why now and do a bit if research on Facebook and elsewhere to know what kind of a man he presently is. Remember, no poisoning the girl's mind as it might backfire especially if he is a changed man.

P.S the mum might need to get an affidavit towards her state of origin to reflect actual data.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Arthurity1:
How?

New set of fighters are coming in. Turning it into an otaku war between US and Japan

SAO Alicization war of underworld just got nastier

gassbee:
nice analysis but y does it so long sometimes btw one year n two years for d judges in lagos to give judgement ordering d tenant to vacate

Probably due to lots of cases. First thing is to find out the location of a rent court in the local government. It's faster

@unique357, buying a single handkerchief by yourself for this girl right now for Christmas cloth at this period in time would be a huge mistake as it would be termed buying clothes for your girlfriend. You no fit was am off atall. If anyone, it must still be your wife.

Also, the seed has been sown. It will only grow from here and since you've scolded your wife in huge terms, the start of victimization is in play.

Send back the girl and give her a huge pay day and turn back. If your MIL asks why, just say she is a good girl but you just prefer someone else. Don't rile your wife to her. You niece might have to go as well as it seems wifey believes only good things are due to only her kids.

This leaves a plain playing ground for your wife to bring in another girl by herself but this time, she will be sure to not repeat the mistakes of the past and your family will not be broken while innocent girl is safe. Case solved.

Wishing you well - Teemy

WAECMATHEMATICS:
This is what we think his plan is. He's a very cunning man.

Firstly, I wish to congratulate you for not falling into your tenant's trap. He would have just claimed you destroyed something his livelihood depends on or you stole a 45 million His office gave to him. There is a due process under the law and I will explain it to you now.

Rent court is faster in these cases than magistrate as magistrate court handles all types of cases. So, go to your local govt office to asked for the location of the rent court and liase with any court clerk there. For rent court, I am not sure but I believe you don't need a lawyer to file your cade but to be sure, the clerk will out you through. If a lawyer is required, they can also give you a lawyer's contact.

If it is magistrate court, you will be needing a lawyer and the rest of the process is about the same.

For an owing tenant, you didn't even need to give a six months quit notice only the seven days notice. However, some states like in my Oyo state requires a one month quit notice before the seven days quit notice. Either way, you've more than compensated for it with the six months and then the seven days notices. Now you go to court. (Had to explain this much due to other readers).

Your lawyer or you (if rent court) files the case and a court notice is sent to the tenant. If he is seen, whether he accepts the notice or not, as long as the bailiff tells him and throws down the paper or gives it to him, it is as good as served and he has no excuse whatsoever as long as the bailiff lays eyes on him.

The process at court is

Mention, hearing, judgement.

The other parts could be skipped if he accepts to actually owing on the first day and sometimes the judge could just wrap everything up and deliver judgement right away saving everyone time. The judge would never say he must move instantly but will still give him time to move but the good thing is the judge will will acceed to your prayers.

Prayers in court terms means request. While discussing with your lawyer, list it all. It should include

That he leaves,
That he pays up all outstanding rent covering all the period he is owing till now (the 10 months)
That he pays all potential rent from now till when court asks him to leave (called mense profits)
That he pays for the court case (the son of a wonderful creature of God has to be taught a lesson)

Now the court might not grant the last one unless you prove you indeed had enough patience with him (in my case, the female judge said she didn't want to lay too much financial burden on her being a student. I've seen another judgement where it was approved). A statement from the resolution centre and/or copies of those quit notices will nail his coffin. The court will certainly ask him to move as well as pay all monies till he leaves.

It might take time but you will have your wish done. The lady I got a court judgement against packed out and even locked the door but we kept pasting all notices on her door. When she knew we did not break the door open and falling into her trap, she came back to open it herself after a week. The court processes still went on till judgement was made even in her absence.

What if he does not leave even after the judgement was said to his ears or posted on his door and he does not leave?

You still go back to court and the court gives you a registrar and police escort to evict him and also a garnishee order to his banh to have the money transferred to you. (Thank God for BVN). As long as he makes money in this Nigeria, you will have your money back. Just find his account details and he is toast.

There is a process and the law works.

Wishing you well - Teemy

JubrinElSudan:
I thought the definition of ghost worker is someone who isn't a worker but receives salary at the end of every month. As in, a director can add the account numbers of 5 of his cousins into payroll and they are being paid, in this case, who will come out for amnesty, the director or his cousins? If his cousins, will they be automatically employed?

A faster way than having to over stretch security resources in tracking them. This also makes it easy to use the director's cousins as state witnesses. Lots of loopholes will be discovered and it will be an easy win to charge any unrepentant ghost to court.

Mathias2015:
A friend has been going through a health challenge on his left leg for over a year now.

He ran 4 different types of tests on the leg but the outcome of the tests is a fungal infection.

It started like a small boil, after it got bust, little by little it turned to what it is today.

It doesn't pain him but only scratches him

All recommended drugs prescribed to him all this while have not yielded any positive results.
Even some recommended local ways too all to no avail.

No one knows were help come from, that's why I decided to help him post it here.

Any suggestions that will help him will be appreciated.

Thanks

Could you try to contact me. There is something I could send to you that will be of help

Ultralexo:
Fish farming will be cool bro, u don't need to quit ur job u can even apply for the cbn agsmeis empowerment through NIRSAL where I currently work u can contact me for more guidance 07039897573

What is this I am hearing about an email sent to pay 10,000 by cash for training. As a government agency, I don't feel it's OK. Can you confirm its legitimacy. Thanks

@Simpubozz let me tell you a story.

A wealthy tenant was informed by his landlord of an increase in rent at next tenure. He wondered at this and did a research which revealed the landlord was in dire need of money.

He bought the house off his landlord at about half market price. Then resold at market price to another buyer. In between this however, as the landlord, he reissued a lease to himself at a very 'generous' rate for a good number of years. This meant that the latest landlord would have to bear with his tenure till it lapses.

The story here is if there is a tenure in place, the new landlord cannot flout it. The old landlord cannot renew your tenure legally. The key thing is to ask your old landlord the situation on ground and if you can be linked to the new landlord, you can set a new period.

However, if your cotenants have been known to be defaulters, there is a chance the kid will be thrown out with the bath water and no one would be spared. As long as you are not owning, you can stay till your tenure lapses. Find out whom THE landlord is and make your own deal.

Wishing you well - Teemy

@eddy1234, those houses bringing in rent are existing businesses. You don't sell off a business to start a new one especially if it is not bleeding and with no experience running one before. A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Manage the exciting houses properly.

Trying to sell the houses would look like you are selling off properties that could be monitored to get something only you can control. It might not be said but being implied is enough.

You are on a pedestal here. Don't slip

Kingkun69:
I have a naruto question

Is madara Tobi?

No, Tobi's mentor

onwuakpachris:
I just pity all of you still hoping that bubu will open d borders again ...this was a done deal already..coscharis now produces rice...dangote is gearing up too..b4 u know it dangote rice will just flood d market like his cement..pls don't quote me I know wat i'm saying cus I deal on rice...I supply quality stone free local rice...so olla u should just forget about foreign rice and start buying quality stone free local rice from us suppliers ...thank u bubu..I'm not ur fan..but local rice farmers nd suppliers alike now smile to d bank while some lazy mofos r still wailing...if u r a jobless graduate like me..just start dealing on rice or another agricultural product nd start making ur cool cash..stop waiting 4 bubu 2 give u a job.. he's really trying so hard 2 create job opportunities in d agricultural sector...so drop ur cert nd enter d street nd hustle..hustle pays big time..

jieta:
I tell you


Do you know that few months after dangote complain of having a country like Benin Republic as neighboring country buhari order the closeure of nigeria borders. This man have nigeria in his claws.

Reminds one of the coincidence and timing of killer indomie back then

cococandy:
Wedding in a church premises obviously means the world to her. He should go along with her on that. For this specific issue, there’s not really a middle ground.
If he says he won’t marry her anymore because of this issue, they will still have to go through a divorce process (same as if he waits until after the church wedding only to find out that she’s not a virgin).
So what’s it to him? Divorce now or divorce later. Same process. He might as well speed up the church wedding and find out what it’s going to be.

I agree with this. I find over religious folks cringey. I don’t know what it is about them.
I think OP should have stayed in his lane. Can’t go for Mary Amaka and expect Kim kardashian in the bedroom.




Mmm

@ bolded, you no go kill person

cococandy:
Not for her.

She believes it’s on her white wedding day. As do many Nigerian women actually. The wedding is not fully official until the white wedding day. You all know this.

I may not necessarily agree with that but he knew what she stood for. She probably had a fantasy (as was taught to her by the pious society) of keeping her virginity until she wears the white wedding gown and then having sex for first time after saying I do with the ring and all that.

He agreed to that and now he’s complaining.

Sounds like a petulant child. He should gtfo

There is a middle ground here. She is afraid of pre-marital sex. He only just need explain to her that with wedding comes marriage. That is all. She will get it and come to terms except there is something else wedding in a church premises means to her.

What I fear most for this marriage is the precedent of not accepting facts but wanting to overspiritualize things. Wifey might stick with 'only what pastor says' and hubby might capitalize on it to do as he wishes. They both need to sit at a table and plan on accepting facts as they are and not create mountains out of molehills.

P.S. You could have given your recommendation without attacking him. All the best coco. Cheers.

TruthSpeaker:
Suspend the white wedding indefinitely, while you keep fucking around openly. Let her know she will only be the loser if she keeps hoarding that pussy I guess is rather smelly.
When you eventually find out she is not a virgin, doesn’t she know what she will deserve will be capital punishment?

Quite a rude statement to speak about someone else's wife just because he brought up the subject here.

However, if you yet insist on the 'smelly' place, we all lived close to that place for 9 months and most passed out through there to come out. Live with it.

cococandy:
So these men shame women for being oloshos who have sex before marriage but can’t stand one who’s actually waiting for the wedding night?
Confused mofos.

OP that woman knows what she wants which is more than anyone can say for you.

You may not be good enough for her so if it pleases you, let her go. She will find someone who shares same beliefs as her and will be willing to wait.

then you can find the one who will have sex with you whenever you want so that you and your fellow NL retrdds can swarm around and call her olosho.

Been a while coco. The wedding night in this case had long come and gone.

tradepunter:
Mr Hot potty, I have paid bride price so come lemme ram you. Don't defile the purity of your marriage.. That white gown of your wife means purity, not touched so if you know what's good for you keep it that way.

You think it's all about been a Christian? If you like don't ask for the Holy Ghost to come into your life and strengthen you devil will us you play ten ten..

Your job should be engaging God as you have taken a step the devil is all too very very happy to destroy... May the Lord grant you wisdom

I believe a pastor or priest must have been invited to the traditional wedding and as such the wedding was done before God and a crowd of human witnesses. Isn't that in itself a congregation at a wedding?

As for the the white color check this out

https://www.mywedding.com/dresses/wedding/4-wedding-dress-myths-and-traditions-that-keep-brides-from-going-green/
Wedding Dress Myth 1. Wedding dresses are white because white symbolizes purity.

Many people think that white now dominates Western weddings because the color symbolizes purity or virginity, two important concepts in traditional weddings.

However, this is not the case in many Western cultures, even today. In France, for example, white is the traditional mourning color for royalty – not a wedding color. In England, blue is associated with the Virgin Mary, and is the color that symbolizes purity and virginity.

Wedding Dress Myth 2: White has always been the preferred color for wedding dresses.

The white wedding dress was largely non-existent 200 years ago. Instead, brides used to wear their best gowns, regardless of color. Darker colors, which wouldn’t be ruined with minor stains, were actually preferable. Wealthy brides favored the richest colors and fabrics money could buy and might be married in furs, velvet, or silk. White was not a color associated with weddings at all.

This changed with the wedding of Queen Victoria in 1840, who chose to be married in white. Why? Like many brides today, she had some lace she loved and wanted it incorporated into her dress.

The Queen’s decision coincided with the rise of photography, and her wedding portrait was widely distributed across Europe. In today’s terms, her dress “went viral.” Since then, brides (as well as the wedding industry) have followed her example, giving us the white wedding dresses that are so popular today.

Go truly vintage by wearing a colorful wedding dress you can enjoy for years to come. Many eco-friendly bridal designers now offer wedding gowns in every color of the rainbow.

Lastly, our forebears that had only traditional wedding, did that not suffice for their marriages? We need to realize that we tend to have three weddings in our side here. Check out the grandsons of the Queen. Which of their weddings was the traditional and which was the church's? They are one and the same, similar to what I first stated that a pastor or priest being there suffices as a combo of trad and church wedding if you may.

@ igwegeorgiano and @midnighter, the two of you give a balanced look of the whole scenario but I might as well add a few words.

igwe, I suggest using the soft approach to this. According to her sex before white wedding is well, wedding and anything sex before then is called pre-marital sex. Ask her "are we married?", "are we husband and wife?"

An answer of no can easily be resolved using a dictionary to let her understand that a wedding ceremony ushers in marriage between a couple and as such they start being called husband and wife. As her title from then on has been wife and yours husband. No pastor will negate this.

https://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Wedding
A wedding is a ceremony where two or more people are united in marriage.

If the answer to those two questions remain as yes but she wants to stick to her previous resolution - which you did not object to, she is right to do so. She might have maybe a vow or self obligation to achieve that. Let her.

There is however the fear that a church wedding is being used as a trap for if she is a non-virgin, infertile or even has a disease. If she takes all tests (which she should have no objections to) to show there is no foul play and come out clean, I think you should give her this with a warm heart.

Wishing you well - Teemy

tpapi:
let us assume a tenant's rent expired on May 2019 and 5 months after d rent expired, he is still not able to pay his rent, how do u quit such tenants legally assuming he pays his rent yearly

Once a tenant defaults within 7 days from due date, he becomes a tenant-at-will meaning his tenancy is at the will of the landlord.

The landlord has to give him a 7 days notice to quit (this differs from state to state. Oyo state is one month notice and then followed by the 7 days notice)

I will explain the one month notice again. It has to cover a first of the month and the end of the month meaning for November, you must issue the one month notice BEFORE the 1st of November and on the first of December, you then can issue the 7 days notice. If you missed October 31 and gave the notice on the first of November, the one month notice will start from that November but end at December 31st. The first date and last date of the month must be unique.

For service of the notice, you have to go with two copies. You serve one and the tenant signs the other. If you can't find the tenant or the tenant refuses to sign, just paste the copy on the entrance door and take a picture. That is all.

After the 7 days (as I mentioned depends on the state) you can then approach the rent court if you have in your vicinity (cheaper and faster) or get a lawyer that will take up your case at the magistrate court. Your prayers will be for the outstanding rent, any rent till the tenant finally moves based on date set by court (called 'mense profits') and the eviction of the tenant. This may take a few months depending on adjournments but within 1-3/4 appearances, your case will be settled.

One way of making it worth your while is to ask the court among your prayers to grant you the lawyer's service fee as it was extra cost to you. If you do this once on a scapegoat, all the others will buckle up and see you as a peaceful yet no-nonsense landlord. They will keep telling the stories that staying past their due dates does not pay them at all.

I hope I answered your question.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Bigval5:
She earns N430k;
She got an offer of N850k;
Her current company didn't want her to go, so they matched the figure;
Now she is dazed.

Could it be a trap? Why didn't they do this before now? Is staying a good decision? Will she regret staying or leaving?

She is absolutely confused, what do you advise?

I recommend going with the company that has the financial backbone to pay well. If the old company cannot and is baiting, she can confirm to see if they are capable or not. Also, if there exist others who are on her level earning the N850k she can consider staying but if she is the only one, it most likely is a bait to keep delaying her from joining the competing new company so that secrets would not be passed along and opportunity is lost.

If she is to stay, the new appointment has to be in solid gold tablets and not just word of mouth but still she has to be sure the financial statement of her company of choice can really foot the bill conveniently month in month out.

Wishing you well - Teemy