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Nicklaus619:
Op if your story is true ehh, I will advise you to man up ad call her bluff, giving in for her blackmail in the first place is where u lost the battle, call her bluff and even if she tells your wife, convince her to believe it's not true, if your wife love you she will believe you, continue giving in to blackmail will make her continue until u tap out

This is another line of thought oo..

Blakjewelry:
i actually mean what transpired that night wasnt his fault, i said he keep low first to see were this is leading before he decide to go ahead and tell his wife because people react differently to different situation. in some cases it is better the secret lies buried for ever otherwise it would cause a preventable chaos since the said act wasnt a deliberate or preplanned act

He only said so.

The lady in question can say it was not.

And for a her to start to blackmail him with it shows she is not even sorry.

Or why would talk about something they agreed not to discuss.

Or did the short sex reset her brain.

Why does this sound like sakamaje to me??

Blakjewelry:
hmm just carry on as if nothing happened, if you dont have to give, then dont give. just wait for her to make any silly move, and if threaten you, tell her you are going to tell your wife all that transpired. if she continued then tell your wife, because even as the story get kleg, it can still happen and you didn't do anything wrong

Bros,

He did everything wrong.

He should tell his wife..

Some sister's can be very crazy and would not mind destroying the sister home.

He should tell his wife by himself, hearing it from the sister would hurt her more cos she wouldn't paint it as like this. she would make it look like he took advantage of her.

One thing i know for sure the wife would have sensed it, but discarded it cos she wouldnt imagined her sister would do such.

Bros, You need to come clean or your SIL would scatter your home.

Mcleo007:
Losing one's partner especially at a young age is one of the biggest emotional trauma that can happen to anyone.

I lost my wife 3 weeks ago due to complications from childbirth. Our son didn't make it too. The saddest part is that I walked her into the theatre myself as she was to undergo an emergency c-section due to foetal distress as they said. She was full of life, gisted and pranked all the way. My world came down shattered when I saw the nurses running helter-skelter a few minutes after I left her off at the theatre room.

It's mysterious really how your life can be going so well, and in one blink, it comes down to pieces. We were first friends for a few years before becoming lovers, then decided to tie the knot this year in between her getting pregnant.

She was my best friend and we shared a close bond. We got married just May this year, which meant the marriage lasted just 4 months.

Family and friends would expect you to brace up and move on, but trust me the grief never go away. The grief hit harder in the mornings when I wake up; thoughts of the life we had, what we would have had had she not died, the many plans we made and so on.

I know I will survive, at least I know she would want me to.

Am sorry for your loss.

May the Lord strengthen and comfort you at this time.

May her soul rest in peace

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liberalchick:
It is normal.

The honeymoon is over, expectations have to be adjusted. Most women think the man will spend as much time as he did when they were dating, most men think they’re still single.

When ‘see finish’ sets in a marriage doesn’t matter the man’s personality it stings. DH doesn’t drink, he’s introverted and he loves staying indoors. We were under one roof but continents apart. His poison? Computer games and watching the UFC. What I did? I am not a wallower so I stopped hovering and waiting, I sought out my own entertainment, I joined a local Arsenal fan club and watched matches every weekend at the local bar. The unintended happened, we will swap gists about what we did that day, unknowingly, we were creating new materials and we bonded over each other’s experiences. Over-time he started coming with me to watch matches and I started watching the UFC.

It never ends though, someone will always feel neglected. The pendulum swung back to me when the kids came. Also life happened, priorities change etc he outgrew his love for computer games (I now use the PS3 to watch old dvd movies/series), he has made friends at my Arsenal fan club (he’s a ManU fan) and we both watch the UFC.

OP:

Dont ignore this

AngelicBeing:
East African tourist visa is 100 dollars valid for travel to Uganda / Kenya and Rwanda for 90 days and it is multiple entry obtained at any of the 3 countries mentioned above.

Furthermore, you need to apply for Tanzania visa separately and you will need a local sponsor from Tanzania to sponsor your visa application or a tour company from Tanzania, Nigeria was given visa on arrival before but our boys don shit plenty for Tanzania and hence Tanzania government flogged Nigeria out of the visa on arrival status with the koboko laden with chilly pepper below..

However , get ready to answer plenty questions at Kenya on arrival as a Nigerian passport holder and possibly be extorted by Kenya immigration before been stamped in because Kenya sef are flogging Nigerian's with the same koboko because of past / current misdeeds of Nigerians. BTA of 1000 dollars is reasonable for you

Good luck with your adventures

Does or cover trip to Burundi too??

What language do they speak and any idea on how to manage communication??

kakakii:
Since we used Ethiopian airline they won't stamp you, they only check your passport and check you in, same when checking out. As long as its Ethiopian airline. And if your lay over is more than 9 hours they give you hotel

Oh thanks.

A friend has a trip to Burundi later in the week and he is using Ethiopian airlines. Layover is about 14 hrs..

Any ideas about check in.. Can he online check in. Said something about checking in ending 3 hours to time of flight.

Can you shed some light in that??

Boringdraw1:
Yes, I was onbroad too, I was the one flying the plane. Did you two enjoy the flight?

U the pilot??

During the stop over at Addis Ababa, where you give a visa before you could go in. Since you said you were given an hotel.

bixton:
The cause of that is level of groundwater beneath the house. The flood water has increased the level of the water probably in an unanticipated way, that's why; meaning the DPC level is on the low side.
Possible solution(s) is to do a rich concrete mix of desired thickness with a mixture of water sealant cement(used by tilers) to be place on a DPM. There are various types and sizes(the water sealant) but you should buy that one which the pack is big and not the sachet size. It's quite expensive.



The other one is to de-roof the house and increase the height of the DPC and make all corrections upwards before re-installing the roof members.

Good luck.

Woow.

Thanks for the insight.

bixton:
If I may ask....
What is the level of water outside the building in the compound?

About some few meters high but not high enough to enter in the house.

The building is a ground floor structure. 4 room bungalow.

bixton:
Is the house just a ground floor structure or storey building?


If water got into the house via the foundation(sub-structure) then it means that the building is sitting on a place where underground water runs and the release of the water from the dam just raised the water level. But all the same, the buildings' foundation is on the low side.

Another thing......when you say all the tiles opened up. That is just an indication of low quality work. There's no sufficient cement when they screed the floor before placing the tiles.




When you intend building your house ensure that your foundation is quite high. And if there is any water on the surrounding environment ensure the height of your foundation is by 3 blocks.

Thanks for this.

Any idea how we can resolve the issue? Although her foundation is pretty high though, about 3 blocks above ground as you suggested that was why we were surprised water could get thru the foundation. Could it mean the foundation was not well sand filled and rammed??

Would including a nylon in the German floor stop this kind of stuff from happening in a new building??

Thanks again

rotecch77:
It’s never too late now that you are in foundation stage.
Go and look for a professional to handle the project.

Working on it already just asking for my mum friend

NairobiWalker:
How much salt do you guys it? I know pepper varies but salt? I have always been of the opinion that the people all over the world just put the same amount of salt in food.

Hello bro,

Any idea about Burundi...

Good afternoon all,

We have an undeveloped property in Mangoro, When the rains got very heavy coupled with the opened dam, water entered into our neighbors house from the Foundation, All the tiles opened up. Affected 2 rooms and the parlor.

What could be the issue and any insight to how to get ti resolved.

We are thinking of continuing our own property cos we are in the foundation stage, Kindly advise on what to do so that we dont have that kind of issue in our own house when we done.

Thanks in advance

Do Ethiopia Air put you in an hotel for the night??

mariga:
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