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Preceedo: I think its more of over-protection than low-self esteem. What do you think?

Coldfeet: She has begged for ur forgiveness! What more do you want?? Don't let some disgruntled Nldrs sow devilish seeds in your marriage o! Some are asking u if those kids are yours? Now if that thought has never crossed your mind am sure now it is right? Pls let it goo!! Who knows maybe they wanted it to be a surprise to you. And about the whole ish about your wife acting up since she now earns more than you, are you sure you are not being paranoid?

njokusboy: Cheating is normal... I enjoy it.. I mean every man has this natural urge to explore and be with different women... Sticking to only one lady is about the most difficult thing there is... It takes an unusual and unnatural amount of discipline to do so...
Marriage has made it worse... Who says we must all marry sef..

lokosong: The medical condition is permanent

passionate88: wether she is younger or older and the man is ok with it and he proposes to her, I don't see anythin special to prepare about. The age difference is just 1 or two years. The only thing she should pray about is for the relationship not to be stormy.

According to T.B Joshua, "let love lead the way".

kennyamusan: Kehinde Amusan is my FB name

kennyamusan: what can I say to u,u are more than a brother,u v saved me I must say.Exactly what I could v written but u did 4 me,thank u very much.Pls can we be fnds

chidyhels: I have noticed this trend in relatnshps. The pain frm brk up comes frm being denied sEx

chidyhels: and not the togetherness that would be missed.

chidyhels: Begs the question,why did u start the relationshp in the first instance?

chidyhels: And when ur quest weren't met,why stay?

passionate88: Any woman/man that thinks age means maturity is a kid. I have seen a son whose rank is superior than his dad, the dad always salut him whenever he is on duty. I don't equate age with maturity or respect. He married you irrespective of the age difference, so why not respect him if he loved u enof to propse?. Why bring up d age difference wheneva there is an arguement?, why order him around because u re older than him?. I knw of a nairalander whose mom is older than his dad with 4 yrs and they have been together for 34 years. Mayb it's this mordenisation of a thing that's deceiving/givin our girls the wrong impression.

pasqal09: What's the matter,
Is it that she lied to u that she was a virgin or because she cheated?

passionate88: Not a lady but to me it's no big deal. If you will respect him as ur husband and don't rub d age difference on his face

carexy: @michy99 tankz alot dear and to others dat shared their viewz,i reali appreciate tnx 4 bein supportive,atleast u guyz ve jus saved a soul.luv u all muaah!

veave: sheesh! rly tired ov em dudes crying foul all the time... ts driving me crazy...

OlowoB: @op, 2 be honest with u, I think u don't even trust urself 2 begin with and I think u have statred associating urself with some peeps who have started giving u a wrong advice and now u feel u are bigger dan ur husband cos he is no longer financially buoyant.
*Wat do u mean by d statement 'STAGNANT? For u 2 refer 2 ur hubby as dat shows u are abt 2 be lost or already lost (sorry if I sound harsh)
*Why are u now having doubts abt ur hubby after having 2 children for him? U suddenly don't seem 2 trust urself again cos u have now climbed d ladder of success and u look down and see ur hubby?
*infact without mincing words, I can deduce from ur story dat if ur hubby dosen't act fast, u myt either end up dumping him or cheating on him (y should dis thot even cross ur mind in d first place)

2 be very honest with u, I think d major issue u have here is dat u are currently bigger dan ur hubby and u are finding it difficult 2 HUMBLE URSELF