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Gifted scholar: Pls no one is talkin abt sex! No one is sleepin wit anybody! I was jst tryin to make a point wen I said he is a virgin, so stick to d real matter on ground nd leave "sex" alone..tnx

eagle,eye:
Sometimes, a guy gets to that stage where he just wants to get it over with. At that particular point and time, he just wants to settle down and move on with life.
But I have observed from experience, that women get scared of this type of guys...... thinking they have skeletons in the cupboard (some do have).
NB
I think the Op should encourage him, and at the same time tell him to date/court her for sometime, to enable them learn each other. If the guys intentions are noble, he will be very happy with this answer.
She may regret it, if she outrightly rejects him and another accepts him shortly after that.
In my case, I have dated a lot of women and found that physically it is the same thing 'down there'. But if you matured and patient, you can equally handle all women character wise.
So it got to the point, where I will first hint marriage before I start dating/courting properly. But women, will then see you as being desperate....LoL

Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness.....

drnairalov: mtscheeew!!!! ask for her accnt no

ileobatojo: You hear that Bluu? He has not beat you yet. Please stay put and wait for obvious abusive traits, alright? Obvious traits like broken ribs, bleeding into the brain, coma or death, okay? I mean, what could be more obvious than these?

Why pay attention to the early signs of emotional abuse when you can just wait till some of your internal organs are ruptured?

Please wait, I'm begging you. Stay there for now.

maishot: Aunty Efe, read ur previous extensive advice on our daughter, ♍¥ wife and myself.

Most points are within ♍¥ reach. Thanks.




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A lot of pple seem to think I reside i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Lagos.
Ondo state is where I stay and Zenith bank i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Akure here is not funny i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ relations to their female workers .

luluosas: Yes, it has been working well but, I think Glo is automatically migrating people to WelcomeBack plan from Bounce, as some people are complaining. But, mine have never been migrated out of Bounce though. Thank you.

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

seniormallam: I'm I been unfair to her, she said she wanna keep her virginity till marriage, I actually wanna help her too, I've been chasing other ladies so that I won't have the need to ask her for s*x, but I kept feeling guilty somehow, pls do I need to worry?

Bimboscoo: If you are married erase the thought from your brain. If not, be a smooth player. Don't ask her those questions. Invite her on a friday, stay out late and send her back home. If she insist, get an hotel but different rooms and sleep off. She wouls come knocking by herself if she wants it, i bet. Trust me.