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this is scary

dont get urself worked up over that just concentrate on ur business and by God grace things will take shape...

I feel he is in his downside cos of the fact that their is shortage of cashflow... dat is the reason he is acting up...

both of you doing Msc is not child's play that a whole lot of cash.. m sure u guys will over come it.. just keep praying for him and dont let what he says get to you..

and Lastly pray for urself and ur business.....

dvdon: Jezuss when I am wasting sperm on daily bases in condoms, I no know say ppl need am. From monday I will start working towards insuring my precious sperm.

u so so funny oo

weda beautiful, makeup or ugly all fades with time na character b d koko.....

wats d essence of avin a beautiful gf and aving sleepless night..

abeggi joor

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Don't be too lazy to read your text messages. [/color]

correct...

kenyarttar: O boy what the fu[ck is "get it over with"? Na quickie you dey talk about abi na marriage? You just end up sounding like a truant student killing himself the night before exams to crash cram while his mates have been studying since the start of the semester. Tell him to chill the fu[ck out and date some more. It's never good to make life decisions when one has an e[rection (the relationship is still at the initial gra gra lovey dovey stage)

from ur assertion are u saying the longer d courtship d higher the probability of the marriage not crumbling

Gifted scholar: U re speakin well bt hav tried my best to leave him as explained abv bt wat happens is wat keep happeneing

Dear.. wat keep happening is happening cos u let it happen... u cant cont to lov some one who will not lov u back.. luv is two way thing.. its one way den not love.. its called suffering... me don talk ma own... and tell us what keep happening self make we hear

Gifted scholar: U on point temi!!...bt take d sex tin personnal..am a learner ask james he ll tell u...lolzz

he dai ur body .....how dos he know u a learner shey him don try m ni.

Gifted scholar: Pls no one is talkin abt sex! No one is sleepin wit anybody! I was jst tryin to make a point wen I said he is a virgin, so stick to d real matter on ground nd leave "sex" alone..tnx

madam .. i was not talking abt the sex part was justing only pointing out dat ur assertion was wrong dats all..

now back to your topic....

From ur later explanation i tink u might b dealing with a stingy or uncaring man here....

so if u gonna cat cope with it cos m sure u gonna get after sometime .. so do the needful before time go..

my one cent

the fact dat he did not help pay bth ur mum's medical bills as well as ur siblings school fees so he does not luv u...

though m not of the idea that a guy shld be stingy but i still think he is under no compulsion to pay any bill since he is not married to u, if he is gonna do it he shld do it out of his free will

from ur assertion u saying dat cos he has not slept with u yet or cos he is a virgin dat one of the reason why u think is not giving u cash dat to me is very wrong, sex shld not b the basis in which a guy use to give u money.. even if he sleeps with u if he is not gonna assist u with ur responsibilty he wont.. so just drop dat..

N.B.. if u feel he is not reciprocating ur lov enof u could talk to him abt it and and if he does not change i think u can throw in the towel.

[quote author=eagle,eye]Sometimes, a guy gets to that stage where he just wants to get it over with. At that particular point and time, he just wants to settle down and move on with life.
But I have observed from experience, that women get scared of this type of guys...... thinking they have skeletons in the cupboard (some do have).
NB
I think the Op should encourage him, and at the same time tell him to date/court her for sometime, to enable them learn each other. If the guys intentions are noble, he will be very happy with this answer.
She may regret it, if she outrightly rejects him and another accepts him shortly after that.
In my case, I have dated a lot of women and found that physically it is the same thing 'down there'. But if you matured and patient, you can equally handle all women character wise.
So it got to the point, where I will first hint marriage before I start dating/courting properly. But women, will then see you as being desperate....LoL[/quote]

bros.. wat maes u tink suicide iss the solution to ur problem so if u die nau... u will go and speak and expres ur self to baba God abi in heaven..

am sure in ur skool their fellowships tutorials why dont u go meeet some of ur tutorial teachers and explain ur prob to them. dai culd b of help..

all d time u av been using to think abt commiting suicide self if na ur how to solve ur prob u dai use m think u wont b here asking for help..

Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness.....

bros why did u throw in the towel as at then....

m not cajoling u to marry her but for u to av hold on to 7 years of someones life and u just tell her its over just lik dat i feel is not very gud.

and when u sucessfully do, just watch ur back..

but the issues u say u av with her, av u talked to her abt it.. and if u av did she show any atom of change??

is she making any conscious effort to change...

but as they say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

congrats bro....

E b lik say u dull urself for d package na y he dai pain u b dat...

Chai nairaland never ceases to amaze me mehn......

drnairalov: mtscheeew!!!! ask for her accnt no

i doubt if she gonna fal for dat...

Y dont u start by attending MFM and b friends with her and the rest will fall into place

pls do dai do medicine in unilorin remedial.....

ileobatojo: You hear that Bluu? He has not beat you yet. Please stay put and wait for obvious abusive traits, alright? Obvious traits like broken ribs, bleeding into the brain, coma or death, okay? I mean, what could be more obvious than these?

Why pay attention to the early signs of emotional abuse when you can just wait till some of your internal organs are ruptured?

Please wait, I'm begging you. Stay there for now.

u dis woman abi na lady eh.....

maishot: Aunty Efe, read ur previous extensive advice on our daughter, ♍¥ wife and myself.

Most points are within ♍¥ reach. Thanks.




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A lot of pple seem to think I reside i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Lagos.
Ondo state is where I stay and Zenith bank i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Akure here is not funny i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ relations to their female workers .

i can imagine.. there is only one zenith bank branch in akure i no... i can imagine how busy d branch is gonna b...

luluosas: Yes, it has been working well but, I think Glo is automatically migrating people to WelcomeBack plan from Bounce, as some people are complaining. But, mine have never been migrated out of Bounce though. Thank you.

pls how do confirm m still on bounce plan and also chk ma remaining data bal cos #124*4# is not working again on ma phone...

dis is so hilarious...

am just hearing dis for d first time in ma life mehn....

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

are u sure u ready to get married?

from dis ur post it seems to me you have a very bad mentality abt marriage...

seniormallam: I'm I been unfair to her, she said she wanna keep her virginity till marriage, I actually wanna help her too, I've been chasing other ladies so that I won't have the need to ask her for s*x, but I kept feeling guilty somehow, pls do I need to worry?

wat is not is not gud no matter how much u sugar coat it.....

wahala dai ooopo

Bimboscoo: If you are married erase the thought from your brain. If not, be a smooth player. Don't ask her those questions. Invite her on a friday, stay out late and send her back home. If she insist, get an hotel but different rooms and sleep off. She wouls come knocking by herself if she wants it, i bet. Trust me.

u na badt guy oo

o gal....

no b every cute and cool guy dai use bb oo.. so u for drop sometin more general so dat u av a wider pool of cute guys to choose from...

btw i tot i saw dis thread yesterday....

em u don dai turn attention seeker small small ooo/.....

baba u Bleep up oo..

since the gal was beside u, u would av asked d above question and add m to ur post den we will start from dere..