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For my face. God punish anybody that types that rubbish in my face. Una dey mad. Don't you guys get tired of saying "new year, new me" this year, anything that will make me unhappy I'm cutting off" God punish all of Una wey dey make new year resolutions. I bet say by February Una papa go don backslide. Foolish people. New year new me. Yaanyanayan😡🤢🫤🤮 Rubbish.

The only peaceful religion that cannot afford the rest of the world peace. It's ironical when you call yourself religion of peace but continue to spread terror globally. Tufiakwa. Animals.

shortgun:
What exactly did Tinubu build in Lagos as governor if there are no working fire trucks

owo mi da and bunch of illiterate animals who are very quick to sell their votes for one satchel pure water of garri and half cup of rice. Spits. Before anyone comes for me, I'm from the minority tribe. Buncha educated eejits

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

you be funny person. When we chatted on WhatsApp I told you to let that girl go. I told you that she was going to soon pin pregnancy on you. You didn't listen. See yourself now? Shebi we agreed that you'd free her. Omo guy why you dey do like say you be pikin?

Modified. Going back to our chat you even claimed to have blocked her. Omo enjoy your misery. I took the time out to explain everything I went through so you no go fall maga. You still messed up. Omo.

Aleem26:
Na still same guy...with the same story

I told this asshole that she was soon going to pin pregnancy on him. He didn't believe me. This one won self destruct by force.

Fearlez:
RIP, but he was a liberal man (woman wrapper) utterly selfish and self absorbed. And weird too

May his soul rest in peace

hmm. For real?

Judolisco:
exactly tough times don't last, only tough people do, since I read dis book, nothing dey meet me again.... I was in dis guys shoes two yrs ago, d book jst dey ring for my ear.... It's d same reason I try to help most of my friends, even if u call me 100 times, I go stil try send u something, because I've been there

correct guy. Which book be tha?

Double0h7:
Why are you like this? 🥺

everybody must taste breakfast jare.

3Si69:
Kwarans are getting what they deserve. I recall listening to a radio programme from Ilorin where people were discussing bad governance. Many callers insisted that the only solution was for everyone to seek God’s intervention ( e je ki a kun fun Ibelohun). I’ll say this again... religion was created to control people, teaching them not to question but to accept whatever they are told.

They are majorly from the yoruba tribe. Let them keep praying to God instead of removing tribal sentiment and vote for good governance.

Double0h7:
2025 bought me the love of my life. I don’t know what I was doing in the past, but it wasn’t love. I felt so many firsts and I am grateful.

wait small na, it's still pretty early. Give it a couple more months

Kobojunkie:
Decipher what was a request that he instead like to himself? You are not even half as smart as you think yourself to be. 🥱🥱🥱

indeed. Now disappear.

Starz825:
2025 is a blessing in my relationship journey.

Got more Clarity about women psychology.

i now clearly understood why my ex did what she did.


Since women will always be women, so then, Men should watch their back. Always.

some guys go dey claim masters for woman matter. I dey laugh in Swahili. Take women seriously in a relationship at your own peril.

Kobojunkie:
Count your blessings...eaning choose to live denying reality, right?

Op just told his truth as he sees it and would like others to know it. Rather, than accept, you would rather he weave fairy tales ---- colorful lies --- around his reality, abi? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

Religion seems only capable of producing nothing but more arseholes this planet does not need more of. 🥱🥱🥱

if your brain cannot decipher what I've typed, that's not my problem

MONEY247:
Regular for me
No girlfriend
Just My regular lonely life

Count your blessings man. A woman in your life now could have derailed you. Keep working on improving yourself, improving your knowledge and relationship with God. You'll be fine.

aribisala0:
Let us be fair
Objectively
I may not agree with his position but it is not entirely unreasonable or crazy

Nigeria is not the only country with this idea on indissolubility e.g
Russia, China, USA have the same approach

He may have done it for selfish reasons or genuine nationalism who knows


My point is Eboes after him should not blame Yoruba or Awolowo for their predicament in Nigeria

We didn't bring them into Nigeria so they should stop blackmailing us about how to exit
When a sensible human being climbs a tall tree we advise him to exit the same way he got to the top if he chooses to jump instead he must face the consequences


We Yoruba don't know Eegboes before Nigeria we did not bring them into it
They signed an agreement and agiriment is agiriment

They all can pack and go to Jerusalem if they like

well said bro. You're one of the sensible Yoruba men out there. Well said.

aribisala0:
Ordinarily you don't deserve a response
But it is important to educate others

Awolowo advocated for a secession clause and Zik opposed him

Facts are stubborn

Eboes opposed secession because they believed they are smarter than everyone and would dominate

Nigeria I built on a NEGOTIATION

Your ancestors negotiated and rejected secession

The word they put in was INDISSOLUBLE

Meaning we die here

That was Ziks contribution

Don't blame Awolowo
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/04/27/flashback-why-i-opposed-awolowo-on-secession-zik/

The Iboe lies will not go unchallenged
So don't try to blackmail Yoruba

Every person speaks for himself as an individual

No one has ever won an election campaigning to leave Nigeria

I am neither igbo nor Yoruba but that Zik na monumental eediyat

Juv2:
i am seriously looking for what Chelsea saw in this Delap

The day wey I hear say dem hijack the guy deal from Man Utd I took happy scatter.

Sirchiboy:
How much can change your life forever now?
Be sincere...

anything. I seldom get gift from folk's

Namaster:
This is simultaneously PATHETIC and HILARIOUS!

First of all, that's a TATTOO on her breast.
Likely NOT the only tattoo she has.
If Ope knows what's good for him, he'll remain INCOGNITO.

Secondly, this:

"...Ihave been dreaming for ope since 2019"


Smart people will ask "what changed in 2019?'

She hit The Wall, that's what.
She could feel the wall closing in.

She was done playing the field.
And ready to settle down.

When she was 18-25 and getting attention from men of her spec, she did NOT dream of Ope.

That's why she waited 13 years to dream of Ope.

Thirdly, this:
"Baba told me..."

Ope, if you are reading this, RUN!

NO sensible man should have ANYTHING to do with a supposedly EDUCATED woman who still dabbles in VOODOO.

Imagine in the 21ST Century and an educated person is paying for a Native Doctor to help her find someone called Ope with no surname or picture.



That level of STEWPIDITY could be contagious.
AVOID!

Rather than paying for a Private Investigator, madam went to a Baba.

MADNESS!

Her OCCULTISM and TATTOOS are HUGE Red Flags.

Ope NEEDS to run.

Finally, it is SHOCKING to see a grown-ass woman think that she'd met her SOULMATE at 13.

Both of them were barely on the cusp of PUBERTY.
Hormones were raging. And their brains were barely fully formed.

It speaks of the ULTIMATE DESPERATION for someone to think that they met their soulmate, someone they knew for a few weeks, at that age.

Plus, the "love" at that age is still INNOCENT.
It has not been coloured by past experiences and BETRAYALS.

I am 100% certain that if Ope appears right now, he'll NEVER live up to the memory of Ope in this lady's mind.

RESENTMENT will build up in no time.


FINAL FINALLY, ALL other sensible men should take note of this lady and AVOID her!

You don't want to play second fiddle to a 20-year old memory.

You don't want to be with someone that is DESPERATELY pining for the memory of a 13-year old boy that no longer exists.

Thankfully, she was kind enough to include her pictures.
Makes it easier to RUN!

as usual always on point. Well-done boss.

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DSreDV4DHND/?igsh=bTRreW85bGdub3Rw

God go punish this foolish boy.

budaatum:
No. I am not smart nor intelligent enough to be the very wise Magnoliaa.



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You can quote my post with the embedded link to see what I've done.

at the first line ..that's not true. That's completely false. You're one of the smartest females around here. Secondly. When I quoted your post it just displays normally. Lemme try and get a picture.

Modified. Okay I get it now. I'll try mine in a bit. Thank you plenty. Are you by any chance into coding?

budaatum:
Can't say I saw a question from you.

Can you repeat it please?

okay. The first one is, are you the same as the user Magnoliaa? I haven't seen her in a while. Secondly how did you rename the embedded link in your post?

budaatum:
If other people are the cause of my problems, then they are the solutions to my problems, but there's no guarantee they will care so much that solving the problems they caused me would be their top priority. So I choose to own and be responsible for all problems I may have, because that way I am empowered to find my own solutions for my own problems.

Now, if the above makes sense to you, you will crucify yourself so that you can resurrect, because what you sow will not come to life unless it dies.

My apologies for Bible if it's not your inclination.

well said. I hate to accuse people of being responsible for my problems. Sometimes I am tempted to blame God though. You ducked my question ma.

[quote author=Fenrir post=137898862][/quote]you mean that sheediyat has been using AI generated content to respond to posts all these while? Lmfao

Namaster:
It's a MANIPULATION technique called Trickle Truthing.

They ALL use it.

First, comes the BLATANT lie—female friend.

When that lie becomes unsustainable, then a little TRICKLE of truth—It was actually a MAN but nothing happened.



If you continue to press her, another truth will trickle out—something did happen but it was JUST a kiss.

Then, it'll turn to just BJ and no penetration. They didn't even get naked.

Then, it'll become they did get naked but he just RUBBED the tip on clit.

Then FINALLY, it'll be we had sex but it was just ONCE.



MEN who still marry today are just deceiving themselves.

as usual, you're always on point this man. I love the way you write too. Great man.

Newton2024:
My Wife Admitts She Visited A Guy But There Was No Sex

where them Awon "my wife, gf would never do this to me?" All of Una go learn. Keep confiding in women and creating "safe" spaces in women. Una go learn very hard. Even with your game, your woman would fvxk you up. Make Una dey beat chest dey go. I pity who still dey believe say genuine love still remains.

Double0h7:
Maybe you were ovulating that day and you picked up on his pheromones, he was a healthy man and your biology took over. If you see him again with clear eyes, you might change your mind.

Omg! It just happened to me 😂 I’m ovulating and I just caught eyes with a healthy specimen of a man and my insides moved! I looked back and caught him looking back and I felt 🔥 💥. It’s all biological.

wetin dey worry dawan

YourGFsnatcher:
Second week of January boss

no wam. I go remind you. God keep us alive.