₦airaland Forum

OdefaGirl:
Why won't I jubilate, since you guys on Nairaland tags Nigerian girls as wayward and all..... Marrying at 22 is a big deal. Before I forgot, the story of my past, I narrated and hubby has met like 2 exes.... This life is all about maturity. I was ready for marriage and hubby was too. Every other thing is a distraction which we don't give room to. What matters is your NOW. And yes, they were few I dated because at that age, it's normal.... Assuming I reached 30, it definitely must have increased, so you guys should take it easy with Nigerian girls unless you are talking about the ones doing business with their body

well said. I wish you many more happy years in your marriage

englishmart:
Overmumu wan finish her.

just ignore the re.tarded animal. Good morning chief.

This guy mad?
So time wey I go use dey find money I go dey reason how to make one stupid beech like me?

Women are naturally wicked to themselves. E no shock me.

pansophist:
Modern feminists are not known to be smart. They may be able to speak big English, recite theories, and argue, but they aren't smart.

boss.. Nairaland is fully stacked with these lot. Plenty grammar no single sense to reason. If I talk wetin dey my mind. Some imbeciles would start to call me a misogynist.

Persephone1:
Dude I don't want to engage you . I have my Nl Cinderella already

Take a hike!

rest. Nobody gives a Bleep about your existence here.

englishmart:
How is mentioning you suggestive of any form of opinion entitlement? This is an interactive forum. If you dread heat, leave the kitchen. Nobody would have mentioned you if your opinion wasn't made. You wouldn't be complaining about entitlement if the mentions bore positive comments.

na Moomoo dey worry am.. they never learn. Proud bleeps.

Jman06:
By the time you come back to this forum to complain about this same lady, all the people here trying to guittrip you into marrying that girl would blame you and accuse you of ignoring the red flags.

you dey mind dem

OdefaGirl:
Too late to cry blood.... I married at 22. So carry your craze commot for my front

is that why you're jubilating? Unless say you no sleep around o. There's no way you're escaping it.

NoNaw:
Fvk u dick head

e pain am.

OdefaGirl:
Only a "boy" reasons this way.... Wait till you get matured, you will know what you want in a woman.

sorry if I struck a chord. I'm just stating the bitter truth. You and your ilk cannot escape it.

This mumu. Na gay go locate you. Idiot

burp18:
Na mumu dey love. I wish I could just have kids of my own without having anything to do with a woman. Women are liabilities.

word

Karen2024:
Because they don't know how broke and stingy how all useless Nigerian Men are..
Nigerian Men are a course.

it's "curse" you idiat

thesicilian:
I'll rather conquer my finances and personal development first than to devote all my energy in trying to re-conquer someone that has been conquered over hundreds of times before.

you dey mind op

aQUINandmore:
I have only told tinubu and helinues "I love you".
But I have not been lucky enough to tell them in person.
I love you tinubu baby, kisses baby

smh.

Nonexisting1:
Maybe a few times in my yeye love life but for several years now, zero as in nada. I don't say it and if them vaginarians say it to me, I feel scared and defensive immediately. Whoever they tell I love you is in real danger. It's like Nigerian politicians saying I love you to Nigerians.

naso e dey do me too. I no believe in that shit.

CandidAdmin:
As the question goes, how many people have you said I love you to?

For me it's zero.

Question for the day - How many of them did you mean?

y'all kid yourself way too much

Words devoid of any substance.

fyzaila:
I haven't said it to any human being. The person who'll collect those words from me will be truly worth it.

I am planning to sha

you're not special.

LaSenior:
this one pass testing

If I no send money relationship go die she will keep saying shits

So make the relationship die na

wetin you for don do tey tey.

kingthreat:
Maybe it will bite hard for men like you. As a man, whatever your wife did sexually before she married you is not your business. If you choose to make it your business, it will be your pain.

LoL you're really delusional if you think it won't affect you if you marry her. brace yourself.

Obama Messi stop nau

kingthreat:
Be a man and forget her past. Infact forget her body count.
There's this freaky babe that 10 years ago was very wild. This girl did threeesome with my friend and I. We started even avoiding her because she had numerous sexual partners.
But as we speak, she's in Canada working in a top company there. Always showcases her family in a graceful way that you might even envy. Her past is gone and forgotten.

dey play. It always comes back to bite hard. One way or the other. These females that keep multiple partner and sleep with them think they are wise. I really feel sorry for them. The seed they are planting. E go done for inside their marriage if e no done outside.

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

Baba this matter tire me. I don't believe in love. So I don't know what to say. She might be pretending. Just dey careful abeg. Majority of women are out to use you. How old is she?

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