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Eddodoh:
I came home to pick my phone that i was charging & as I was leaving the house, I got a call from my girl that she's in my place.

I didn't see anybody when i entered my house unless one of my female neighbour that was going to the toilet, the house was quiet. I felt she's with my male neighbour who is her in-law & also her church cadet captain cos i had warned her once to stop going to sit in his room anytime she visit me. I am not stopping her from going to greet him but she going to sit even when his wife wasn't around & the guy's door is usually closed.

So, when she said that she's inside my house, i told her that she was suppose to come out & meet me. I sat outside my house by the gate, she came out from the guy's room & met me. She said that she had being calling & i wasn't picking & that i should check my missed calls. I checked & i saw that she called me like 8 times & that was because i locked my phone in the room while charging it. And, i asked her when did she come, she said that since around 3pm & it was already 4:45pm. So, she had been in my neighbour's room for more than an hour.

Considering that i have warned her against such in the past & it doesn't make sense to me. Moreso, what will my other neighbours think? It's even embarrasing to me.

We had issue last year & the same guy intervened & when we were talking during that time he mentioned that she was his ex, that it was the marriage btw his brother & her sister that seperated them though I have not let her know that he has told me such.

So, I wasn't responding to her gists or what she was saying. I didn't even allow her into my room. I was imagining why will someone with morals behave like that. Let's assume that there's nothing between them. Does that even make sense? I have confronted her again & she doesn't see anything wrong with that. She said that he's her in-law & church cadet boss which I know but I told her that i don't like her going there to sit behind close doors for that long. To my surprise she sent a message that it's over that we should quit d r/ship. I laughed & I called her to tell her that I am sure that there's more to this her attitude if she prefer we quit than she stop coming around to be with her so called in-law & cadet captain. I told her that i ready to quit if she won't stop.

Do U think i am over-reacting? Is her attitude morally wrong or right? Any suggestion?

you aren't

Divoc19:
Lol yes you are



That's the Scorpio spirit there....learners of everything masters of very few

hahah. Well, most ladies I meet do not appreciate that. They think I'm too inquisitive and too caring. whatever that is.

Divoc19:
If you need a girlfriend too. Scorpios are for keeps to all other zodiacs

I'm Scorpio though. Am I for keeps too or what??

LINSAR:
Because it's a lady and she's abroad, y'all are rushing to drop number.
Grown ass men at that.

She's just looking for whom to use to pass time when bored. We all know how boring and lonely abroad can be.

I dunno about others. I just want to learn.

Persephone1:

what are you grinning for? Don't tell me you're up to no good. please don't stir up trouble.

fattprince:
She prefers not mandatory you live abroad. So you can reach out to her if you want.

okay thanks bro for clarifying.

NumeroUno7:
My WhatsApp number +2349034205695... I guarantee that I tick all the boxes. Communication most importantly won't lack and you won't regret it

you live abroad bruv?

NerdyThings:
I'm looking for friends, females and males welcome. I work in a rare and fast-growing field. Two degrees and working on my third. I'm single and not looking for love per se but but I'm open to it with the right person, starting with friendship. I prefer if you already live abroad like me, but I'm willing to support the right person. I'm not in a rush for anything. "Slow and steady wins the race" is my motto.


Don't message me if
-you're in a relationship
-you're married
-you're a single father with kids
-you lack communication skills
-you have anger problems
-you have no knowledge of current events and can't hold an intellectual conversation.

If you currently live abroad stopped me in my tracks

Ego2:
nah he's not married. We still talk once in a while tho, stalking each other but pride and ego wouldn't let us be .... no current for now taking my time.

Chuckles. Stalking never helped anyone. If you still love him, best you reach out to him, so you guys work things out. It's as simple as that. Where you located though?

Ego2:
My impatience lead to the break up .... his job kept him away at some point and i wasn't getting the attention like i used to. especially since that was the peak of his business, i got mad and allowed my anger get the best of me.

damn, I'm sorry to hear that. Is he married now? What about your current lover.. hope he's treating you well?

Ego2:
He was a good listener, a good observer, paid attention to details especially when it concerns me. Knew how much i can be a drama queen but would always be amused by it. All in all he was a good man.

why did y'all break up then?

Nyascobar1414:
Evening Newspapers and Nigerian men be like oil and water...

Please stop wfy the derogatory terms. It's not fair, my nigga.

Persephone1:


Mexican Men all the way ✈️✈️

some of us possess hearts of gold... But what do I know? You already generalized.

Kobojunkie:
1. Raised as hunters in an age where men and women are altogether out in the same field hunting/competing for the same prices?

2. Suppressed for what exact purpose and to whose advantage? Obviously not themselves so why?

this one just like argument. I pity who dey indulge you

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands 😡🤬

You've simply not met me.

Raheeqilmaktoom:
Update your NL.

we are using the web version. Do you guys use the app?[center][/center]

folake4u:
Lol. Use your normal keypad emojis na.

chuckles😭😭😭

Magnoliaa:
FalseProphet1, abeg, shey you any other spiritualist or exorcist for this NL? 😅😅😅

Our short, smelly and dirty dwarfish Mr. Cork here claims his mom is a tormented prostitute, and that was why he had a disturbed and broken childhood.

Reason for his nuisance behaviour on NL. 😔😪

Poor thing 💔.

I can't find any of these smileys or emojis here

siofra:
We can now use Emojis!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉


Wooohooooooooo🥳


Thank you, Seun🤩🤩🤩💖🥰

smh

Op. I'd love to knock out one of your prominent tooth. Come lemme land a solid punch on your mouth. You're definitely gonna quit smiling. I swear you're gonna quit smirking

Please this is not true in most cases

Goodlady:
I m a lawyer sir.

wow. Nice. Is that really you on your dp? You look so so young.

Jennyclay:
I'm addicted to money while I'm allergic to broke and wretched men.

You don't have money But you want true love . Biko put your love in your pocket.

nawa
I hope you're not like this in real life?

Goodlady:
Reading history or just digging up past events. Maybe it's due to the nature of my work

Er,. what's the nature of your work please?

siofra:
Lol

I don't know why people find it hard to believe a girl is behind this moniker.

Seriously why

upload your full pics

Red02:
You wanna go far with this story. Dont reply provoking mentions

Ive read alot of experiences here and i saw how the authors handled madness by shutting the Bleep up

seconded

markidoo:
Put that rabbit for Peace Mass and pray make the driver no change mind chow am

hmm. That one go work?

Good morning guys.

I need help please. How do I go about it? The prospective customer is located in Ph, while I am in Lagos state.

Had anyone had to transport a pet inter state? And how did you handle it, cost and all that.

Thank you.

091 Airtel

Prettygirl200:
Well I get it, na idoult I will just Ignore him. Skipped your message how?

I saw from your thread, you seemed downcast and unhappy. So I went ahead to ask you if you're feeling better now? Why do you feel unloved? Beats me.

Dimples2022:
*Leaking*

Let me just leave this here to help someone

is that why you're gonna start crying from exhaustion? LoL. I guess seeing that repeatedly has sapped the energy off of you. [right][/right]