Hey Mr confused, how can you leave a permanent job for a renewable contract job. Mind you contract jobs hardly have full benefits that is why the word 'CONTRACT' renewable or non-renewable, yoou'l never be treated as wholely as a permanent staff. If i wer in ur shoes i'd pray for success and hit the marketing job im sure of.

ehe, got no comments cos u shot me with your grammatical bullets n its affecting my thinkin faculty as far as this topic is concernd!!

hmm, u are talking marriage wit a 27yr old boy, its common for guyz in dat age range to b married in the Delta region' but generally speaking a 27 yr old boy is still young 4 marriage, i wouldnt say he's to blame rather id say he is wise n dosnt want to make quick decisions and if he says 32' , well thats a normal age for any guy who wants to settle down at the rite time, now dis is the prob wit age mates dating'

at age 27, a girl is ripe for marriage but not exaclty same for guyz, 5yrs more is not a bad idea , i suggest the 27 year old girl meet guys in the age range of 31" , upward' or just wait til she's 31 or 32 so she can conveniently date her age mates, n i dont think a 32yr old guy will b looking 4 a 32 yr old girl as a wife'

yea lekki phase 1 i know has been safe since the deployment of opc guys, then dolphin estate ikoyi is also safe, stayed ther for like 6yrs b4 moving to lekki, not a single robbery incidence,

now, ther are 2 ways to this, if u have the rite capital' u cld start small or big, if u dont u work for ur boss n save up some capital, a baby wil crawl b4 walking,

so u think bscos one is yaraduas driver, he'l be rich?, 'fantasy world' poor drivers wrk for top shots but stil got nothin to show for it,

yep' for some reason though, but cheating is cheatin' so yes

yep' for some reason though, but cheating is cheatin' so yes

hmm, how to break up nice? well i'd say breakin up nice could be sitting on a round table and trashing things out, n breaking up badly could be just a few minutes on the phone, not replyin and taking calls or a short text message, al these without even a warning sign, usualy done wen some other girl or guy comes into the picture, well the point is, whatever way its a very saddening thing, it nevr leaves a smile on the affected persons face', i mean how do u break up nicely with someone who has done no wrong, like this? "oh sugar i'm no longer intersetd in this relationship but i still like u n if ever need my help call me" goodbye dearie!

ive never been able to sit a guy down n tell him its over cos i know ive done wrong , dont hav the courage i just show som unseriousness n the message gets clearly understood', its not a nice thing to feel dissappointed or do same to another person, but sometimes'

in love with a much older man?, most of these acclaimed love' could be replaced with lust' n quest 4 powr n money'i mean wat wil make an old man c his daughter's age mate and love or even if the oldy isnt married wat will make the gurl c a man dat can give birth to hr c n love, a little percent of such relationships could be love but for most relationships, its always lust n love for money connected'

hmm, dating a younger man? well lov eachother and he's got the right attitude i will,

i like guyz dat know how to pray n dance in church, not strictly clubbers'
hmm, i like guys that are 5'9 to b precise, cos dats my height i dont like xtra tall guyz'
i like guys dat have self control, cos id like 4 him to b in love wit me not in lust wit me!
i like guyz dat r somewat fleshy, not lekpa
i like guyz dat kiss well,
i like fine guyz, yeelow or black, 'jus fine' endless list? ok il stop here

hmmm, "i love you" well, i love you comes in different ways, it cld be said to show appreciation for care rendered, but the phrase tends to be exagerated when pple jus use it aimlessly, imagine a guy seein a girls pix, nevr met her in person and already sending a txt i luv, 'likeness' could start from a glance but love grows, with time',

yours is " your fiance dumped you and is coming back" im also in a confused state cos "my boyfrend did same n is comin bak" but this is wat happend, wen i met him, he was about callin off his then relationship, but pple kept on talking' n i got suspicious n decided to give the supposedly girlfrend a call to clarify issues, immediately i hung up she calld him, he then gave me a call saying he was dissappointed n decided to give me a break, my frends said i took a wrong step callin d girl, but now he's coming bak to me, i stil like him but ive learnt to follow reason' n not my heart cos if i follow my heart il definitly go crashin, we listen to eachothers commnts, learn and remembr the sayin' a wrd is nuff 4 d wise'

hmm, is it good to date your friend? , this topic is as drab as "is it bad to date your enemy!?" i really appreciate challenging topics dat get me thinking n learning as i read other comments, but for this' i got no comment'

hmm, is it good to date your friend? , this topic is as drab as "is it bad to date your enemy!?" i really appreciate challenging topics dat get me thinking n learning as i read other comments, but for this' i got no comment'

"wats your point"

TOPIC (do virgins make better partners?)

point 1. Being a virgin is virtous

point 2. to most guyz they dont make better partners, cos guyz like to taste b4 marriage,

beg to disagree with this dear. y shudnt u put your all in it?
dear u'd get tru watever it is, just take it one-step-at-a-time. and be prayerful

prayerful?? wen she cant sleep because of man, how prayerful can she get, peeps r talking bout her facing her studies n ur sayin prayerful, if she faces her studies wont she b prayerful? u need to know love is not a fairytale dat always ends "hapily ever after", u need to put on some maturity into it, besides God stands as number1 before any relationship,

should this b a topic? (dumb) y not ask 'if its okay for the devil to give a sad person peace of mind',

hmmm,  boy frend acting up n making u cry'. Take this advise n i mean seriously. When u are in a relationship, learn never to put all ur heart to it cos when it comes crashing, ur heart would go crashing with it, when i say dont put all ur heart , i dont mean cheat on ur boyfrend' rather dont let evry breath, evry time u lay down, evry step u take revolve around him. when u are nonchallant about the relationship and it comes crashing rather than breakdown emotionally,  ul take it as one of those things' u cld even smile ovr it!
so, dont b too hard on urself , give the guy some space' im sure if he dosnt think the way u want him to, he's not the best thing that happened in ur life! your future is wer ur gold lies, quit looking bak'

hmmm, boy frend acting up n making u cry'. Take this advise n i mean seriously. When u are in a relationship, learn never to put all ur heart to it cos when it comes crashing, ur heart would go crashing with it, when i say dont put all ur heart , i dont mean cheat on ur boyfrend' rather dont let evry breath, evry time u lay down, evry step u take revolve around him. when u are nonchallant about the relationship and it comes crashing rather than breakdown emotionally, ul take it as one of those things' u cld even smile ovr it!
so, dont b too hard on urself , give the guy some space' im sure if he dosnt think the way u want him to, he's not the best thing that happened in ur life! your future is wer ur gold lies, quit looking bak'

hmm, virgins?, truth is most guyz of today act like untamed mammals where issues of virginity are concerned, how many virgins existy today, once the untamed mamals find, they disvirgin', some even boast that they cant marry virgins cos they might not enjoy sex during marriage since they dont how good the girl is on bed or if she can concieve at the appointed time, the few who remain virgins are able to stay away from guyz , cos most of them have the picture of a bedroom jus at the sight of a girl, some wld even cal off the relationship if u choose to remain a virgin'

hmm, Nigeria, wel no matter how drab the situation is, in this country we can still single out some positivity' 419? we still have some honest Nigerians, evryone for himself? we still have some caring ones, i mean ive had a number of strangers help me, killing? wel, NiGERIA can hardly boast of psychos on the run killing pple which is a common scenerio in America. Politics dirty? at least there's some form of sanity as seen after the riggishly conducted election, unseat of some governors who created false votes, but still it is certain dat Nigeria has stil got a lengthy road to pass by, Electricity, infrastructure is stil on the decline' all good im proudly Nigerian**

hmmm, the east african idols' watching this programme makes me feel real proud to b a nigerian, these dudes applying for d competition appear unexposed , only a few try to show some talent, in all they are human beings' but the judge wit the scar seems to c himself like a little god' i dont know if he is a worlwide known musician cos he tends to reduce pple to nothin, as for the female judge she's cool, u cant pls evryone but at least try to be courteous cos same God created al, then the other tall guy tries to follo suit wit the scard one but not as insultive, if u r sending somone out of a competion do that, rather than make a mockery,

'predictive'

well, naija movies, stil got a long way to go but id give some applaud to these film not being perfect, but made some sense 'Magun, Citanda, Dangerous twins" then for foreign movies id take 'V- for Vendetta' cos the use of english here was really expressive'

how can u compare Dan foster who is a radio presenter with keke n D1, na yoruba phonetics Dan foster dey speak? besides ur radio get screen wey u dey take look danfoster?, then Larry King be keke n D1 mate? abi u dey see am dey present musical programme? as a matter of fact he's age realy suits the programme he presents, at least he even grants interviews to some of his age mates, keke n D1 are actualy quite overgrown for dat music show they present esp. keke,