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VULCAN:
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cc2braithe

I took time to read some of the responses to the OPs predicament.

Someone said he should focus on First class or 2.1 as if these are what guarantees success in life.

That was the old testament in Nigeria where getting a good degree entitled you to a job and car.

Those days are gone and unless you are looking for a scholarship to go abroad or you want to work for one of the multinational management consultancy firms, it's now rarely a ticket to anything remarkable.

Some are saying you should make money first. Lol.

The same set of people will be shouting simps when they hear a man bought car for a pretty campus babe. They are unable to correlate that most of those men spending millions on pretty girls with no pedigree are those who refused to develop inner game when they were in school and now they are rich but see themselves as still being inferior to women regardless of their money.

So they spend money on chicks as that is the only way they know to show value.

These same girls will pursue and bang WizKid for free and even tell him thank you.

The ability to use nothing but words, gestures and mannerisms to get women to fall for you is The Art Of Seduction and every man should learn it, even if he is dead broke because it gives a boost to one's self esteem in ways few can imagine. A young man that has conquered the fear of women above his social status can face any challenge that life will throw at him.

I had my first girlfriend at the age of 8, she was 13.

At the time I never noticed the age difference. All I knew was that I was the one in charge.

In my 2nd year in university I dated a beauty in year 5. I'm sure you know that it's abnormal for a solid girl to date a guy in a lower class than her in uni.

The next year I was with a beautiful foreign student in year 4

My stories are plenty. Let me get on with my earlier post.

2. After you have gotten comfortable having some posh girls as friends and you hang out with them and feel no form of inferiority, then it's time to get a posh girl or a girl from a more successful background than you.

How this happens is normally organic. Women like what other women have so when girls see you often in the company of posh girls they will begin to wonder what makes you so special especially when it becomes clear that you are not richer or even as rich as those girls. It's that curiosity that will bring them closer and then you date them without toasting.

Toasting girls is dangerous by the way because it implies that you have placed them above you and are asking for a relationship.

They usually nail guys that toast them but sleep with guys that behave as if they are already dating.

Just continue to show your value and they will find themselves thinking about you more than they should.

I have more to say but let me stop here for now.

But someone you should listen to is Coach Red Pill on Youtube

mysticgal:
How much do you sell, put it out here

ActuaRise696969:
Your potential is just mind blowing. With focus and sacrificial level of hardwirk you will be fuccking wealthy.

Your teacher is your mom I guess, so you must not marry someone like her. Figure out her energy system and ensure your wife is within your creative design. Which means you must hack the matrix by choosing a partner that will not only amplify your manifestation but help manage your anger and frustration which are major flaws in your design.

pansophist:
I dated the first lady that asked me out. Maybe it's been shy or uptight, but I just don't ask ladies out. Unless I can see clearly in such a way that it can not be misinterpreted that she likes me, then I proceed to romantic negotiations.

Usually, it is women that choose men, not otherwise. So why ask her out? It she wants you, you'll know. I attract, not chase. I just keep doing me, and the girl that finds me attractive will appear, and as usual, she will give you all the signs for you to ask her out, so it's either i pick up on that or just pretend like I didn't see it.

ActuaRise696969:
I was having a conversation with someone who is married. I didn't observe its a different username. My bad.

The flaw in the generator design is Frustration and flaw in Manifestor design is Anger. So as a manifesting generator it's anger and frustration.

You must ensure that your partner is chosen to Harmonize your flaws.

At work you need Generators to handle the heavy lifting and manifestors as crack team.

PAWG:
The entire Lagos is

stanliwise:
Nice write up!

Originalsly:
That's the main reason Brazil is not a developed country.... same goes for India and China.

tutudesz:
Isoko people dey forbid snail too

Bigredmachine:
Good afternoon everyone please if you are reading this, pls see me as ur brother and help me...

I am not the type who like begging for money as I have hands and leg to work...

I have been in Lagos for over 2 months now, and I have nothing doing, I see my life getting useless day by day... Frustration and depression is settling in, countless time I have had thought of suicide creeping into my mind, seeing myself as failure...

I am not presently looking for something big, cos I know something big is at the front waiting for me, but to stay two months in one place is something I don't like...

Am begging anyone who has link to a job be it daily pay or ad hoc, I will do... So long as I am doing something everyday I will be fine, I don't mind the pay pls

Am tired of waking up, eating, and then sleeping again

Thanks as u help a brother from another mother

Sheriman:
What actually motivated and keep me going was the challenging part of programming. Programming will make you think deep and reason about life. Putting your ideas to life with codes imagine putting all those codes together to produce something that millions of people will use is something great enough to boost your morale.
For me personally, I want to stick with only one language and fully understand it build something with it know it data structures and algorithm. I don't buy the idea of want to learn all the programming languages like some people here on Nairaland. They want to know Django, Go, Scala, JavaScript, Java, Flutter, React Native C++ C#. This is too much for a person instead of wasting so much time on want to knowing all these language why can't want to be progeammer just stay with one language and master it. Each of those languages has their own specific usage it is for the want to be programmer to choose the one that suit it taste and can find available resources or documentation online to read also practice practice practice and practice.
To be a good programmer you need to work hard infact sometimes you will denying yourself of something. Nothing good comes easy. Sometimes I woke up in the midnight to write some codes read Google documentation on Jetpack compose and some other necessarily Android framework. What about during the day I write codes everyday on my Laptop. Sometimes when I got tired or bored I play games or watch movies or went out to play with friends then later switch on to IntelliJ idea.
I have a good HP laptop of 16GIG of RAM with 4GIG of Nvidia graphics card.
Android Studio, IntelliJ idea and Adobe XD for UI/UX Mobile App designer all installed on my machine
My superb very sharp mouse
I have a good furniture table and chair to feel relaxed while writing codes.
My problem sometimes is money to buy data.
Programming is not that difficult if you are not a lazy type or someone that easily give up on something that they don't quickly seem to understand. If you're are ready to denying yourself of something you love doing then you will truly understand programming you want to use and be able to do something with it.
Happy coding!! to all my fellow determine and serious programmers on Nairaland either upcoming, junior or senior developers.

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ahnie:
Thanks babe.

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Ovo200:
Thanks bro
What are your advice bro?
You are already in the game bro

linearity:
The bitter truth is, your girlfriend is only telling about the Uber/Bolt drivers who approach that she does not like or fancy.

She is most likely digging someone on the side, and decide to tell you about these, so to keep you busy and not suspect her and to also sell you a false flag of her faithfulness to you, and her plan appear to be working great!

On average most ladies get tossed or approached by some guys about twice a day at the least, but majority of them just ignore it and does not make it a topic of conversation to their husbands or boyfriends.

If your girlfriend or wife starts telling you about the guys tossing her, it means you may be doing something very wrong or she is tired of the relationship and just want to remind you or her ‘worth’ outside….or she is up to something.

HitlerGaddafi:
I'm not a poverty stricken monkey dear.



Na the mama wey born you be poverty stricken monkey.

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