₦airaland Forum

jeff1607:
make sure you assure your wife that her kids gets everything in terms of inheritance and make her happy cos she deserves it.

you can still have all your kids under one roof and give them all the training and mentoring they deserve else they will become a liability to you wen u have advanced in age

Guy u don't give this kind of advice to somebody lijr

helinues:
Only honour? No money or gifts?

Dangote is stylishly stingy

hmmm I will say he is greedily stingy

CHoccolaTE:
Honestly, especially Nigerian men. Evil, arrogant and selfish group of people.
Even if housework and bread winning is killing their wives it's not their concern, as long as his ego is massaged.

And look at the hypocrites on this thread asking madam to continue showing a self centered egoist love and pray for him.

Let a woman be the one acting so useless in her marriage this thread will be counting five pages of insults by now.

i can see ur frustration sis, u married a wrong man

I guess the agenda is about local govt autonomy

gloriaunobi:
How did he get to Nigeria if the border is closed? Your people should transport goods through the means which you used to transport yourself here

Can't stop laughing �.ppl get bad mouth for nairaland walahi

morikee:
Oluwa Burna who be this one wey i no know her seff

she is a Yoruba woman from Benin

My car mileage is at 750,000km and is still running like tokunbo

Fryzi:
This is the kind of woman that reduces life span of any man. Lord save us from the hands of this kind of a woman.

bad man prayer

veraponpo:
Exactly.

The case lacks credibility. The story before was that the song was composed by the 2 of them when they were in Platashun Boiz and when Blackface released his first single, 2face too went to Kennis to go solo. Note that there was no quarrel then as it was mutually agreed then for them to do solo works and return to do group projects. In fact, Blackface was featured in 2face's first Album. They both agreed that 2face should use African Queen in his album and 2 face had to compose the third verse to make it a complete song.

Blackface is bitter because he never believed 2face will go this far professionally. But God is not like us, human beings. God is God.

black face featured in 2face 1st album? Which track bro

gassbee:
if d judicial system will be very fair in handling this matter, black face will certainly win this case easily

To me he has no case because he may not b able to provide a substantial evidence. Imagine somebody bringing a piece of paper that can be written at anytime even after the song has been released to court as an evidence.only faze can help him to win the case.

ki02020:
Structures like this should have been in operation before the border closure

who will invest his money into rice mill without border closure.can u?

ainas247:
Dangote for the president.... do like Trump nah.. baba

a call for Dangote presidency, is a call for India colonization. If u know u know

I don't want to say Malami is doing this cuz of Maina

idesylvester:
Are we exporting cement?

YES

Realdeals:
Are Nigerians the only one, what about France's Sinama Pongolle?

not only him Bojan of Spain is nowhere to b found

We can't cave in to blackmail. They should give us the names of the imaginary companies, what they r producing and its quantity that exceeds the demand of close to 200million pple cos I don't know we av been exporting goods since. Awon werey

Ayemileto:
The same 2013 team played 3:3 with Sweden in their last group game.


They actually had to wait till 80+ minutes before they equalised in that game.

Also, Iran was the team they scored their highest goal against, and they actually defeated them by 5:0 which means they never defeated any team with a 6 goals margin. I wonder where they will get that 6th goal against Ecuador

This ones have won both matches they've played so far, let's hope they get better with time.


We only need 1 Goal to win a match.


Let's enjoy the game

how about their 6:1win against mexico

I don't trust Manu Gaba anymore.Why keeping
Amoo on bench?Benching that boy for another player in that team is for business reason and not tactical

luvablesam:
Same here at first but i got interested in sports,politics,international relationa and music...so when the discussions cum up......i found out some thing....An extrovert must be very intelligent to hold dicussions with an introvert. We have more depth.

honestly

vikel2104:
The thing that baffle me is that an introvert tends to understand people but yet they're the most misunderstood. I tend to sense peoples' feelings but when it comes to mine, they don't even care to know. Another thing is that an introvert tends to understand and get clues quickly. So it pisses me off sometimes when people cannot understand seemingly simple things. I guess it has to do with our ability to think deeply. I prefer thought-provoking discussions rather than empty chatter. That's why some people cannot discuss with me because i don't like shallow talk and that's what most people engage in. Let's just say I love depth in everything I do. I love to ask the question 'why?' before I do things but people would prefer that I go with the flow and just do what everyone is doing. I have a way of revealing myself to people depending on who it is. If I meet a total stranger who I'm most likely never going to see again, I could chat and act like an extrovert. But if I'm most likely going to be seeing the person often, I show them my real introverted self with the mind that with time they'll see that that is how I am and those who accept me will finally make friends with me. Over the years I've come to be able to talk in front of people but I'm still not very comfortable when it's impromptu. If I'm told to teach something, I go the extra mile to make sure you undertand because I don't like the thought that i've wasted my time, my precious time. Staying indoors? Oh there is nothing as blissful as my 'me time' I hate noise more than anything. (sorry for the long unparagraphed post. But being an introvert I know you had the patience to read through it)

this is exactly who I am thou my father added to my prob when he told me to stop gossiping with my sisters that it's not good for boy to gossip. However playing football help me a lot cos it attracted pple to me, being a footballer pple will like to hear my view on football matters, they force me to talk.
nevertheless I still find it difficult to address a crowd or keep a conversation but when I'm in d mist of close friends I'm a champion.i talk like a parrot.

Kudos to zenith for contributing their quota to football development in Nigerian.Dangote should follow suit and stopped his Arsenal wild goose chase.
Manu Gaba should explain why he benched Akinkunmi Amoo against Hungary cos I smell a rat

What I see here is a partial confession,initially she said one abortion now two by the time she open up fully,guy u will run.
Nevertheless the girl is a loyal but tricky type . U need high level of wisdom and diplomacy if u u want to marry that girl. This kind of girl will wrong ur frnd,family it neighbor and will still cry as a victim.
My advice, marry her if u can forget her past and will not judge her in future with her past. Many ladies out there r worse but they will not tell u their real padt

SeunStats:
Pls I Need A Room Self Contain Anywhere In Benin City.... Epp

i get one here but the toilet and bathroom r outside

Kokoebapluse:
Brother when I visited my brother in that centre, I saw many people who re not from kwara they are from far state or country self some of them have tattoo on their body show they are bad boys, and their parents use to send money every month to feed them, But my parents use to carry food every day from house to the centre because our house is not far from the place, to be honest am very happy to see my brother clam and hansom because he didn't smoke, or live rough life like before. Bro I don't see anything bad in that place, even SARS and police station cell Is not OK Like the place, and parent pay money, who parent will wish to pay money for bad?

What I think is that government should involve in it and support those centre, so to reduce crime

its not only in Kwara,it is in every state capital in southwest, it is not new.
I heard story of a boy that was brought to Nigeria from UK to one centre in in cos he is taking hard drug.
Govt should build rehab center for adult

Kokoebapluse:
To be honest my elder brother is in one of this centre in kwara state, am from kwara state, but don't let me lie for you Am very happy and all my family are so happy to took my brother in to that center, it Arabic school where they teach them, Islamic life and how to behave peaceful in society, And how they will handle you in that centre depends on behaviour you show to them,my brother nearly kill my parents because of his hard life behaviour he smokes a lot and he his becoming to be thief which is very bad, my parents don't have rest of mind because of him, let say everyone don't like his behaviour, and my parents have try all their best but it getting worse, and my parents hear about the Islamic centre that have reform many hard boy into good boys, my parents are so happy and met the owner of the centre and he charge them #20000 and they paid him don't let me lie since when my parents took my brother there my parents have rest of mind and there is no worries again, last time when I went home for sallah celebration because I based in Abuja, I payed my brother vists at that centre wow am so impressive my brother have changed his character have changed, because he didn't get access to smoke or walk with bad friend, he get fresh skin I swear to God am very happy to see him change totally, thou he explained to me that the place is not easy to stay, and I told him good thing come hard, and he said I should beg my parents on his behalf that he has changed and ready to be good boy, but I told him to have patience to studie the Arabic so that he can achieve not only good character but word of God that will remind him good character,


I imagine instead of police to destroy those centre, police can work together with those centre to reduce crime in community, because parent that took their children go there and pay money are not a fool, in my own opinion government should modernise the centre and support them with good fersility, if my parents did not took my brother there then maybe by now one of them will have stroke, so let government support the centre to reduce the crime

the way police r presenting this places make pple believ they r worst or terrorist centres. initially I thot its was something else not knowing it is all these Arabic training centre which has been in existence for over 40yrs.
The Alfa who taught me Quran was a product of one centre like that in ib. He told us as a kid that he was a popular thug in Ibadan named 'apere ijangbon' meaning basket of trouble before he was capture and taken to that centre.
Though the environment may not b conducive for them and the treatment may not be good but no good boy or girl will be forced to those places.
Nigeria police is shouting intelligence report as if it is hidden or new.

I'm not saying this is d best way of rehabilitating pple but I don't think Nigeria prison service is doing better

Congrats sis. Ur dad was a real goal machine and a patriot

Lilbest3:
Lazy new generation women.
80% of the women in my village are widows. Ordinary one pikin you cannot take care of. Rubbish

what is killing men in ur village. Guy u also need prayer

I have a four year old son who I cherish so much but their is one bully boy living opposite to my house,the boy is 5yrs old.He always come to my house because I bought bicycle,ball and other toys for my son.
I have no qualm about accommodating this bully boy afterall his presence get my son adrenalin flowing.he always try to show the bully boy somethings especially his riding skill.
The problem is that he can't stay for 30min without fighting and beating my son.The poor boy will cry and report him to me,i will say sorry, call them together and ask them not to fight again.The case keep repeating itself whenever I'm around, one day I got infuriated and told my son to fight him,if he dare beat him again.
This is very wrong,i know,besides my son does not have the strength to fight him but I can't allow this intimidation to continue.should I stop him from coming to my house,mind you his dad is like a friend to me or I should keep telling my boy sorry. The fact is I hate him beating my son.

RedCreme21:
There's a certain gecko thats being stalking me. I need your help.

sniper will eliminate the idiot

Ijawwomaninoyo:
They make contributions monthly and tithes are given monthly, what's the difference? They save and pay the money once a year, what's the difference too? There's no where tithes is paid at gunpoint, you give if you have too even offering is optional at Winners Chapel, you can ask someone to confirm if you are a Muslim.
Buses are paid to take people who claim they can't come to church for any reason to church to and fro, people donate voluntarily to that and that doesn't make them poor.
Monthly packages are given out to the less privileged monthly, people donate towards that too. What if everyone doesn't want to give.
Why do you not want to comment on Baba Suwe? Why did the Muslims not help him from their yearly zakat?

the difference is clear. Tithe is 10%of ur monthly income. If u r earning 10k u pay 1k but in Islam if u r earning 100k u r not qualify to pay cos ur annual savings is 1.2m that is, if u don't eat,pay bills or transport.my brother enjoy ur money in peace.Besides nobody save to pay zakat even if u do and it's less than 1m u r not qualify to pay .on the issue of names u see on the wall.it is not the name of everybody that worship in that mosque, mostly it is the names of the landlords in that community who r willing to contribute to d development of the mosque and if u find out they contributed to build that mosque.mind u it is done for accountability and not to shame anybody. Again let's not discuss baba suwe issue zakat is for Muslims and ur name alone does not make u a Muslim. Zakat is not saved in any account and no specific time to pay it thou many pple prefer Ramadan period and it is given to the less privileged who r Muslims. A friend of mine who is earning above 100k was given 100k last year by one rich man as part of his zakat. So it's not compulsory that u give it to imam

Ijawwomaninoyo:
You mean you give out once a year?
But you take from people once a year?
It is what I have seen very well, they write on the wall in the mosque.
If people give out once a year, how are the mosques managed? With 1/40 from interested people? I have seen some of them reconstructing damaged bridges, where do they get resources and money?1/40?
Even at Prayer grounds on festivals, they collect money.
Most of their Imams are full time clerics, who pay them money to manage their families throughout the year? 1/40?
No wonder Baba Suwe went to a Church when he needed treatment, he was given N10m. What if all the donors in that Church refused to pay tithes too, he should have been a past tense.

zakat/tithe is once in a year.what is written on the wall is monthly contribution of members and it depends on ur pocket. Nobody pay Imam, if u av money to give imam, meet him in person and give him.i will not say anything on baba suwe issue but go to any mosque on Friday's or anyday u will see pple addressing d congregation to ask for money it's allowed.how about beggars?we Muslims do that on daily basis

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