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If I see this kind of Woman coming from one direction, I will run like a mad man in the other direction.

Woman wey get mind to go Libya without the knowledge of Her people. It’s not hard to imagine what She did to survive there.

She even came back and gave you STD.

That Woman is SCUM!

Charmingrascal:
I didn't want to share this but I was motivated by someone who created a thread on how his ex has been calling him
https://www.nairaland.com/6722392/ex-never-stops-calling-me#105224144

It's a long thread but please read to the end.

I dated this girl when I was kind of younger around 19-20 years while we were still dating she travelled out of Nigeria (to Libya) without informing me, infact without informing any of her family members according to what I found out. After like Three years I, got her message on Facebook requesting for my number (I was in the University then) I gave her the number and we started chatting.

She pleaded that I should forgive her that she still loved me and all. We got along real good because she really changed, more matured and fresh. The girl I was dating in school then got to know and we had issues. The girl picked her number and called her to leave me alone but instead of living me alone she blasted the girl and even involved one of her friends then they insulted the girl and told her that she met me first and the girl should leave me alone.
She was working and was always sending me money then and promised to come home soon.

She also confessed to me that she had a baby for one guy there but they were not married.
To cut it short she came to Nigeria around 2018 and brought many things for me and we continue our bleeping spree. (I got an STD through her then). Then I had to go for service (NYSC) in 2019 we were apart again, unfortunately while I was serving I got to know from her close friend that that she was cheating (the friend wanted me too) Infact I was told that she was constantly sleeping in the guy's house.

I told her on phone that I knew about how she was cheating, she begged and ask me to forgive her (that was 2019).

Fast forward after service I stayed back in Abuja because I got a job. To cut it short I got to know that she was pregnant for another guy in Nigeria, she hid it for me, she wouldn't send me her full pictures but she later told me when it was obvious she couldn't hide it no more, infact the guy wanted to marry her, she told me she wasn't going to marry the guy that the pregnancy was just a mistake, I personally convinced her to stay with the guy since she told me herself that the guy liked her so much and was taking care of her and her first baby.
Then this girl said she would stay with him on the condition that I would still be dating her. I was shocked and surprised I refused and told her that I will never be involved in such an illicit affair.

While this girl was heavily pregnant she was sending nude pictures and was constantly begging me that we should continue having sex, it continued till early 2021 even after the guy engaged her, I refused I blocked her on Facebook where she was sending the nudes to, she started sending it to my WhatsApp and I blocked her there too.

Now she has given birth and I am presently In the state where she resides with her husband, (that's where I am from too) I don't know how she found out that I am around and she has been calling me still begging for sex.

I wanted to report her to her brother and sister who were aware of our relationship back then but a friend asked me not to report her, infact some of them are telling me to give her what she wants (the bad guys that I have) Lol
I have warned her to desist from making such request but she is still requesting to just see my face, as at 2 days ago she was still begging to see me, I told her I was going back to my base yesterday maybe that's why she hasn't called me yet.

I am a young man of 28 years and one of the vow I have vowed is never to sleep with another man's wife except I am not aware that she is married.

I can snatch careless men girlfriends but not to sleep with another man's wife or fiancee.

I fear karma.

I am sharing this to tell men to be very careful with the kind of women they call wife.
Her attitude makes me have phobia for marriage I swear.

A married young lady with a loving husband still begging an ex for sex is too bad and I feel sad for her husband who might be beating his chest that his wife will never cheat on him.

Scavenging is a global phenomenon, not only in Nigeria!

PlanToSucceed:
What I noticed when I observed public waste bin in less than one hour.

Witnessing the unfortunate situation today reminds of palliatives looting from various warehouses during #EndSARS last year and Lai Mohammed and Femi Adeshina later came out to say even though Nigerians were seen scampering for food items does not mean any Nigerians are eating from the waste bin. Today, I have a proof for them and their APC government.

So I left house this morning to meet someone who had promised to link me up with someone who can help my unemployed status. Having reached the place early enough, I called to notify but I was told to hang on there and I found a place and sat down.

Looking around, I noticed a public waste bin and in no time, condemned iron pickers with their truck entered the place and ransacked everywhere in search for iron and other condemned household items. While they were still there, some kids presumably homeless joined them in search for rotten food. I could see them picking things from the bin and directly into their mouths and until no other to pick again before they left. Just as though the bin has regained its freedom from the attack of the street urchins, immediately, I saw an elderly woman ransacking the same bin in search for woods presumably to be used as firewood (a kg of cooking gas now is N600 and Kerosene N450). While she was still trying to pick her interest, a man with wheelbarrow pushed into the place with a heap of cartons/paper materials. He parked and ransacked the same bin for cartons and any paper material thing. He greeted the elderly woman and they both had conversation which I really didn't know what they discussed before they finally left together.

As all these were happening, I had no choice than to still wait for "my helper". Before I knew, another set of women came to visit the same bin. These ones, their interest was on plastic bottles and nylon/waterproof materials. They picked as much was available before they left.

Not long from then, a new visitor to the bin was another child in search for rotten food not knowing early birds have already taken all that were available. I felt so bad and disturbing seeing what was going on there so I was eager to leave the place. Just then, the person called me that I should be going back to my house that the appointment can no longer hold today.

As I made move to pass the bin, the underage greeted me and added "Oga abeg help me with N50 make I take buy something chop". I felt pity for him. This boy is too young for this. Ideally, he should be under the care of his parents. Anyways, even though I was left with only my transport fare, I couldn't pass and I gave him N200.

Wow!!! Honestly I left the place very disappointed and broken down physically and mentally.

Disappointed due to the cancelled appointment and mental breakdown due to the gory site of where some Nigerians now resort to sourcing for means livelihood. Indeed, IMO, this country is a terrible place. It's structured to favour very few and that is why we are still the way we are today and until normalcy and sanity is forcefully returned by eliminating those who have spoilt and reduced the country to this mockery stage, I see no changes where some Nigerians would not have to sleep with empty stomach and start a new day by picking things from waste bins while others spend public funds sleeping in world best hotels in and outside the country.

As I'm typing this, I can't tell how many other persons have continued to visit the same waste bin afterwards and other waste bins in search for source of survival. Rather, this has forced me to ask myself, is this the dream of the founding fathers of Nigeria? Unemployment? Poverty? Frustration? Sourcing livelihood from thrash bins?

I rest my case!!!

Photo source: Google

The best way to find the answer to your question is to ask Her directly.

Any answer you get here will be based on assumptions from people who don’t really know Her.

Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.

Don’t mind them, shamelessly exhibiting their bias.

Zagee:
I thought the word "launder" connotes negativity. Who is the journalist reporting this

Let us not be too quick to criticize the move.

At least it shows that Miyetti Allah finally realizes they need to engage in order to win hearts and minds.

Mnwile, I hear there are/were two factions of Miyetti one more radical than the other.

dre11:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/miyetti-allah-hires-ambassador-for-image-laundering/

DonroxyII:
As if I know ... The Cold water also aided the H. Pylori to wreck the damage and the cold water also aided the fat deposits ....

With hot water (Half glass) to be sipped till it finishes , then another half glass same way .... just to avoid it getting warm/cold before you exhaust the glass .....

Hot water will help you burn fat deposits in your organs .... Also watch your diets and run away from junk foods (They are all fat deposits) .......

You do exercise already so no need to advice you on that ..... except that ensure your food digest at every consumption.... thus, don't sleep immediately after eating .... Sit and/or possibly, take a little walk .... Heart pump rate increases which automatically triggers stomach movements then digestion ..... If food is not properly digested .... Fat deposits occur too ....

If you do Ora.l sex, Stop .... Also, don't be eating from Buka or mama bashira dem .... Ensure clean water and clean food with clean environment...... H.pylori mad ! .... clean partner too !!


I'm an accountant oo so confirm everything I said from Medical Personnel pls .... Caveat Emptor ooo

Wow! This is such useful advise. A lot of which aligns with what my Doc said.

And the stuff about food digestion has been my experience too. My bowels move faster if I don’t stay in one place too long after eating.

I didn’t eat out generally , except for fine dining with my Wife and kid once a month. But a few weeks before the H.p hit , I was busy with work , and eating a lot of junk food. Anyway, all of that is now in the past.

I really appreciate how this conversation has gone.

God bless and all the best in your endeavors.

Where did you read that ransom was paid?

Tony3245:
This simply shows the colossal failure of our security system in Nigeria. If a Major in the Army can be kidnapped in his own terrain (military school), and then succumbed to the witt of these bandits by paying a huge ransome to secure his freedom, what then would be the security fate of the average Nigerian out there .
Kidnapping in Nigeria has been a cankerworm that has eaten so deep into the fabric of the country, and has has made us as a reference to a country in security failure in the global world.


A whole EFCC chairman has the gut to conceal the identity of the sponsors of these heinous crimes, on the ground that it will not be safe for the country's unity/stability. So illogical to the core and absurd to say.


Where exactly is this country heading to








Kindly check my signature for your Assignments, projects write ups, Academic research, business proposals, etc..

DonroxyII:
Thanks very much. H. Pylori is a bastard ... Hope it's all been reversed now especially the fat deposit ....

Take hot water in the morning and night before you sleep ....

Avoid chilled water ... God will protect us !!

Yes, ‘bastard’ is the word for H. Pylori. I forgot to mention that it caused an infection to my left lung , which I just finished treating.

I am taking drugs to bring down the fat level which will last for the next 10 weeks.

Thanks for the hot water advice, I really struggle not to take cold water but with your advice I will endeavor to put a stop to it. Thanks once again.

Best wishes

Miyetti Allah’s utterances and position at the beginning of this banditry thing was full of ambiguity and seemed to many to be either a cause or cover for banditry.

Now, the Chicken is coming home to roost.

Kwanza:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/kaduna-bandits-kill-miyyetti-allah-chairman/

For those that were advising people to set up night clubs targeted at Yahoo boys. I hope you having been noting various news reports of EFCC raiding hotels cos of Yahoo boys.

I hope you are realizing it is not a sustainable business strategy. At least not in Nigeria. (Maybe you can try Italy.)

A word is enough for the wise

Damzzydam:
The EFCC allegedly raided an hotel overnight, beat the hotel owner so he would cooperate with them & even fired gunshots. They came with 5 buses

Watch the humiliating video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0yAubvft-o



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/tension-in-enugu-as-efcc-operatives-allegedly-attack-members-of-nans-other-youth-councils/%3famp

Not only in Nigeria… Collateral damage.

lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DRpG31MeE8



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1279476

DonroxyII:
Care to share the ailment ... just the name sir ?

It’s started with an H. pylori infection I.e Stomach Ulcer, then they decided to run an abdominal scan and found that my liver was swollen because there were large fat deposits in it and I was at high risk of it getting into my blood.

And if it gets into the blood, you know what’s next; it gets into the heart. And you know what that means.

“The price of freedom is eternal vigilance”
~Thomas Jefferson

“The Man dies in Him who keeps silent in the face of tyranny”
~Wole Soyinka

TarOrfeeek:
So they knew Taliban was in power but proceeded to write as though a Liberal Democrat was their President


That's a foolish move.

By now Afghan citizens should have adjusted fully to living in their Islamic Eldorado.

NaijaGoBetter20:


But what do you expect now? Do you want him to divide it into two or what

At the end of the day na the wife go enjoy greater part of the money. Like housing (better house this time), good car (at least one for the girl), her level will never remain the same no matter how crazy his the man

She is His girlfriend not His Wife.

But for the seed of Her 10k which He stole, He wouldn’t have made that 100m

The guys is a shameless Man to be giving Her just 10k. So shameless I doubt He would have paid Her back the money if He didn’t win.

That money will bring Him nothing but sorrow.

Truthissupreme:
When Buhari was calling this nation fantastically corrupt in world leaders presence who was spoiling the image then

It was not Buhari but former British PM Cameron, who described Nigeria and Afghanistan as “fantastically corrupt”

Get your facts right.

How can a so-called Human rights organization be so quick to conclude as to Fashola’s motives?

As a wise Judge once said: “Even the devil knows not the heart of Man.”

They should focus on addressing the issue rather than making baseless conjecture like Fashola wants Igbo people to hate Buhari.

What does He stand to gain?

“Never attribute to malice what can be easily attributed to incompetence” - Mark Twain

BeeBeeOoh:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/09/15/fashola-playing-devils-advocate-wants-igbos-to-hate-you-huriwa-warns-buhari/

tellwisdom:
Who is Sophie and what does she do?? #Spits

She is mother to David’s daughter Imade. Responsible for mothering duties too. Is that not enough you?

Go to the Hospital.

Gloriouspraise:
I am having insomnia and getting brain zaps due to anti depressant given to me by a doctor , I sleep just 2 hours at night , and whenever I try to nap in the afternoon, it’s as if my brain is stopping me from that

I really don’t know what to do at this moment , as I am scared of going to the hospital

klas:
Na wa for pidgin ooo

The bolded sentences contain the same words but the position of “pass” made them have different meanings. One means ‘fucking’, while the other means ‘mocking’

Reminds me of Frank Olize of those days that “She get belle” is different from “They give am belle”

Lol. Quite right

No! he said, “na married women dey bash single mothers pass”

Mihaug:
Lol, nigga says married women the bash pass single mothers

Not enough info to work with but it all depends on the terms of your employment.

Why does the former company want you back? I hope it is because they value you. In which case you may negotiate for something much better and even get them to foot the bill for leaving your current company- if they need you to resume immediate- I.e in less than one month.

ayomilore:
Hi house. Please i need clarification on this issue, i was recalled back from my former organization and asked to resume immediately. Meanwhile the organisaton i'm working with says i need to pay them one month gross salary in lieu of notice even though i have not been confirmed there otherwise my resignation letter will not be accepted to them.
I don't have anything to pay but can only forfeit about 12 days salary plus the little contribution i have with them.

Thank you.

Please, if you can, go for a medical check up.

My Wife kept urging me to do this but I was foot dragging, feeling cool with my self cos I excercise regularly and generally don’t fall ill.

It took just one incident one day to show that I had major internal issues that could’ve killed me if it wasn’t discovered just in time.

I spent 10 times or more what I would have spent if I had done a check up at the beginning of the year, when my Wife last told me.

Now I have had to make major lifestyle changes, particularly with what I eat.

Even my Dad, who is 33 years older than me is eating a variety of things that I am not allowed to.

A word is enough for the Wise.

SegZ24:
Happy Sunday to us all..

Doctors in the house, abeg make una educate me more..

When it comes to your health or diet, doctors and researchers advise/encourage us to drink lot and lot of water because of the health benefit it gives, rather than in take of coke and sugary substance...

I tried putting this advice into practice so many times.
First thing in the morning after devotion or before stepping out for work, I make sure I drink at least 2 glass cup of water..

But one thing I have come to notice is that, after drinking enough water before stepping out, the rate at which I use the gent (urinate) is quiet higher than when I don't even drink water in the morning.. Within 1hr, I would have make use of the gent like 3-4 times, till like 12pm before I return back to norm..

So I began to wonder, is something wrong with my system or do I need to go for any check up or that's how it suppose to be

I tried making some findings on google, but I could not lay my hands on something convincing enough.

So Please doctors in the house, educate me more,
Am I in good shape or I still need a medical check up??

I know se some fellaz go still yab me, it is allow..

Me? Pained? Lol you’re a very funny fellow.

You are obviously the pained one in this convo with all the insults you were hurling at me while making your point. But I no send you.

adonainana:
All the points I raised no response, and you talk say he no dey pain you

Someone set up a legitimate hotel, lounge, filling station business

Armed robbers, kidnappers on there way to kidnap someone went there to buy fuel on thier way and you are here daring opening your mouth that the filling station should close down abi

Nigerians and low IQ smh

Blah, blah, blah , blah

Try saying something new and sensible or just shush it. Mumu Yahoo boy.

adonainana:
You be serious mumu

“ any business around yahoo boys as a target audience “

The Italian mafias That lodge in London hotels and clubs how many of them have you seen and reported

The criminals and associates and subsidy thieves that host parties in Eko hotel every weekend, how many of them do you know

Nigerians and sentiments as usual, if the phrase that only big ballers come to nightclubs cannot get into your head

And that most of these big ballers are in the category above then it’s just sentiments you are relying on to make you sound intelligent

Capitalism doesn’t work that way knob head,

A night club is a legitimate business just like any other business, and whether you are happy about it or not those who go there the more are yahoo boys and big boy spenders

adonainana:
You have nothing to reply with and all my replies went unanswered, you probably just broke and hungry and probably envious of these people.

Too bad this is the case for you

But never open your mouth again in your life and say someone shouldn’t open a legitimate business for the reasons said above

I am not broke!

I am not hungry!!

And I can never ever envy people who make their money from ripping other people off their sweat and blood. I believe in Karma. !!!

I never spoke against opening a legitimate business.

I questioned the idea of building any business around “Yahoo boys” as a target audience.

But it is obvious you have very shitty values so you can’t even appreciate where I am coming from.

adonainana:
High end ballers are yahoo boys, drug dealers, criminal syndicates

Even dangote can’t spend 1 million naira on one bottle water without questioning why he is buying such at a ridiculous price

Only these set of people can without a care in the world

Pls wake up from your sleep

Lol. Please, go and work on your communication skills and stop giving criminal advise on Nairaland.

adonainana:
The post has been defended, you set up your business just like any other business to attest high end ballers who spend thier money regardless of the source ( which is not important ) to any legitimate business unless you are only bringing sentiments into capitalism

Italian Mafias spend millions in London hotels and clubs how many of them have you seen and reported to efcc

“Yahoo boys” has now changed to “high-end ballers. Good. You’re gradually coming round to a more defendable business proposition.

adonainana:
So yahoo boys are the only one with money, or they are the only one that have money to spend to enjoy a night out, or they are the only one people build nightclubs for

You be serious mumu

Stop puttin words in my mouth. And just Keep quiet If you can’t reasonably defend your initial post. Yahoo boy, like you.

Stop comparing oranges and apples, please.

Unlike all the businesses you mentioned ,your entire proposed business model was built on targeting Yahoo boys.

adonainana:
So do you tell the same thing to filling stations politicians buy fuel from, owanmbe parties Tinubu and his drug Cartels attend every weekend, do you tell this to the oil and gas cabals that book and lodge in big rooms in Eko hotel every night

I have mentioned at least 3 crime Cartels above here for you, whenever they branch to spend thier money in all the businesses I mentioned above.

How come you don’t go and ask the owners of Eko hotel, forte oil and all other legitimate business owners this question you are asking me

EFCC ko NYSC ni

So Yahoo boys are now a known demographic that businesses target their marketing to.

Now, what’s the difference between the Yahoo boys and you?

Let’s hope EFCC doesn’t come and shut down the organization based on “guilty by association “

adonainana:
Nightclub business, I own and run a nightclub business and a hotel,

The business involves hosting parties at the night club with a prefereable budget, for instance the plan may be to bring a mid class artiste to the club , in return tables reservations are made, and expensive drinks are sold

Mark up to about 100 percent

The only way to make crazy money in Nigeria today is to market your product to yahoo boys who dont really know the value of money they didnt work for

The money you will make back in return is like blood money

You dont even need up to half of the 2million you mentioned above

bunto:
See the comments above...SMH!!!

These people are dying for Nigerians to be safe, see how you guys are treating them?
Such a pity!
It is difficult to be a good and honest leader in Nigeria. The people do deserve the leaders they get.

God bless our gallant soldiers!

It is really heart breaking to see zero trust in the NA. And it is not as if they have concrete proof that the army is lying , they just believe it. And these guys are out there putting their lives on the line daily to protect them… They won’t even give them the benefit of doubt.

May God strengthen and protect our gallant Nigerian soldiers. We will win this war!

Dollyak:
She definitely needs strong support group around her as all signs points to a woman hurting inside. It's never easy when you are seemingly getting attacks from multiple fronts.

Seriously ooo, when even a Bobrisky can be dragging you on Social Media and you have no valid response.