₦airaland Forum

chatinent:
Hotel anything, boss.

Ok

I got you!

Farotimi72:
village people

More like, stupid people. Lighting fireworks in a closed environment.

Mexico and dangerous situations are like 5&6. I hope no lives were lost.

Meanwhile, the person recording was laughing… Evil Mexican Woman.

Hotel anything? Even Chief Financial Officer or Head of Audit at Transcorp Hilton Hotel.

chatinent:
Sequel to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6753146/careers-men-turn-off-lady


What are those careers of ladies that can turn you off as a man?


3. Hotel anything. ( Whatever you are working in a hotel as).

Does Buhari understand what digital transactions are?

What is this one saying. Even Miyetti Allah is beginning to negotiate with southern state governors on possible ways forward.

The Laws in Lagos for example are very clear on punishments for underaged herders, grazing in unauthorized places and the punishments that are due for same. Cows will be ceased, herders will be charged to court, fines will be paid.

So what is El-Rufai saying?

Insecurity:
Southern Governors Passed Anti-Open Grazing Laws They Know Cannot Be Implemented—Governor El-Rufai



http://saharareporters.com/2021/09/21/southern-governors-passed-anti-open-grazing-laws-they-know-cannot-be-implemented%E2%80%94governor

Sysdatek:
GLO
ZENith bank
Dangote etc

dont act like you just woke up in Nigeria this morning
shady money

My point remains, don’t justify ill gotten wealth. Or make is seem like Yahoo Yahoo is ok because other rich folks made money in a shady way.

Terrier99:
What Karma came upon white slave traders?
The Church of England (Anglican Communion) was involved in the slave trade, what karma came upon them?
If you want to do good, decide to abs stick to it. Not that you're afraid of one mythical karma.

How do you know nothing came upon them?
Just maybe not in the way you think.

mytime24:
so who are d "Minorities"mostly in America

Google it. My point is the Rumor didn’t say black people.

Terrier99:
They will tell you yahoo is bad but tell them the Church of England was involved in the slave trade. Tell them Buhari in his youth was involved in a coup and he became Head of state in 1986 by virtue of a coup.
Even Dangote, his wealth is gotten by monopolistic control. Go ask what he did to Ibeto cement.

It is now left for you to decide for yourself that you want clean wealth, not the one that you can't sleep well at night because you're a criminal and the foundation of your wealth is illegal.

Two wrongs don’t make a right. Yahoo boys are deceiving and fleecing people of their wealth, for some of the victims it has led to the destruction of their lives, their families and even death.

Everyone will reap whatever they sow. It is the law of life. Karma.

JimmyDarmody:
It has been said over and over again that the millionaires who were born poor had to at one point of their lives do something illegal to set a foundation.

It has been said over and over again, by who?
Please don’t come and justify Ill-gotten wealth with some nameless quotable quote.

Money is a spirit, the way you get it is the way it will go. Scamming people of their hard earned money may start with fun , but will certainly end in sorrow.

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Handsum64:
I heard Tommy Hilfinger is racist

You heard wrong. It was based on a rumor that was eventually proven to be false.

mytime24:
I thought d owner of Tommy Hilfigers is a racist, he said his brands are not made for blacks,

Na wetin i here oooo

It was a Rumour which claimed he said if He knew “minorities” (not blacks) would love His clothes, He wouldn’t have made them so nice.

They claimed He said it on Oprah, meanwhile He had never been on Oprah as of that time.

It was just a stupid lie that went viral

The FIRS should also be made to pay back the illegal collections it was taking before the court judgement against them.

Islie:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/wike-kicks-as-fg-excludes-rivers-from-states-to-benefit-from-planned-new-loans/


Lalasticlala

Lol, Cheapskates!

film3four:
Guys collect the food they bought for some girls after they reneged on their promise to go home with them in Warri, Delta State.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUDgcTBA60c/?utm_medium=copy_link

They said you shoud not derail the thread with stuff like this that shift the blame to Women. The focus of the post is on Men and how they can do better. But no, una no go hear word.

Generalnomercy:
@op, you've spoken well, However, women, ladies, girls should also respect themselves and be responsible for once.

Insecurity is insecurity everywhere in the world irrespective of male or female involvement.

It's not about the men but about common sense and fallen moral standards.


You will always find girls at the wrong place, in the wrong companies.

You will always finds girls doing what they're not supposed to be doing.

Like the girl's case in Benin, NOTHING, I MEAN NOTHING SHOULD HAVE TAKEN HER TO THAT SHRINE/CHURCH AT THAT UNGODLY HOUR, THE TRUTH BE TOLD.


MY SISTERS, NO MAN WILL EVER RAPE A GIRL IN AN OPEN PLACE, THE GIRL MAY HAVE GONE TO WHERE SHE SHOULD HAVE AVOIDED BEFORE RAPE CAN OCCUR.


GIRLS USE YOUR COMMON SENSE TO PREVENT RAPE.

GOD SAVE ALL !!!

kuonbe:
A year and half

My Son was one year and a month, by that time my Wife had reduced to only breastfeeding Him in the middle of the night as a way of quickly getting Him back to sleep.

Then She travelled for just one day.

When He woke up, I gave Him regular baby milk (formular)

She came back next day and that was the end of breast milk. In fact, few days after He stopped waking up to eat in the middle of the night.

My take: reduce gradually ( like don’t breast feed during the day 9-5), then stop abruptly.

All the best.

armadeo:
Guy, he has no rights in this case. Non at all. No court would even answer you because legally you have no rights with the girl.

They can even have the child and give the child their surname. Nothing you fit do. Only to shout up and down and feed some corner lawyer.

You obviously don’t know the Civil and Criminal Laws that relate to this case. You speak as a Layman.

There is no law against sex between two consenting adults. Anything else is moralizing.

Realdeals:
You keep repeating the same line! How will you prove there was a pregnancy and that any abortion occurs? Will you just instigate the case and leave it for the state to pursue?

Don't think you the only wise guy around, the case can easily be turned against you. You're not legally engaged with the said lady and you're shouting pregnancy and abortion.

generalwo:
.....so why the guy brain no tell am say even if e Wan lash make e use condom.... Now he said he will go to school next year.... What happens to the girl? Have you thought about that? To blame the woman dey easy until you're in her shoes

NIts normal for young people to do foolish things , especially when hormones are raging.

I am looking at it from the perspective of what has happened, what’s the best way to handle it going forward? The woman is so angry She doesn’t realize it’s Her grand child she wants to terminate and it could further traumatize Her daughter.

In the olden days, before western civilization and where every man had land he was farming or animals He was rearing, This wouldn’t have been a big deal.
The two families would meet, the family of the man will perform rites and pay compensations , and they will be married.

I understand Her reasoning too, but if She try am with person like me and actually aborts my child , then I will deal with Her so badly, within the Law, that She will regret and Her brain will reset.

generalwo:
.... Bros.. Did u hear me say abortion is good? I am only saying that I understand the woman's reason for vying to abort the pregnancy...... Nobody wants her child to suffer.....

Who says He has no say? He is an Adult. He is the Father of the Child and Abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence--up to 14 years imprisonment

malcom1X:
You don marry her, if not
You have no say.

What has happened has happened. The 19 year old boy is more responsible than many of you justifying abortion just because He is still struggling. He is a realer Man than you guys. And His parents are wise, to not throwaway the gift of grandchild just because it came through the exuberance of their child. Many people are out there looking for children for years with no luck. A lot of you guys really need to grow up.

Philadelphia:
Bold 1:
Your parents are irresponsible to rejoice with you for impregnating a girl out of wedlock. They’re leeches.

Bold 2:
Her mom is right and you confirmed it in bold 3.

Bold 3:
Truthfully, you’re a tout and a street dog.

Bold 4:
You are a leech and that’s why you got the girl pregnant; just to benefit from her parents.

Bold 5:
How can your parents possibly assist you to take care of the child when you tear ticket for a living?
Not possible. Stop looking for cheap sympathy.

Bold 6:
You’re unemployed and you’re an agbero. Face it.

Bold 7:
Your parents should use the money they want to use to assist you in taking car of the child to train you to school. Also, tear more tickets so you can pay your school fees.
When you get a degree and a job, then you can think of impregnating a woman after marrying her.

generalwo:
..... Oga no be only yahoo Boys dey drive Benz..... Go and work hard.... If you are the son of a rich man, the woman will gladly allow her child to marry you but as it is..... You are living with your parents and u want to father a child...... Ogbeni...... Let's assume you're the girl's father..... You live in a one room apartment with your 19 years old daughter and you guys can barely feed 3 times a day.... And she got pregnant for a guy who is also 19 and lives wit his parents and cuts ticket and also do laborer job..... , will u clap for such a child?

None of what you have said changes the fact that Abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence--up to 14 years imprisonment--unless it is performed to save the life of the pregnant woman.

pixey:
Your case be like one Nollywood film like that.Young man! you have to prove to them you can take care of the child by consulting the elders of the community.At least you are not denying it.Do you love her and does she loves you?If that is the case.Nairaland elders has spoken.

Even if He can absolutely not take care of the child. Abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence--up to 14 years imprisonment--unless it is performed to save the life of the pregnant woman.

Abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence--up to 14 years imprisonment--unless it is performed to save the life of the pregnant woman.

Inform of Her of this. Then report to the nearest police station. Try not to take the Laws into your hands as things could easily get out of hand. Also remember She is the mother of the mother of your child, as much as is in your power be at peace with all men.

I wish you all the best.

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Please STOP! Just STOP!!! It’s not funny.

Crowwejihadist:
Buhari and his goons at work.

Maybe Ngozi exposed them in the world assembly so they are trying to silence her.

StrongInBed:
I'm proud.

Yes, just like the insane Taliban who know nothing else but violence. Madness.

See this one wey never see real life combat, talking about "soon we will get you." Go to Afghanistan where you belong . Mtcheeeeew.

StrongInBed:
Are we not killing non Igbos from Rivers to Asaba. Soon we will get you.. at least Ojukwu is responsible for many deaths of your people..monkey.

Talibanist spotted!

StrongInBed:
When we start to kill those from outside south East and South south soon I hope they will not cry... Time will come for that... another war loading.