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Small Pikin things; She is dragging the Father of Her child while calling out to a prospective future husband to come and take care of another Man's son. SMH.

Belafonte:
Dear Future Husband,

Lyta cannot afford N13k for balloons for his child's 1st birthday - Lyta's babymama calls him out

So, I was scrolling through social media and came across a scandal involving someone called Lyta and the mother of his son who's apparently about to turn one.

The whole drama was just run-of-the-mill and nothing extraordinary until I saw this picture below by the aggrieved 'baby mama'.

At first, I thought she was entitled to have a post like this, but on second thoughts, maybe I'm just looking at it wrong and she's just stating the obvious.

What do you think?

Lyta’s Babymama, Kemi Calls Him Out For Being A Deadbeat

Kemi Ayorinde Wrote:

"Dear future husband,
• • •
Aari's dad can't afford 13k (Naira) for balloons for his child's upcoming 1st birthday so imma need you to be able to afford my baby's monthly cost, If not you're not for me. "

It's like the guy in the red shirt and white hat is helping you ask El-Rufai the question. Lol

ImmaculateJOE:
Ok

Nairalanders will never dissappoint!

jlo247:
Who is her father?

"I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs "

That bolded part is an indicator of your problem. What is more important is not whether She agrees with your Mum, but whether She agrees with you and you with Her. If you agree with your Mum focus on your reasons for agreeing with your Mum and leave mentioning your Mum out of it, as it indicates you don't have a mind of your own. Be a gentleman and try to help Her see reason with you, also ask Her opinion on how you guys can go about it in a win-win way. I wish you all the best.

Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks

Lawan is a very good example of a "Rubber Stamp" Legislative, no wonder this administration was bent on still putting Him there, even after four years of being played by Saraki. He does not appear to have any independence of thought from the executive and He doesn't seem to have the tact to hide it.

EagleNest:
This Lawan doesn't seem to understand the work of the legislative assembly. He's too quick to align with the executive as if he was appointed by the executive. Reason why they are called "rubber stamp" assembly.

So i take it that you will empower neither your Wife nor your daughter(s)?... Just so you can feel Man enough.

PUSSYHOE:
Anything that comes out of a woman's mouth is deception and manipulation.

If you marry the opposite the boss lady, my guy Na hell 2.0. you will never know peace in your life, respect is automatically gone. No cooking no our decision but her decisions.

A woman with any form of power is worse than the devil.

Have you ever been driven by a driverless car? On what basis are you making the comparison? Is this based on a real or an ideal driverless car, yet to be created?

meobizy:
I'll still feel safe with autopilot on than using the best human driver.

OK. Point taken.

Grandmeister:
Yes it didn’t start today. And I never said isreal was without blemish. My MAJOR vexation is people acting like it was justified for hamas to FIRST start launching rockets at isreal but wrong for isreal to throw theirs back? It’s still negotiable when two parties are cursing and threatening and calling each other out on political and economic disagreements. BUT when the other side starts launching rockets the handshake don pass elbow level. Launching rockets is a declaration of war, no two ways about it.

This War did not start today. They are both Sons of Abraham. You are trying to analyse it purely from the perspective of recent hostilities, which is limiting. P.S. No where did i justify Hamas, please, just saying let us not be one-sided in our judgement of the matter , purely based on our biases.

Grandmeister:
Whatever wrong you perceive isreal did is not enough justification to start launching hundreds of missiles into their streets! Is this logic lost on you terrorist apologists? So to your unbiased and logical mind the best way to express your grievances is to start launching rockets into the homes were your supposed aggressor’s women and children sleep? You must be fvcking kidding me.

Where did i support hamas?

Akwamkpuruamu:
And you saw all good Hamas did by sending hundreds of rockets against Israel

hahaha, assumption is the lowest form of knowledge- I. A.M. N.O.T. A. M.U.S.L.I.M !!! Try something else.

aryzgreat:
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At least I'm learned enough to read and know the history unlike you lots that evoke islamic sentiment to support terrorists

If I don't stay off it, what will you do? Send missiles to me like your terrorist Hamas brothers?

Sorry dear. You are not wrong to expect a compliment from your husband. I wish i could speak with Him.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

Israel "can never go wrong", yet they were enslaved by Egypt until the 13th Century, then wandered in the desert for 40 years, were crushed by the Assyrians between 722-720 BC, Judah was conquered by Babylonia in 586 BC and the first temple destroyed. Captured by Rome's General Pompey in 63BC. Conquered by Alexander the great in 332 BC Destruction of the Second Temple in 70AD , Invaded by Persia in 614 AD and various other crises up till the Holocaust in 1941-1945 AD... till they became a state in 1948, they have not know peace. Isreal can never go wrong, indeed.

Bigdik70inch2:
Do not ever dare Israel!!!!
They can never go wrong......

Modified:why r y'all black/nigeria muslim quoting me bayii??

An average Arabian is a racist and see y'all has infidels...........infact Arabian wud rather cherish dogs over yall.....

If u doubt me ask yo fellow black Muslims leaving in Middle East and North Africa......

Shouldn't that serve as an eye opener??
Or must y'all die serving and defending yo Arabian masters??

Well........ may evil veil/blindfold covering yo eyes fall off soonest sha......

FINALLY..... BOTH RUSSIA AND USA R STRONG ALLIES TO ISRAEL JUST INCASE LEBANON AND IRAN WANT TO BE UNFORTUNATE.....

E fimile joor

Very insightful. Thanks for sharing.

chaloskyx:
NOW LET BE GIVE YOU A BIT OF HISTORY LESSON DO YOU KNOW?

THERES AN ACIENT MACEDONIAN PHRASE THATS BECOME A COMMON PRINCIPLE IN POLITICS AND POWER "DIVIDE ET IMPERA" KNOWN TO US ALL AS" DIVIDE AND RULE" IT IS THE STRATEGY IN WHICH RULERS PROMOTE POLITICAL DIVISION WITHIN THE PEOPLE OF CONQURED NATIONS SO THEY'LL BEGIN FIGHTING EACHOTHER INSTEAD OF IMPERIAL RULE.


ISREALI AND LEBANON CRISIS CAME ABOUT WHEN THE BRITISH DECIDED TO BRING BOTH COUNTRIES TO SHARE ONE LAND PAKISTAN IN 1947 AND ISREAL IN 1948 FOLLOWING THE RETREAT OF THE BRITISH EMPIRE. PRIOR TO THAT BRITISH WAS IN CONTROL OF THE AREA AFTER THE FALL OF THE OTTOMAN EMPIRE IN WW1 WHICH WAS INHABITED BY A JEWISH MINORITY AND ARAB MAJORITY.

IN NIGERIA NORTH AND SOUTHERN PROTECTORATE WAS ALSO ALMALGAMATED IN 1914. UNIFICATION WAS DONE FOR ECONOMIC REASONS AS THE NORTH HAD A BUDGET DEFICIT AND THE COLONIAL ADMINISTRATIO SOUGHT TO USE THE BUDGET SURPLUS OF THE SOUTH TO OFFSET THIS DEFICIT.

IN INDIA THE INDIA VS PAKISTAN CONFLICT LIED IN THEIR COLONIAL PAST WHERE FROM THE 17TH TO THE 20TH CENTURY BRITIAN RULED MOST OF THE INDIA SUB CONTINENT BEFORE THE NATIONALIST MOVEMENT IN INDIA TOPPLED THE BRITISH RULE. HOWEVER THE INDIAN NATION JUST LIKE NIGERIA & ISREAL WAS HOME TO A VAST ARRAY OF RELIGIOUS AND ETHNIC GROUPS AND TO FURTHER DISCOURAGE A UNIFIED INDIA FOR INDEPENDENCE THE BRITISH REINFORCED DIVISIONS AMONG RELIGIOUS LINES SIMILAR TO WHAT YOU HAVE IN NIGERIA AND ISREAL. BY 1947 WHEN THE BRITISH WERE READY TO GRANT INDIA INDEPENDENCE, THE SEEDS OD DISCONTENT HAD BEEN SOWN. THE HANDOVER OF POWER, AND THE RESULTING PARTITION OF INDIA PAKISTAN CREATED A CONFLICT THAT WOULD SEE BOTH NATIONS BATTEL IN AN UNENDING CONFLICT JUST LIKE NIGERIA BETWEEN THE NORTH AND SOUTH AND ISREALI AND PALESTINE.

IN A NUTSHELL TH EPROBLEMS AND DIVISIONS AMONG THESE COUNTRIES INDIA VS PAKISTAN ISREAL VS LEBANON AND IN NIGERIA NORTH VS SOUTH IS ALL A BRITISH COLONIAL CONSTRUCT AIMED AT ENSURING AN UNENDING CONFLICT WITHIN BOTH NATIONS ORS STATE NOT ALLOWING THE COUNTRIES IN QUESTION TO UNITE AND REALISE ITS FULL POTENTIAL.

Even your great, great, great, great , grand father does not know the origin of this fight. It may be better to stay out of it rather than take a one-sided view.

aryzgreat:
See the kind of propaganda and Taqiya that Al Jazeera churn out.

Who doesn't know this little boy was placed on this debris and snapped for propaganda.


They won't report who started the provocation.

They won't report that Hamas was the first to fire missiles into Israel

They won't report that over 2500 missiles have been fired into Israel recklessly without warning to evacuate like Israel does.

They only report about women and kids that Hamas used as shield, meanwhile Israel gives one hour warning to evacuate any building used by Hamas before bombing it.

Shame on Al Jazeera and all Al taqiya Muslims

You're so blinded by your support for isreal, you can't see anything wrong with what Isreal is doing.

Akwamkpuruamu:
Fire on! Next time, Hamas will think twice before attacking Israel again. No be who first throw punch de beat him opponent. No be who first call police de win case

This keke won't go far on your average Naija road without being stopped by Road Safety, VIO, Police ,LASTMA, Task force and/or area boys asking for settlement.

Kingstel:
See Photo Of Tricycle 'keke Napep' Carrying A Big Water Tank

Everything is possible in Nigeria.

Never give up.

You have been brainwashed by Israeli propaganda.

Isaac & Ishmael were both Sons of Abraham.

In Christ there is no Jew or Gentile.

Not all Israelites practice Judaism.

Judaists don't believe in your Jesus.

Righteousness2:
Only one without u nderstanding will say Israel should not defend itself and its People.

1 Rocket in a Country will crumble and destroy the Nation ! Talkless of over 2000 Rockets Fired into a small Nation in the midst of Enemies .
If not the Strong Covenant GOD Almighty has with them , their Enemies should have Crippled and wiped them off.

Lamentation upon Lamentation ,
Lies upon Lies cannot Change What is written!

Israel is a Nation of Peace!
Israel Accomodates all irrespective of Belief or religion..
Even the Muslims and Christians in Palestine are more comfortable living in Israel than in their own country. That alone should give u Understanding..

There is No Gang up, Lies, False hood or Misinformation that can change what is written.

I am not one who goes with Lies, rhetorics and Falsehood!

Listen!
Israel is Blessed by the Most High GOD!
You Bless them, you be Blessed!
You Curse them , you are Cursed!
There is Nothing you , me, Media or any Nation can do about it!

I Don't care whether you say they hate me or not!
I Stand Proudly and Unapologetically with the Nation of Israel

#RIP to Gen. Joshua Dogonyaro, arguably the last truly great general that ever represented the Nigerian Army, locally and globally.

Kriss216:
God rest your soul, General Joshua Nimyel Dogonyaro.

Your selfless service to save humanity from evil in 1985 will forever remain evergreen in our memories.

It's quite unfortunate some imbecilic moróns brought back same evil in 2015.

We're still battling same evil till now. The reason we were where we were today.

Assumption , they say, is the lowest form of knowledge... Keep on displaying your ignorance by assuming I'm a Muslim.

OOzz:
I don't discuss with a mumuslim

Based on what? Your bias

OOzz:
Good!!

Palestinians should pack and go to Saudi Arabia. Israel should take over that place fully.

"He said I was embarassing Him".. Laugh Won Kill Me Die

Omihanifa:
https://punchng.com/lagos-businesswoman-shares-apartment-with-intruder-for-one-year/?amp

That is the question. And "What will your legacy be?" Is the other side of the coin.

iamDrRhymes:
Damn!

Who is going to cry for you when you die?

My feeling exactly!

diplomat058:
I am not comfortable with the black mourning outfits. If the guy is gone into the heavens, why mourn? I suppose that's a relief that calls for church celebration. Let's practice what we preach. May the Lord comfort his loved ones to bear this untimely departure.

Who writes these headlines Shouldn't it be "Song theft allegation, Victor AD denies that Davido stole Hit single 'Jowo' from Him" ?

OdogwuBlog:
Nigerian Man Accuses Davido Of Stealing Hit Single ‘jowo’ From Singer Victor AD

A young Nigerian man has taken to social media to allege that superstar singer, Davido stole his hit track, “Jowo” from from singer, Victor AD.

Speaking further, the Twitter user identified as, @thuglife_back, claimed that Victor AD accosted Davido following the son theft but he allegedly blocked him on all his social media platforms[color=#000000].[/color]

The young man tweeted,



The hit track “Jowo” is off Davido’s 17-songs project, ‘A Better Time‘ album which serves as his third studio work and a follow up for his 2019 released album “A Good Time”.

The singer who recently celebrated his tenth years in the music industry, in December 2020 released the official music video of the hit song, “Jowo”.

Jowo music video featured Big Brother Naija ‘Lockdown’ housemate, Nengi and veteran Nollywood actor, Richard Mofe Damijo (RMD) and lots more.

See his tweet below

Source: https://twitter.com/ThugLife_Back


Victor AD quells rumours on alleged song theft by Davido

Putting an end to the rumour, Victor AD denied the claims via his Twitter handle. The singer wrote:


https://mobile.twitter.com/victor_adere/status/1392093671974113280

So they should all run away from their ancestral homes and leave the land for terrorists?

Phenomenal16:
Odimma
Shebi u are living in ur well guarded apartment
Do u know the pains of Nigerians ,,living in remote villages
Mitcheew

What did you think as much, that He was misquoted or that He will make a u-turn and claim He didn't mean that. Sunday Igboho is becoming too full of Himself. If he doesn't calm down He will learn that the same people who shouted "Hossanah" can also shout "Crucify Him"

Akinsete19:
I thought as much

Just like I said yesterday, Igboho will still come back to apologize with some explanation. That Man is beginning to sound like an empty drum, who just likes the sound of His voice.

Maxymilliano:
https://www.reubenabati.com.ng/index.php/component/k2/item/29396-people-misquoted-me-i-didn-t-mean-to-mock-adeboye-over-son-s-death-sunday-igboho/post

More like, this is getting un-serious. I hope He will not come an apologize a few days later, like He did after spewing ignorant and arrogant nonsense against the One. Igboho's ego will be His undoing.

Ttalk:
This is getting serious

The level of distrust in the country is so high that one cannot even take this news with confidence. The NA has a lot to do in convincing us that this decision is based on National security priorities. What about forests at the Nigerian borders as well as the north east- no operation whirlwind there?

lalasticlala:
Troops commence 7-day special operation to clear forests, communities in Benue, Nasarawa, Taraba



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/05/troops-commence-7-day-special-operation-to-clear-forests-communities-in-benue-nasarawa-taraba/

Not a reason.

Freestainworld:
Maybe his father gave birth to him at old age.