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Abi oooo, He is reading yesterdays news as prophecy. If you ask Him now He will say it's another type of Chaos and confusion. Mtcheeew.

Maxymilliano:
Can someone tell this man there is chaos in Nigeria already ?

And then after 9 -10 years you can make back the 5m you spent. Profit nko??

LagBlogger:
Build simple block of 3 room self contain.

Collect rent 150k each per year.

Your house is still there, appreciating in value while next year another 450k is coming.

Hellooo, In your haste to criticise, don't forget to cross check your facts !!! Ibori became Governor and looted the states resources under PDP from May 1999 to May 2007. APC was not formed until February 2013.... Time immemorial, my foot. [quote author=SILVERLINES post=9 PD9813145]

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Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
Why is it your Wife telling you about your Mum? don't you have a mind of your own?
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Only fake folks feel the need to start faking phony phone calls.

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

His mind set is so sick, He doesnt realize he is only bound to spread sickness into His relationships. Only fake folks feel the need to start faking phony phone calls.

newdawn2017:
my dear, ur mindset is sickening. Manipulative is abusive emotionally, its not love. Its women that ve done no self work, that re not self aware that u will pull that ur stupid stunt. Ur fragile ego will fizzle out when u date a woman who is self aware, knows her worth & has placed value on herself. An educated empath. Will not settle for Manipulation disguised as love. She will not ve with a man that stairs up her insecurities pls.

What do you want?

Is what you want worth wanting with what it comes?

Whatever you do, don't try to change the behavior of another adult human being based on your preference.

That question, "Are you jealous" feels pregnant with meaning. But try not to get lost in assuming what She may mean by it. Rather, try answerig the question honestly, to yourself first. "Are you jealous?" Whatever the answer is let that be your answer, then hear what She has to say. Based on this, you should have an idea what you ought to do.

But in plain english, if you don't like a woman who easily gives out Her number to random guys, then you should probably delete Her number from your phone and affection for Her in your plans.

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

Whether it's against a black, white , brown, yellow or red person. Racism is racism, damn it!!

BRATISLAVA:
Hopefully all those crying racism over a woman who isn't even truly black will feel happy. You guys love bandwagons and the feeling of being "woke" more than you understand what you really want.

Only on this forum you hear that all white people are "bloody racists" and scheming against blacks day and night, nevermind that sounds very racist like what they try to condemn.

The perpetual Nigerian victimhood in a land where there are more whites than blacks, but they enjoy the privilege of the opposite when they are in Nigeria. The irony. Never once does it cross their minds that people just don't like people and it isn't always about their color.


Don't worry, all the whites will vacate their seats so that you can feel superior. It won't be racism. Your race will deserve it, just like theirs felt they do. The unending cycle.

What really do angry blacks want from whites? Heal, so that you don't filter everything through your wounds.

If you don't have salient points, don't quote with black superiority BS or the usual balderdash.

Good point. But it does not mean He can just "forget about His kids" randomly like that. It's not a necessarily rational connection. It is what it is. Your seed.

Keshinr0:
It's like you didn't read the part that says he keeps getting arrested anytime he goes visiting the kids.
Do you know the implication of that.
He could be deported

That's ok. Speak for yourself. And don't expect everyone to live up or down to your own expectations.

79733139:
Hopefully I will immigrate there and test my social skills. I am not trying make friends with everyone or date every lady, I only need very few people to respond to me and I can easily do it if I put the effort. One thing I wouldn't do is complain on a faceless forum seeking for pity.

This labelling of backward mentality as "black" mentality is one of the things keeping the "black race" backward.

MedicH:
Black mentality.

What is first family? A Man shall leave His Father and Mother and Cleave unto His Wife. That is His first family. He would never have had His parents and siblings to call "first family" if His Father and Mother, along with all the Grand fathers and mothers, did not first leave their "first family".

kendrick9:
He has a point..
Why the backlash?
Though the Clifford oji example was a bit extreme.
Never turn your back on your first family,
Just because you got married to a woman who can decide one day to dump your azz..

Have you been there to show your social skills ? It's beyond their social skills. Let's start with the fact that they have relocated from a highly communal society to a highly individualistic one.

79733139:
Most of them didn't develop their social skills. They basically don't know how to make friends and they don't know how to approach (and take rejections) the opposite sex.

In Nigeria, their social life was structured and for guys, money might have played a big issue in dating. However, in western countries, you need to be proactive about your social life and having money doesn't give you a big edge when it comes to dating.

We also have Nigerian females who believe women shouldn't try and approach a guy to spark his interest.

Do you have kids? Because the way you say He should "forget about his kids, for now" I doubt it very much. And you are assuming that He or they will always be alive to relate in the not so near future ?? Not so, bro.

Keshinr0:
Am against him coming back
You guys should give him support, help him get his life back.
Tell him to forget about his kids, for now, when they are old enough they will be with him him

"we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels..." Can we start with that? As in what's up with that?? I smell a rat.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

savageyoungboy:
Lol I was being sarcastic
He did a terrible job

I knew you were being sarcastic. It's just that I am still struggling to see the bridge. Lol

Don't mind that 'spoil-sport', 'kill-joy', 'party-pooper', 'wet blanket' and 'rain-on-peoples-parade' kind of guy.

Kokaine:
don't be a kill joy. learn to clap and stop all this grammar you're speaking. Nigerians are not the worst people on earth. we are trying. a rose growing from the concrete is worth the applause. please. drink cold water, pay your landlord, tale your bp medicines, use a treadmill daily and sleep early. you will be fine.

Oh please! You sound bitter. Like you prefer news that supports your all round negative perception of the country and its people. Talking about "those IVY League schools" blah blah blah... You obviously don't even know what 'IVY league schools' are, even though you think you do. If you doubt me -just 'google' it. Mtcheew.

KingAzubuike:
Just watch how because of this lonewolf incidence, Nigerians will come out to say Nigerians are the most intelligent in the world.. We too like hyping ourselves. I can't forget an argument I had with someone claiming Nigeria has the best army in the world.. I was like wtf!. Where do these clowns get their misinformation from.

I remember some years back, a school in the north (name withheld) invited the university of cape Town for a competition. Capetown sent anyhow students just to at least fulfil all righteousness and not disappoint. They got defeated. Next thing, the northern students started bragging on social media that they are a far better school than cape Town lol.

Back to the topic, competitions like these, you don't expect premium attendance. Those Ivy league schools don't get time for such and even if they do, they just send some of their less serious students to attend. Nigerians on the other hands will send the best of the best to compete and at the end of the day start beating their chest over mediocrity.

Even you, can you swear with your life that what they took is NOT covid vaccine... Make dem go pick am, joor. He is not different from anyone spreading dangerous falsehood- without any shred of evidence.

nairalandankrah:
Even you can you swear with your life that what they took is covid vaccine?.. Make dem go pick am nah,by the way no be today DSS begin pick people

Which kind Hallelujah be this one, this early Sunday morning? Do you go to one of those "curse your enemies" to "fall and die" Churches?

funkybroyouknow:
Hallelujah!

You're still celebrating your ignorance. Lol

IPOBTERRORISTS:
Akwa ibom is not Yoruba states? Straight up! I thought Afonja are the majority tribes in Akwa ibom

Aaah. Please tell me you are in primary 3 or below, please. Or do you think Oyo state is spelt with a "U" ? Either way, it's messed up.

IPOBTERRORISTS:
I thought Uyo is one of them, South West

WHAT ,exactly, isn't that bad? I am still looking for the bridge He says He constructed. I can't see it.

savageyoungboy:
Chokes on my drink LOL
It isn't that bad sha ooo
Na just the sign board na vex me pass

One of the most reasonable comments I've read on Nairaland today. Well said.

Charmingrascal:
Nothing but the truth.



When I was a little boy I used to go Fulani settlements with my Dad sometimes we boarded canoes to take us across big rivers just to get to them.
My Dad is an health worker and the Fulanis preferred his services so they were always calling him when there were sick people. (He did house service, my papa like money. Lol) and the Fulanis had money too, legitimate money made from selling their cows, grains and birds/chickens. Those days Fulani were nice people, I would always get maishan (very sweet butter/oil like stuff) and many other things, they were so nice and lovely people. As secluded as their settlements were we never got scared of going there, they stayed inside thick forest but we still felt safe with them
As a young boy I always said I would marry a Fulani lady because they were so beautiful, friendly and nice people.


I am talking about 14 to 15 years ago.

What went wrong? F*ck!


Modified: I think those killer Fulanis that started terrorising Nigerians are not Nigerian and Buhari's failure to decisively deal with them led to the escalation of their killings and that also encouraged some Nigerian Fulanis to join them.
Fulani groups that are suppose to condemn the killers were also being biased in their judgement, instead of fishing out the foreigners that are killing people among them, they decided to allow tribal sentiment overshadow their sense of reasoning.

If Miyetti Allah had chastised them instead of covering up for them things would not have escalated to this extent, also I will blame Buhari for not taking decisive action.


It is not too late Miyetti Allah should tell Nigerians among them not to join those foreigners in perpetrating crime, they should urge them to fish out the killers among them and the government should not be biased in handling this Fulani issue, Buhari or whoever is in charge of the affairs of the Nation should be decisive in dealing with these Intruders.

Take time to play, it is the secret of staying young.

miracood:
why posing like a kid in the second picture

Smoking weed is a crime under Nigerian Law, in case you dont know. Yes, many successful people smoke weed, AND unsuccessful people too. Hence my point that your bringing success into the 'argument' was and is still irrelevant.

candygist:
Please tell me a place in Nigeria constitution that says smoking is a crime ? It is an individual thing and it should not concern you. Why don't you tell the companies manufacturing smokes to stop since it as negative affect. Do you know how many world leaders that smokes, including your superster, wole Soyinka ?

By every standard, Burna boy and is mum are successful individuals.

Burna As archived a lot in is field and he is well recognized internationally and not just locally. Google is your friend.

And for his mom, she raised a superstar.

What next do you have to say ? Sadist.

Didn't you read the post? ...about Topography?... and Coal??

Beremx:
The last time I witnessed water scarcity was during my teenage years in early 90s. I can't believe Enugu doesn't have water. What happened to boreholes?

Someone is talking about smoking and its possible negative effects (in a light hearted manner) and you are here talking about who is more successful... By what standards?

Will you also say that Bandits, Kidnappers, Terrorists and Pedophiles should not be called out by people less successful than them.

candygist:
Why bring is mother ? She smokes and so what?
I can tell you that burna boy and his mother are more successful than your entire family.

In case you don't know, south south boys get orientation pass west boys. You westerners are snitches and sabotages

Axemen fighting for freedom Ke? Those ones are fools with no future ambition, living by the axe only to die by the axe!

Burna Boy has a violent streak and it will be His undoing one day soon, just watch and see.

mccloud224:
Axemen say they are fighting for freedom....


Stabbing your fellow man na emancipation abi?

Where dat yesterday yahoo boy Slawomir? Whatz u gat 2 say bout u niggiz? Hmm?

He is paying that money in another country. He is just trying to tell you that things are more expensive outside Nigeria, than many of us think. He is not trying to say He is a bigger boy than the 4.3m guy. Understand?

RainOnMe:
Country for the few elites

Never let them tow your car, does not mean fight with them. You can be gentle but firm !

drmikeadams:
Is he supposed to fight those gun wielding animals ?