₦airaland Forum

taryour: No big deal @ all,the reason a woman is working/owns a business is cause of her family and her future.

If you are still single,you can do whatever you damn well please with your income,but when you get married you are obligated to support your family no matter how little it is. Yes you can buy all your females stuff but before doing that look @ the state of your family and see how you can come in,there should be a lot of savings involved for future purposes.

No matter how rich your husband is,you still will in one way or the other add your own penny,at one point you must have gotten something for your kids/hubby or even yourself with your own money. Or even buy something for the home use,even if its something worth 10 naira. If your hubby is so rich and takes care of 100 percent of all the home front then its your duty as an income earning wife to save @ least 50 percent for future reasons. The time to use it will certainly arise and you will be glad you did.

If you decide not to contribute to the home front and spend your income lavishly,you will be a disgrace to your family cause that's the role of a wife TO SUPPORT her husband. When the trying time comes is when your savings come in and you hubby will be glad. Even if your hubby doesn't ask you directly,its your wifely duty to know when to drop,you don't have to give him the money directly, we women know how to go about it. You don't have to wait for home monthly allowance,you can get things you know your home needs on your own without being told. And please don't go telling it all out to his face that you spent your income buy things you need @ home.

If you buy things with your income and he doesn't say anything leave it.don't think he doesn't notice your support,he does cause he is not blind.

Some women even think they are doing their hubby a favour by supporting with their income,that's ruBBish. If you like no support and spend lavishly no wahala,you will definitely face the consequences when the time comes.

OhjayE: she can do anytin with her income but nothing like contributing to the family expenditure,dat is the duty of the husband and not the wife

jumzzy448: Seems you and my hubby have the same personality.
Thanks Nashville. Learnt a lot from your post.
I'm enjoying this thread more than the girls night out discussion. The girls own is full of ikworikokwo.

paris10: Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone e Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

Truckpusher: ok ma'dam.........but you really need to go get married please ,there is no time

Just lemme know who the unlucky fellow would be lemme pray for him.

safarigirl: my dear majority of Nigerian/West African men are nothing but dictators-in-waiting. They want to run you, run your kids, run the entire house and even run the kitchen. Their true natures may not manifest immediately, but wait until you defy them once or twice and the beast shall be unleashed. The entire world knows West African men LOVE to dominate everything, they get hard-ons from ordering people about. Only 20% could be absolved of this, the rest just want some puppet to do their will without question.