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EducationRe: Meet Thomas Fuller, African Math Genius Whose Intellect Shocked White People by TheMadame(f): 9:40am On Jun 09, 2019
EducationRe: Meet Thomas Fuller, African Math Genius Whose Intellect Shocked White People by TheMadame(f): 9:36am On Jun 09, 2019
Interesting.
@OP, brodagovernor the link you posted is not working. Please post a working link for those interested in following this up.
FamilyRe: Closed by TheMadame(f): 12:55pm On Jun 03, 2019
^^

Sad.
And to think I was almost believing her story. I must be getting old. The unfortunate thing is that fraudsters like this with c0ck and bull stories prevent honest people who genuinely need help from receiving same.
A pity.
FamilyRe: Closed by TheMadame(f): 12:42pm On Jun 03, 2019
Realamy:
It's a Long story. I'm just being hopeful
How did this happen and what about your parents?
How old are you if I may ask?
PoliticsRe: The Dirty Deals Of Colonel Alli In Nigeria Customs. by TheMadame(f): 12:47pm On Nov 13, 2018
Nothing is surprising in this regime except their ability to steal while pretending to be holier than thou.
Hypocritical thieves, from top to the bottom.
CrimeRe: Rape Scandal: "Mustapha Sued Me", By Sugabelly. by TheMadame(f): 8:56pm On Oct 28, 2018
MsSantaClaus:
No, not because you are a woman, but because you are human being, who i'm sure at the time you were 17, you did many things your parents did not know about or sanction.

I was in the university at 16 and my parents did not know half the things i did and neither did many of my classmates parents. Our parents would have fainted if they knew! So bringing up properly is neither here nor there. I just thank goodness we all lived and came out unscathed to become who we are today, some were not so lucky.

Whether its a girl or boy, i know and so do you that many parents have no idea what their teenage kids are up to, not because they dont want to know, but because teenagers do hide lots from their parents.


Maybe it was different for you age wise, but i find it strange that you would blame any parent for any of the above.

Also we do not know the circumstances , if you dont believe everything she wrote about the rape, why do you believe everything she wrote about her curfew etc?

"I am a mother and I repeat if a child becomes involved in a toxic environment,it is the duty of the mother to know and put an immediate stop to it except you are an incompetent mother." - How will you know if she doesnt want you to know, pray tell me?

Sorry to burst your bubble, maybe your kids are still small, but once your kids reach a certain age, I can tell you for free that you may know just half of what they get up to and nothing more unless they decide to let you know, believe me or not.

As parents , we can only hope and pray that they meet the right people along the way and not Rapists and Monsters like Mustapha Audu and his gang of rapists!
You must think every person on Nairaland is newly we'd or a new wife.
My first daughter is married while my last daughter is about to attend the university.
I speak from experience. If you hid things from your parents when in school,rest assured that I did not do the same.
A mother should be a friend to her children first before she is their mother.
My children have always been my friends. They will tell me whatever is going on in their lives,because of their upbringing.
Even with that my children know where I draw the line. I personally would never allow my daughter to have a 12 midnight curfew.
My daughter knows better than to get involved in a toxic,druggie environment because of her upbringing.
Train your children properly so that they will give you peace of mind tomorrow.
Stop making excuses for sugar belly and her mother. The fault lies on their door step.
I repeat to you if you are newly wedded or still single-never spare the rod to spoil the child. Audu and all his gang members have married different women and left sugar belly with all the scars of the rape and drugs.
This could have been avoided if her mother had done the right thing in the first place. To be forewarned is to be fore armed. A word is enough for the wise. Avoid all situations that can put your kids into danger,especially self inflicted danger such as in sugarbellys case.
Good night.
CrimeRe: Rape Scandal: "Mustapha Sued Me", By Sugabelly. by TheMadame(f): 7:15pm On Oct 28, 2018
MsSantaClaus:
Nigerian women like you can be exhausting, "I blame her mother"!

That's all you have to say, ok!

lets even leave sugabellys matter

Im sure you have seen the case of ElizabethOchanya a 13 year old girl that died recently from being raped by her uncle and his son.

Pray tell me, who do you blame in that case?

Maybe you should also blame Mustapha Audu's Mother for bringing up a BAD SON WHO IS A RAPIST whilst you are at it!

Kai women, we are our own worst enemies at times, why do i have time for this , this weekendhuh
So because I am a woman I should back the parents when they did not bring up their child properly?
I should back a mother who allows her 17 year old daughter a 12 midnight curfew?
I should back a mother who allowed her 17 year old daughter to go out with 25 year old men without a chaperone?
I should back a mother who allowed her 17 year old daughter to become involved in an atmosphere of sex and hard drugs without cautioning her or stopping her relationship with this Audu character?
I have you know I have two daughters and if God forbid they became involved in a toxic atmosphere I would put an immediate stop to it.
I am a mother and I repeat if a child becomes involved in a toxic environment,it is the duty of the mother to know and put an immediate stop to it except you are an incompetent mother.
I criticized the rape but the fault in my opinion falls on the silly mother who probably was over excited her daughter was courting the son of a governor and closed her eyes to all the warning signs.
If you are 17 years old and under my roof,you either obey my rules or face the consequences. I will never spare the rod and spoil my child because according to you I am a woman.
RomanceRe: Prince Obukeni Monday Ochendu Marries Two Ladies Same Day In Delta (Photos) by TheMadame(f): 11:27am On Oct 28, 2018
undecided undecided
CrimeRe: Rape Scandal: "Mustapha Sued Me", By Sugabelly. by TheMadame(f): 11:21am On Oct 28, 2018
In this case I blame the girls mother,she gave her too much freedom. What kind of mother allows a 17 year old kid to enjoy a midnight curfew. What kind of mother allows her 17 year old daughter to cavort all over the place with 25 year old men.
This is a classic example of bad parenthood, she was probably happy and overjoyed in the typical Nigerian way that her daughter was dating a governors son and as such threw caution to the wind.
Rape is bad and I condemn it totally but it is equally our duty as parents to protect our children so that they are not exposed to the dangers of the world.
If the mother's head was screwed on her neck properly she should have provided a chaperone for her daughter. Now look at what has happened.
Christianity EtcRe: Does God Delight In Sending Us To Hell by TheMadame(f): 7:06am On Oct 10, 2018
Christianity EtcRe: Does God Delight In Sending Us To Hell by TheMadame(f): 2:09am On Oct 10, 2018
Originakalokalo:
" And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire."
(Revelation 20: 15)....

The lake of fire is Gehenna too?

Like I said earlier , Good luck .
Have you researched Gehenna in the Bible? Or are you just fixated on a merciless God that burns his creations endlessly?
Good luck to you with your pulpit thumping and fire and brimstone beliefs. I assure you that you are not scaring me. Try it on some one else.
Christianity EtcRe: Does God Delight In Sending Us To Hell by TheMadame(f): 9:44pm On Oct 09, 2018
Originakalokalo:
" But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him."
(Luke 12: 5)

His loving kindness has made him delay his coming...
You can't live your life the way you want..in sin.. and expect to enter his kingdom...

" But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers,

and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death."
(Revelation 21: cool

You better fear him, the righteous Judge...

Are these verses parables too?

do you want more?


The Bible did not specify that that passage was a parable...

Nevertheless, Jesus has given you a clear picture of hell from that passage.

He is calling you... Come... even if your sins are many and terrible, I will make it as white as snow..

He will remove your sins and never remember them anymore..

He has called you.. don't shut your ears..

Before his judgement comes, remember that he first called you...
Keep on thumping the pulpit,you are not scaring anybody except those who don't read the Bible.
I ask you are you conversant with the word "Gehenna"?
If you understand what gehenna is then you will know that the interpretation of hell in the New testament refers to a giant rubbish heap in a valley outside Jerusalem. This was a place where rubbish was burnt. References to hell or burning are meant to refer to a place where rubbish is dumped. It is figurative.
Christianity EtcRe: Does God Delight In Sending Us To Hell by TheMadame(f): 8:26pm On Oct 09, 2018
Originakalokalo:
This is the rich man in hell and Lazarus in paradise...

" And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom. "
(Luke 16: 23)

" And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame. "
(Luke 16: 24)

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27 Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house:

28 For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment.

29 Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.

30 And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent.



From the mouth of Jesus Christ himself..

Repent and be converted.
This is a parable.
Stop scaring and threatening people with hell fire. It is not in the scriptures.
It is totally opposite of the personae of a loving God.
Christianity EtcRe: Does God Delight In Sending Us To Hell by TheMadame(f): 5:06pm On Oct 09, 2018
Why always threatening people with fire and brimstone?
Is hell even biblical?
Can this everlasting he'll be properly supported with valid scriptures?
AutosRe: My Muscle Camry Almost Got Impounded. by TheMadame(f): 5:35pm On Sep 17, 2018
A year ago when the government banned vehicles importation through the borders I asked the same questions being asked by rational people here on this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/2731332/wonderful-experience-mr-tadeus/52#52683909
AutosRe: My Muscle Camry Almost Got Impounded. by TheMadame(f):
jaymichael:
Cars within the permitted age limits are not contrabands. Obtaining assessment and C-number for your smuggled cars and paying the correct duty is not doctoring of documents. Your obtaining assessment and paying correct duty has achieved what the government was trying to prevent in the first place (by banning cars importation via land borders) LOSS OF REVENUE. I am a clearing agent (you are not) I know what obtains in the importation and clearing process.
Snuggling is a crime (if you are caught). Obtaining assessment and paying correct duty for smuggled cars within the appropriate age limits isn't a crime.
huh huh huh


http://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=A2KLfaLk4Z9bIzMA94JEDN04;_ylu=X3oDMTBydDI5cXVuBGNvbG8DYmYxBHBvcwM2BHZ0aWQDBHNlYwNzcg--/RV=2/RE=1537233508/RO=10/RU=http%3a%2f%2fthenationonlineng.net%2fwill-ban-vehicle-importation-land-borders-boost-economy%2f/RK=2/RS=bcdl30kNPe2BsswpW6Y7DyB_aKE-
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 8:44am On Sep 05, 2018
ifyalways:
Its all religious figure heads ie pastor,priest, imams for me.

Good evening ma
Okay,as long as the children are safe.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 2:37pm On Sep 03, 2018
Ubenedictus:
critique these crimes objectively, child abuse is no solely found among Catholic priest, it is also among Protestant pastors, Jewish rabbi etc, and even worse in schools.

if your solution is to withdraw the kid from any place where there is likelihood of abuse then you may remove them from your families, schools, churches, nannies, etc maybe from all human contact.
I would like to respond to your post but you keep on amending your posts so many times that what one responds to is now made to look a different thing.
Please stop amending your posts after you have been responded to. It does not make for a fair debate. Thank you.

What I am saying is the abused children need justice. The catholic church has not been just to these abused children because the priests are coveniently dead or transfered to another country or being protected outright by the catholic church.
Christianity EtcRe: How Did Judas Iscariot Actually Die? by TheMadame(op): 10:13am On Sep 03, 2018
Very old thread.There are over 3000 views of this thread and only 70 plus posts. Unfortunately no one could answer thr question asked and so the thread tailed off.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 10:02am On Sep 03, 2018
ifyalways:
I just watched one of the videos. So sick.

Why did the family accept to be paid off initially?
Good morning ma,
I watched many of the video's -sickening stuff.
Most victims are probably threatened into accepting pay offs because of ignorance and fear of "touching God's annointed."
In hind sight,who knows why they accepted pay offs.
All I know is that anyone who leaves his child (male or female) in the hands of a catholic priest/nun is asking for trouble.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 5:10pm On Sep 01, 2018
Ubenedictus:
sorry I believe I quoted you mistakenly I wanted to quote dantedasz response to aaronsrod, I was trying to tell dantedasz that Aaronsrod must be using sarcasm, sorry if I came across as unclear
Okay.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 4:14pm On Sep 01, 2018
Ubenedictus:
I am not the person who used sarcasm, you can address him.


I consider child abuse to be a despicable depravity that should always be condemned and the perpetuators brought to justice.

unfortunately it present in the Catholic Church and even Protestant churches in Christianity and other religions, even in schools and groups, it is not only a Catholic problem and we must all be committed to stopping it wherever it is found.
You are the one explaining to the members of the forum that your Catholic priest explaining anal raped as "horsing around" was being sarcastic,therefore I need to address you promptly as well as him.
So in your wisdom because sexual scandals exist in the protestant,other religions,in schools and groups we should continue to hypocritically sheild the rapist/serial sex abuser priests as the Pope has done by going silent,deaf and dumb and not responding to Carlo Vigano who has openly stated that he informed this current Pope of these sexual scandals years ago but the Pope chose to pardon the offender's?
What is more sickening than that?
The church should be protected while the children abused by these sick Catholic priests should be silenced and not receive justice?
Any member of the Catholic church defending these abusers,I have just one question for you:-"Can you in your heart of heart leave your under age kids with any Catholic priest? "
Will such a child be safe with such a priest?
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 3:27pm On Sep 01, 2018
Ubenedictus:
the guy was using sarcasm.
Sarcasm in a case of child abuse?Sarcasm in cases of priests raping children through the anus.
Continue to defend evil because you are a catholic.Children have been sexually abused in that church all over the world but all that concerns Catholics is to protect the name of their church. Why not spare a minute for uncountable children who have been abused? I shudder to think of the numerous scandals swept under the carpet in the catholic church in Africa if Europe and America is so bad.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 5:14pm On Aug 27, 2018
Dantedasz:
This is a report of how a catholic priest abused five (5) girls from the same family for a decade and the diocese concerned did a FAT nothing.
Sickening.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEh0VkzZqqM
I just watched the video and I feel like throwing up. Five sisters from one family abused by this monster who escaped justice by dying before he could be charged to court.
Christianity EtcRe: Decades Of Sexual Abuse In The Catholic Church. by TheMadame(f): 3:39pm On Aug 27, 2018
I read the Pensylvania report about the decades of clergymen sexually abusing young men entrusted in their care and passing it off as "horsing around."
The ended up destroying so many young men and women's life's under the guise of mentoring them religiously.
It is just sickening that catholic priests would hide under religion to assault their wards and instead of the Catholic church and the pope to expose these stinking paedophiles they are protecting them.
The popes attitude comes across as hypocritical and disgusting.
The mind boggles at the rot the Vatican sits upon.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Watch This Video. by TheMadame(f): 9:34pm On Aug 21, 2018
Dantedasz:
I came across this video on YouTube and felt I should share it here. Please try to watch it to the end and give your humble opinion.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c4qUz_K2AdA
This is sad. They have turned the house of God into a business centre. This was why Jesus drove charlatans out of the temple. No message concerning winning of souls. Just buying and selling. Cash and carry Christianity.This kind of Christianity has no semblance to Christ's teachings.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Chukwuemeka Gives A Church Member WWE Move All In The Name Of Deliverance by TheMadame(f): 11:32am On May 20, 2018
Hmmmm
AutosRe: $275 In U.S, ₦2.2m In Nigeria, See The Clean Title Corolla Sold To My Boss(Pics by TheMadame(f): 9:10pm On Apr 27, 2018
Explorers:
Imagination bro, why the vehicle will be that expensive despite the history.

The quote up there i dont think is more than 1.5m
Quite frankly Mr Explorers,I advise your boss(the elderly man) to take the customs documents on that vehicle for a proper check of the C number .
Any dealer so heartless to sell this lemon to the poor buyer could also fake the customs papers. I can bet that either no duty was paid on this vehicle or it was processed as scrap which pays a far lesser rate of duty on the ports.
Car TalkRe: Why Do Some People Adorn Their Dashboards With Horse Whips? by TheMadame(op): 10:22am On Mar 06, 2018
Abbeyme:
Which locality or state do you live please? That would determine how to respond.

But this is a miracle, kind of. This thread has been created since 2013 with three or so comments and just seeing FP now. Very serious.

Which kind of soap you dey use bath of recent..
Funny you.
On a more serious note,the thread is still relevant today.
AutosRe: Shocking Transformation Of Some Crashed Cars Sold In Nigeria (Photos) by TheMadame(f): 6:06pm On Mar 04, 2018
Ipfreely:
What you're describing is organized criminal activity.
Yes. I stand by what I am saying. In fact I posted this criminal activity years ago but a moderator called chelseabmw who has been removed as a moderator hid my posts.
That is why I said fighting fraud here is like banging your head against a concrete wall.I have been insulted so many times on this forum for fighting against fraudulent activity so I stopped posting in this section.
AutosRe: Shocking Transformation Of Some Crashed Cars Sold In Nigeria (Photos) by TheMadame(f): 5:59pm On Mar 04, 2018
olumide4christ:
I completely agree with you....in addition some customs agents here have been advertising"Tincan customs duty papers for Cotonou vehicles".
This is a scam...even the customs agent who helped me get my car from Cotonou in 2014 when the land borders were still open, confirmed to me on phone & even in his thread here on Nairaland that - there is nothing like Tincan papers for Cotonou vehicles now.
You can search for his moniker on Nairaland - @saintjoel or JELAD Ltd (his business name) - he is a very sincere & trustworthy customs agent unlike many here on Nairaland.
The fact is that these dealers fraudulently smuggle these vehicles through the numerous Bush paths between Nigeria and Benin Republic.
Of course the original bill of lading of the vehicle will read Cotonou as the port of entry. How do they beat this and lodge it imto the customs data base?
They look for a vehicle with similar name to the smuggled vehicle genuinely cleared through Tin can or Apapa port . Get hold of the documents and insert the chasis number,engine number and probably VIN. They hand these documents to the buyer of the car as Tin can cleared so that if the buyer checks at the customs data base the c number will come up as being in the Customs system but the payment is for another vehicle.
So if you are checking your vehicle papers at the customs office make sure a proper check of the chassis and engine number tallies with the numbers on the vehicle being sold to you.
Due dilligence is necessary when dealing with these guys.
AutosRe: 2007 Model Sky Blue Is350 Lexus Fully Loaded Selling Cheap Toks by TheMadame(f): 5:39pm On Mar 04, 2018
CARLOSZ:
Ipfreely, pls bring the crew along

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