₦airaland Forum

Zetty177x:
Yes.. since 2015. I can't sleep outside net o. Malaria nearly kill me.. I'm awaiting malaria vaccine before I stop mosquito net

festacman:
Everybody deserves a second chance especially if a mistake is humbly acknowledged and apologized for.

Obviously, insecure Annie allowed her prejudices and emotional assumptions to dominate her mind and steal her state peace and planted turmoil.

Thumbs up to Pero Adeniyi for honouring Tubaba by flying down to Nigeria with her boyfriend to clear the air while chiding insecure Annie to focus on her marriage.

This same fate await Davido as he goes around sowing slimy white oats on random gardens.

nautybride:
Mtcheeew. If you had slept with him, if you are saying the truth, he would have dropped your sorry ass.
His lack of concentration is because this investment is down the drain without choping kpekus!

Better stay focused and face front. Don't disappoint another lovely male specie with good intentions.

Well said. Madam face front he's married & wants you to be his side chick so that he will dump you whenever he's tired.
Personally I won't even care cos I see it as wickedness when someone is married & the person is disturbing me for a relationship.



I dey Waka pass. Bye o.

Lerish:
They think we are fools
NOnsense and Ingredients

rave1040:
Same lies

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

WesternOligarch:
Omo ibo marry omo ibo but marriage scatter. Probably Anita is tired of his overbearing attitude and big ego typical to Igbo men with small change.

Awkabigboy:
Well they said they're not igbos

JavaScript90:
he just want to kill these SMEs. Nigerians don't like paying back loans. how to do you expect the loan companies to get back their money without collateral

Emeskhalifa:
If i talk wettin dey my mind, u no go like am but go and pay them their money.

You saw the interest rate before u collect am.
U saw the duration but still went ahead and collected it now you are Yarning some gibberish.

Go and pay what you owe ogar

Mynd44:
Their friends wont lend them money because of the same behaviour you see here. They can't keep their words

JavaScript90:
Very good. Nigerians don't like paying their debts. I wonder the tree they think the lender plucked the money from.

Na for this nairaland a chronic debtor was looking for a way to tarnish sokoloan image simply because sokoloan sent embarrassing messages to his contacts when he defaulted despite agreeing to such when he accepted their terms.

Government should employ this method so that loan apps and other lenders can easily collect back their loans.

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realestate99:
Please do not stain your excellent submission with this argument, the term " RealMan" is a social construct to deceive weak men to swallow what the society throws at them without considering if it is healthy for them ( the men).

A man that does not want to take another man's responsibly is a " Real man". Taking responsibility for your actions should be paramount in definition of "Real ". Getting a girl pregnant and absconding is what you should address, not an innocent man trying to dodge a girl with a baggage.

Peace!!!.

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Stevyne:
The way children nowadays take deh big ehn.
See Jamal wey Dem born 4/5 years ago.

Very soon now
E go start to deh chase woman ( Imade and co)

Mourinho24:
Someone said in the Igbo culture, when a child is born out of wedlock, that child belongs to the mother. Thereby, the father doesn't and can't lay claims of ownership over that child but in this case, the story change because say Davido get money. Guys, shebi una dey see say money nai dey make iron float? Have money and trample on traditions/culture.

Crochet:
He might be ur step brother but he is the first son. So respect him but on the other hand changing ur dad name to his own name that I don't support. But note that he has the right to sell the land and equally share it amongst you guys, but as per tradition I dont know if the ladies re entitled to any of their father properties.

seunmsg:
Nothing about restructuring, nothing about VAT, nothing about ban on open grazing. Their governors can’t even demand for the presidency to be zoned to the region in 2023 but some cretins would come online to threaten the rest of the south that the presidency must be microzoned to them.

At least, it is now clear that SW and SS really needs to come together to fight for all the issues that are important to the south. We must carry the south no matter how difficult it is. We can no longer rely on our SE brothers in any common struggle.

pocohantas:
I hate debt recovery, so I will rather play safe from the onset than find myself in that position. Some basic rules of lending that works for me.

cayorday89:
LOL at the 3k deficit, that part is a long story, I don't know where she lives again so that gave her leverage that I could not get to her,but the thing that still linked us was her sim which was mine and registered in my name which I gave to her to use when she misplaced hers and still blocked me on it. I actually retrieved the sim and used it to load card with the amount in it... Lest I forgot, she claimed she was using the guy when I only asked her for the money not even relationship, that I should not worry, that the guy gave her 500k and also helped her with importation business of another 500k investment, inside lockdown that import and export was not allowed, and she will come back to me, and I told her the only thing she owed me is the 30k I lent her and nothing else not even the 2500 and 3500 and the Nokia phone I sent to her during lockdown when she said she was out of cash and had a bad phone, that was of my own willingness..

cayorday89:
She might take me as an arch-enemy but I don't care, she is an ex who I lent 30k she said she needed urgently to sort out her school fees, and promised to pay the next week, she never did and gave excuses about her been owed salary, we were still dating or so I thought, lockdown came and whatever excuse she gave was genuine but I hate been fooled, found out through Facebook she was dating someone else, she was tagged and she commented my husband, I was not surprised or shocked such is life, as I already thought of the possibility as things were not the way it used to be, I only messaged her that she could have done better by letting me know as it is not a do or die affair and she should not forget my 30k,but she claimed if I loved her I wasn't suppose to ask for my money, that angered me the more, whereas I sent her money twice during the lockdown despite my doubt about her genuineness, she later said she was going to pay that I should give her time as she was waiting for her consignment and needed money to clear them at the Port, I knew this was a lie, I left her for two months messaged her again another round of lies and I have been blocked by her on all platforms so I changed my WhatsApp number to get in touch with her, after four months I contacted I fiance, and message them simultaneously but I told him I was a friend and explained myself, he asked me to send my account number but she also requested for it and I told him she has promised to pay, the said day elapsed and she came with another round of lies.
A friend later told me she is having her wedding, two days after the wedding, I messaged her, another round of lies, also insulted me, but I was willing to let her have her way and do whatever pleases her as I have one last card to play, her sim she uses is registered with my details and after one year of giving her enough time to do what is right, I did the necessary by forcefully getting my money with that means, and she still dey owe 3k but I don overlook am....

Spending123:
So upon all the Toto Angel show for live TV she no still win am? At times you need to have sense.
Look at my neighbour pastor and his children rejoicing after they will come out to claim that they don't watch BBnaija.... Hypocrisy everywhere.