₦airaland Forum

You think say 'life' na your mate?
Your Selfish actions will be repaid to you in multiple folds. Atleast now she get to advise her fellow "Wise" gender and hope they learn.

Welcome to Reality, sorry Fantasy is never Real.

Cruise

How do we choose the Right leader when PDP will give Atiku their mandate while APC will give Tinubu.
NB: it will be a miracle for any otherflagbearerto emerge. Those are the popular folks.

How do we hold you guy accountable when you have Security allround and you have some "Wise" Nigerians who are blinded by Tribe etc... Who choose to defend you even on the SM.

Nigeria is currently Poor but then have you guys stop inflating Contract sums?

Finally, every Single Nigerian is part of the Problem. Let us all be the Change we want to see.

#Peace

Until you graduate only to realize that Life is more than these.

Sometimes, He better make you ignore the people wen dey push say make you comot for your comfort zone.
Better if you want comot for your comfort Zone, comot when you still get the Energy.
No be when you don old finish wen one small boy go dey use you wash am.

... What's cooking?
This one that Baba is receiving different Special Visitors. Hope is not that Baba is about to "relocate" Sha?

Why sell your Range Sport to buy Corolla?
If your Range Sport says you can't maintain him again why not keep your money in Bank until a Worthy Machine becomes available?

killmods:
Just answer ur own jare

None of the Above.

Odikwa seriously serious.

Abeg how you take conduct the research come reach these conclusion and definition?

Lionnation:
if America was not good who will be dragging it

Abi ooo. Even Yaya B. Wan become President of Obodo Nigeria.

Angelfrost:
I actually laughed out loud when I read the term "Foundational Black Americans"!

That's another extreme level of low self-esteem!

As in "LOW" self-esteem.

So Africans should stop coming to the US because of "Foundational Black Americans" and More Africans will be Victim of Violence from "Foundational White Americans" according to the Tariq of a guy.

Well, the guy is very 'Wise'.

Foundational Black Americans: Are black Americans that a Native to America and not even the victim of Slave Trade. So according to this Tariq, Blacks are also natives of America.
Everybody like better thing.

Finally my 'fear'.
May wisdom be profitable to Us and everyone around Us.

Jude49:
Hmm.. . I cried a little Sha, the story touch me...

Did you just say cry?... See ehn the kind fear wen dey cash me as I dey read each episode no be here ooo. The Women Op seems to be getting down with; the killings; etc. Probably because of my understanding of Life Sha. But seriously, I hope some folks are getting Wisdom as they read.

To understand how much Op regret some of His actions: just read up his comments on how his BP rises once anyone drops on a Bike beside him; How he is not able to meet some clients because of fear of unknown and How He is praying His son does not make the same mistake.

Well, the BEST thing in this Life is to be Born Again and Know God personally not the churchy thing ooo but The True Christ Life experience.

Thank you for doing the right thing.
Thank you for not behaving like some fools who usually exploit young girls/ladies.
Thank you for also waiting for her to complete some form of Higher Education.

Congratulations for not turning her to Ex.

Wishing you Marital Bliss

Out of the abundance of the Mind, the hand wrote.
When your mum was only a rag to your Dad, you will think every other Mum was same. But when you see the Virtuous woman of Prov. 31 in your Mum you will definitely wish your Wife is like that.

Between those ladies whose Father were very Bad should stop thinking all Fathers are like their Father.

#Peace

... The moment we think the Holy Book and our forefathers were wrong to have discouraged Sexual promiscuity, that moment we are headed for...

Sexual expression is now encouraged. urgent 2k; Hookup; escorts etc... Not forgetting the red light districts and those who get into it with Crest and Indomie.

Abeg, this woke generation are on their own. They would soon realize the importance of rules, I just it won't be too late.

Abeg, let me sip of Kunu missed with Zobo and chew my Popcorn missed with ground nut.

Left for 2 months without any prior discussion?

Came back and want to move in immediately? Abeg, there are questions that needs to be asked and questions that need answers.

And please Watch (becareful) and Pray.

Just passing...

She has become second wife now.
The Dog is the first wife.

Abeg, if she fit afford the trouble of polygamy make she continue.
Yeye and Iberiberism.

The perception of the Black woman in marriage seems to be one of poverty alleviation scheme. Most of them tend to work on their physical outlook but intellectually they are deficient and so for them Money is all that matter and drawn their attraction.

Their White counterparts seems to be more about the emotional connectivity.

...If you think Premarital Sex will help check Sexual compatibility, am sorry for you ooo.

Because during Pregnancy and afterwards your eye will be open and if you have not learn self control you are in...

Back to Op.
Sex seems to reduce between couples as Pregnancy and Children comes in. If you can cope with once/twice a month just keep managing. But if not, talk to her about it so that you can avoid the temptation that comes with Kongi and resultant Troubles.

Timetable is also a no-no. If you need it ask, you may be lucky to get it rather than suffering in silence. You may also have to talk about it with your spouse so that you people can have a proper understanding of how your manage your Sex life.

May the Shalom of the Lord be upon your home.

Southeast ooo.
Why some people just dey deceive themselves. Instead make una face una personal problem una go dey busy dey "bodyshame" other region.

#GodDeliverUsFromWickedLeaders.
#mercyWePray4

Abeg make we surfree dey commit fallacy of "Hasty Generalization"
Na where you Waka reach you see ooo. No dey use your experience judge every-every.

OMEGA009:
I’ve not commented on Nairaland in ages cos it’s been taken over by jobless children hiding behind their cheap tecno phones to spill rubbish but sir, your comment provoked the common sense in me.

When I read the above sentence, I knew you were just a compound f0o! who needs the affirmation of strangers to validate his actions.

Your wife is suffering from post partum depression and all you can do is get angry at her mother? Why did your mum come to do Omugwo in the first place? Do you even understand the concept of Omugwo? It’s the lady’s mother that comes to do it (if she’s alive or available) so that her daughter can rest from childbirth and also learn the fundamentals of taking care of a newborn. But nooooo. You and your masochistic brain ran to call your mum first because you wanted validation as being the “Man” in your house. I don’t blame you 1 bit. I blame the lady that deemed it fit to open her legs for you, let alone carry your child. E-diot.

Hmmm!

How did you know "your masochistic brain ran to call your mum"?
How did you know the wife is suffering from "Post partum"?
How did you know "you wanted validation as being the 'man' in your house?
But she 'Sent' the guy's mum away because she get Psychological issues wen result from Child Birth abi? But come become normal wen her mama come ba?

See ehn! Shebi" our" brothers have start enjoying the Bandit they created in the North and "our" children are enjoying bullying leading to death already.

Just continue to support whatever you want to support ooo. The effect of our actions/reactions go soon reach us all. Nothing wen person plant wen him no go harvest bountifully.

#Peace

Kai! Stupidity na big problem ooo.
Fake hair for Fake life to impress Fake people.
This one's don land themselves for problem already cause their file don dey corrupted already.

Una dey land of opportunities still dey behave like m*m*.

Everything na him don become low grade now.
Oga Kanayo, you no dey hear the pangolo wen "Indomie" generation dey sing/dance to?
Even children of this social media age self Don become "Woke".

Let me run before someone start...

Once the Humans in charge have sinister motives, they surely will find a loophole.
When the issue of BVN first got implemented in 2015 I was hopeful that at least we would be able to curb Fraud Money.

But unfortunately, 6 years plus down the line, it's just another failed implementation because the humans who are suppose to be the "quality control" are only there for their selfish gain just like the Policeman who is only on the road to collect money from commuters and offenders and not to protect lives and properties nor enforce the law.

Until we prioritize communal gain over individual gain and have a True change of mindset/perception, all of these will only be "Noise".

NB: The rate at which we are going only a Divine intervention can save Us from Self-destruction.

Some questions in my mind

Who organize the Award he went for?
Could they have organize this to make a statement?
Was the man a lover of awards, and so the people used it to lure him to his death ?
What investigation is going on about this?
Was he unaware of the insecurity in the SE? Was he overconfident?
Was this a beef the drug cartel were trying to settle?

RIP to Him.
May we never be victim of any circumstance.

Can you people please stop this. Enough of the noise and trying to safe face.
This is the height of irresponsibility.

Unfortunately, whenever the Shit finally hit the ceiling it would be too late.

#GodSaveNigeria

Have lost count of the number of thread that has been open to share information on this payment brouhaha.

Abeg, if the Mrs. Minister in charge of this MI is try is not interested in making payments, she should just scrap the program and divert all the money to her personal account.

Anyone who does not belong to any party of group but is interested in 2023 elections should better start strategising now.
Not when the political gladiators have perfect that plans already.
And please don't let your Greed and Hatred blind your reasoning.

Remember when "We" sent Adeosun packing, she was replace by another person who made our economy the "Best" in the World and turn "our" around.

#Peace

Until when we realize that "We" are all part of the Problem and decide to do what is right in our little Capacity, things will keep going Worst until Shit finally hit the Fan.

Ask your who did that budgeting? Was it the president? Who supervise and edit it before sending it to appropriate quarters?

Remember those "Good Nigerians" who budgeted 8.2Billion NGN for Mosquito net?