₦airaland Forum

nobeku:
How many did Jonathan make,talkless of fulfilling? How many of the previous government s promises was fulfilled?BUHARI WILL SHOCK YOU GUYS BY 2019..Let's be seeing..

Gullible people like you are the real reason why Nigeria is fvcked up...

shamecurls:
In a law that has Laws and Order, what you composed is outright gibberish. You can as well say prison inmates too should be giving a soft landing or forced to repent.

Chill...

When you keep doing the same thing without success and you don't think of changing something, then it's madness.

This is an ingenious, albeit controversial suggestion... But there's a sense in it...

Drastic times call for drastic measures...and drastic measures are also backed by the 'Law'...

Laws are not cast in stone...if you get me...

Read this objectively and you'll see the sense in it.

The law is an arse...naturally...

So most of the corruption cases will likely drag on for years with nothing to show for it...

The real problem is our constitution...'nuff said...

Hi Peeps. I've got a ticket for the Yudala Zero Gravity Show I want to sell.

Bought the ticket but something came up and I won't be going for the show any longer.

It's a Regular ticket and I'm selling for 40k (slightly negotiable cos I got it for 50k).

Interested peeps should send me a pm. Thanks.

If I'm not mistaken, the 13% would be of the funds realized from the mining activities and not from our national coffers... Or I hope so... If so then it's commendable....

But... If it be that it's from our national coffers then Mr Fayemi should be stoned out of that seat...

succyblinks:
Thanks alot, ya it was urz?
U can send me a pm if u want

Hey cutie, you just ignored my pm huh. Not nice

succyblinks:
Thanks alot, ya it was urz?
U can send me a pm if u want

I just did dear. Check your e-mail.

succyblinks:
I delayed a lil bit but he later called it off, I'm recovering nw sha and I tell you it isn't easy

Very painful

Thanks fr your concern I appreciate

Really sorry about what he's making you go through. I hope you learn from this that the most important person to love in one's life is oneself. Never love anyone more than you love yourself, ever!

Wanna help you get completely over him if you would let me though... Hope your night was good?

succyblinks:
thanks a lot, it hurts so bad but I'll move on

So how did that pan out, the leaving him part... Just curious...

nextprince:
Bro, nairalanding is not my job. I only visit to read news and sometimes login to air my views and it depends on how free I am.

You never see anything.

I wonder who asked u for all that information

And they keep dishing out more propaganda.

Tell us when it has been done not WE WILL...

Bunch of slowpokes

Good one from the NA.

But the FG should ensure that a serious dialogue involving all stakeholders in the ND is done after all the show of might cos at the end, the military cannot really end militancy in the region simply because there are a thousand tompolos ready to carry arms once they leave the creeks.

Bustyme:
Stories dat touch

I already knew you'd say that.

By the way, I'm curious, what inspired your moniker though?

Are you that busty huh?

Bustyme:
As for me,I believe in it..I no wan hear story

Lols. Which kind story you no wan hear abeg?

I hope it's not the Prince I know!

And the guy lives around that ajayi farm bus stop

Mynd44 I would love to know your thoughts on this recent development...

vicdall:
No I'm not an umu-dick I am a student of mouau

Hey there. You're so damn cute

Standing5:
Are you saying there isn't the need for Nigerians to change also. Buhari is serving the change he promised but for it to well felt we must change attitude and mindset. You are an example.

I didn't expect less of you.

Continue fooling yourself.

All I can say is wow!

People like standing5 and nextprince and hungerbad will so avoid this thread Luke leprosy



Thank God modath has been delivered.

Come 2019 we all have to put hands together to chase out these fools from aso rock

flokii:
IPOD yoot

Which one ur hero complete.. yeye

Stupidity is like peak...

Toks2008:
OK sir, I definitely will. Thanks.

Pls do sir.

I promise you, it's going to change your life and the way you view love forever.

Do have a pleasant rest of the day.

Toks2008:
Why write up is focused on romantic love and not within family unit so I prefer to stick with that.

Even in the family unit love is mostly selfish and self centered but that is a topic for another day.

That means I've been wasting time with you cos all I've been trying to make you understand is that if you're talking about true and real love, then it is one and the same whether in the family unit or between a man and woman.

You need to be more open minded and admit being wrong at times, this is the only way to reconfigure our brains to learn new things and discard long held notions which may be very erroneous and even injurious to one's mental, emotional and physical well being.

No need trying to convince you any further, you're probably beyond help at this point.

Last Bullet: Please make sure you begin to practise and live by the true definition of love as outlined in the holy bible cos that is the only way to achieve a fulfilled love life.

Ciao bro...

iykenathan162:
thanx bro, I love yr level of reasoning and presentation of points

Thanks bro.

Someone needs to put things in proper perspective to avoid being misled by ill informed and erroneous thinking folks like the OP.

Toks2008:
You just explained a theoretic side of love but practically Agape love only exists from God to man and any other type of love is wash.

Let's be frank..a lady loves me cos I care..I stop caring..she stops loving and maybe starts tolerating

I love a lady cos she is pleasing to my eyes, cooks well and fears God but the day she stops cooking for me for no justifiable reasons and she starts rebelling and showing signs of Godlessness I may remain with her cos of tolerance but not love.

Tolerance is what makes many marriages stand today and not love cos no human is able to love without a reason.

Please answer these two questions below.

Are you saying that agape love cannot exist in the family unit?

If you know that agape love can and does exist within the family unit, why do you not accept that the same agape love can be extended to people other than those in one's family unit (gf or wife inclusive)?

I have you the definition of real love and you say it is theoretical?

Anyway, my kind of love (even for my gf) is the agape type and not because of what I can gain or benefit from the relationship, after all no matter what it is she has to offer, there are a thousand and one girls out there who have same and even better. It's the fact that she has come to be more than just a gf, she's like family to me.

You still see love from a parochial and selfish point of view and it's your undoing.


By the way, those attributes of love as outlined in the holy bible are not theoretical but things we should endeavour to put into practise in our daily lives so as to become better humans and better "lovers" in the real sense of the word.

Don't you dare say they are not achievable or feasible or practical cos you are unwilling practise true and real love but prefer to continue to see love from a very stunted and selfish point of view.

If you don't change this mentality of yours you may find yourself forever unfulfilled in your relationships in life.

Toks2008:
Yeah you did.

The truth remains that we just might find 1 in a million instance of true love but in the real sense, love between a man and woman in a romantic affair is a facade.

So shall we say we wil not marry and raise a family? NO..we just have to look for a condition that pleases us to be with another and then try to keep that condition alive.

The bolded is that parochial view I mentioned earlier.

It is a very wrong thing to classify and group different kinds of love if it's the real one - agape. Agape love cannot be classified by who the relationship is with, whether father-children and brother-sister.

The "real love" which I presume is what you're talking about is agape love and it is not a facade.

Agape love can exist between a man and a woman in a romantic relationship and this is a fact.

And your one in a million theory is just an opinion cos I know you did not do any research or survey in that regard to come up with such figures.

Open up your mind and begin to see 'love' in the real, true and agape sense of it.

That kind of love you spoke about in your original post is not true or agape love.

Synonyms of that kind of "love" you've been trying so hard to debunk include - lust, infatuation, obsession, etc. It is far from the real deal.

Also please don't ever think that it is possible to love even in the real sense without any reason cos even God loves us because He created us.

Our parents love us because they brought us to the world. Love We love them right back cos they cared for us and nurtured us.

My problem with your view is saying that love between a man and a woman is for what both parties can gain or benefit, it is a very distorted view. Such "love" is not the real thing and can be classified into one of the kinds of "love" I mentioned earlier.

Funny thing is that you're right in a sense that such selfish kinds of love is just for benefits and pleasure. Where you may just be very wrong is that you didn't take out time to explain that those kinds of love are not the real deal.

Here's the definition of the real kind of love I've been talking about:

1 Corinthians 13:4-7New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Okay o.

I just hope this is true cos almost every news that comes out of Nigeria seems to be fake now.

Toks2008:
May GOD bless you..you just nailed it....WE FALL IN LOVE BECAUSE OF WHAT WE CAN GET and not because we are carried away by true love

A guy dating a typical naija babe should be ready to let go of the lady if she sees an American sweet guy ready to marry her..

But in the case of a rich lady who is not freaked about materialism then she can be with a man for another reason like his cuteness or maybe sexual ability or caring nature and the day she stops seeing those reasons, the love starts fading.

Omoge please just forget this thing called love..na wash.

Ok, lemme see if I can make sense to you.

Firstly, when comparing kinds of live I don't think anyone should use the love of God as comparism. We are mere humans.

That said, I need you to tell me something, do you believe that unconditional love exists or can exist in a family unit, between father and children, mother and children and so on? Cos you keep saying love is about what one can get from the relationship as if the only relationships on earth are romantic ones.

Second question - if your answer to the first is yes, dont you think the same kind of love (unconditional) found in a family unit can be extended to someone outside the unit who due to years of friendship and memories comes to become your "blood"?

The mistake you keep making is having a parochial view of the word love hence your gross misinterpretation.

Funny thing is so many people also have the same parochial view about love and it's annoying.

Lastly, you say you're a realist but how come you're seeking for perfection where it can never be found (humans)?

If I have the capacity to love my dad even till old age then why will you conclude that same kind of unconditional love cannot be extended to someone else (maybe a girl) who has come to matter in my life as much as my dad?

Hope I made sense?

makydebbie:
sure...don't mind him...y3ko wai

The bolded. Please translate in Igbo...

English pulizzz


And you're still not out of trouble yet o... You need to appease the gods so the cup may pass over you...
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Girl360:
Smart enough, huh?

Anyways I had your moniker in mind already...

The clues you gave just confirmed it lol...

I checked your dp, you were mostly active in politics section...

The other moniker too was...

You said your account was banned till December, so when I couldn't see posts shared by that moniker, I definitely knew you were the one...

Because, you're such a prolific sharer, and there was no way you would just stop sharing for no reason, other than the fact that you were banned


*Okay, I just typed an essay*

Yea you just did.

I love the way your mind works though, very analytical.

Just as mine...though mine is an upgraded version of yours...

makydebbie:
ofcos i know it





I so know it

You don't. Girl360 I know she be your padi but don't tell on me pls...