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[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4210705#msg4210705 date=1247944760]i suspect they are about handing to the good Lawd their own conditions on making heaven, u cant be so sure with women [/quote]Then I don't think we stand a chance because they will practically want us all assigned to hell fire

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298333.msg4210583#msg4210583 date=1247943049]tell them brother, tell them. all that needy stuff, thats what the teddy bears are for  


oh i will gladly tell u

these are a few things u need to check

1) when do u call? during a game? when he is trying to sleep? etc

2) how long is ur call time? u will be surprised how much we feel like telling u shut up on the phone  

3) what kind of topics do u bring to the table? i once had a girl that wanted to not just talk to me about flowers but make me go see a flower show, i felt like committing suicide, no lie  

4) what kind of tone do u use to get his attention on the first "hello"? i had a female friend that once called me and my friends while we were playing street fighter, she said "hello" in the most sexy way that it ended our game, we had to tell her to do it again. after she dropped, that was the discussion of the day.

5) do u sound needy? the last thing a man needs is to pile more worries on the ones in front of him. a lady that sounds too needy is a no no for most guys period, take it or leave it.

6) are u always complaining? stop, we all hate nagging  

7) how much compliment do u give to him? or is he the one that always gives u a compliment first? start my telling him how his deep voice turns u on, wow, u will get a conversation like no other and trust me it can lead to serious non sexual talk since u got his attention, u just have to be smart abt the transition

8 ) self less discussions: how often do u call just to talk ONLY [/b]about the welfare of his family and how he can contribute positively to [b]HIS family advancement in whatever

9) creativity: how creative are u? when last did u decide to write him a poem, not necessary a love poem but something that he can relate to, u can only do this if u truly have studied him. write something creative with ur pic by the side (not nude pics) and send it to him by regular mail or email, some thing that will make him think deeply about things that affect him, u dont have to always call him, after reading ur deep thoughts, he might be the one calling u to ask for advise or share a fear or an ambition or something

10) how often do you pray? i mean more than 5mins sincere prayer. i know men like to feel like the almighty protector of the relationship and house but there is nothing more secured in most man's heart for him to know he has a wife that prays an honest prayer bcuz when the chips are down and the man is confused about what next to do, he wants to know that u can tell him, honey, its ok, we should pray together. i remember back in the dayz if i fall ill and they want to give me all kinds of drugs, i always tell them "may i call my mother?" that woman prays like there is no tomorrow and that gives me confidence that things will turn out right.



FYI: for any more advise, i need to see the color of ur $$$$$$   [/quote]There's nothing like a praying woman. I always have it at the back of mind that when I do want to get married, it has to be a lady that will drag me leg and head to go to the church. Someone who will force me to pray every night even when we want to eat. Now, that's a woman. As for your other points, man, you echoed what I've been thinking.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4210060#msg4210060 date=1247935455]when u quote that bible passage give them, all of them give u face as if no bi the word of God again [/quote]Then I start to wonder if they want to act out of the Bible's standards and still expect to go to heaven at rapture

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4207140#msg4207140 date=1247866532]i am a christian, i still with what the bible expects a lady to be and it is in proverb 31. btw proverb 31 says my job is to sit at the gate of the city which may imply sit in front of the tv [/quote]It means you'd be an immigration officer at the POEs. Make a request for a Proverbs 31 woman and they'd say you want to turn them to slaves.

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This is an age where people want to actively get involved in the life of their kids . . . . . I must state that some parents are even at competition as to who should have more impact and influence in a child's life, so you see? What you posted existed some 30, 40, unlimited number of years ago, but things are beginning to reframe now and kids are feeling much more comfy with their dad. Are you missing the word "daddy's pet"? That tells you more.