Culture / Re: Without Nigerian Men,No Hennessy And Highlife In Kenya: Kenyan Lady Recounts. by TheSociopath(m): 3:48pm On Sep 11 |
This is exactly why South Africa hates us. Their women started hailing "Nigerian" men 8 Likes |
Politics / Re: Adeleke Interfaces With Sanwo-Olu Over Alleged Deportation Of Osun Indegenes by TheSociopath(m): 2:08pm On May 06 |
tishbite42: Ndi Lagos belongs to all Yorubas Clowns πππ Stranger dey pursue stranger Are you done crying? 3 Likes 6 Shares |
Sports / Re: AFCON Prize Money For Winners, Runner-Ups, Others by TheSociopath(m): 10:47am On Feb 02 |
God1000: The money is not that much, a continental cup like AFCON should worth more than that but the trophy itself is beyond money sha.
FIFA spent a whopping $440 million for all the participating teams in the last tournament.
Winner got $42m
Runner up $30m
Third place $27m
Fourth place $25m
Asian cup is lesser, and they play that one every 4 years 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Tested AA For Genotype When Young, Now She's Testing AS by TheSociopath(m): 8:47am On Jan 22 |
HolySteph:
Thank you for the clarification. π No worries |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Tested AA For Genotype When Young, Now She's Testing AS by TheSociopath(m): 9:19pm On Jan 21 |
HolySteph:
Hm.. never heard of this medical procedure before. Please how do they do it? π Blood test of the mother, or the amniotic fluid |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Tested AA For Genotype When Young, Now She's Testing AS by TheSociopath(m): 7:47pm On Jan 20 |
Marry her. Anytime she is pregnant, you'll do a test to see if the baby is SS. If yes, you'll abort it and try to conceive again |
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by TheSociopath(m): 7:40am On Dec 27, 2023 |
Notfogotten:
So let me lay low for the next 7 months. So you want to move from Student visa to permanent residency? Not possible bro, don't deceive yourself |
Career / Re: Can I Still Work In PWC Or Any Of The BIG 4 by TheSociopath(m): 1:54pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
It's PwC, not PWC |
Phones / Re: I Want To Retrieve An MTN Sim by TheSociopath(m): 11:56am On Oct 06, 2023 |
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Crime / Re: I Think I Might Have A Case Of Money Laundering by TheSociopath(m): 3:54pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Wawelexy: Possible situation
1. They stole someone debit card at gun point or by trick and requested for the pin, they avoided the ATM stand cos the machine will take their pictures when used and moreover, withdrawal limit of ATM is also an hindrance, and it will take time to withdraw 500k and above cos ATM max withdrawal at a single transaction is 10-20k. The man suffering from supposed stroke, two kids, referral and the woman are all accomplice.
You have already been indicted cos there's a transactional link between your account and the debit card in question here, if anything should later come up, the bank will definitely trace a link to your account.
What to do; Go to a nearby station and report the case, so as to be exonerated just incase anything springs up. Also, asked them to come and get back the refund in person, secretly take pictures of them, put your phone on record and purposely ask question or initiate a discussion that would make it clear that you are not in anyway related to them and do not have any deal aside for the fact that they are buying goods from you and also returning it to get a refund.
Warning β οΈ: do not accept any form of compensation for refunding them, they might offer you a deal to refund them 900k instead of the 1M they initially sent for the goods, please do not accept it, but however, you can charge them for inconvenience, this can be defended. If you must refund, refund it to the POS account they used to make the transfer |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience Job Hunting Today by TheSociopath(m): 8:54pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Danremmy: don't have access to that mail again Alright |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience Job Hunting Today by TheSociopath(m): 10:35am On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Family / Re: In my late 20s; I Don't Desire The typical Marriage, But I Want To Have Children by TheSociopath(m): 12:29am On Sep 15, 2023 |
UnconventionalT: I've been a guest of the platform, I created this account to get the opinions of my people since I happen to be a Nigerian.
I am a lady in my late 20s and I have discovered over the years that although I love love and the idea of marriage, I believe the conventional typical marriage will not work for me. I am a core introvert, I enjoy my space a lot and I loose so much of my energy spending a lot of time around people. When I was in uni years ago, I made sure I didn't enter a relationship with a guy in my school because I didn't want a boyfriend that will most likely always want to be in same space as me, or try to spend very much time together. I enjoy long distance relationship, because it means I will not be seeing my patner at all times, I only enjoy little moments of companionship before I get tired of sharing the same space with my patner no matter how in love I am.
I have observed over the few years that the few guys I've been with are people that didn't live in same town as me, and when I tried dating men within close proximity, it always ends in complaints from them about how I don't miss them enough to come spend time.
I don't enjoy sleep-overs, although I've been compelled to do that on very few occasions(probably less than 4 times) I always can't wait to get back to my house, I have never spent more than one night at a stretch with any of my ex. I really do enjoy long video calls.
To be honest, I am also not a fan of sex, I could go months without it. I can't imagine being married and having to do that all the time with a sexually active man that I'll continually share my space with. The only time I feel the urge to do that is when I am on my ovulation period which is quite normal for most women. I am doing my japa masters degree and I tried to develop a relationship with someone I really love and attracted to, he is currently complaining about same thing my ex would complain about.
I could be married tomorrow if I want to as I have two men ready to do that with me, but I cannot lie to myself or the man that intends to marry me and have him live his life in misery. I love children and want to have my own kids. My idea of marriage will be a marriage of convenience, where my husband and I do not necessarily have to live under the same roof for extended periods of time and we can co parent our kids on our own terms. This is the only way I can have a long lasting marriage if I am not deceiving myself. A long distance marriage, family vacations, have the privilege of being married and still be able to occupy my own personal space as much as I want. This can be reviewed as time goes on by the way. I am not certain if I can meet a man that shares the same idealogy with me, I'll get married to him tomorrow
The only thing I'll regret not having by the time I'm 30 will be a child of my own, I carried a baby in church today and I wished it was mine. I have babysitted my nieces before and I enjoyed my time with them, kids brings me a lot of positive energy. I really don't mind having just 2 kids for a responsible adult man that isn't really interested in marriage as well.
It's not my fault, my marriage will fail if I try to practise it the typical way and it won't even be the fault of the man(if he is a good man).
Help me out guys, I am at a cross roads. Are there men that are open to long distance marriages? I'll be in the comment to reply as much as I can.
Mods pls help move to front page. You are my kind of person. At some point, I wanted to discuss with a lesbian to give birth to 2 kids for me and she can continue to have female partners. I just enjoy being alone. By the way, I'm in the UK too |
Politics / Re: βI Curse The Day I Joined Labour Party Because Of Peter Obi,β 74-year-old Woman by TheSociopath(m): 9:07am On Jul 07, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: Obi the religious politics master. Obi the yes man. Obi the political harlot (from APGA-PDP-LPAPC) The black-garment-wearing man (AlaΕo dudu) The sissy (you could tell by his voice) The opportunist. The fake messiah of the youths. The lying machine (e.g, βIn Nigeria, there are SANs who never attended Law Schoolβ)
May God forgive you Obi for brainwashing this mummy, you've been exposed for the fraud you are. You mean Peter HOEbi? |
Family / Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by TheSociopath(m): 5:27pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Essenza01:
Its not even the best of apartments, its just a regular place in Ajah axis... i still have to wake up 5am to run out... So why not rent in Ogba then or mainland? I earn more than you and my house rent is 400k / year 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by TheSociopath(m): 10:07am On Dec 19, 2022 |
Give400:
Go spiritual too bro. Don't let any useless human being threaten you anyhow. I can help you if you want |
Travel / Re: Japa Story: The Cost Of Relocating To The UK With Family by TheSociopath(m): 9:33am On Dec 01, 2022 |
zed7: I always tell people that japa is not for the poor. It's the middle class that can actually afford to relocate. Right now it's all about herd mentality. Many are like a bull going to the slaughter house. No concrete plan.
I actually wish them goodluck. They will sweat and grind for every penny. Nothing is given freely.
Whilst I know the country failed them, I also know that this is second slavery. The West don't need guns and mirrors anymore, they just need to dangle visas and tweak their policies a little and our best hands will run and go slaving for them, whilst their citizens idle away and enjoy the fruit of our peoples hardwork. Just like the days of old.
The West got this advanced with the sweat of Africans and other less developed nations. They're still doing same till date. It's pathetic. I'm not slaving away here bro. I'm actually enjoying my life here, better than I did in Nigeria 8 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity Grounds Lagos, Ogun, Abuja, Commuters Stranded by TheSociopath(m): 8:25am On Oct 26, 2022 |
Blackstan: Vote for Peter obi.. very simple Don't worry, I'll vote for Peter Obi. But if there's fuel scarcity during his period, I'll come back and place a curse on your forehead |
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Politics / Re: Peter Obi: I Was Able To Move 439 Million People Out Of Poverty by TheSociopath(m): 4:19pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Afamed:
Do not be silly, what is the population of Nigeria that he took 439m Nigerians out of poverty? You're actually the silly one. Go and watch the full video. He said China adopted MDGs and they were able to put 439 million people out of poverty |
Politics / Re: You Are Despicable Tribal Bigot - Deji Adeyanju To Peter Obi by TheSociopath(m): 10:34am On Sep 12, 2022 |
Validated: Deji will soon run mad on Peter Obi matter. Deji Adeyanju and Reno Omokrika will soon die on Peter Obi matter. Funny, the more they attack, the longer 1 million man march gets longer. Obidient sighted 4 Likes 1 Share |
Phones / Re: How To Recover Money From A Scammer by TheSociopath(m): 11:49pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
EZEB1: Okay so I came across your topic after doing a Google search on the topic.
I was scammed of about N25,000 from a vendor on Instagram who claims they sell hand made shoes. I paid the total money for the shoe and the transport cost and since then the guy stopped replying messages nor picking his calls. I intend to follow this your steps above to see if I can recover my funds from this scammer. I will post my progress here too as I go on. Did you get your money back? |
Food / Re: Can You Eat This? A Nairalander Hunted And Fried Flying Termites (photo) by TheSociopath(m): 11:57am On Jul 07, 2022 |
TheStakeHolder: Sapa induced diet.
May God save us all from poverty...
It's not poverty. It's a nice dessert or even meal if taken with garri 1 Like |
Education / Re: Is Teaching Job Now A Modern Day Slavery?? Honestly I'm So Angry Right Now by TheSociopath(m): 10:10am On Jun 30, 2022 |
dangoteinlaw: Better go back and take the offer oh unless u want to become a pos agent haha I tot I read that pos now requires ican, naija na cruise lol. Some POS people earn more than that in a month |
Family / Re: Am I Doing Bad As A Father And Husband by TheSociopath(m): 11:39am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Reduce the weekly stipend to 5k for a while. She will appreciate the 15k. Then bump it back up to 10k for a while 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Borno Shop Owner Arrested For Connecting 21 Fridges To Streetlight Generator by TheSociopath(m): 8:00am On Jun 22, 2022 |
LeoDeKing: He is simply a thief and should be made to pay.
The wattage of those refrigerators can be used to calculate all his consumption with the assumption that the connection was made 5 years ago.
If he doesn't have money, those refrigerators can be sold to upset the bill.
Due to low power consumption, power supply is relatively stable in the North especially Maiduguri. For him to go ahead with that connection despite stable power, he is a thief. Offset, not upset. Thanks |
Crime / Re: Names And Photos Of The Victims Of Owo Massacre by TheSociopath(m): 11:04pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Where are the hydraulic soup eaters? Where are d lousy mouth people? Where are d sophisticated people? Hope d place that they attacked was in d North or East?? Can't believe that a day like dis would come when terrorist could attack a small town like Owo and went scot free yet u wont see dem say anything. Insecurity no get tribe ohhhh, everybody gi taste d vavulence. Are you rejoicing? Please check the names again and see whether only Yorubas are affected 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Names And Photos Of The Victims Of Owo Massacre by TheSociopath(m): 11:03pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
rentgyd2000s: Until the Igbo know that Jagaban and Yoruba people are not his enemies, Until the Yoruba know that Okoro and the Igbo are not his enemies there won't be real progress, though there will be individual progresses.
Enough of the stupid and superfluous rivalry: Igbos Vs Afonjas.
It's not reasonable to continue repeating the mistake of Awo and Zik. Yet you're foolishly using the term "Afonja". Can't you see that you're equally as sick and demented? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Umar Ganduje Might Be Tinubu's Running Mate (Pix) by TheSociopath(m): 9:38pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Dgoz: A Muslim/Muslim ticket? Did a Muslim-Christian ticket stop the massacre in Owo? Irrelevant topic sha 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My FiancΓ© Just Lost His Job by TheSociopath(m): 12:13pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Rubyjade: Please help my man, he got retrenched today and it been heartbreaking for him.
His a graduate of accountancy with 4yrs experience in accounting. He can use excel, Ms word and Sage 50 and QuickBooks very well.
Has a very good understanding of LIRS, FIRS, ITF, NSTIF
Please help him, his a good man
Thank you in anticipation Tell him to apply to any of the "big four" as an experienced hire. He can contact recruiters on LinkedIn or message those that work there already. Cheers 5 Likes 1 Share |
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Family / Re: Nairalander And His Family Travelling To The UK For The First Time. by TheSociopath(m): 1:29pm On May 27, 2022 |
9jaHustler: Hey guys, it's our first time ever outta Naija. Currently at Heathrow Airport waiting for connecting flight to Manchester which is our final destination.
Update: It was almost 9:30pm when we left Manchester Airport but it was like 5pm in Nigeria. Everywhere was still day. I though my wrist watch was incorrect until I check the dash board clock of the taxi I'm also moving to Manchester by August ending. I'll send you a pm then 6 Likes |