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@noah69 & xpagnol
great posts, God bless your hearts
These thangs really do need a bit of balance here and there

@spikey
cool off, ma
every conversation shouldn't always end in a joust, be a chum and flow. some of these posts are sent in by guys with real issues, tears and fears, May your own way be smooth too and may you not need desperate counsels to sensitive issues like these here,
y'know, life can be such a rubber ball atimes, u never know where it'd hit on the rebound, ciao!

yeah, i value parental counsel but its got to be taken in the light of a lot of other facts and in a well-balanced out scenario,

cos, some parents can be so
1. possessive
2. overprotective
3. dogmatic
4. authoritarian to the point of being bullies
5. uninformed

that they make you act out their scary movies or try to make you live out their dreams all by yourself.
your brain becomes a steering wheel being pulled in 12 different directions at once?!

I once knew a dude whose fiance wasn't allowed to marry him for like 5yrs as a graduate and the guy as a successful lawyer, and why? because, they were insisting on continuing the silly notion of their daughter not being a 'liability' to "any man", she married him @ the "young" of 34 with the guy knocking 40; just to satisfy whims and caprices and that their misplaced aristocratic sense of vanities.

remember Romeo and Juliet etc etc; their generations was sacrificed to the silly subjective struggles of their near-senile parents. Its happening all around, its best to be watchful.

on the other hand, your peeps can sense a lotta stuff you can't, they've being around you and have been there with and for you all these while, many times its best to run things by them but just know your own mind and conclusions sha.

its some remote part of northern 9ija now and they're supposed to be some bushwhackers so what else do you expect, ehn?

for them sef, they've painted the town red

as for the miserable grimaces they have, maybe the wife don pregnant and the rest are sharing her misery, chikena!

its quite simple really

bad sex = adverse effect on marriage even with abundance of other stuffs

gr8 sex = makes up for a lot of, though not everything in marriage

don't make ur partner need or seek Bleep outside, simple

waoh!

lets see the ladies having their say first o!

it may not be bad, just watch your angle very well so you don't get blowbacks from other staffers cos of solidarity runs, maintain ur objectivity, individuality and watch out for no.1

i wonder what she was looking for that she never could gotten if she'd patiently stepped aside and bidded her time instead of serving with this yeye administration, this joke of a government that she is a bigger joker for fronting for.

akunyili!, whoring away her erstwhile proclaimed value, na wah o, the thing wey money go cause in this 9ija!

a lot of them are ironically true sha o

lets thank God for our godfearing spouses then, they should be doubly praised and loved

doesn't matter which

haba, there's love now and u two are supposed to be adults and we're also supposed to be out of the woods by now, i mean, all that authoritarian male crap our great grand-dads handed us

sillyrants, silly posts by an equally silly soul, i pity ur silly self,

your posts smirk of so much bigotry and idiocy, its a slur on the forum that u choose here to vent your misguided opinions

i think the male child thing is over-exaggerated.

all u ought to be praying for is to see your offspring succeed before your very eyes and in your lifetime

no be one girl marry okocha or se akunyili no be woman?

its time to get things in the right perspective abeg and may the good Lord help us all

na real wah o!

now u need prayers

fervent ones,

its bad now, why thrash ur better half, this life na wah o!

silly post
by equally silly mind
sounds like yoruba owambe sere-kode setting / home video
goodluck to you, without the jonathan cos u will surely jones along this ur present career line

, ha! wahala dey?!

but sad sha,

see the yarns and all the long tory,
Sistah, pray o! and God will help u
and force your man to draw some lines, real hard lines, ur heart can't be such a yoyo on a string to play with and you need your peace of mind, you can't go running scared every time he leaves for that side not knowing what he could be up to

dem don come again o!

good luck to you

Se, dis no be 2009?

haba, and you entertained such ridiculous rants? May be, they'd never seen you taking a stand on anything definitive earlier on in life as a proof of what u truly believed, how you would wanna live your life or what kind of a man they could expect to see in you in the future,

guy, i
1. moved out of home @age 14
2. to follow the blueprint i drew up from a little while before that (don't blame me, i started reading novels @far back pry2, sitting around with elders and generally drawing some pretty hard line conclusions when my mates could hardly get their weenies out @ the johns unassisted then)
3. started making serious dough by ND2 in poly as a sales rep not too long after

>>>>forget my life history>>>>
back to you, wetin dem know u for?
how come dey think na u 47yr old cargo fit as a 20yr old guy in today's world
be wise o!
because, if u don't extricate yourself tactically and definitively from this mess, they could lay the foundations for marring your life for you!
Sharp up, Brace up, even if u have to "Cut-Out" and finish the rest of your educational career alone, in case they dont wanna see reason with you!
God will surely help you

4me
friendship/companionship = love

1. God-fearing, gr8 xtian
2. lovs me for me (wuz here when there was no doe, swore & proved it that she wuz in for real up to da point of our registry wedding before the big church blessing thing)
3. conscientious , men, she keeps me good and feeling like ah've gotta be noble men, cos she's got standards
4. respects me, makes me feel like a hero, (she's no lap dog sha, wait and see her state her point or vex 4 u once, u'll wanna run and keep running)
5. hardworking
6. simple (loves the uncomplicated life though can be a pain atimes with her ambitions)
7. pretty, dark, looks gr8 with or without makeup
8. a people person (me, ha! i could be an antisocial nut sometimes o! So, she genuinely balances me out)
9. should i continue don't let me bore u,

no reason to panic, u'd mostly die of worry if u were with me, my wife's id is saved with her name on my phone but she can hardly keep count of all the pet names i dream up for her, and at a going rate of 3-4 texts per working day despite leaving home together in the morning and still coming back home @night, she can hardly complain, all she looks forward to is for me to make her day.

So, don't be unduly worried
a. ask for your pet name at an opportune time
b. watch for true signs of -ve change in him

if u find any, i suggest u don't delay, get to workm get ur man back cos true husbands/Wives scarce for market only boys/gals full ground.

May ur joy and happiness increase more and more with time

@poster

men, who hit u? u sound like u got chips on your shoulders the size of tombstones, ease of man!
people will always be people, its God wey no dey change.
Welcome to the world man, leave the making heaven stuff for later, abi, u need assistance to go there right now?!

@luxoire & junee; how true!

i also see your insecurities and overemphasised personal need crying out "me, me, me"!

your being unsure, untrusting etc makes it very easy for you to be all rational, all cool and calculated and of course, keeping scores, tabs and co. won't be far off once that kinda mindset's in place.

i think you should go for a mate that really impress you and appealing to the deepest of your noble instincts while being ready to give your best to such a one when you find her and then, true happiness might not be far away.

there's no point hating ASUU, afterall, they are fighting for real issues with an irresponsible cabal nihilistic cabal that we call a government. let all other unions be less spineless and take a cue from ASUU. Haba? Why should a vast 40% of budgets and capital project allocations be used up on roughly less than 7000 politicians who head this country? Have you been to the rurals or can you imagine how much on Naija's wealth is squandered by these pretenders. Of what values are many of the bills they propose anyway. How many have a directly positive impact on the average life.

Its just a pity that students have to be the grass suffering the consequences of this struggle between elephants

it might not be an hate thing, y'know, raising alarm about dangote heading NSE. What will the way we always twist every little opportunity we get here to make killer-profits? or the funny political alliances and juntas fellas often kowtow to despite our thinking they're men of solid self-reached conclusions made on the basis of the best evidences?the possibilities are endless but it boils down to the man himself, i kinda like the guy sha but then who knows, with all this his brouhaha with Otedola.

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some call it a trend, some they're wired that way, but we all know what batty-men are? buttbang*ers who wouldn't even have the decency to let us raise our kids in a better world, and we say mankind is evolving alright,


We're evolvin towards trouble!


of all the nerve, they even went to the House, na wa o

united states of africa, an idea that's being around for a while but being largely pushed frantically by Muammar al-QADHAFI?
is this a welcome development or some stuff we'd end up regret for a long time if we got in to it, and is the fact that Obasanjo and Yaradua had opposed it an hint to that?

king of kings, pah!

aint this another pawn on the-rush-to-globalization chessboard? what bait did they offer him?, anyway, u're largely blind to such issues in africa and you may well be until ur neo-colonized black mugs get tagged and chipped in ur sleep?!

and guess what? he has a one-year tenure and vows to achieve USA2 (united states of africa) in that one year, ?

open ya eyes man, open 'em wide, all this organizing everything into neat blocs, don't it just make it easy for some really smart influential someone to later propose a one-world government which they did by the way at this year's World Economic Forum at Davos and then some other powerful individual gets to be UN World Government Governor, its adding up bit by bit, aint it?

and when its here, where do you think you will be? how do u think u will feature in that new government, at the rate at which your economic bases are being bought out from under your black noses, or at the rate the world especially ur folks are procreating?! while seating on the most fertile soils globally, don't u think if the guy had fascist tendencies, ethnic cleansing might be an option to clear your lot out, anyway, i was just trying to scare ya, another scary bedtime tale

be careful what u're supporting, any fool with half a brain knows by now, world politics and affairs are largely being shaped by minds and hands that have defined agendas that do not bear democratic or just tendecies like u would want to believe

awon oponu, gosh, i friggin' despise these idiots, God knows i do, dem tramping all over the place, after sitting in jerusalem wey we know say no be dem own with their friggin' dome and yet they can yap, abeg they're gettin whatcha deserve, they shuld thank their god i'm not that pm, i'd have had them shipped, cargoed, crated, ferried or whatever back to their islamic paradise

the pm is right jo, pple are always eager to nail teeth on the past excesses of the catholic church, the crusader wars etc but are always half-witted, crack-arsed about talking to fanatical leftist islamic groups constituting a galactic menace all over the place,

@kobojunkie,
i agree with ya bro, see 'em fools calling for a takeover of another persons heritage, national culture, way of life, i mean, these guys are like locusts, bugs or some roaches with 10 lives like that, bomb this, bomb that, imagine aussies going over to saudi and talking takeovers and see if they'd even be allowed to come home in bodybags,

@lagosboy
i suspect u o, no come near my street o, rottweilers and biometric perimeter defenses dey everywhere o

yeah, cameras with no lights, no water, no food and of all things to get's cameras along with polices bozos with fraudulent tendecies looking in on you from time to time, eko o ni baje o