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Ginaz:
Good evening house.
My phone got stolen last year November. The thief cut my window net and stole my phone along with the charger through the window. I woke up around 4.a.m searching for my phone with no success till I looked at the window and saw the big hole staring at me. I was so shocked is an understatement.

I have replaced my phone but right now I wake up in the night and start looking for my phone even if I must have safely keep it.

I wake up and first thing I search for, is my phone.
I open eyes, first thing I want to see, is my phone.


How do I stop this biko? Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?

Sorry dear...I experience such too. This guy never know the trauma they cause people.
I am a strong guy emotionally, but still for sometime after the incidence, I do have nightmare and wake up in the middle of the night. The reason isn't really because my girlfriend phone was stolen (we were asleep together the night), but because I realised how vulnerable one -no matter how strong- could be during sleep. I wonder, that if the person had meant to harm me physically by stabbing me, shooting me or pouring me acid, they could easily do it. I also felt for my girl, that people can even snap her unclothedness in the middle of the night.
I moved within few months from the area and since come to convince myself, that top floors in storey buildings is the safest. That's what I got for myself now

silvoclaira:
Like for Peter OBI


Share for Ahmed TINUBU & ATIKU Abubakar

Mo una just stop this share and likes and go get PVC abeg

Lionnation:
You don't really know logic oga,

Ok. You might want to point out the defect in that logic, so we gauge ur intelligence

wwwihy:
Kini Tunde so?

You want delegates to transport,feed and accommodate themselves and return nothing to the constituencies that nominated them?


Fear God now, Man of God

See example if bad nigrrian. Does the party not pay them for their work?
Na u be the kind of cancer that needs removing

naptu2:
SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1534836692946931712

Governance is not very hard. It's just that we always elect mumu people with vested interests. If I were the governor, banning bikes would be easy. Don't only penalize the bike riders, apprehend, prosecute and penalize the passengers too. NOW TELL ME IF BIKES WON'T DISAPPEAR WITH THIS SIMPLE STRATEGY?

naptu2:
SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1534836692946931712

Transportation industry should be reformed. No big and orderly city use okada the way we are using it here in lagos, except those dirty big cities in India and Pakistan. Tinubu and his people killed GOKADA beautiful idea about transporting passengers for selfish and political reasons. Riders were trained in traffic rules and every rider was traceable.

Can u understand this failings in human beings choices?

Jashub:
Their votes won't count . Mark my words

Ignoramous

1F30M4:
Wherever you go - go go gongo
Wherever you be - sisi eko
Do not say yes when you mean to say no - baba Ibadan

Hey, shey we go the same primary school ni?

Pierced:
Lol......I have a life Biko........I am too busy to be used as structure.

Tou indeed have a life. I congratulate u that u do not have any body that fell victim at the owo massacre. You must feel very safe where u are.
And I suspect you are so into your life u don't even care about the safety and security of life and properties of your friends and family. You might even not care about our educational system.
Enjoy ur life

Pierced:
He doesn't av structure.

Aren't u supposed to be a structure for good. Can't you become one if his structures and encourage others? Look at the structures others have that this country is resting upon and ask ur conscience if it will not be better we bulldoze those structures?

Joezinho:
First time she's in the news for the good reason. This woman is always in the news for bad reasons, either for being disrespectful , rude and intimidating others..

Sometimes i wonder if to be a pastor in RCCG is for the highest bidder or just a mere respect of person. Otherwise what criteria were put into consideration before this woman was ordained a pastor. She is a total abuse of the pastoral office.

She is one of the factors whiny I hope Tinubu don't become our president

Pierced:
Omo......so labour party now had three different faction.

Peter obi faction........the business faction......and the ambassador faction.

And people should stop being delusional by thinking Peter will win South East....... it's only Anambra he can manage to win(that's if he's lucky)

How did u arrive at this conclusion. Is it that u prefer the other candidates to him?

successmatters:
There are 6 terror groups in Nigeria actually, Fulani herdsmen are even more dangerous and deadly than all the 5 you listed above.

Fulani herdsmen are the bandits na

LagosInter:
A man is despised and feels less of himself if

(a) he is poor
(b) he can't satisfy a woman.

The latter is of concern here.

A serious factor to satisfying a woman is good penile health.

This is two pronged: ability to gain, maintain and sustain an erection; and ability to last long.

The former is worse than death.

Men here will agree that there have been occasions you fail to gain or sustain erections especially from age 30.

I have experienced it too. That day I felt like disappearing.

The lady was already in the mood and I couldn't get it up.

Although in hindsight I discovered I had malaria because I used to fire on all cylinders.

This experience is dispiriting as it leaves the man disappointed and the woman unsatisfied and abysmally frustrated.

Scientific literature agrees that factors such as diabetes, high BP, infections, obesity etc can influence these outcomes.


So please I seek to know practically how men here have been able to deal with this challenge for it's when a good erection is gained that you start talking about lasting long.

How can one care for his health - penis so as to have it function optimally at all times.

How can we have good libido too?

What foods or habits can affect these negatively?


I need first hand input and experience please.

Try to be physically fit. What I mean here is not for you to build big muscles, but make sure u dont have protruding tommy and that u are fit enough to have good stamina (u will want to stop sex when u are tired).
Then make sure you are not sick. Malaria affects libido as u have pointed out.
Lastly and very important, your penis is a lump of muscle, exercise it in a good way by engaging in sex often. Don't ever exercise it in a bad way by masturbating.
*And be married before u think of these things, or your penis will soon contact infection and become useless

DonroxyII:
Was God part of Old times ?

When did Missionary comes into Africa and when did they leave ?

Was Nigeria Godly nay Africa 100years Ago

Trust me, this Present Civilisations is far better and Advanced in God than Old times ?

Because God is now Universal unlike before that's Tribal:

Everyone now knows Jesus/Mohammed/Abraham across the Universe except those far from Civilisations:

This is the plan of God: Universality:

There has always been God. Humanity has from beginning of time yearn for God.
Mind u, he excused them to seek him their own ways in those old time. He gave them a conscience as a guide (though imperfect giude).
But then he started writhing us letters, introducing himself and his standards. He was never tribal although different people got these letters at different times.
However, the baffling thing now is that, with the universal availability of this letters now, and the knowledge that is widely available now that to honest minds, reveal the power, love, wisdom and uniqueness of God, the world has chosen to disregard this and go their own way.
U will think that then that people didn't have this wisdom but still yearn for God, people will come to now regard him since there is this knowledge. But the opposite is the case now

Inside a church in Owo Ondo town..... Right now! Yorubas, igbos and moderate northerners, una no see say we no be enemies, but we get common enemies? Una no go get sense mo we unite?
https://twitter.com/NorthernNigeri4/status/1533444155166400514?t=dU4-kaUyIkaYOh_oGw8XXw&s=19

https://twitter.com/TheirIsHope/status/1533444003458433025?t=esvDYEe1Chu3uXwQpyj1sA&s=19

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5135340939893618&id=100002532888439

https://youtube.com/shorts/8nlVURf61ec?feature=share

RedpillAnalyst:
Nothing new here guys. Another romantic story end in trash. Modern dating and romance is scam. 99% failure rate in less than 20years.

Even arranged marriage stats is not this bad.

Modern dating has this modern problem because the "modern" we are in now is a life that wants to excuse God.

BoredBerry:
Just came back from the market... Went there with my landlord's son... This afternoon he saw me going out and asked where I was heading to... Told him... He asked if he could accompany me and I said yes! He was getting a few things too (a mop and buckets and so on...)

I've never spoken to him before... I thought he was an arrogant self-absorbed snub... Not my type... He's a few years older... I'm nineteen so he's between twenty one to twenty three... Very fair... Has curly hair which he dyed dirty blond but left the roots black... Pierced both ears... Dad is a police man... So it's insane he allows his son go out looking like a yahoo boy...

Anyways... He and I trekked a little... We barely spoke... I was extremely shy...

We stay in a very quiet predominantly hausa- fulani- yoruba muslim community... After some minutes we finally stopped a bike... He said we would ride together... I told him 'No'... I never tried that sh** with my exes and sure a as hell wouldn't start with him... But after waiting to no avail... I relented...

It was uncomfortable and extremely exciting! Being really close to cute guy! A lot of bad thoughts but I was also scared a neighbour would see he and I and report us to my mum...

We got to the market which is extremely disorganized! We split up... He went his own way to get what he wanted to buy... And I went to the stalls selling tomatoes and pepper and bought some onions from a mallam...

He and I met again... He asked if I was done so we would head back to our compound together... I told him I had to grind them cause the blender at home was faulty...

In the market... There's a section where yoruba women grind tomatoes or egusi etc... We got there... The lady I chose cause her engine was the cleanest started to tease us... My landlord's son is an aje-butter... He was choking turning red...

It felt good... Cause he was a bit humiliated which made me confident...

The woman asked if we were dating... I couldn't say no... Kept laughing throughout... He didn't say anything.... I think it's a good thing... He made it seem as though we were together...

We finished there... Started talking really well... He's funny... Smart too... Plus he's cute so I enjoyed us being seen together as much as being with him...

We went to a cold room to get some chicken... Nothing much happened there... He paid though... I refused cause I had the money... But I couldn't make a scene... We later spent the money on sweets and soft drinks... Which was fun...

His mum called... Asked him to go to his aunt's wine shop to get something... I didn't follow him cause it's already late... Went home alone...

So u go talk say u no get boyfriend like this? And u think say that guy sef no get a sister he is seeing abi? Continue

absoluteSuccess:
You agreed with me to the point where the rest of Nigerians wise up, which is a future time we don't know to come yet.

Now come to think of it, the Yoruba-Igbo, who were in the majority and were meant to be a great example for other southern people are a curse unto each other for no just cause.

The Hausa Fulani are a blessing, you can never have a country where the integrals don't meet, eye to eye. And exactly that's what the online advocates of Biafra wants. It's good, so good.

But you can't start a healthy nation on perfect hatred of the people you will always have as your neighboring countries.

You will always have your neighbor in your vicinity either in the same country or outside the borders and their affairs will loom large on yours. It's better to channel such human resources positively, especially when you are still together, so it can be useful much later.

Now look at the Hausa Fulani, can you possibly separate the two for many years? Even with all the politics deployed in this direction, did it yielded the desired effect? These people are more likely to build a progressive nation.

The people south are terribly tribalistic and their survival is hinged on the distraction from the perceived enemies. Not because they can't build a nation, but because hate is greatly ingrained in their politics.

It's not even love we are asking for now, or begging for unity, but mutual coexistence.

We will need it in or out of Nigeria. Until the day that the people of the south eschew common hatred, they will never get exactly what they want. That's where the curse rubs on all, even the best candidate will lose for coming from them.

We can learn from the defunct East and West Germany. A nation is not a place you have to yourself alone, it's a place you can share with others.

You have a grasp of many problems besetting the nation.
I will point out that every tribe seems to resent the other in a way, however the situation of the southern tribes becomes more precarious because they don't know when to put aside this resentment and form partnerships to pursue their political aims. And again, their populace don't turn up.
It's this lackadaisical attitude to electioneering activities that I am emphasising has been short shortchanging us

Bravetunde:
Igbos have more population than yorubas infact to me igbos are the most populated tribe in Nigeria.
Igbos are everywhere.
Afonjas mostly dwell in there derty slum in sad waste.
Coming from an ijaw guy

I don't like the fact that you sounded racist, however, the three major tribes are really "major". Hausas and yorubas have had empires in the past. Igbos too have settled very well all the forests in the south. I was at arochukwu area in Abia state about a month ago, and I was amazed at where some community are located-fat inside the forest.
My point is that, none of this tribe should have an undue edge over another the way hausas have. It is this way because IGBOS especially don't vote. You can imagine it's only 150thousand people that voted in Anambra governorship election.

absoluteSuccess:
Tinubu has right to contest and come out winning or losing. He's been in the corridors of power and has seen it all, possibly the best viable candidate in APC for now.

He's not contesting for the position of the Pope, he's a questionable character just as others in the race and almost every Nigerians in extension.

His fate should be decided by the electorates and not the hate mongrels. It never stops any of the bigwigs getting their chance at the top job, and people should wake up from their delusion, there will never be a time for Igbo/Yoruba/Hausa presidency.

It would always be Hausa versus the rest of the ethinics in the political future of Nigeria. In fact it would be Fulani and the rest of Nigerians to be candid.

On miyetty Allah's mandate presidency stands, parachoko, over to you. Let's have the gidi...word.

You are wrong with your last insinuation that it will always be the fulani versus the rest.
I love to imagine that there will be a time others will become smart and take election serious like the north.
Fulani are just privileged because other muslims of northern extraction see it as a religious obligation to form a common front. If not, there are plethora of tribes in the north. Hausa is about 40 million, fulani about 10million. There are kanuris and other many tribes. Tivs too are about 10/15 million.
In the south here, Igbos are like 30million, yorubas are like 40million. Igalas, Benin and Ijaws too number into several million.
Why the north seems to have an edge is that they turn up in there numbers at elections and census. We here in the south don't turn up. That's the difference.

envoymedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSYVif_z62s

A woman alleged to be an Informant for unknown gunmen in Orlu, Imo state has been arrested, IGBERETV has learnt.

The woman who admitted being the owner of the phone number used by the gang led by one Nmesoma to make calls, also disclosed that there are many people in the gang.

She also revealed that the gang members get guns and matchete for their attacks from Nmesoma.

The woman also said she only knows the house of one of the gang members who she identified as “Mazi”.

A former House of Assembly member in Ebonyi state, Maria Ude Nwachi who shared the news with a video on Facebook wrote;



https://www.facebook.com/100050364255333/posts/pfbid025hsXttTEty72GyWRkMKmEhnM6HcagW2E3XWHNjVw8hUoSru5WAcaeHpD56cQg6nml/?app=fbl

Notice how those shameless bastards that are always intentionally closing their eyes to glaring facts and support IPOB, have avoided this thread.
I am just not good at keeping their useless monikers in my head, I would have mentioned them here.

jaybenugo:
The video below captured the moment he lamented while he was being remanded in Prison


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MAf00ouTBxA



https://www.channelstv.com/2022/06/03/breaking-court-remands-osinachis-husband-in-prison-orders-accelerated-hearing/amp/

Most abusers are cowards. They can't take what they dole out.

Yves4real:
By Nwafor Sunday
June 3, 2022



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/its-unlike-him-babachir-lawan-tackles-tinubu-over-comment-on-buhari/

This Babachir is an evil man and a racist too. Tinubu only talked about his dealing with Buhari, he never vilified the north. He said nothing about the north
I am no Tinubus fan, but I am for the truth.

MadamVanessa:




Poor Tinubu. The handwriting is clearly written on the wall, that he's going to loose woefully, reason he starts lamenting.



Truth be said, Tinubu played no significant role in Buhari emergence as the president. If there's anyone that can say this again and again and I believe without a doubt it's Rab'u Musa Kwankwaso and other PDP bigwigs who decamped from PDP to APC as at that time.

It's only foolish Idiotic nonentities that will believe this baseless propaganda by Tinubu. Even Lagos state that Tinubu owned as his property, he couldn't influence the election there much. Tinubu was so inconsequentîal in 2015 presidential election.


Okay let's agree with you that you made him president. So your intention was for him to pay you back too? Lol....wake up , you have been played big time.

I am not in anyway a Tinubu's fan, but I hate lies. You are a shameless liar.
Don't revisit history. Say things the way they are. Don't use lies to pursue your course.
Tinubu more than any factor helped Buhari become president.

Bluntguy:
Just shut up already and be OBIdient.

My bro he made salient and candid point.
#difference between tweet and vote

[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=113410606][/quote]Na sun or serious counselling make them they look like that

HardMirror:
Tinubu: Tinubu is loved and powerful because he is a "come and chop" man. What do I mean. This man is a smart business man, he is very talented in generating money even though I don't like him very much I must admit this. But the man uses resources especially the lagos state government resources to generate money for himself and his boys. His boys also have lots of followers benefiting from different schemes headed by the jagaban. He knows how to settle people. That is the core strength of tinubu. Every development tinubu pursues is based on business for him.

Atiku very similar to Tinubu, he is also loved because he chops and allows other people to chop too. He is better because he is not just a politician or business man, this man is a true nationalist (if you ignore his corruption). This man truly loves nigeria as a nation. He does not allow his religion or region influence him too much. He stood against sharia law in the days of obj and till date he has not been forgiven in the north. He has wives and strong relationships with all regions of nigeria. The man is not tribalistic or a religious fanatic in any way.

Ameachi Ameachi is a man that lovable naturally. He is fun to be around and he does not hold grudges as long as you let him have his peace. The man is fun and very interesting, but what helped him politically is the fact that he has shown unusual loyalty to Buhari. The northerners see him as someone they can trust. Yorubas have no issues with him, some ibos only hate how he is in romance with the northerners, besides that they have no issues with the man. He is naturally lovable. The man knows how to cut back deals well. He knows how to chop and reward his own people too.


Peter Obi the only man in this list that does not play Nigerian politics as it should be played. He spends money but not lavishly and he is not come and chop man. The fact that he does not allow come and chop has been his biggest stumbling stone because other politicians dont trust him. They feel he wont allow them have opportunities if he is in position of power. The educated demograph love him and support him. Especially Yorubas and Igbos. Unfortunately for him, he is a weak politician that has failed to have friends in the north and this would forever affect him politically.

Osinbajo Just like his spiritual father, Enoch Adeboye, Osinbajo is soft spoken and people naturally trust people that are gentle like him. That is his number one strength. He seems like a good person outwardly because he is gentle and does not talk too much. He is also well educated, he comes across as a very intelligent man that has a lot to offer but he does not show himself. Osinbajo as always tried to be a forward thinker, he showed this when the FG wanted to ban cryptocurrency and during the end SARS protests. He seems like a man that would be very approachable to the youths.

Ur sentiments has shown forth. U prefer Osinbajo.
Your take on the 3others are so on point. Tou however, didn't say much about Osinbajo. You just reveal sentiments

dboY1123:
It is a month already that my mom died in my hands.. I am really depressed!! I have been seeing life as nothing and vanity, I can't get over her, memories with her kept coming back really hard I tried to keep myself busy by watching movies, playing games and so on..But that doesn't stop my mind from remembering her.

These days, nothing bothers me again, not even life or death, I still have a father but it doesn't change things..

There was a time I went to school (my ppa), my proprietor was trying to pacify me by talking about when he lost his wife back then and everything, I started feeling uneasy and extremely tired..it wasn't stress at all my stomach started aching and I felt like vomiting or even passing out..he noticed it and I quickly left his presence and I went back home to shower and rest..

Please how can I get over my mom, I'm so obsessed with her and her memories kept coming in my head that every time I felt I could have done something to rescue her despite everything I did, taking her to state hospitals and even private.. I am the last born and I am about 29years..I have elder ones like 45(first born) but I took so much responsibilities when she was sick and I was only the one she could call everytime she's depressed due to memory loss..I later found out her sickness was related to heart failure and it was congestive heart failure she was going through.. All those times we thought she had nocturnal asthma like early last year..

It was only last month we knew that it was cardiomyopathy or cardiomegaly heart related.. The general hospitals we took her too didn't say anything like that, one of them only said her liver seemed bigger than the normal one..And we thought it was edema cz her legs were swollen.. So, it was heart related disease and it led to cardiac arrest or heart attack cz she just vomited and stopped breathing all of a sudden..

Take heart bro...what u are feeling is intense. The loss and helplessness is overwhelming. U may even be feeling strong pity for her.
Stay strong however my friend. Times does it part in healing. With time u will feel better and stronger. Allow time.
It can also help if you resolve in your mind that u will start helping people however u can because of your mum, or make it a life ambition to build a laboratory that can easily diagnose that kind of disease. This way u will find purpose

Stormtrooper11:
Funny you think I'm from the south east. Lol. I'm from the North. I'm Arewa but Nigerian first. Kanaji?! But Nigeria doesn't deserve a ripper like Tinubu. God willing, Nigeria will get the best person. I stand with Peter Obi

Stormtrooper, I have fallen in love with u. Na only ur name I will put I mind on this platform.

ijustdey:
Presidential Primaries: APC May Adopt Consensus As Buhari, Governors Meet Over Convention






https://tribuneonlineng.com/presidential-primaries-apc-may-adopt-consensus-as-buhari-governors-meet-over-convention/


Lalasticlala

Its crystal clear (except one is bent on self deception), that Tinubu has strong influence in APC, but it is not him that Buhari wants.