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[quote author=lick_69 link=topic=87173.msg1601854#msg1601854 date=1192890142]well, simple, i just walked up to the babe and i told her; oh baby , i really want to know whats up and i was wondering if me and u could get together someday. oh baby, u look so delicious and tantalizing. Baby tell me, how would u feel because i would like to take u to places where u only see on the t.v and buy u things that u can't even pronounce. All you have to do is come take a ride with me in my uncompleted mercedes benz. Please baby i really want to be your man., the next thing, she started laughing oo. please what did i say wrong? You people are not helping matters because u are not giving me any latest lyrics, [/quote]ok, this is one funny shit, couldn't help laughing, lmao

To answer your question

its obvious she's engaged to this guy, but her heart's with you. she still loves you.
No, i won't advice you to have sex with her and kick her, remember what goes around comes around.
if your no longer interested in her, just let her be.

i really support the issue of separate accounts, the fact you guys are married doesn't mean you can't have a little space of privacy.

And the issue of black girls not picking the bills, is absolutely wrong, yea i know most black girls like the guy to pay, but there are still some who like to pay the bills themselves.

But i don't think this goes down well with most black guys even though she was the one who asked the guy out, i think most of the guys would see it as an insult to their ego.

lmao.

i have a creative mp4 player, i store my videos, audios and photos on it. i have up to 489 video files, 2230 audio files and up to 200 photos on it.

it comes with an sd card slot, so i can decide to expand the memory anytime. i think the apple ipod is over priced, i don't really like apple products. you must have i tunes to download files and its mostly compatible with only apple products,

the creative zen comes with better features like video and audio recorder and a mic. and the price is reasonable. i would go for a creative zen any day. any extra listening of music i need apart from my mp4 is done on my phone.

good luck, don't mind your heart would find that love it deserves.

lmao, .
una no go kill me with laugh.

wow , i just saw this thread concerning my friend. i even forgot about it. its an old topic and a lot of water has passed under the bridge. they parted ways. he is dating someone else now and he's got a good job with a bank. ever since she separated from him, i heard she's been jumping from one guy to another. even though his dating some one she still wants him back and still disturbs once in a while( i guess because she knows, his now financially capable). i just think she's just one of the parasites, who's whole brain is controlled by the word MONEY

@uyai

Nope, the guy is very attractive, his only problem back then was, he did not have a good job, because he just finished his youth service and he really loved the girl. even though she was the cha cha type, he was ready to give her room to change. but everyone runs out of patience sometime.

@topic

Under no circumstances should a guy raise his hands against any lady. he slapped you once and he would do it again, its a progressive thing. don't surprised if he carries it further. i suggest you leave him alone.

Never, but would.

What an arrogant girl . you better leave her sorry ass, for her to give you an ultimatum, its obvious she doesn't love you, and wants to get out of the relationship. so i suggest you leave her alone, and look for someone else who deserves your love.

lol, ok this is one topic that brings back funny memories .

remember i had a huge crush on a boy. his mum and my mum are good friends. but as the saying goes, it was a crush and crushes die. though we are still good friends.

Have had a couple of minor crushes, not so serious. but i have long gotten over crushes.

first, i want to ask you, how you knew she is cheating on your friend?

experience has thought me not to put my mouth in another person's relationship. no matter how close you might be to the person. because when it all blows open, you would be blamed for the split up , whether you were trying to do good or not.

but i would suggest you anonymously let out the cat from the bag to your friend. make sure its anonymous.

Nope.

@Esss

Ok, thats one funny piece you got there. helped lighten my mood.

those cakes really look tempting, wish i could lay my hands on one.

i second that. no need wasting your time, because its obvious you both want different things.

Malaysian style of beef fried rice.

green apples,oranges,mangoes, pineapples and strawberries.

What .
thats so sad, he would be greatly missed, may his soul rest in perfect peace.

lukmond:
_{QUEEN OF THE PARK?}

answer the question and leave my reply alone, shooo . i don't know why people can never mind their own business.

ok this is a really old topic, but why does the poster want to know whether the married men and women got married to virgins, its a private question to ask. am not surprised you did not get many answers.

Irreemplazable( Nortena Mix)----------Beyonce

@topic

some times. to get em off my back.

@Bolarge

word, you hit the nail on the head.

@Gridlock

don't follow what the pastor does, but what he preaches , cus we all human beings, and no being has attained half of the perfection worthy of us.



@topic

i admire your write ups, they are educating. all you have said is the truth, you won't expect everyone to agree with you, because the truth is very bitter, but it must be SAID.

sex in a marriage is good, its a gift from God to help strengthen and create a bond between husband and wife, but when couples place a lot of priority on the sexual part of their marriage, they might ignore other aspects of marriage that makes it successful .

thats why the divorce rates are rapidly increasing.when couples find out they are no more attracted to each other and have problems, they see nothing left to continue being together. other aspects that could have kept them together was not developed.

ask couples who have the most successful marriages am talking of those who have spent up to 50years and above together, they would tell you it was not built on sex.

havanah:
i do share part of your problem thonia and i do speak my mind no matter what , a lot of trouble comes from that and a lot of sadness and tears from the other party but ive always thought that if i want to say something to some one it would better be as truethful and sincere as i can make ,ive read many of your posts and i admire your way of thinking u know how life is and how it goes on u see the naked truth and give it back

yea, bluntness hurts most times, cus you think you are doing the person a favor by being sincere and truthful, but the other party might not see it your way and feel hurt.

hey, thank you for admiring my thoughts.

@Joey82 and saucekid

Lol , ok i admit its not nonsense, but i just feel comparing girls to viruses is insulting. so i attacked back.

sylvao2000:
Can you stay without that you called nonsense l guess your guy prove that as nonsense to you, shame on that smelling mouth of urs you open to call nonsense, idiot

Hey, hey, look ain't got no time to exchange words with you, cause all your looking for is some attention and your not worth it. sauce kid insulted ladies, and i replied back. every other person that responded to my post, did it politely. but you go ahead to call me an idiot, if you got a problem with my statement go jump into the lake. cus ain't going to insult you back,peeps like you ain't just worth the stress. so if you want to keep ranting, be my guest.

My bluntness, i tend to tell people what i think of them to their face and this has gotten me into trouble a lot of times. when i don't like a person it shows on my facial expression, voice and body language. my mum's told me that certain things are better left inside us. am trying to improve on this behavior though.

funny enough silent treatment does not work with me, because i got this i don't care attitude that comes up, also i give people silent treatment a lot. this is my way of avoiding saying things which might hurt them, this gives me time to cool down and think everything over, but i avoid doing it for too long. but i have noticed when you maintain a certain amount of silent treatment with someone you chatted with regularly, when you eventually get to talk again, there is a communication barrier, it takes a few days or even more before you guys communicate like you did before.