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@FKseun

i agree with you on the issue there is hardly nothing as good friends when it comes to the opposite sex, talking from experience. but it still depends on how you handle the friendship.
i got friends that are guys but not good friends/best friends that are guys.

lol, i find it hilarious.
but why would you be bothered about something your not.

when you loved with your whole heart its very difficult forgetting the person. but he does not deserve to torture himself over a nonentity that threw his love back at him, a man who loves the way he does deserves a lot better. tell him, if she left him, and treated him cruelly, there is no guarantee, she would love him, so he should better move on wit his life and stop wasting valuable time he can use to build something new with a better deserving girl, who would take his heart and treat it as her own.

yea, am smiling right now.

hehe hehehe heeee , ok this is one funny topic. i know sometimes it can be noisy, but i still love my pointers.

the replies i see here, boo.

I really sympathize with you, i know it can be very stressful, i happened to do a part time volunteer service with these sort of patients, and it was not easy, they can be very difficult especially during their bad mood.

as the person above me said, get yourself acquainted with this disease, the symptoms and how it can be managed, try to be supportive, know what should be done and what shouldn't be done around her. trust me it would take a lot of patience on your part, sometimes you might just feel like giving up, but remember she's your wife and the least you could do for her is to be supportive.

also i think there are high chances of her bearing healthy children, i have seen mothers with chronic schizophrenia, who gave birth to children who were not paralyzed. there are lots of improved medical services offered these days that help babies of mothers with schizophrenia.

ok you don't need to blow it again,we get the drift and welcome to Nairaland.

am glad you both settled your differences.

hhhhmmm, don't think so.

geeez don't you see it , leave her alone, she's a money sucka . you should be happy she's shown her true color.

such women are not worth it. please move on with your life, i admire your devotion to honesty, keep it up. for her to suggest you try bad means of making quick money, should be clear enough for you to know, she does not love you, she was only there for the money.

if she truly loved you,she would be standing by you and supporting you, in fact money would be the last thing on her mind.

don't mind you would soon bounce back. life is not a smooth straight road, you would have both the good times and bad times. your in one of the bad moments right now, but after that, there would be good moments. i think its at such times you really know those who are your true friends and care about you.

In all sincerity, she is hiding something from you. look, if she was not interested in this guy, she would have told him off a long time ago. its either she's tired of you and is looking for a way out or waiting for the best time, because she might be scared of your reaction.

the story of him saving his name as sweet heart, is all bull shit, why would she give him access to her phone, if they are not over close to each other. common!!! a phone is a private thing, and only those you share a lot of close proximity with, you allow access to your phone.

she even allows him visit her house, when she knows, he is interested in dating her. then you want to tell me all the visits means nothing. don't let anyone deceive you, her being secretive of the guy, explains everything. its either she's cheating on you already or planning to.

you better have a serious conversation with her, to know where your relationship with her stands . because its obvious your on the wall, and she does not know what she wants. if she really love's you, she would not do anything that your not comfortable with because she would want you for keeps.

she's taking you for granted, and its your job to pull her back on track. either by breaking up with her or giving her less attention. get to hang out more with friends, you should have a life outside your relationship. but before you do this make sure you have a good talk with her and tell you where her relationship with this guy stands.

Geeez why are people so fake. whats the big deal if your in Nigeria. why lie about it. i have seen some of your posts round the forum, especially the thread about why Nigerians in Nigeria, beg those abroad. the way you bragged there, anyone would have believed you. you even posted more than those abroad. just be proud of who you are, and stop the fake life. its not worth the trouble.

Scopium:
I think you forget make-ups.
I love music

geez, why can't peeps ever mind their business, i post what am addicted to. its non of your business, to add to it.

lol, gush i miss naija slangs, that was a funny list. you forgot to add the rain is raining.

point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

i got no problem if he picks it just to answer, maybe i was not around my phone. but if he picks it because he's suspicious then am against that.

I guess when they are chasing, they do everything to be accepted. they try to make an impression. once they have gotten the girl, they no longer see the need.

Shoes.
Bags.
Clothes.
Gadgets(Camera,Phone,Ipod,Notebook)
Belts.
Sun Shades.
Novels.
Sitcoms.
My sweetheart

i would still go for love.

Even before i left naija, i did not like fast food especially mr biggs, i don't just see the fascination with these fast food eateries. they don't serve the best food, and its been proven that so many of the fast food eateries( especially McDonald) serve meals that are not so healthy. but most nigerians seem to see it as such a huge thing, whether the food is healthy or not. i think the best thing is to prepare your food at home and eat. shikena.

you deserve it. you better leave him for his girl.

@topic

Read my words girl. his not going to leave his wife for you, your nothing but a temporary distraction.SO GO FIND YOUR OWN MAN. and don't forget your going to get married someday, and WHAT YOU SOW, YOU MUST REAP. and may the husband wrought in HELL , i pray his poor wife does not suffer for his sins.

@topic

I won't suggest you break up with her, just because she lied to you about her age. if for two years you know, she is what you need in a woman, why would you want to throw away what took a whole two years to build. i bet if you had found out from her mum, that she was younger than she said she was, you won't make it an issue. but now she says she's older, its a big issue. You don't know what you have till you loose it. trust me, compatible partners you know is right for you and you want to marry( i used the word compatible because, you can have partners always, but you can't always have that person, that is just so right for you.) are very hard to come by these days. when you have one, please hold on to it. if she has apologized to you countless times and your sure she's sober about her mistake, please be willing to forgive.

@davidylan

good points you made there. you hit the nail on the head.

he he he *****RUBS CHIN***** a lot of things ohhhh, in that short period.
i would make sure i get my hands on all the money i can collect.

watched the video, the music was nice in terms of beats but its wack. i mean their dressing is chaff and they look