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fizofly:
SO THE QUESTION IS -IS IT A CRIME TO FALL IN LOVE?
fizofly@yahoo.com
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as i replied in the same topic you posted else where, do you need advice or are you indirectly trying to get hooked and pass the message, am a nice guy NO OFFENCE PLSSS

i second that!

@post
Good advice.

i think some guys, most especially Nigerian guys feel threatened concerning the thoughts of their women being more successful, they see it as something distasteful. and some might not even think of dating a lady more successful than they are. except the gigolos that are out to just hit and run, after they have looted the lady dry.

am sorry but not sorry. be aware that whatever you do there is always a reward. just keep playing, i bet you your going to meet that one you can never dream or have thoughts of playing, but it might not be a smooth ride. WE ALL DEFINITELY FACE THE LAW OF KARMA AT ONE POINT IN LIFE

this would receive many funny but interesting replies from the guys, and i guess one might be humility blah blah blah

well if you must know, i might be friends with you but it does not mean i would support you when your wrong, thats not sincere friendship.also applicable to me.

@niceuzor
haba kno be quarrel now, am just pointing out what you did wrong, what have i done wrong there?

even if i sympathize with you concerning your plight, i don't think its necessary to be rude to others. they are also showing their concern and thats what the forum is here for, you make your situation known for everyone to contribute, so please i would suggest you apologize to everyone.

abeg oh , no be me

tell us what is disturbing you, no matter how long it is. we could be of help?
how do we know if your not ready to share.

hhhmmmm, guess you have a point there.
but concerning the Hausa marriage issue, i still think its so foolish.

thats why i used the icon , cause some girls are just so irritating, going out with a man old enough to be your grandfather. i think one of the major reasons that cause such behavior in some girls is greed or poverty.

@post
i think the reporter who wrote that, is stupid and foolish, don't the have ghettos in NY.

Like a friend usually says, are you sure you have finished handling one wife, you want to bring in another one.
any man who does thins is just looking for trouble for himself.

@McDoe

i quite agree with you.

they are both dear to me.

it beats me, how stupid some men are.

@hot chic
i agree with you on that.

@post
even though i agree with the idea of respecting your parents, i don't think its a prerequisite, that they must have a say in all decisions made in your marriage.

its getting bad,daily.

hmmmmm

my parents say thank you all the time, i guess it depends on individual values.

exactly to hard to take.

i think so, cause i saw a thread once, saying 35 and still a virgin.

if they want to visit. they are always welcome. but to come and live, as in permanent resident. don't think its advisable at all. there would always be conflicts. so better to avoid such stress and everyone respects their own businesses.

lol,

word!