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RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:28am On Jan 14, 2010
Mission accomplished! C'est fini! cool
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:26am On Jan 14, 2010
SEFAGO:
What is wrong with this girl? You are stepping  the line now
dude you weren't drawn into this conversation! But since you want to be involved. I'm simply not attracted to Hausa dudes. Whoever has got a problem with that should go jump off a cliff!  cool
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:21am On Jan 14, 2010
Hahaha. . . Am I getting on some malu's nerve? Awwhhh take a chill pill dude! Lol.  grin wink
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:18am On Jan 14, 2010
Lol. . . Infact let him be Bill Gates son as long as his an aboki, still doesn't make a diff. I'm perfectly fine with my Nwoke! wink
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:10am On Jan 14, 2010
Lol. . . Thank you but I'll rather stick with my Nwoke. wink
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:05am On Jan 14, 2010
OgidiBoy:
Can I refer him to your side lipsrsealed grin
lol. . . Sorry I'm taken and moreover I don't do Abokis. wink
RomanceRe: What Is It With Nigerian Women? by ThoniaSlim(f): 6:18am On Jan 14, 2010
Good you took your search else where. End of discussion.   wink
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Insult Their Toasters? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:09pm On Jan 13, 2010
faakay:
True men are meant to accept rejection.

Why do you have to insult them? can you give me a good reason for this?

It is better to respond back in a polite manner or ignore him if you don't have anything to do with him.

You insult those that insult you and respect those are polite to you. That's the logic

Anyway girls they look faz b4 dem dey insult guyz, levels dey, no girl fit insult me sha,  cos i talk politely and I have respected her, if she misyarn, men,  i go abuse am hen. chei,  she will regret knowing me  lipsrsealed

Trust me, they know better  cool
Typical of some male species. . .and that makes you what? Better than the lady insulting you?

Anyways I dnt give dudes like you a first look talk less of a second look! wink
CultureRe: Traditional Requirements For Calabar Girls. by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:46pm On Jan 13, 2010
jay bee:
^^^
dat explains the sexyness cool
okkkk Jay Bee. lol. Thank u.
EventsRe: It's Mama Gee's Birthday Today, Pls Come In And Wish Her A Happy Birthday. by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:28pm On Jan 13, 2010
Happy birthday. smiley
CultureRe: Traditional Requirements For Calabar Girls. by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:24pm On Jan 13, 2010
Am a calabar girl, but the requirements for my place might differ from where the lady in question is from. So what part is she from?
RomanceRe: Why am i like this? Plz advise. by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:27pm On Jan 12, 2010
Trust! Learn to trust her!
RomanceRe: Most Beautiful Girls Are Thieves! by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:58am On Jan 12, 2010
So because one beautiful girl stole your money that automatically means most beautiful girls are thieves? Ok so why don't I say your a stupid fellow because of one stupid conclusion you made then?  undecided

Also, what sort of ladies do you pick up? Says a lot about you!
RomanceRe: Am Tired by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:49am On Jan 12, 2010
No one's forcing you to stay with him, you ain't really tired of him because if you are, trust me no one would tell you to dump him n move on!
RomanceRe: Hey Ladies: Why Do Most Girls Want To Settle With A "ready-made" Man? by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:44am On Jan 12, 2010
It's the same way men these days want not just a domesticated wife but as well as a woman who's educated n has got something going for herself. So it works both ways!
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Insult Their Toasters? by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:26am On Jan 12, 2010
Personally I do not insult dudes dat try to holla till they give me a reason to. And trust me a lot of them especially them naija dudes give me a reason to. Even when they give me a reason to, I Insult them in a very polite way. cool

but on a serious note, some dudes should learn how to accept rejection in a gentle manner without insulting the lady even when she's politely put him off and they also need to know when asking a lady out becomes harrasment!
SportsRe: Why Do Nigerian Girls Love Chelsea Fc? by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:57pm On Jan 08, 2010
Have you peeps run out of ideas on what to say about Nigerian girls?
RomanceRe: Did He Really Love Me Or Am I In Love by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:16pm On Jan 07, 2010
He stopped calling you after he requested you have se.x with him the first day he met you and you refused. . .and your still asking if he loved you?

Yes he loved you so much that all he wanted to do was get into your pants. . .satisfied?   undecided Mschewwwwww!!!!
RomanceRe: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:44pm On Jan 07, 2010
Seriously do you know why they hit people at the back of their heads? because that's where the stupidity is stored!


I've got to say some women have got a long way to go!

A lot of women take this feminism crap too far! and before some of you go yidi yada. . .I'm also a feminist. . .

But let us address the true meaning of feminism. . .Some of you screaming "I'm a feminist" do you truly understand the true meaning of feminism?

Or do you just spew sturvs from your mouths without having a clear understanding of what your saying. ,

Feminism is not all about screaming Oh I'm equal to the dude and all that crap. . .women like Hillary Clinton are what I call true feminists. . .because they understand what its true meaning is. . .

feminism is not about fighting to be a man's equal or throwing your duties away as a woman. . .But its rather all about embracing your gift as a woman. . . exploring your hidden potentials,going beyond your limits and being the best you can be to yourself, family and the society at large. . .

Back to the issue at hand. . .Yes Its may not be compulsory to you but its something I'll happily do cus that's a sensible thing to do!

Now I'm not making excuses for men. . .but I like to look at it from different point of views. . .sometimes we women are the cause of our own problems with men!

Men and women are also like switches. . .you click the right switch and they treat you right. . .ONly and I quote only the foolish men and men who do not fear God would treat you otherwise. . .

You do a real man right. . .watch and see if he'll ever take you for granted!  wink
RomanceRe: 30 Commandments To Being The Perfect Naija Man To A Nigerian Lady by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:49pm On Jan 06, 2010
lol. . .this is some funny shit. . .ama share it! grin
RomanceRe: Who Makes The Bigger Ho: Nigerian Gals Or African American Gals? by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:30pm On Jan 06, 2010
Princek12:
Instead of Naija girls to respond to the substantive points in the argument, their responses are usually, "leave us alone, jooo," "why don't you go and find the other girls?" These implies that Naija girls somewhat acknowledge the truth of the statement of the poster but don't want Naija men to speak out. You females should be happy that Naija men are speaking out, because it shows that the men have a vested interest in the community.

It is only ugly, bhitch arse men who will take a woman's obnoxious behavior without speaking out, and it appears those are the kind of men Naija women prefer. That is the reason that lot of these Yankee Naija women are single or end up with old or married or ugly arse men. If the real Naija men don't speak out and then flock to these Akata or oyinbo girls, you Naija girls are going to start running your mouth like Akata girls by saying, "all these brothas go after white women when they become successful."

Why don't you all women for a change listen to these criticisms, ponder about it, and see whether there is any credence to it. Like they say, there is no smoke without fire, and instead of telling the poster or other men to go for akata or oyinbo girls, ask to see the specific experiences that led him to the conclusion. You girls know how you act and how your friends act so just compare and contrast the statements of the poster with your friends' behaviors; that way, you can come up with an intelligent response rather than attacking the poster's character or making a strawman argument--responding with a different topic just to deviate from the point at issue.
And so you feel every woman who responds to this has got the same problem?

Geez how daft can some peeps be. . .If the poster wants clear opinions then he should quit the generalization and limit it to the number of girls he's probably associated with who have got this character. . .instead of coming here and making unnecessary insinuations!

And oh. . .before you all go throwing stones. . .remember you all also live in glass houses! Its not like you peeps are saints yourselves! Bomboclats!
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Romantic Pet Name To Call Ur Girlfriend? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:14pm On Jan 06, 2010
He calls me Sunshine, Baby, Sexy,Babes and I call him Mon Cheri/Baby. . . kiss
RomanceRe: He Is Confused Whether He Wants To Marry Me Or Not (guys Pls I Need Ur Advice) by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:07pm On Jan 06, 2010
Anyone can say whatever they want to say. . .but by the end of your first year together you should be able to determine where your relationship is heading!

If you know its got no future. . .then pls quit wasting your time. . .are you sincerely gonna stick with a man who's obviously confused and has got commitment issues or rather isn't sure about where he stands with you?  undecided

A man who's serious about you and ready to commit to you has no business being confused! He just knows in his heart that your the one!
RomanceRe: I Got A Stalker And She Is Ruining My Love Life: by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:06pm On Jan 06, 2010
Why do I feel there's something fishy about this story? huh
RomanceRe: He Said If I Get Someone That Can Marry Me, I Should Go Ahead. by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:04pm On Jan 06, 2010
You seriously do not need anyone telling you he's simply saying you both got no future together. . .you had better leave!
RomanceRe: What's Your Most Suitable/preferred/romantic Location For A Date. . by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:02pm On Jan 06, 2010
A picnic by the beach. . .or dinner by the sea side while you both watch the sunset!  kiss
RomanceRe: Who Makes The Bigger Ho: Nigerian Gals Or African American Gals? by ThoniaSlim(f): 11:51am On Jan 06, 2010
grin grin grin. . .seriously don't you think this whole ranting abt nigerian girls is beginning to get stale? undecided

If they are this and that. . .leave them alone for the men who want them shoo. . .why should peeps be getting their BP high for no reason? grin huh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders-get A Life! by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:27pm On Jan 05, 2010
OgidiBoy:
Come sef Thoniaslim are you sure you not the one that broke the poor boys heart. The last thing Nigeria needs now is another heart broken wanna be terrorist.


*** Happy new year*** kiss kiss
Lol. . .am innocent ohh. . .

Same to you. . .how was your holidays? smiley

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