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If you look at my reply, i believe your name wasn't mentioned. Moreover your not the immediate poster above me neither are you the one who started the topic. Hope that answers your question.

First i went to look at your profile, and i was like, ooops, who you kidding? not even worth the advice.

deeplo:
thanks very much for your advice and contributions. from debosky, steve49ja,MoneyRule,tboy1,ThoniaSlim,arramyjay,Moyola and tmoney11,  at the moment.

My parent are already aware and they asked us to meet and find solution as we both can only solve the mystery lurking in there. i tried my best to meet her just to talk some sense into her but she always avoid me,  if i call her number she will not pick if i hide it and noticed it my voice she will cut it ,  

As for my fiance, she is not a problem, she understand more than any woman in this world that is why no man will take her away from me by GOD's grace. We have been together for 8yrs when there was noting, when we can't afford to eat what we want,  i will never leave her i will do all i can to make her forgive me, not even now that we are living in our own house, built by both of us and business named to our unborn children ( we already know the name to be given each child),  let me say it here,  i have at no time cheated on her. we men should always pray never to fall in the hand of women are have no immunity against that,  we need grace.

Why didn't you think about that when you were about to screw the other girl? Oh i forgot it was your third eye doing the thinking for you.

Be real! how hard can that be?

Never compromise your own personality for any dude, A man who loves you would love you just the way you are. At least you would be more comfortable knowing he's in love with you for the real you and not the fake you.

And if it doesn't work out, then you should be able to understand, ITS SIMPLY NOT MEANT TO BE.

Exactly what you get for not being able to control your lustful desire, You have a fiance yet slept with another woman. Helping her my foot.

I hope you loose your wonderful fiance to a better man who deserves her, and your stuck with the pathetic woman.

So next time you would look before you leap. 

tboy1:
You didnt have to bash the dude, he's only worried bout his girl.
By the way:Nice pic!!!

@poster
Ask her where she gets the money from? but be aware she might lie - so the best thing is to forget bout it

Thank you, and nah am not bashing him, just trying to  tell him not to jump into hasty conclusions.

And please what survey did you conduct to come up with your conclusions?

Suck it up, n don't be so pathetic.

What you implying, that the girl's only hope of getting money has to be you?
what happened to parents or family or possibly her work?

You sure got issues, get over being such an over conclusive jerk.

Nah real doesn't

And what are you, some hooker or something?

go get a job mate.

davidylan:
a man knows pretty quickly whether he wants to marry you or not. If he is adamant he wont marry you now you can't change his mind tomorrow.

Besides no man is commitment phobic . . . its a subtle way of telling you you're not going to be the one he sees himself spending the rest of his life with.

Spot On!!!!

@poster

Let me tell you no man is commitment phobic, when any man meets that woman he thinks is right and perfect for him, there wouldn't be any drama of what are marriage plans or issues, he would know he's found a treasure and would do everything to have that treasure for life.

so some peeps even have choice

Guys find women who come across as desperate a big turn off. You sound like you come off as being too desperate towards these guys that's why they run. Take it easy, one step at a time and trust me in no time the right guy would find you.

You just started dating this guy, so allow everything flow naturally, you just don't pop such an issue immediately. Just my little piece of advice.

Duh, don't you peeps ever look at the date before offering advice

The topic was created in 2005, geez about 3years ago.

Because you keep hanging around the stingy ass ladies, time to upgrade.

Lol, you peeps change names like babies change diapers these days.

I didn't really disappear i just became so busy with school stuff and the rest. But am a bit free now, also getting ready to go back to naija for the hols, am so excited.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=207556.msg3225229#msg3225229 date=1229314284]Thonia. . . . .Where have u been?[/quote]I've been around, though i log on once in a while to just read but but not actively posting. How have you been?

Speaking from experience here, I had a very good friend who happened to be a guy, I never knew he had feelings for me, the moment i knew it was never the same again.

Moreover i had a boyfriend and so wasn't interested in him that way. That kinda of put a strain between us and i was no longer comfortable around him, we kinda of drifted apart till we just became casual hi friends. That ended our good friendship.
If you wana still be good friends with her then keep it that way, because the moment you let it out, trust me it would never be the same way.

One love by Kaysha.

Now i can't understand the correlation between your topic and post.

you said she broke your heart and has a boyfriend, so how did she break your heart if you both never dated?

Woman you need to keep him far away from you if you value your life, cus that man's a beast and capable of anything. Lord have mercy on us that are yet to get married, so we don't fall into the wrong hands.

I knew some monkeys would come out here and display their foolishness. The topic said for Catholics, if you know you got no better contribution to make then keep off the thread, if you trying to crack jokes or be funny then go to the circus i believe they are in greater need for clowns.



@topic

I love St Anthony because he's my patron saint.

Do you peeps actually look at the dates?

This is an old and dealt issue, please stop bringing it out again.

MoneyRule:
@ThoniaSlim, do not hate d player,hate d game!!

duh duh duh duhhhhhh.

Lord have mercy.

[quote author=n-guage link=topic=205742.msg3203895#msg3203895 date=1228887702]He wants a Nigerian girl and I think you will be good for him.[/quote]huh, am i blind or are all the Nigerian guys finished?

Paulmo1:
wher a u Thonia, i hear from some zimbabwean sisters that Nigerian guys are hot in bed,

good for them, but i think its best if they stick to them Zimbabwean brothers and you stick to your Zimbabwean sisters.


[quote author=n-guage link=topic=205742.msg3203846#msg3203846 date=1228885140]Thonia, why don't you listen to the Zimbabwean?[/quote]huh, don't get you?

aren't you tired of posting this same topic every where around the romance section? geeezzzz

What happened to all your Zimbabwean sisters? i thought they said they were hot and gud in bed ?

MoneyRule:
Let her know u like her and show it! with time she will work the maths 4 herself.NOTE:kip seeing her and as much as u can,avoid anything that will bring up talks about her boyfriend while u are discussin':bring her so close that she begins to compare,give her what she wants (time,care,attention,money e.t.c) and her boyfriend doesn't give her.Remember,people win not because no one else is prepared to win but because they are more prepared!

You must be an experienced snatcher? kpele ohhh