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Czarskit:
How would u feel if ur galfriend gets screwed by the dude she shares a flat with?
Put urslf in her bfs shuz. . .

My sentiments exactly. . .Some guys need to learn to think with their heads and not that thing between their legs.

lmao at the comments. . .

No insults intended. . .But i thought there was a messenger button available on NL for private conversations?

I feel its different strokes for different folks.

Chop money:
Why is it hard to find a girl who really luv u. I have been in a relationship wit a girl 4 a year now n one funny thing is dat dis girl was d one who dated m. Just last month during d valentine night we were having a wonderful time together before her bel rang. Wen she went to check who it was, her phone rang wen i opened d phone it was a message, i swear i neva wanted to read her message but d heading of d message forced m to read it. Wen i started reading d message, tears rolled down my face because i so much luv dis girl. As a matter of fact she is a model n have even worked for Glo. Wen she came back, i v already read some other messages in her inbox. I questioned her n she accepted dat she had other lovers outside n she begged n apologised but i neva gave her any listening ear. When i stood up to go she said something dat really touched m 'IF U WALK OUT ON ME JUST BEAR IN MIND DAT I HAVE KILLED SOMEONE' Dear readers, advice m on dis matter should i leave her or i should forgive her am confused.

I really don't get that part?

hhhmmmm. . .it depends. . . . . .not been in that position yet. . .so i can't say.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Yes. . .it starts with irritation [/color]

i agree with you. . .

Some peeps just make it so easy to hate them.

you really don't wana know.

yea. . .your story made so much sense. . .wish some peeps who waste their time waiting for the so-called old love could read this. . . am glad you happy now girl.

IFELEKE:
LAUGHING SERIOUSLY!
I can't help but laugh anytime i remember this embarassing scenerio in the presence of my Ex.
Okay Here It Goes.
I once dated a youth corper staying at corper's lodge not far from my place.
One night she came over to my place to stay over,after a while she discovered she forgot some stuffs she needed the following morning.She convinced me to take her back to pick them there and then i kicked against driving her back since her place wasnt that far i insisted we stroll down she agreed and we proceeded.
On getting to the junction we met some Mobile policemen who stopped us and started querying.
At first i mellowed them down and acted the big boy,I was told to kneel down and i refused.
Before i could say jack one had pointed rifle at me and another dragged me down and they started wiring me with koboko,lo and behold i didnt know when i started speaking in tongues.
My corper girl disappeared when she saw me undergoing baptism of fire.
It was so embarrasing because people in my street actually gathered round to watch as policemen schooled ' ' the banker in their street''.
I had to leave the street overtime and it also marked the genesis of the transformation of my corper girlfriend to Ex girlfriend.Though I got a written apology from their the boss the following day,It couldnt wipe the embarassment.

you got me lmfao. . .I can imagine how you must have felt. . .lolzzzz


@ topic
hhhmmm, None i can actually think of.

Being the sort of person i am. . .I just can't keep things bottled in. . .Cus i feel its very dangerous. . .especially to your well being. . .that's kinda of impossible. . .If he can't deal with the truth being told to him. . .then that's his cup of tea. . .cus I ain't gona put myself in an uncomfortable situation for anyone.

Geez i just can't understand how some peeps fall in love. . .But if the guy's moved on. and told you so. .so what the hell are you wasting your bloody time for

excuse me, but whats experience got to do with answering the topic?

Your cheating on him emotionally. . .Its just a matter of time before it goes physical. . .

lol, sounds fun.

Czarskit:
[b]I'm Heaven sent; [/b]likes gals who av a lotta junk in d trunk, a cute face, ripe oranges and a silky skin as well as a good dressense & communicates well; but those would only qualify her for a 'bed space' & not a 'heart space'; would never lay my hands on a 'normal' woman; would cheat 'only' when necessary & not 'cos of boredom;

LMFAO. geeez some guys just make me wana. . . . . . . . . .

Tell you guys what?

First why would i wana slap a guy? I don't expect a guy to raise his hand against me. . .So its as simple as. . .saying do not do unto others what you don't want to be done to you!

Good luck with that. duhhh.

No offense to the Nigerian guys. . .but i have to say most Nigerian guys have got no idea what it means to be romantic. . .which is sad.

Since you seem to be close to her. . .I think you would be in a better position to be able to talk to her and also her willingness to open up to you.

It could mean different things depending on what she's trying to get at.

It could mean she just needs some time alone to figure out things.

It could mean she's tired of the relationship and looking for a way out.

it could mean she finds you too possessive and needs to have her own personal time alone.  it could mean a lot of things.

SO the best thing is to try and figure out what angle she's coming from.

@MrCrackles

what's with the uhmmmmm?

Sometimes in order for us to grow we have to let go of the things we love. especially if we know those things don't contribute to our lives in a positive way.

I had to break up with someone i loved because i didn't see a future with him and he wasn't contributing to my life in any meaningful way. Its not that i wanted to do it, but that was just the best thing to do in order to grow. . .and am i better off now. . .am glad i did it.

Ok i got to say. . .I love my space. . .I don't mind calling me to check up on me. . .but please don't go over board. . .it makes the relationship boring.

Sometimes arguments helps clear a lot of issues. . .but the only time it becomes an issue is when the arguments go overboard.

I wouldn't wana get married to a guy who loves me less than I love him.

But i don't mind him loving me more. lolzzzz