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Akinagirl:
Lol. Thiona, let him dream, it might be his only chance at a real g/f. lol jk

abi ohh my sister.


[quote author=na2day? link=topic=178485.msg2887088#msg2887088 date=1223015702]why? are u shy? there is nothing to fear in telling people all the sweet nonsense we tell each other remember u told me that without me, u wouldnt be able to live a 1min longer. u know our love is meant to last for ever


na wetin bi ur own, abi u dey jealous my beautiful woman because na she get the original star shine shine bobo? [/quote]lol, don't worry it's good to dream. But this definitely one dream that ain't gona happen.

i agree about the way she framed her question. but still doesn't change the fact i wouldn't wana be stuck with a virgin guy.

i sleep with my back facing upwards n stomach flat on the bed, that's my favorite position. but i love snuggling up.

lol, . abeg which blossoming relationship is that? no be me and you.

huh?

depends on the relationship we have after the breakup. I can attend my first ex wedding, cus we cool friends and he was totally matured about the whole breakup.

but the last one, nah don't think so. till he grows up.

honestly speaking i don't see anything wrong with the text, she's just trying to make something out of nothing. 

lol, no big deal. i can wash his boxers, but won't allow him wash my undies.

awww, that's so sad. well i guess its all part of experience in life.

i broke up with my ex cus of his nonchalant attitude, guess he stopped caring and so i couldn't put up with it any longer. moreover i wasn't in love with him, he was just a rebound. but am glad i finally found someone I've come to love so much n who loves me back.

nope, i would rather stick to the experienced guy.

nope, that's like a no no.

you can't be that busy.

if you said once a day, its just not enough.

talk of once a week, just not possible.

first of all, why would i wanna be stuck with a zombie?


cus a guy who can't differentiate his left from his right is = a loser.

What's race got to do with affections?

Puhlease affections are based on the individual involved. Cus i know white b***ches, who are really mean to guys.

nice tips you got there, but note this isn't generally applicable to ALL MEN. I believe, different strokes for different folks.
My own solution is too study your guy, know what are his likes and dislikes.

Do what he likes and avoid what he dislikes and you'll keep him attracted.




Note: This doesn't necessarily mean you should compromise your own personal values or beliefs, It's all about the compromise.

Nah, no regret leaving home to study. It's like a stepping stone of some sort, It's helped me in a lot of ways,  i have become more independent.

It's also made me matured. Back home i was a brat, My parents even comment on the tremendous change.

I have also learnt so much about different cultures and countries.

To sum up everything, i don't regret leaving Nigeria, Cus its been a whole lot of wonderful and sad experience.

my only regret is i miss my parents and family so much. 

My first job, I was a computer n phone operator for some real estate agency here. i was bored during the hols and my former landlady suggested me to her boss( they were looking for a temporary staff). it lasted for a month cus school resumed. Though it was a short one, i still enjoyed every bit of it. i learnt a lot within the short period, the pay was reasonable(especially for a student) n there were freebies .

jaydude:
@ Gamine: ;Dif e no b lekki ph one, chevron, jakande, vgc, ajah, You no dey stay for lekki ooo, (CORRECT)
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ThoniaSlim:  You sound so dumb right :now, alpha beach is called what? , (I THOT WE WERE TALKING ABOUT RESIDENTIAL PLACES)



You GUYS SHOULD TAKE IT EASY OOOO, PLEASE

yup, we were talking about residential areas. i was trying to pass a point across, cus i stay close 2 alpha beach. The missing word there is vicinity.

u sound so dumb right now, alpha beach is called what?

good points you got there topup.

Lmao , it's just like walking into a tesco shopping mall all dressed like am going to some party, i bet people gonna be staring and wondering if am okay.

can't wait to go back, and laugh my head out. bet its gonna be so much fun.

It varies from time to time for me. right now am loving Live luxe by Jlo.

@Gamine

Back in Nigeria i stay in Lekki phase II. so if you ain't sure about something, its better left ignored than saying what you don't know.

I really don't see the big deal here. my closest friend is a guy. i get along very well with the girl he's dating and it ain't an issue.

i respect her position. i also understand when she needs to be in charge and alone with her guy, cus am also in a relationship and understand how it could be tough sometimes dealing with certain issues relating to the opposite sex.

So such situation depends on the individuals involved and how well do they handle the situation.

My advise to bukky. She should try and deal with her insecurities, she should see tope as a friend rather than a competitor. She should get herself more involved in whatever activities they both doing.

Tunde himself ain't helping matters. he should be understanding. he should involve bukky in whatever activities he's doing. he should also try and spend more time with bukky, at least to create that security. he should know he's got a gf now and she comes first no matter how long he's been friends with tope, except he's got feelings for tope and is hiding under the canopy of friendship.

if Tunde ain't be understanding and she ain't still comfortable with the whole thing, then she has no option than to pull out and save herself the heart ache.

hmmm, i don't see the reason your getting all bothered. you not met her yet, you don't know if she could be that special one  , but just get to meet her first and know her. do not allow anyone force anything on you. what ever decision you make should be based on your own instincts and feelings.

Shit happens in life, you don't allow it deter you. If he's overlooked it, then you also overlook it, after all as you said you came to your senses just in time to call it off with the dad. what is meant to be would be, and what isn't meant to be would not be. good luck.

Trapping a guy with pregnancy doesn't mean he's going to stay if he wants to leave.

It also doesn't make him yours. what isn't yours would never be yours, so it ain't worth the struggle. its better to allow it flow naturally.