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lolly2pops:
This is not a robbery gone bad. This is just two people who know each other well who even happen to share a bad. Yes it was immature for her to try to get some leverage but on the other hand the husband should have foreseen the danger in his effort to get his wallet back. His effort to have the wallet back started the physical straggle which saw the lady get hurt.

At that point,the husband can't foresee anything,else she won't have gotten a cut in the head in the first place.The beginning of a scuffle is easy,the end of it is what is usually unexpected.I have read and seen a case of someone who died from something similar.Do you know how dangerous hitting the back of the head on a hard surface is?
I'm not absolving the hubby here,as a matter of fact he started it.He's however not on this thread but she is.Whether you say African mentality or not,the man is physically stronger and can do more damage.

lolly2pops:
Yeah, like her taking his wallet was reason enough for him to abuse her...Africa mentality!!!

What are you talking about?If i take what belongs to you and you come back to grab my balls and i push you hard and you hit the back of your head against the edge of the wall and pass out,would we be talking about african mentality or the damage done?
I'm not in any way supporting the husband,i'm against instigating violence.She is the one i can address here and hence my comment to her.

Jambsupport:
So to you, dating his wife's friend is alright? Bunch of cheaters.

@bolded,seems you don't even understand the scenario.
Yes,she was his wife's friend.If she is dead,the man can date anybody that is not his blood relation.The only issue is if there was already an affair between them while the wife was alive.
In the olden days,men married their dead brother's wives.

Jambsupport:
Haha, where's honour to d dead? His wife's friend? WTF, free to date kini

What honour?The only honour is if the mother was alive.The only woman(women)he cannot date are his blood relations.

[quote author=somsom post=33692488][/quote]Well,except they knew about the relationship before their mother died.Their action is not justified anyway.

pak:
Even if it started before their mom's death. As long as the affair/woman was not directly or remotely connected to the mother's death. Then nothing warrants or justifies their actions

Anyway, my guess is that the family would have had an history of abuse for the girls to have resorted to such extremes. Violence does not just jump on people.

Any man that marries these ones should just prepare for regular WWF sessions

If their father was dating the woman and the mother was aware,then it might remotely be connected to their mother's death and that explains their anger.Their action is however not justified.

babyosisi:
Didn't he seize her key?

Yes he did.He drew the first blood but the hubby is not here so she's the one I can address.

Hotstepper:
Today is 'Obim's ( my Heart) Birthday. Please say a prayer for him that God will continue to bless, guide and protect him for me. Thank you

Happy birthday to your hubby.He is my brother's birthday mate.May the love between you both continue to wax stronger and stronger.
A blessed new year to him.

Their mother is dead.The man is free to date the woman except the affair started before their mother died.

It's good to exclusively breas.tfeed a baby for 6mths but you can't do it for all babies.Some want food a lot and the mother may not be able to cope and some even reject the breas.tmilk themselves.
You can give formula.

Tell them they will all need the services of someone like him someday.

It's a good thing your hubby has tried to make up with you.You said he doesn't like your mum.When you and your hubby are loveydovey again,talk to him on the need to get him to develop at least a civil and cordial relationship with her.She's his MIL and by marriage his mother now.

Try to let go of some things in marriage and not try to always prove right.If your hubby said he could take care of the kids,let him.He has the burden to deal with.

Try to find time to visit your MIL(with the kids if possible).She may not be warm towards you initially but seek reconciliation.

I can only say that there are deeper issues between you and your husband and the parents-in-law.What issue does your hubby have with your mum?Was your husband aware of this exam ahead of time and did he support you?
I think there is a communication issue between you and your husband that got escalated.

Next time avoid things that could result in violence.Don't seize his belongings.

It was not the right thing to do but it was the only option in that situation.
Your friend had to go for a meeting and could not make alternative arrangements for the baby?

Well my neighbour breas.tfed her nephew till he was weaned.The mother passed away shortly after birth.

I hope the IG can get to see this and the incoming president Buhari and start a cleansing of the police force.

So many silly people in such a sensitive sector as the police.

Hotstepper:
Happy Mothers Day to all the lovely mothers here. May God continue to give us wisdom and all it takes to raise our kids

Happy mother's day to you.You are a natural lepa.I bet you don't have to do any workout for you to return to shape after giving birth.
Good for you.

Na wa for posters above me.Una no go grow?Some of you are still young but it will get to your turn too.
Frank is not a boy,he's above 40yrs.

Anyway Frank,you first carry coke come carry fanta.

greatgod2012:
my brother, anyone can look like anybody jare. I don't want to believe a sane mother would allow a grown-up man like that to take her breas.t out and be suckling it with the full glaring of a camera. Not only that, the dude went on to post it on a social media. I don't think a man would ever so disrespect his real mum like that, i don't believe and can't believe it.


You might be right, but i don't just want to accept!
It's totally disrespectful to the mother and foo.lish of her and the "kid".

They were just being silly.The mother looks like an illiterate and she probably felt it was fun since she suckled her child and never knew it was going to get on social media but the son is one big example of an I.diot.

greatgod2012:
This can't be his real/biological mummy, maybe his sugar/honey mummy.



Sooooo disgusting!

They look alike.Moreover,there was someone else in the room with them.A silly son with a not so wise mum.

iOmoge:
she was trying to collect the phone from the person who was taking her the pix.

moreover, she is a pretty baby.

You're right.She didn't take that pic herself.

And the mother too finds it funny......smh

More like I was ready to die in power.

Marriage of 36yrs and they still can't resolve their differences.smh

A pastor's fold is first his family.If he can't manage his family,how will he manage a church?

mulanbaba:
hubby is nigerian. two of his best friends are zimbabwean and one nigerian

Okay.I was just trying to know the kind of people surrounding you.You mentioned what I was looking for in one of your posts.You are surrounded by people who are unstable marriage wise.Unfortunately,the kind of friends you keep(and hubby) will determine the way a lot of things will go.
I see you tried to satisfy your hubby sexually even when you were willing to try all things.Unfortunately sex is not everything even though it means a lot.You marriage seemed to be wound around sex.
As to why your hubby cheated,it has nothing to do with you not being good enough,he was around a woman who was unstable and the familiarity made your hubby fall for the temptation.

Just curious mulanbaba,are u based in SA?Is your hubby and your best friend Nigerians?

The period of ovulation is usually around the 14th day of a cycle for those who have regular cycles.That means you can ovulate on the 13th,14th or 15th day of your cycle.
From the dates you put up here,you have a 30day cycle.The 14th day of your cycle would be the 2nd of May.If you made love on the 4th,it means you were not safe as you could be pregnant having sex 2days after ovulation.

If you are sexually active,why don't you learn to use protection.Start to make use of a condom as that is the easiest form of contraception you can use.

By the way,how old are you Op?

My comment is:young girls,be careful with the kind of men you follow.Not all that glitters is gold.

sherina10:
When I opened the thread I was pregnant without my knowledge, when I discovered I was already pregnant I couldn't bring myself to leave with the unborn baby. Really I can't fend for myself n d unborn baby alone.

Okay.Make the best of your situation.

schmilez:
Thanks a lot.I have called him.asked him where he was,he told me and cut the line

That's good enough.Now go and buy ice cream if you like that or chocolate or shawarma and get in front of the television to watch your favourite Tv station.Make yourself have some fun around the house.

LightIndarkness:
Why Jesus christ got crossed

schmilez:
Like I said the only person he seems to have a little respect for is his dad.
No his family is not polygamous.he actually lost his mom a few years ago and his father refused to remarry.

Okay,have you called him?
It seems his parents indulged him while growing up and it's gonna be hard turning into a gentleman now.You have to give him some tough love from now on.Don't indulge him with too much begging and crying.You have to get a grip on yourself.

See what Bukatyne wrote.

Cococandy has said it all.Give it some time and he may cool off and come back.if he doesn't you have to move on.Tell yourself there's someone better out there and that is really the man you deserve.

Be straight up with whoever you choose to date.You don't have any apology to offer for choosing to stay off sex till you marry.There are guys who will accept that(and you need to be able to sieve out the ones not worthy).

Also don't get desperate and unnecessarily clingy.There's a man for you.