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What do you mean by parasites and are you planning to buy a herbal drug?

4giveness:
Thanks so much but its just that i always feel he probably should have been more successful than he is now and that my past is hindering him.

The biggest problem you have now is your mindset.What has your past got to do with his present.If he works hard and is prayerful,he will make progress.Rid yourself of the wrong mindset!

Why do some ladies like to answer this question of how many men you have slept with?Why do some men even ask the question?

You have a condition known as hyperhidrosis.See a dermatologist.

Pasuma didn't marry,he's just got baby mamas.He's in his 40s and must have had the girl early.

Papa Ajasco.

It's not about the fastest growing,it about where the Truth is.
Crime is also fast growing just as terrorism.

Again it's not about the fastest growing.........it's about the Truth.

The pain you are experiencing could be due to pressure on nerves due to the baby's weight pressing on your pelvis or it could be due to the injections you received the last time which could be causing nerve irritation now.
There's not much that can be done to it as the doctor said except relieving the symptoms until the baby is born.What you can do is to take some pain relievers(only by prescription) and you can see a physiotherapist who can also help relieve the symptoms.
Your first childbirth could have been traumatic which may have contributed to it and subsequent loss of your baby.That does not mean it will re-occur.Keep your mind at rest.

Midehi:
really? and you sure she has not given birth before?

No,she was a student.

Genetics basically.There are a few girls who have very weak mammary ligaments and the bosom sags early.I have seen a twenty year old with such.

Midehi:
i dont think a lady who has not drop would have a sagged breast,even if they are big,there must still be that firmness....seeing a girl's sagged b00bs means that the industry have produced milk.

Not true.There are always exceptions.There are few girls born with weak bosom ligaments.
I actually saw a young girl in UCH with very sagged bosoms that needed surgery.

Juzzybabe:
My hospital is very far from my house ooo,but like u said I case of anything I will start moving. I have been feeling abdominal pains tho especially at night but it's usually on and off.

Many cases of onset of labour starts in the night.I hope the people in your house will take care of you if labour starts then.

Juzzybabe:
My dear,with that only God will send my helper ooo,I live with my mother inlaw and the woman no send me at all. My father inlaw who shows little concern said he will be traveling tomorrow and my mother inlaw is always busy with her shop. Even when she's home she doesn't even treat me like am existing.

Na wa.It is well.How far is your hospital to your house?Well as a first-timer,labour will be a bit prolonged but once you feel contractions coming or you see 'show',get moving to the hospital.

whocanbewho:
nice analysis bt that 1.68m per year could even be lower. Coz most of these ladies grew up with the notion that the man provides. Even if she'll contribute she'll never wanna contribute 100% of her salary except a very undestanding and considerate wife. Its the man's cross really!

That's true.In that case the man should take care of the essentials.It's the women who want more things in the house anyway so if she chooses to keep her money,the man does not need to spend more than he can afford.

Juzzybabe:
Ok thanks. My hubby isn't around but I will work on the rest.

Hope you are not alone in the house.Someone that can move you out should be there in case labour starts.

publicenemy:
Wake up.

It's morning here.The lion is awake.

IzonOwei:
are you sure thaat family can eat fried egg and bread when they want to.. ...me i sabi eat o...only me sef go eat the 80k finish then wetin my family go wak?

Fried egg,butter,tea and bread won't be every morning.They can take other things e.g pap and akara.
Na levels na.You can wack N80k food but some people don't eat that much e.g me.

Juzzybabe:
Hi Doc,I need some advice o. Am due but am not feeling any serious contraction and my doctor told me today that if by Tuesday nothing serious happens I will be admitted and labour will be induced. Please advice me on some home inducement I can engage in to speed up the process and meanyl my baby has been restless and moving actively in the womb. I have been having some frequent urination as well. I have phobia for hospital beds and equipments,by God's grace I will deliver soonest but to be on the safe side,please advice

Walk around.Take strolls around your street-walk some distance,back and forth.
Make love.Get together with your hubby everyday from today if you can.Making love releases a hormone called oxytocin which helps to induce labour.Also from time to time,rub your n1pples.You can also get your hubby to suck on them.It stimulates the hormone too.
Don't know about this but they say spicy foods can also stimulate your tummy and encourage labour so you could try that out.
Wish u safe delivery.

jimi4us:
as in backyard door or front door of a house?

Don't read that literarily.

BoboYekini:
I didn't see where the OP mentioned the wife earning an additional N60k. So how did 80k become (80+60)k?
@OP, unless your wife is just coming off the bus from the village, or somehow she has millions and wants to be the one supporting you, that amount will never work. Which working city babe will even stoop to have a boyfriend who has no car, does not live in the happening parts of town, and does not follow the latest style trends? Much less a husband?

I assumed and put that figure because I expect the wife to work.I won't support such a man if the wife does not work at all.
Every lady who marries in the city marries a man with a car?How many married men in Lagos have cars?Every married couple in Lagos lives in VGC,Ikoyi,VI,Magodo and GRA?
You guys are just dealing with the high end like everyone is in that class.

Rooneyboy:
my guy , did u read economics in school , all u are spewing here is shocking . (exclusive) for a lady that hardly sees three square meal

believe u me , i earn slightly above a quarter of a mill (30 years+) and i'm NOT yet thinking in that direction.

i want my wife and kids to be more than comfortable

It depends on what level of comfort you are talking about.There are people who earn about half a million and are still dragging their feet.It's all about priorities.
We are not talking about luxuries here but basic needs.Moreover,there are many people who will not earn half a million throughout their stay in civil service.Won't those ones marry and bear children?

holusormi:
I hope you are not part of the school of thought that believe that bull.shiat

It depends on how you understand it.It doesn't mean literarily.

It's likely your husband has a very low libido.He also could be getting pleasure elsewhere,e.g. Self-service.
You need to have a talk with him.He might not open up completely because of ego but it will make him aware that there is an issue.Get him to see a doctor who will give some treatments.
How do you appear to him too?You need to look appealing always.Get some sexy underwears and be clean.Also shed some weight if you have piled on some.You need to initiate sex too.Don't just wait for him to always call you.Learn some acts of seduction.

athenavenus:
I have been looking for who to talk to but I have no one.i invested in a business but I was duped. The money I invested in was borrowed from my brother. He is threatening me and there's nothing I can do to appease him. Everything I tried to sell or help people sell to.raise.the money didn't work out. He has taken all my possessions and is going to go further. I'm scared out of my mind. I think of running away or ending it all because everyone has deserted me. I have nobody at all in this world.

I really do hope your brother cannot harm you.Call some family members and explain the situation to them.Just keep looking for some work that can generate an income for you and let your brother know you will settle him instalmentally.

Lynette2cute:
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Have you done a confirmatory test?
HIV is not the end of the world.HIV positive people do marry and go ahead to have kids who are HIV negative.
Yes,you will have to be on medication but you will get used to it and it will just be like taking daily multivitamins.
I'm willing to follow you up and be of assistance in getting medical care if you wish.You can send me a PM.

anitabeauty:
Stop it. My dad has a house at Jericho. But in overall ibadan needs a makeover. The entire town requires demolition to pave for decent housing. Could you imagine that I could not bring my friends to Ibadan during grand daddy burial because I am not happy with the backwardness and how the town is filled with mud houses

The people should demolish all their houses and start sleeping on the grounds waiting for government to fix things for them?
If you couldn't bring your friends for your grandad's burial,then you must have a complex.
Teni teni,ti akisa ni atan.

anitabeauty:
I am yoruba but I still feel bad each time I step my feet in ibadan or osogbo. The level of poverty and backwardness is unimaginable. No wonder my dad never allowed us come home as a kid.

Personal backwardness is a bigger problem.Have u been to Ring Road,Jericho,New Bodija and Oluyole?They also have brown roofs everywhere?Maybe your dad restricting you put a limit on your education.

Blame the poverty on the leaders and the system.The people didn't make themselves poor

cindicandy:
I'm a dirty smelly fool. Is Abeakuta an English word? Why should I waste my time learning incantation language like yolloba?

You are just a stupid juvenile deliquent.Education implies that you learn words as it is written.

cindicandy:
Why is it that only Lagos which is a no man's land where you see other people from other regions? Why is ibadan and abeakuta still a rural areas till today?

Why don't you spend you time developing your english instead of displaying this shallowness?
Abeakuta ko,Idriskuta ni.

Khalessi:
She should keep thinking of the rewards....It will give her all the strength she needs...

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Op,it seems you are the younger brother in this scenario.Leave your sister and her husband to sort themselves out.
I believe your sister should have known the kind of man she was getting married to.

blackmarya:
according to the woman, that is not the first time of receiving that kind of beating and the husband claim she has no character(iwa)

Why did the man marry a woman without good character?Na dem sabi sha.It's in the woman's best interest to preserve her life.

edwife:
Now you got me wrong,i said the story about his divorce was also from a blog so i will also take this one as one of those stories which might be true or not.
Beside,there is no smoke without fire#justsaying

Okay let's say it could be true or it could be a lie.I think this statement is better than your first statement.

edwife:
And the story about his divorce was also from a blog then all the people from his church went on denying it after months....Yea you right...

Edwife,so every statement about him is true because he has issues with his marriage?
Well,I'm not his brother,his church member or his lawyer.I just speak as a Christian.