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Agybabe:
Ask Google

Google result: entitlement mentality.Typical of Nigerian girls with poor minds.

liliangmail:
not funny at all...dz days i subscr my BIS wif my money... he excpts me to spend more time on calls weneva i call ... he was suposz to pay for my ICAN exam now he has changed his mind

You are working and he is still supposed to pay for your ICAN exams?

Agybabe:
The reason why most of them want to know, is so they can task you when the need arise.

Don't tell jor, even if you do, don't say the exact amount.

Most guys might use that knowledge in order to skip their financial responsibilities to you.

For instance when you ask for money, they will be like:-
"Baby, you are working na, and you earn enough income".

Just saying!

What financial responsibilities?

A cheat is likely to cheat again.However,a cheat may not remain a cheat.
There are people who change and drop wrong behaviour just like stopping smoking or alcohol.
However,it takes deep conviction on the part of the individual.

He should be able to pay the bride price.I wouldn't like the idea of the lady giving him the money for that.
What she should do is help to purchase some of the other items on the list.

HopeAtHand:
Prospect i guess.

Paying money in exchange for sex...the banker was used to that..

Now hes broke, he can only make promises and sadly for him, grown up ladies wouldn't take promises...so the little girl plays the part.

Sad

I no sabi Ikare for Lagos o.

Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
This is sheer evil and wickedness.

May God order our steps.Amin
RiP to the dead.

Na wa o.Don't some men have shame again?What does a 9yr old have?

Joblessness and making the heart the devil's workshop.

The death was a means to an end.Without the death,there would not have been a resurrection.
The death was the price for sin and the resurrection was power over sin and a newness of life.

Billyonaire:
It's not money. It's called aging.

you're one person that understands.Everyone is just about money.
People who don't have money too have changed over time.

Whatever it is that gives you signs of that impending doom,begin to speak against it.Start confessing positive things about yourself and things concerning.Ask God to be your shield and refuge.

Don't know if you belong to Jesus but make Him Lord of your life if you haven't.

prowitin:
Okay let me explain it to you in broken english...that picture na man de inside....and the man get big ikebe and him no send anybody

This man na gay or na sissy or na tranny or na wetin him be?

I don't understand these pictures.

Op,what you need is Rhema.Tell God to open your eyes that you may see beyond religion.

Some girls don't understand limits anymore.
The Church should get back to what it used to be.

Before you go any further,study the book of psalms to see how king David lavishly used musical instruments to worship.
Don't start to criticise what you don't understand.

Abuamam:
May God forgive me for my attendance in those places of associating partners with Him.

yea right.
Also kill the infidels so your reward in heaven can be full.You've got virgins waiting.

'Having eyes but do not see and having ears but do not understand.......'

Your amenorrhea is a problem on its own.You need to get the results of the test and know what to do about that first.
You can't look at s.emen and decide someone has low sperm count just by appearance even if it appears watery.Usually,if there is infertility,the woman is the one the work-up starts with.However,most gynaecologists involve both partners.
Just tell your husband that the doctor wants both of you to see him and usually the doctor will prescribe s.emen analysis for the man too.

He might not be cheating but intimate chats with an ex isn't right.it's left to you to search your heart and know what you want.

Make sure your consolation in the future will not be the mind blowing sex.

What is your daughter's genotype?
The awareness in the world today should make everyone check genotype before marriage.

Abuamam:
Based on your last addendum alone, I will answer your questions.

First, you say you have heard and seen miracles happen in churches. Actually, you have been made to believe that pastors perform miracles. I was a churchgoer for a number of years, though my senses never vacated me, and as a science oriented university student at the time, the issue of miracle healings really interested me. My own research showed that no single miracle that I investigated in any of the churches I went to, could be affirmed as inexplicable or out of the ordinary. None had proven medical records or precedence that would cause TRAINED medical personnel to believe the 'miracle'. Many are outright fraudulent 419. I mention this because it is you who sought to compare. In fact, I believe a thread was recently created asking for someone who had seen a confirmed miracle personally. Last time I checked, it was all 'someone told someone who told me', or whatever unconfirmed stories they hear during testimonies.

Secondly, Pastors do it to be seen of men, as a form of advertisement. Muslims who are knowledgeable in Islam (not 'alfas'), do supplicate for healing and it may work, I do not know. Muslims may not claim authority for healing. Allah alone heals, so it is seen as hypocritical to claim that 'I healed him/her'. So such things are not advertised. Moreover, the mosque is a place for worship, not a hospital, so such supplications could be done in the patient's home. There is of course, no way to gather data on how effective it is, because there are no platforms in the mosque for 'miracle testimony', so I cannot satisfy you there. Furthermore, supplication by knowledgeable muslims are ALWAYS combined with proper medical attention; the prophet (saw) said: "For every illness, Allah has created its remedy", ie from among the plants or things found in nature or forms of medical intervention. Muslims whole heartedly accept the medical adage:
"we care, God cures".

Thirdly, each muslim is expected to ask for his needs from Allah on his own. We need no intermediaries. Allah has said in the Qur'an:
"Ask Me and I will answer you". So it is best and most effective to get up in the night, perform ablution, pray some voluntary salats then ask Allah to cure you or your loved one. That is the most recommended way.

As for me, I have seen my mother recite the Qur'an over her sick grandchildren regularly, though we do not neglect drugs. She has, on occasion, even recited over strangers and on one occasion where I was present, on a visit to my sister in the hospital, she heard the lady in the next room crying. Being extremely empathic, she had to go there and met a woman suffering from really prolonged labour. She was tired and racked with contractions according to her. My mother asked if she could recite the Qur'an for her, and the woman agreed (the woman had Catholic icons in the room, but I guess she was desperate by that time); To cut long story short, my mother started reciting for her and within minutes, the baby started coming. Though I witnessed it, I cannot say whether it was coincidental or in response to the prayer. We never saw her again after she was taken to the labour room, though the older nurses in that hospital still remind my mother. She herself is less concerned.

So in Islam, we do emphasise individual self-supplication and we encourage medical treatment in addition to it.

You were a churchgoer indeed.Liar

redgem:
Boredom is an ailment

Stop saying I'm dying.Say I'm alive and awake.Great things are happening.It's gonna be a great year.

See things change......

Now your topic is I'm dying?You keep saying I'm tired of lying on the bed.....
Are you ill?

Are you sure it is not the pregnancy that made him marry you?It's one thing to keep dating someone,it's another thing to want to marry the person.

Perhaps,your man is frustrated about certain things.Marriage in the first year(or few years) comes with a lot of friction.For some men,it's like encroaching on their space.You both are trying to get on the same wavelength and it takes some time.Try and have a talk with him.

Healing is in Jesus Christ.

There are other ways to bond and have fun with kids.This one is gross.

I know a lot of mothers think....is he not my son?

Conflicting messages keep coming from the Islamic world.

Let the peace be practical.

You've been told what to do by posters above.You could pick his calls and talk to him nicely but if he keeps acting like a jerk,then cut him off.

No good man who wants to marry you will start by telling you to come to his house.

^^^
You don't know what you want.

You don't want to eat it,yet you keep smelling it.

You have to make up your mind what you really want.With the way things are going between you and this guy,you will end up having sex and it will likely be unprotected because it will be unplanned and that means you might get pregnant.
If you put a stop to this,it might make you lose this relationship.There is a better man for you if it happens.

You need to really dig and try to remember the girls you had affairs with.
One of them might have had a baby you are not conscious of.

cococandy:
i bet you he won't even be questioned nor arrested for this obvious crime he committed.
Tufia

They are usually 'above' the law......unfortunately.