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mutter:
Gosh no one could explain this to me in Germany. Told me it was from the baby stretching, nerves etc.

It's actually not from the baby per se but it's part of the changes associated with pregnancy.

Juzzybabe:
Thanks a million dear! sounds relieving. Really I have been scared!

Don't be scared.It's just some of the discomforts with pregnancy.

Safe delivery.

Juzzybabe:
No lumps.I checked the internet but cudnt get solution,also I don't think the baby hand or legs can reach this far n it doesn't feel like baby playing around there. This thing is causing me so much discomfort when I rub the area it feels like wound underneath but I always massage the area with olive oil.

It's basically a musculoskeletal pain.It's quite common with pregnancy.
Pregnancy hormones make your tissues to stretch and when that happens,it puts pressure on other structures especially the nerves.When the nerves are pinched,they cause a discomfort.The vibrations you feel are called spasms-the muscles 'shake'.

What you should do is get a balm.Massage the area frequently and anytime you feel the pain.Also you will need to change your position from sitting as that position pushes pressure up from the big belly.You can lie flat at that time if you can.

Physio.

I think it might just be your hormones raging.Do you feel any lump there?

I think it's something you shouldn't be worried about.You said you complained to the doctor already so I don't think it's anything serious.

There's something called moderation.Some people don't understand it.
What if someone decides to give the name;

Tioluwabagbemigagbogboayelomariwasifogofoluwa.

Na to display the bottle for your parlour o.

Timbuktou:
He was second-wisest, then? That's good enough

You should follow the best.

Timbuktou:
The wisest man who ever existed.

He was not.Jesus said,'...a greater than solomon is here'.
Find out what the One greater than Solomon said about polygamy.He said God made them male and female(no plural).

So sad.Even surgery is limited in altering her appearance.

I have a question;is it hard for a lady to tell within a short period of meeting a guy that he is no good?

I believe this question is mean't to be a rhetorical question.

jerflakes:
Duh.

Illiterates are a special breed of nicompoops.

They clearly understand each other.

Maga.

Your words portray who you are.
Illiterates=nicompoops.Your education must have been very poor.
Why don't you start reading so you can spot sarcasm when you see it.
It's not just about throwing online insults.Touts on the streets also do that as much as you do.

#My last words to you.

jerflakes:
Duh.

Illiterates are a special breed of nicompoops.

They clearly understand each other.

Maga.

Your words portray who you are.
Illiterates=nicompoops.Your education must have been very poor.
Why don't you start reading so you can spot sarcasm when you see it.
It's not just about throwing online insults.Touts on the streets also do that as much as you do.

#My last word to you.

Op,do an objective research before coming up with a sweeping conclusion as this.Many Christians condemned the statement and the acts.

jerflakes:
Sarcasm indeed.

Na only illiterates dey understand your so-called sarcasm

Poor you.Does it even make sense to you to say illiterates understand it?
Your education is flawed!

jerflakes:
Which kain lab scientist dey manufacture teargas.



You well so?

Na you no well.

Don't you know how to decipher sarcasm?

So JOHESU don dey carry teargas?The lab scientists na dem dey manufacture am.

Ego and fear of getting a negative result.
If you are trying to get pregnant and you have done your own workup and everything is fine,just talk to the doctor who will find a way of inviting your hubby.
If he turns out to still be uncooperative,just report him to the elders.

MymothersKeeper:
Well my ex said he likes when my phat good good hits his groin area its A bonus he is not ready to grant another man ever .. I am quite meaty in the rear, he calls it the neverland lolol I miss him sha he is also built like a stallion

babyosisi:
What turned him to an ex nau

Mmadukaku:
Most men are confused.

Naaah.It's the women who don't get it!
A lot of women think it's all about the junk in the trunk.They focus so much on the outside.Yes it's what attracts but it's not enough.
You've got to have something on the inside and upstairs.

What kind of would-be wife is that?The kind of ladies some men marry.
If he can afford it,she can request for it but not make it a prerequisite.

What a life!

I mean the wives..............sharing a d*** with about 29 other women.smh

SAMBARRY:
so what produces the desired results

It takes grace.One should make efforts too and try to raise them in love.

guyinpain:
Yea Thorpido, you are right. I made a mistake to think marrying the mother (my long time date) would seal it all. I have seen in families were another man who marries the mother would either be given a condition to tag the baby along, or forget the marriage. I also know of other situations where it is the man intending to marry the woman that either conditions the baby comes along or should never be a part of his new family. Should i say in my case, my wife would rather they refer to my kid as bastard?

Do you love her or you just married her because she bore a child for you?
I think your wife's family are doing this because they have grown attached to the child or there's something they know that you don't.Your wife is the key to the solution to this.

You should have sorted this before finalising your marriage.

I would advise you plead with them and make them see reason.If this fails,you will have to use the law and the justice system.

Like they say,picture or......

Not really.
The Agberos in Lagos and environs are also children of Yoruba parents.

The US is interested in the Nigeria elections.

shedyman:
Let me get u correctly, he did excellently well right? An average Nigerian police man will equally do the same given the same circumstance. The church should be an agent of social engineering and not otherwise.

You're getting it wrong?Who is the church?The people who make up the 'gathering'.
That social engineering starts with the people in the gathering(church) obeying rules and orders.

SAMBARRY:
@ The capitalized story for the gods. Your treating them right doesn't determine or limit what they can do or what they will do so the best thing to do is to create an air of fear when they are with you so that if they are entertaining anything stooped the fear of what they know you can do to their bodies will not let them dare it. E.g plugging hot pressing iron on their body till the mark shows . rubbish!

You are right in saying that treating them right does not mean they will do right but it's the same with children.There are children who turn out bad despite the fact that their parents make all efforts to lead them right.

Experience has shown that high handedness and violence has seldom produced the desired result.

You were asked not to park there and you disobeyed and obviously incurred the wrath of the ushers.

However,the behaviour of the ushers was a display of high handedness.
But Op,if i may ask,do you think more disobedient church worshippers can breed less courteous church staff?

The world don spoil.Na to shoot belle first!

How about your husband digging it with the neighbour when you are not there?

The phobia for househelps is unnecessary.

First you need to know the kind of man you married.You can also get a teenage househelp and not one that is full blown.
You should also treat househelps like your own daughter or sister and not like a slave.Showing someone love will make it hard for them to want to hurt you.

Lastly pray.You can ask God to bring the right people into your life.Bring helpers and indeed a good househelp.Also you can fix CCTV in your house to monitor activities.