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enoqueen:
U actually joined nairaland cos of this?

Is it not enough of a problem for him?He probably just got a new moniker.

Op.I'll give your wife the benefit of doubt.Some guys are just jackasses.Keep investigating the number and if possible,get your wife to change her no.

lilmax:
which family did you see? and you know how?

They were my neighbours and i was often in their house.

Depends on the family.I have seen a family where it was a normal thing and it didn't in any way incite sexual feelings for each other.

unclothedness is not what causes inbreeding.It's the state of the mind in the first place.

He has been sick and may not have been getting adequate care.

Schizo na pyscho.

lofty900:
then @ last she ends up marrying an impotent man who can't even get it up. Or should she tell d man, " no sex but just bring out ur thing and make it stand 4 me so I'll know ur man enough "

They can discuss it.I believe there are subtle ways of also finding out about someone's sexuality.
A lady in my church married a guy on a wheelchair.They have a baby now.I doubt they had sex before marriage.
They must have ironed out the issue of potency.I'm sure the pastor must have been involved too.

There's nothing wrong with being in a relationship and yet want no sex.
You can share moments together.
How about meeting at a park?
How about eateries?
How about seeing each other in other public places?

You don't have to go to each other's houses and if it becomes absolutely essential,you can go with company and do not pass the night.

Courtship is important and you need to spend time togethersuch you can have meaningful discussions that will affect you future.

brocab:
Funny as it may sound, every time you decide to preach today's tithing money messages, to anybody-you are soliciting. It would have been a more pleasant conversation with you if you knew what you were talking about.

If indeed you knew!
Even muslims say they know so I understand your position.

All the best.

Fake.The source is not authentic.
The Op is a muslim promoting the anti-christ agenda.

Gospel of Barnabas ko.

She was careless.Kids always want to touch.She should have put the gun in a holster.

RIP woman.

Get her to own up on who is responsible for the pregnancy.Also get her to inform her parents.
I hope you know you could be responsible for the pregnancy so don't make hasty decisions yet.

brocab:
To be honest, your knowledge is not of the bible, you are trying to twist and turn the bible so you may prove to yourself you are right and the scriptures are wrong.

You stand as a false prophet, you have been pushing this prosperity tithing on this forum towards the lords people, either to gain monies for yourself, or you are like the many sheep that follow.

And your wrong again in the old testament there was currency, money everywhere.

Genesis 37:29 Joseph was sold by his brothers for twenty shekels of silver.

Is that to strange for you to understand, God had used people to tithe from there own crops, shocks, cattle, etc..to feed the hungry.
Not shekels of silver.

You need to ask the lord to help you study your bible.

Hahaha.I laugh at you.Now I'm trying to collect people's money.All along I have been soliciting for people to give me money?You're funny.
Anyway,it's been nice having the conversation with you.

May the Light of God continually light upon our hearts.

runnazz:
bro u r right i was actually directing it to the op not u sorry bout that..the names kind of look same at first glance

okay bro.

[quote author=runnazz post=29351309][/quote]You obviously misunderstood that statement.Perhaps you were in a rush.
There is a difference between doing it because Abraham did it and doing it because you learn't from Abraham.I speak of the latter.Elisha walked with Elijah and learn't from him.His actions follow what he learn't not necessarily that he was 'copying' him.

Every other thing in your statement agrees with what I have been saying.

brocab:
I understand now you haven't studied your bible.

Listen it's not your fault, I blame the prosperity greedy pastors, when I first became a Christian I was taught that same lie too.
Until one day I cried out to the lord, saying to him; lord this tithing thing isn't connecting with me. It never did.

I said: lord how come when you had called me into your kingdom you didn't mention about tithing. and how come lord you didn't tell me about it, until now.
He gave me that perfect answer, and I understood, if I had received the truth back then I would have walked away.
I was a Robin-hood, and after I was saved' and if only I knew about prosperity preachers than, I would have walked away from the church and the lord.

Since then bible scripture after bible verse I read my eye's have been open.

You have the old Testament tithing which is a bible doctrine which is about crops shocks, farming, first fruits, Cattle etc..
That O/Testament doctrine is about feeding the hungry and survival.

This so called new doctrine, made from greed a doctrine that was twisted and turned, using bible verses' had changed history, a system put in place, that many of his followers will enjoy her pleasures in a prosperous money system, living the dream.

The lord had warned us about these wolves in sheep clothing false prophets who won't stop at nothing.

Wake up-These Christians who have been chosen are keeping the false flag standing, you who tithe in this money system are supporting these false prophets, only to gain monies from the poor to the rich, while they become wealthier' your brothers/sisters/children/ and Christian families and friends, live in a poverty mode hungry dying every day.

Does that sound like the God of Abram, Isaac and Jacob..

You didn't address the point i raised.You have only spent much time condemning pastors who are exploiting their congregation.

Do you know why they gave fruits,crops and livestock?It's simple enough!They were primarily farmers.It was all they could give.The means of exchange was primarily trade-by-barter.There was no currency.

You see knowledge is revelational and progressive.That is what you don't get.
Ask God to teach you more as you asked Him before to open your eyes.They are not fully open yet.

brocab:
You aren't following Abram's tithing motives. You have your own motives of tithing, your tithing is not written anywhere in the bible.

Old testament tithing was Foods, crops, shock, and first fruits.

Your tithing is about monies, and that is not tithing under God's law, or even Abram or Isaac or Jacob's.

You are not following Jesus' mode of transportation.Jesus trekked,used boats and rode a donkey.
You are not a true follower of Jesus Christ.

Isn't it a contradiction that you reject tithing as an old testament law only to speak about giving of fruits and crops in the old testament?

brocab:
Firstly Abram paid a tithe from the spoils of war, that didn't belong to him.
A one off tithe.

So does that mean I should become a Robin-Hood and pay one tithe from the goods I retrieved.

Secondly- Genesis 28:20-22, Jacob made his own law, he gave a vow to God after a dream to give a tenth.

What verse in the bible shows Isaac tithed?

In the old testament,the spoils of war belong to the winner.God allowed it then.You said it was a one off tithe but that was because the bible only told us of one incident.If Abraham had fought ten wars,how many times do you think he would have tithed?
You say Jacob made his own law?That exactly is what I am teaching.It's a made law called the law of faith(it's not a law per se but for the sake of explanation).God calls himself the God of Abraham,Isaac and Jacob.Why?
I'm telling you i follow tithing by Jacob not the Levithical tithing.This is where revelation knowledge comes in.The just shall live by faith.

brocab:
Good I never asked you too respond back to me in the first place.
It's ok you just need to study your bible, and when you do, the truth will set you free.

Galatians 3:19-What purpose then does the law serve?
It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made;

V's 21 Is the law then against the promises of God? Certainly not!
For if there had been a law given which could have given life, truly righteousness would have been by the law.

V's 22 But the scripture has confined all under sin, that the faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe.

V's 23 But before faith came we were kept under guard by the law,

V's 24 Therefore the law was our tutor to bring us to Christ, that we might be justified by faith.

So the lords clearly telling us, we are no longer under the law system, the law was used as our tutor to bring us to Christ.

So forget about that old testament tithing law, and come to Christ, Jesus is the only way to the father in heaven.

But if this information brings out the kind of person I'm supposed to be, all I can say: Praise the lord..

Can you explain what part of my statement had offended you

You're being ignorant.I tithe because i saw in the Scriptures that Abraham,Isaac and Jacob did it.Now tell me what law Jacob followed to tithe.Many of you are ignorant and think it started with the law of Moses.Moses only made it a law.Abraham did it as an act of faith.He understood principles of faith.
The bible calls us Abraham's seeds and children of faith,not the law.
That many of you have issues with pastors does not take away from Scriptures.Not every pastor is manipulative.The church i attend does not even talk about tithes.
A Christian is not under the law but understands faith principles.I'm not saying you have to pay tithes.Keep it so that no pastor can have your money.

Didn't your friend test-drive the lady he married?
Unfortunately when people talk about testing,it's just the sexual thing.
Courtship is a period to know each other well and to know how your partner keeps a home.

It's too late for your friend to worry about the FIL.He has done his part(or didn't).
You have married the lady,baggage and all.It's left to you now to exercise the patience to correct her and work with her.

Except you intend to kick her out of the house.

It's not their real names most times.It's the agents who give them that name to bear in their madam's house.

Well it is true for most men.

A woman went to a counsellor to complain that her husband never says I love you to her.The husband was called and when asked said,on our wedding day I told her I love her.I never change my mind.If I change my mind I go tell her.

LordReed:
LoL, this all sounds nice until you realize that people don't change because of another person, they do because they want to. A lovey dovey wife might make it easier but if you never put in the effort those inappropriate feelings will remain no matter how loving the wife is. This is why some men can still cheat on beautiful loving wives.

You're so right.It's the man's efforts that matter most here and his desire to change.

chrysso83:
Who told u he is young? how old is he? Real age ooo. not football age

I was being sarcastic.His official age is 26 though.

brocab:
First-Not everyone who pays tithes understand, it all make sense when one studies their bibles, firstly I don't tithe to a Levi priest, or a man who claims to be one, but I am a giver when the lord tells me to give.

And I receive my blessings when seeing someone else I have giving to be blessed.

I don't give in favour to receive unless the lord blesses me.

I believe we are all blessed, just having the word of God.

The lord clearly says: seek his kingdom {word} and all things shall be added to you.

He don't say: this in his new covenant, seek tithing monies and all things shall be added to you.

And where in the bible does it say, we are to follow the old testament tithing rules, and who was it who changed our food supply to money?

Their is logic in the scriptures if one knows where to look.

Second you are under the law, you are cursed as the lord says: you are.

Your last statement just shows the kind of person you are.No wonder the bible says having a form of godliness but denying the power thereof.Christians by sheer name and not in words.You can tell a Christian by the maturity of words.I won't bother responding to you again.

You can continue in the curse you speak so much about.

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I think it's just a question of sifting the wheat from the chaff.

mayorjosh:
because DEY still get moni




u NO c sterling??

he is just 20 and he is already a father

Not that he is that young anyway.

brocab:
Can you tithe it to me please?
It shows clearly you ain't concerned about the husband or the mother or the baby's needs, but more concerned about the tithing needs.

Its good to see all those who tithe are obeying the old covenant laws, Galatians 3:10 only to receive a curse.

I say don't tithe spend all your monies on your new born preacher, pray to God asking for the blessings him/her deserves.

Open your eye's and see the lord has blessed you and your wife, not because of tithing, but because you both believed.

I pray you are not fooled by these false commandments, Jesus had set as free from these tithing money rackets.

If you are God,I'll tithe to you.
Christianity doesn't make 'sense' and there are actions in the Scriptures that don't follow logic.If you did something repeatedly and it produces results that are traceable to the offerings you make,would you stop?

I understand the issue of tithe is a faith thing and not everyone will understand.

SAMBARRY:
of course

No wonder.smh

Whao,these guys are marrying at such a young age nowadays.HML to them.

SAMBARRY:
yes

Too much holiday merriment you must have had.

SAMBARRY:
gbam. For once you have spoken with wisdom

For once?