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Cardiac arrest can affect young people too.Often it does not give signs before it occurs.
High blood cholesterol and coronary heart disease are high risk factors.

Why Man U?He's going to be a number 2 goalkeeper.
He should have looked for a club where he will be no 1 and command a regular shirt.

People becoming pastors without the required growth and discipline.

Like someone said,if God doesn't call you,call Him.
Many have simply called God and started a church.

End time tinz.

Hmmmm.Guys coming from abroad always need to watch their back and code their movements.

aisha2:
Seen and replied.



What location? FIDA offices are nation wide sha federation of female laywers they can handle it especially if its being forced on the child. Google FIDA and add the state

Edo state.Thanks I'll google it.

Aisha2.Sorry just need to ask.
Pls do you have the contact of any organisation against female genital mutilation?

If he meets up with basic needs like feeding and a place to sleep,I guess he can always make himself happy.Happiness to a great extent depends on the state of the mind.Having people you love and who love you around you also does a lot to your state of happiness.

Op,are u sure you are not trolling?

How old are you and how old is your sister?
I think you should involve your parents.

MamaDDD:
During the 70 days of MFM fasting, my husband and i can make love after he d breaking of his fast till 11:59pm but once it is 12am no show again till he breaks his fast again.

This is the practical fasting among married couples I speak about.

aisha2:
The bible is clear, its simple and concise no need to twist and turn it.

I won't even go into back and forth with you on the abuse issue. Pass your personal views as personal one not as Christain views when thats not what the bible says

Aisha2.There's nothing you have said and I have said that is not within the confines of scripture.

'Remember your leaders,who spoke the word of God to you,consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith(Hebrews 13:7)'.The bible speaks of leaders in Church.

It's not my personal view,it's scripture.

aisha2:
When its abused it MUST be discarded the only instructions to follow are from the bible as it is no dilution.

You said abuse.Abuse means something is useful but it is taking to the extreme.
So you at least agree that it is useful.

aisha2:
Spiritual instructions from who? Abeg that has been subjected to abuse too much. Christains should take instructions from the bible and the bible is clear on this

There is always someone who is the spiritual head.It could be the husband(or the wife),a pastor,a fellowship leader etc.It depends on who you choose to make your spiritual leader but someone takes responsibility for spiritual direction/mentorship in an individual's life or couple.I know we have the Holy Spirit but the bible also says we should not forsake the assembly of the brethren.

I understand many people(I guess you inclusive),have a lot of issues with pastors(especially Nigerian pastors).The truth remains that spiritual mentorship cannot be discarded.

bukatyne:
I think the mix up is What is classified as the duration of the fast:

Taking the last year fast as an example, the duration can be the 100days or 6 - 6pm they fast daily.

If they fast 6-6pm,then they can make love in the night.if the fasting is a 100days,I don't expect them not to touch each other at all throughout except dem be G.O.
If however they decide on a 3day fast or even one week of total abstinence,then they are welcome(by mutual consent).

aisha2:
Then state it clearly all you said was it was wrong to have Se-x during fasting which was not true.

Its not wrong especially for fasting long like the ones in redeemed you mentioned. 100 days is too long the bible said only for a short while. If both of them agree its good if one gets held by conji he or she shouldn't be seen as less spiritual

if a couple is fasting,they obviously wouldn't be having sex at that time.The choice of how long-how many days is subject to other factors,like mutual agreement,spiritual leadership and instruction they both follow e.t.c.
Couples will have intercourse when they break their fast.Those who mutually decide to prolong it can do so.I believe when you break fast to eat,you can also 'replenish' the body.

aisha2:
Please clearly state that this is your personal views and the views of your church probably and not what the bible states.
The bible is crystal clear, it states clearly that only by mutual consent do you deny each other of se-x and it shouldn't be for too long. The churches should not ruin marriages with their own doctrines. If you both decide to fast and pray it must be by mutual consent and not one partners decision.

Don't make overzealous wives start binding and casting Hot husbands as na we sabi do pass when it comes to religion.
You want to do 100 days fasting if the man or the wife no gree better give them oh, dont deny your spouse ponmo for 3 months except both of you agree

1st Corinthians 7
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Sister Aisha,perhaps you were in a rush before quoting me.
There is nowhere in my post that i said it's a decision one person takes in a marriage.I believe couples should be of one mind concerning spiritual matters.It is expected that the fasting should be by mutual consent.
I never stated otherwise in my post.

Pride goeth before a fall........

robosky02:
for a seriouse cuople that want God to also bless them should they not fast because of the sex or sex and forgo fasting going by your exception clause?

People misunderstand the essence of fasting.They think it is an exercise that makes God bless them.
Fasting is to subject your flesh so that your spirit gains dominion over the flesh and increases your capacity to fellowship with God and hear from Him(raises your spiritual antenna).
When a couple is newly-wed,they are on honeymoon.They don't need a fast.God knows they are to enjoy now.They can always set themselves apart later to fast.
God will bless them.

When you fast,you are setting yourself apart and putting your body to subjection.Sexual intercourse is not allowed during that time because it is one of the denials of the body you do.

As a newly wed,you don't have to partake in a general fast.I learn't the RCCG have started a 40day fast and the instruction from Pastor Adeboye is that newly-weds and the elderly(over 70yrs) are exempt.

What people told her the late father is not her true father?Can she get more info from them?How about the mom's siblings?Can she get them to open up to her?
The father she has known is her father.It's okay to seek to know her biological father but she shouldn't give herself more troubles trying to do that.The issues she may be having may have nothing to do with her parentage.

The bible says,....'but we have one Father'.....(hope this scripture can mean something to her).

What happened to they learning how to cook?What is your mum's position about kitchen affairs?

Except you are the youngest in the house and your brothers kind of treat you as a kid sister,I don't think you should have to do the cooking all the time.
You say it is weighing you down?Do something about it.

This thread is a joke.

'For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal........'
There is a place to fight the fight.......not on the streets.

The 3 both(sic) of them should be blamed.
The church is supposed to conduct the pregnancy test before the D-day and have the result,not asking the couple for the result.

As for the couple,they don't even have the right foundation for marriage.

Go to the hospital and ask to see a dermatologist.

You must have been giving your parents reasons to doubt you.What you should do now is to begin to show an exemplary character.
Talk to your father and ask him if he can kindly pick up the phone for you and help you drop those IT letters in some companies.

coogar:
they all see the signs but they will still forge ahead to marry evil people - hoping that jesus of nazareth will abracadabraly change the spouse from a demon to an angel.

I was in a public bus one day and there was this young guy and lady.They paid the conductor and had issues with balance.
The lady didn't even allow the guy to sort it out.She began to argue and curse the conductor....
I said damn,person wey marry dis babe don carry.

You married an omo al***.Didn't you guys date?

GenBuhari:
[size=28pt]Ebola is hoax. [/size]

Do not be deceived.

The lady in the picture is a paid actor, she is not dead and may not even be doctor. Real name may be something completely different.

What's wrong with you?Paid actor indeed.
You need to have felt the pains of those who were and are still affected by the Ebola virus before writing this rubbish.

You're back with this madness?

Sorry about the loss of your mum son.She paid the ultimate price in the course of her practice.Her professionalism and insistence on Sawyer not leaving the hospital saved a lot of lives.
We appreciate.

Interesting.It seems a very good solution.

Sard:
^^^ another reason why it should be discouraged.
In the case of your neighbours, they get so used to it that they even failed to recognize the presence of a neighbour.

lilmax:
and you saw them unclad?

I was close to them.I became almost like their blood brother.They had little to hide from me after a while.