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Most parents do have a favourite child and it could be due to circumstances surrounding the birth of the child or any other thing.
It's poor on the part of parents if they let it show however.You must as a parent try to show love to all your kids equally.

Op,just keep doing what you're doing and don't take it to heart.Love yourself and most importantly recognise you have a Father Who loves you more than earthly parents.

For some of us who have walked with elders,the placenta is not just anything to dump anywhere.It's a key ingredient for ritualists just like a still born baby and other human parts.Someone who gave a testimony in my church about how he escaped ritualists' den said he saw them pounding a baby in a mortar.

Some people for obodo oyinbo dey claim superstition.

Op,burn and bury it.Shikena

Tiredwify:
@OP, I had a baby 6 months ago, and my eating habit changed also. It happens. I am even pregnant again, and now it is worse. But you know what? I don't give a hoot. I am in a stage in my life when I will add weight. When the right time comes, I will shed the weight. The truth is that our body make-up is different, and the most important thing is to understand ourselves. I wouldn't say you should cut down on your food intake because your baby needs the nutrients, but try and reduce your intake of fatty foods and do light exercises. My dear, when the time comes, you will lose the weight. Love yourself for who you are, it is a great thing to be a mother!!!

I'm not sure about this.
As you get older,your metabolism slows down and the tendency to retain fat increases.Now is the time to keep the weight in check.The key is to eat healthy and cut down on high calorie and fatty foods.
That future that you speak about to shed the weight will be difficult except you are willing to do a 'crash' program.

Ujujoan:
Please don't take this the wrong way, but I think you need to listen to your husband.

Gluttony is a very unattractive trait, especially in women. You not only guzzled a quarter loaf of bread alone, you refused to share the remaining with him. Honestly, I don't think this is a one off thing. He must have noticed this trait in you and that incident is probably the last straw.

But he handled it badly, he should have spoken to you gently about it, instead of lashing out and hurting you.

Please wipe your tears and forgive him. And then learn to control your eating habits.

Just my thoughts.
Op,I don't think your husband was joking when he said that but he just had a bad way of putting across the message.I know men get uncomfortable when they see food go into the wife's mouth very often.A lot of men are unhappy about the size their wives have grown to.
If you pile on all that weight with the excuse that you're breastfeeding,it might be difficult losing it later.The person who can best tell you how you look is your husband,not the people you say still admire you.

This kind of behaviour is not normal.It's a psychiatric disorder.

What do you mean normal?No be im pikin?

I've had to do this a couple of times.

Good for him.It's not nice for a pastor to be single........so much temptation.

tpiander:
Or a female nurse can examine or stay in the room.

Usually,it's the doctor that will examine but a nurse is usually present.

This kind of thread has been opened countless times.
it's uncomfortable but necessary.
There are more male doctors/gynaes available to the population than females.

A male doctor will continue to examine female patients until technology can make diagnosis possible by looking into the eyes.

If you can get a househelp,then that helps to reduce the work for your wife.However,if there is no househelp,the hubby should help with domestic chores.

With or without a househelp,I still take care of domestic chores.There are just some ways i like things to be, so I get them done myself.

Juzzybabe:
Do u know am having the same problem with my husband that until today he still calls me a bloody lair and finds it hard to think I didn't lie about my virginity Tho i was never touched or raped ooo. I tot I was the only one and always felt so shy to tell any1 about it. humm

Na wa o.All your hubby needs is education.You two should have built enough trust while dating.

englishmart:
another staged winner..

this is one show I can testify is not staged.

Op is a liar trying to create a sensational thread.
So he cut off his manhood and proceeded to try to pluck his eyes so he does not see evil and then try to cut his leg so it won't take him to a place of sin?

zoomman:
Sir, read ma comment very well...its not a must...its just ma opinion and what have seen

I understand it's your opinion but on a thread like this,people need opinions from people in health fields that deal with cases like this or families with first hand experience.
Some people have done it as you said but for most that have,it's not a good story at the end.
I know a family that gave birth to two SS.One is late now and the other is bedridden.

Cutehector4u:
Nonsense.. Carry on with d wedding if your heart lies with him

zoomman:
IN EVRY DIFFICULT SITUATION DRS STILL SOLUTION...AV SEEN SO MANY COUPLES WIF SUCH CASES AND DEY WHR ABLE TO CARRY ON WITH IT....MY ADVICE IS IF U GUYS TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER CARRY ON WITH IT...

Because both of you don't know the implication of what you just wrote.
It's VERY difficult dealing with children that are born with SS genotype.There's a high probability of giving birth to one with AS pair.

rokiatu:
This is so disrespectful. Whoever take that pic need to be flogged. I wonder the kind of family he has for them to even allow his pic to be taken, am shocked.

RIP to him, not the right time to play the blaming game. When is your time, nothing g can stop it. This life is nothing, we are on a journey and our destination is untimely back to God. May God have mercy on us.

it was not his time.He died of negligence.He stopped having dialysis.If OJB had not sought help,he would have died too and people would have said it was his time.

@Op,it was irresponsible of his family to allow pictures to be taken and circulated on social media.If people don't believe,they could have waited for burial pics.

This is one case of no pics and you better believe.

EfemenaXY:
I won't. And truth be told, I'll be offended if a man tells me about my wardrobe malfunction. It's embarassing enough if a lady tells me, but it will be unbearable if a guy does that.

If I was around you I'll definitely tell you.I'll just say it and walk on and not even turn to look at you.
I've said it to a couple of ladies with their buttons undone or g-string sticking out.I never even get to see the reaction.........but at least they get to know and adjust.

Christian couples trying to resolve quickly whatever difference there is between them also goes a long way.There shouldn't be a reason to keep dragging on offences if both partners are quick to forgive and can easily apologise.

Op,why are you not ready and what is this 'fix things that will make marriage convenient'?U wan build house first?

You work and she works and obviously both of you can handle financial responsibilities for a new family.She's a lady and at her age she is ready.You are not too young for marriage either.

You are right to say you do not get married as a man just because the lady wants marriage but in your situation,I don't see why you shouldn't want it now.Let her go if you really don't want marriage now but.......
i think you might regret it.

Okay.Make dem do thorough investigation.

Pauliscopy:
all that pertains to life and godliness are in the scriptures

Yes they are.Not everyone can see it.

You need to get a proper diagnosis of what is causing the pain in the knee.I would advise you see an orthopaedic surgeon.

It just saddens me when I see all these boko haram bodies.Why would someone just choose this path they chose?
Such a waste!

Rajman45:
the west brought the war der, because of hatred towards the people and their religion. tell them to leave our lands, the world will be a better place.

The West also caused problems between the Shiites and Sunnis?
You guys are jokers.

This dia union don dissolve imself.

But lalasticlala,u dey work for customary court?

Rajman45:
Lastly, muslims image is much more better than urs.

Indeed it is.We see that in Iraq,Syria,Afghanistan etc

Rajman45:
and christainity is a mercy?. The misconception that u people have abt islam is clear to every1 that has eyes. Christains pratice homosexuality in every part of the world, is it what the bible incourages? Mayb it is.

You see the problem with you and many muslims.You start by saying there should be fairness and justice for muslims and then you get to the point of insults and ridicule.Show me a scripture in the bible that encourages homosexuality!
The greatest problem with the image of Islam is the hypocritical nature of many muslims.Now show me how your statement above has helped to have a better image of muslims.

Just get a separation first.

Don't know why people still take the risk to traffic drugs to those places.No clemency there.

To be honest,i guess the fact that you had things easy(coming from a wealthy family) and some inheritance did not create a drive in you.However,your wife is going about it the wrong way and she's not using her mouth right.I hope you didn't marry her by impressing her with a show of wealth.

Having entrepreneurial skills may not come easy for you but you can't start from somewhere.If your wife cannot help you build a business,you can get consultations from experts.Most importantly,make a move.

I hope your wife loves you(again i hope she didn't marry you because of wealth).Both of you should deal with each other in love.Exchanging hot words should cease.