₦airaland Forum

rhukkie:
Rocking at 29weeks and 4 days.
Heartburn has shown me pepper in the last few days. I've tried antacid and cold milk as well, I need suggestions on what to do pls mommas.
#TeamFeb#

Try honey. It worked wonders for me when I had heartburn. Very fast and effective. Like a miracle cure.

Me at 32 weeks and three days.
God has been faithful to me so far.

Only issues is getting up to pee at night and constant hunger as if I never chop since morning.

And occasional contractions.

booqee:
Ok lemme rant small..the lady that hit me with her car didn't even bother to visit me throughout my stay at the hospital except from the first day since they dropped me off (she and her mum - they were both in the car)..only one yeye call from the mum yesterday..with some funny excuse on behalf of herself and her daughter... Mtchew

They're lucky sha because my dad and hubby were so ready to rake..

I hope at least they paid for your medical expenses. Nigerians can like to claim right everytime even when they are obviously wrong.
That's how one drunken driver with his breath smelling so thick of alcohol nearly bashed my car from behind. The goat had the effrontery to get down and start shouting that I was at fault.

Anyway if she paid for expenses leave her for God. Many Nigerian drivers are abnormal.

ElmaSpeed:
I'm just 24 weeks pregnant. It's agonizingly difficult to get out of bed, or get up from a sitting position, or even walk.
I couldn't sleep last night because of the pain.
However there are no contractions at all, though my baby's movements are really low in my pelvis, like it suddenly changed position. My water hasn't leaked at all.
I had PPGP (Pregnancy-related pelvic girdle pain) towards the end of my last pregnancy. This feels just like it felt then. My doctor is in another city.

. Just to be on the safe side try to see another doctor. Sorry about your pain.

booqee:
Help me thank God for sparing my life from accident..

Hmm, thank God for your life. May he keep you safe from such things in future. Amen.

Try and rest for the next few days to prevent any from of psychological or physical stress. Things like that cause hormonal reactions that affect the wellbeing of unborn babies.

Just take some time to fully recover and make sure baby is kicking properly again. As for the xray if it was me I won't want to take it sha, but just do what you think is right.

God bless.

ElmaSpeed:
I'm literally in a world of pain right now.
I can't walk anymore. It feels like my pelvic bones are broken, but they aren't and i'm feeling my baby's movements at the lower part of my abdomen. I really don't understand what is going on.

If your due date is still far then you need to get to the hospital ASAP. I had similar pains where my frontal pelvis hurt so bad as of it was stuck in one place and I had to struggle to move side to side because of the pain and the doctor told me that it's a sign of preterm labor.

He gave me muscle relaxants and the whole thing disappeared in less than 48hrs. See your doctor cos from your description it sounds like what I passed through before. Preterm labor is nothing to joke with.

Unless your due date is already here and you are experiencing labor pains.

princessKF:
Hello house..

We are team april 2018... EDD 25th..

So far I don't look preggy, no bump, no fat face yet(maybe it's a baby girl) lol

To all waddling mamas, safe delivery to us all.

Its still early now,
Wait till you get to third trimester before you know whether fat face go come or not.
My fat face started in 7th month.

curvilicious:
This woman i no see bump o
Na flower, flower i see

I know say you see am, the bump is clear jor. you people just want me to get up and take standing picture by force.
No way.
Na me and bed today.

PatKing:
You are lost in beautiful colours, except for your cute Bump!
You will land safely.
Receive strength momma.

thanks, may smooth sailing and healthy pregnancy be your portion.

Goldenheart002:
Shebi, its still #bumpietuesday, lemme quickly drop my preggy/worwor look+fine bump! Team January, make una no abuse me oh.....we are almost there #dancing one corner#

See your cute bump and fine face

Safe delivery to you ma, team January for supernatural and blessed delivery.

Bloomingbud:
Yes ma'am. I'm a twin mama by his grace.

Thotiana don't be lazy jor, show us your bump.

So you are Iya beji sef, wow. Double congrats to u.

Fine I agree to post bump but am posting it from bed abeg. I don't want to drag myself up.

31weeks 3 days.

Bloomingbud:
Bumpy Tuesday

25weeks with my cuties
Team February 2018 for supernatural delivery.

Cute bump
I wish u happy and safe delivery.
May God grant you an easy and healthy pregnancy.

I planned to post bump but tiredness is dealing with me. I can't stand and be positioning camera today.

Congrats Anugod. God bless you and your bundle of joy.

kendrallmai:
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My sister have this routine of conducting basic medical test before employing anybody especially live in help, so my brothers and sisters that is how this girl came and my sister as usual did the routine checkup only for this girl to test positive to aids not hiv as it has gone beyond that. They had to go to different labs to be sure, yea it's the same

Sorry for the long epistle I'm just emotional

Thank God for you, and for leading your sister to do the test.
Housemaids scare me to be honest. No matter how innocent they look.

curvilicious:
Your relative might be right cos I've been down somehow cos dh has been making me feel uneasy for somedays

Aww, sorry about that dear. Try and remove your mind from it and think positive thoughts.
The annoying thing is that pregnancy hormones tend to make emotional upsets feel worse than normal.

pocohantas:
LOL. Funny you! They ain't all that bad nah
Well, it's one reason I prefer working with female superiors. That way, I can cut out the risk of sexual harrassment.

Yup, quite true.

pocohantas:
I didn't blame anyone.
I'm only saying we need more than just a tweet on this one.

Cool.
Me I believe the girl sha. Men can demand sex even for saying 'bless you' after you sneeze.

pocohantas:
Hmmm. It's a norm in the movie industry, but we shouldn't be quick to crucify these men. Some of these girls are not as innocent as they try to make us believe.

Please let's not blame the women for men's randy behaviour.
She didn't offer sex, he wanted to take advantage of her so it's not her fault.

I knew this guy was lying from day one. Unfortunately Nairaland men are too biased to see that.

Reference:
If you don't care about a woman's sexual assault why should you care about a man's or are men not entitled to civil liberties as well. The problem is that we often mistaken an excuse for a justification so both sexes play the victim card. The right thing is that both sexes should stop taking advantage of one another. Men should stop peddling their influence and women should stop peddling their bodies. Anything over and beyond that can then be questioned.

Why would men use influence to take advantage of women? Why? If you cannot help her with a job cos she isn't qualified then say so and let her look for another job.
Women don't need to start wearing parachutes and bedsheets cos men cannot exercise self control. They can wear anything they like, it doesn't give men the right to harass them for sex and it doesn't mean they are peddling bodies.

Leetunechi:
I don't usually bring my private life on social media buh I desperately need your help....
Please, how long should you allow your friend to mourn her stolen Phone before you ask her to dash u her charger and ear piece

LOL,

Wait till she buys a new one.

Werey guy

Why are all the men accusing her of lying?
The man could be the liar in this situation so why hurling insults at her cos of her dressing?
Men have always wanted sex for giving you favors right from time
They give charity money they ask for sex in return, give a job they want sex afterwards, even after giving women a lift in their car they try to get sex by asking for number when the woman gets down from the car.

Movie industry is filled with many molesters who take advantage of women seeking roles, it's not a strange thing. Even in US not quite long ago Harvey Wienstein was outed by Lupita Nyongo for trying to force her to have sex with him and even threatening her career in Hollywood if she refuses.

I don't care how a woman dresses, it doesn't give men the right to think they are entitled to getting sex from her. It's just like saying a guy drives expensive cars and wears designer clothes so gold digging women are entitled to ask for his money because he displayed it to them.

curvilicious:
Mamas, help I've not been getting strong kicks for some days now. Just brisk movements. Whenever i sit i get thugs up my tummy towards my ribs like when someone is pushing you nd saying oh shift na. Is it normal @ 31weeks? Sometimes i feel the place is no longer big enuf to swim nd tumble as before dunno sha

My able cappo how far?
Did you reduce your food intake or are you stressed?
I was told that stress and thinking too much cause hormones to cross Placenta and affect baby's liveliness, I dunno how true it is though. A relative told me so.

booqee:
wowww..really? You must be a heel pro even before pregnancy..

I'll just take flats along to change to avoid any issues..i feel underdressed if i don't wear heel especially to a big outing

Una dey try o.
I still find it difficult to wear heels even without pregnancy. Unless it's not too high.
I like the lazy and easy way out ie flats.

vivigurl:
Pls mothers this a new week. I'm tired of opening the thread to see more insults, and the rest. Want to see more BFP, BA and BS. Pm each other direct and exchange your words. Have a blessed day. Thanks.

The whole thing is now is irritating. I regret even shuking mouth in the first place. It's like we will have to start reporting troublesome posts so that they get hidden.

Ilyfavoured:
Saabi mamas. Good morning o. This thought has been bugging me lately and need advise on how to go about it. NO JUDGING PLEASE IF YOU GOT NOTHING CONSTRUCTIVE TO SAY JUST WAKA PASS.
In this type of environment and with our culture is it possible to raise a child 'genderless' i.e the child won't be referred to as either a boy or a girl till the child is of age to decide what he/she wants to be. I know it's gonna be tough, the child will be dressed in unisex outfit initially afterwards as the mother deems fit, will do whatever you the child wants or as the spirit directs. Do we think it's possible and won't backfire?

It's not going to be easy in a country like Nigeria. People are too judgemental and it goes against a lot of people's beliefs so if they notice what you are doing they will give you grief . You start hearing gossip like (look at that child with the strange mother that doesn't want to him/her to be normal.
And then the negative gossip gets to the ears of the child because Nigerians too dey talk and that can affect their self esteem and happiness. It's not like in foreign countries that are more liberal and less religious and the law will even protect the child from discrimination since they accept transgenders.

davillian:
When mohammed Yusuf was executed by the police what happened to BH after that.

Mark my words the kidnappers would become brutal and fearless.
They would be ready to kill and to die.

Good then they will all die like chickens since they are ready to die.

davillian:
NPF very useless set of people.
They think this will scare other kidnappers.
It's only gonna make them more brutal.

other heartless kidnappers like them will also get shot and killed.
No matter how brutal they get all kidnappers will one day die miserable deaths like mere chickens.

If you check now you will see that those people killed were random innocent folk that police picked up and framed then proceeded to shoot them so they will not be able to talk or declare innocence.
After all they were 'suspected' kidnappers. No court trial or concrete evidence had proved they were guilty.

They might also be guilty though. I just don't trust Nigerian police at all. Very corrupt and evil set of people.

Goldenheart002:
Now dis sis/bro sanbol isn't making good d matter at all, how can she outrightly call out someone wrongly and some mamas are even asking ahnie to apologise for what she didn't do?

Roseey0:
The person may have been instigated by mama chibobo's advice but definitely didn't want to say hers there

I understand.
Who write the Mrs Nobody post sef is not important to me. She has already heaped curses on her inconsiderate head by her actions.
Nothing is wrong with giving advice to help others but do it in a constructive way not by mocking and insulting a vulnerable and sad person.
Shebi somebody gave advice to a new mother that was having financial constraints not long ago? Didn't she explain herself logically without insults and openly stand by her words after doing so?

I feel am overdragging this issue sef.

Goldenheart002:
Pls ma, my aproko antenna has been permanently active since dis thread became rocketskied, pls can u tell me who d person is or even give me a clue

Roseey0:
Where is the genesis o
Let me keep myself busy today

See their aproko loving selves looking for more tatafo
The person has posted several posts here with main moniker, but I don't want to attack her further because to be honest I kind of liked her persona from reading her diary before, she came across as a sweet friendly woman so am surprised at what she did with her deactivated moniker.
Abeg mamas, don't vex for me, that's all I can say, I don't want the lady that was attacked to feel more upset by dragging that incident concerning her private life on this thread.

Both the man and his wife are useless animals. I hope he rots in jail for raping and threatening that child.
And what is with men and wanting to have sex with every female they live under the same roof with? Even children?

Eyaaa, I just realized who the deactivated person is lol

I even thought it was one of the unknown people here trying to seek attention, didn't even know she has popularity already.

I don't even go to family section like that these days if not I would have seen the genesis of the whole thing and reacted less harshly.