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Can you imagine the nerve of Tiwa's husband?

Only him admitted that Tiwa is the bread winner and only him is saying Tiwa no longere prepares home cooked meals for him?

What is that? What kind of useless husband is he for heavens sake? So only Tiwa should be both husband and wife in the marriage abi? What is now his own responsibility since he cannot do house work and cannot provide money, which purpose is his lazy cocaine sniffing self serving in the marriage.

Nigerian men can irritate me with their disgusting self entitlement. You are a man so women should bend over backwards to please you.

Make he kill himself abeg. Useless thing.

EggovinMma:
deodorants will not solve that girls problem. What she needs is thorough hygiene transformation, from bathing thrice a day to washing her sensitive parts very well . Girls who have such smell add to it when they sleep around with random men especially without condom.

If you really want to help her, don't go about buying those things for her, afterall she get boyfriend wey dey fucck her.I can imagine how rotten the smell is *pukes*

Tell her all these without fear or hate

She should start using warm water and dettol for every bath.

She should learn to wash the armpit part of her clothes very well, wear scented clothes from a box filled with those white stuffs people put in their boxes.

she should shave her armpit and trim her public hair with scissors every time

she should cut her hair for now or spend more on short braids that weavons.

she should make it a point of duty to use candle stick deodorants and not spray ones.

she should learn to wipe her happy hole with wet wipes or water after urinating

whenever she sweats, she should jump immediately inside the bathroom and take a quick shower, with or without soap

she should also learn to carry handkerchiefs around.

she should use mild perfumes if she must, but a good deodorant can do the work.

A woman should be able to know when her body Is sticky and smelling. When this happens, she should wash her hair as well when taking her bath.Its only lazy girls that visits saloons every time to wash their hair. There are local shampoos and conditioners available everywhere

She should wash her braids three weeks after with warm water ago nd scented shampoo. It comes with a fresh smell afterwards.

she should take a hot bath immediately after sex.Wasg her privates well with only water

she should learn the habit of sleeping only on night dress and scented powder on her body and neck.

Should learn to clean her face with mild cleansers, extending it to the neck, ears and back of the ears.

Exercise well, eat fresh veggies and fruits.

Rinse her mouth or brush after eating local food.

wash her pants and spread them outdoors ONLY . DISPOSE old weary pants.

For now, she should go for mild cream from johnson johnson, vaseline, palmers cream, nivea, coco butter, she a butter etc.No more harsh chemical creams esp those with hydroquinone.


Once again she must maintain a crazy bathing habit. Once she comes home with stress and sweat, she should jump into the bathroom. After cooking, bathroom. After toilet time, quick shower.After a trek home, bathroom, after sweating, as long as her body is salty, bathroom.

I should copy this and send to her on whatsapp.

christinie:
If you love her as a friend you haave to tell her. I and my friend once told our friend about her mouth odour. She had to seek medical counsel at the hospital. She was told that she needed teeth filling which she did and the problem was resolved. She was so thankful to us. If she's a reasonable human being she will understand.

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate.

yvelchstores:
These are d effective types, the ones that actually stop people from sweating till it soaks them up....anti perspirants.

Thanks, I will search for rexona and buy for her.
I don't know how she has not been told by anyone before, its really bad.
Even her teeth are crummy with black lines on them
I don't know what I did to deserve this kind of 'friend'. Maybe I was a bad person in my former life

Gboliwe:
https://www.nairaland.com/2975798/clean-9-weight-loss-journey

lmao, hilarious but enlightening review.
I won't buy again jor.
I was tempted to buy after seeing adverts of the product that showed people losing up to 50% body weight by using clean 9 alone.

greatgod2012:
This is simple now!

Just do this.................. anytime she knocks at your door, respectfully tell her you're about to sleep and wouldn't want to be disturbed. On another day, respectfully tell her you're busy with something very important, and that you wouldn't want to be disturbed, that when you're through, you will call on her. After about 4 or 5 attempts, she will get the message. If she refuses to get the message, and still disturb you, tell her to wait for you outside, you will meet her there. After a while, go and meet her and tell her you prefer open place because of fresh air.
If after all these, she still don't get the message, I'm afraid, you will need to tell her that she needs to take care of herself more, that, that is the more reason you've been trying to avoid her. If she's a good person, she will take it as a good advice and work more on her hygiene.
Good luck!

I have no one else to talk to in the compound, if I avoid her I will just be by myself.
Alone.
Thanks for trying to help though.

christinie:
Sit her down and tell her the truth, trust me it won't be the first time she's heard it , only it may be the first time she heard it in a no-fighting situation. Let her know the importance of shaving and thorough bathing, also the need for deodorants. If after telling her she decides to ignore you you move on with your life.

I have no idea how to tell her, she takes everything so personally.
She normally tells me about things other people have done to cause malice between her and them and these things are usually so trivial and not even worth taking seriously.
She is the only female neighbour I can actually keep company with so I don't want to end our relationship. Our other neighbours in the compound are two men and one single young girl that I can't get close to cos we have nothing in common.

Thanks everyone for your contribution I appreciate.

gommex:
yes discuss it here openly

I support this motion.

This lady has the worst body odour.

No joke.

She is always paying me visits because according to her, she doesn't like being alone because it makes her depressed but she stinks
Her hair always smells damp and musty because she uses weave on and doesn't cover it when bathing.
The last time she took the weave on out in my presence the thing stunk so bad and she had so much dandruff on her head

Anytime she comes into my room the whole place starts to stink and the worst part is that the smell remains there even after she leaves. She placed my pillow under her armpit once when she visited and I swear to God I couldn't use that pillow without washing it because of how badly it smelled.

I don't know how to bring up the issue of hygiene with her because she is an extremely sensitive person and I have thought about buying her deoderant/perfume for her birthday cos I know she doesn't use any. The only problem is that her birthday is still far. Its in June. And I don't know if I can bear the smell till that time.

The other day she came to watch a movie in my house and I just couldn't concentrate on the film because I was struggling to breathe.
Jesus, it was terrible.

I have thought about sending her an anonymous text message advicing her to buy a good deoderant but she might trace the text back to me.

She is out of town for a while and I can actually breathe freely and enjoy clean air but she will return back in about a week and I am dreading her return.

Help me, how do I handle this problem without causing malice between me and her?

mortee:
I have used it. My friend's colleague, my boss and my landlady. If you are still interested, send me a PM.

I cant remember the password of my email ma.
Let's discuss here instead.

You said you used it?
How many pounds did you lose and how long did it take?

If it soumd s enticing enough I might just give it a shot.

By the way how does it work?
Is it by purging or no stooling involved?

By forever living products. Has anyone tried to lose weight with clean 9 weight loss system?
Did it work?
I wanted to try it but don't want to waste my money.
P.s: no forever living marketer should contribute here, I want to hear from consumers who actually tried the stuff.

All the men making noise in this thread shebi you will advice your sisters or daughters to marry barbers?
Nonsense.
If you ask the same men whether they can marry tomato or crayfish seller they will say no but women should marry anybody that even looks at them so they don't end up single at 45.
@OP, search for a man that earns more. Times are too hard for you to be settling for a poor person. Only marry him if you can't get a better alternative.

farouk0403:
Maddam what will I achieved by lying to you? Let me tell you something I hate tribalism and I believe in 1 nigeria, some the village am talking about is Enofia afikpo go and ask someone that knows the place very well or if you are in ebonyi state ask any one about enofia afikpo islamic center the school is very popular

Its in Afikpo south not so? That place is very underdeveloped.
I was suffering running stomach after drinking their water.
They don't have light and many people there lack basic primary education.

I hope my daughters find men who respect womanhood to marry and not the type making silly comments here.
And I hope the daughters of men who support awesomeduru's post end up with men that think there is nothing glorius under their skirt.

Mistake

Guy ur so romantic.
My own proposal was just very random and expected sef.
I would have been more surprised if he didnt propose.
HML in advance.

DollyParton1:
Aswear!!! Your seem like a gold digger.
Now that your wife is sharing the bills with you, I hope you are sharing the house chores with her too.

I was just about to say this.

OP's wife it sounds like your marriage is still young.
You see, the thing that makes women hide their money from husbands is because if they find out you have small money they will want you to spend it first and exhaust it before you ask them for theirs forgetting that it is their job to provide. Infact the more a woman has, the less willing the man is to provide anything for the family. So the woman ends up being both husband and wife, both provider and homemaker, hustler and childcarer, breadwinner and kitchen CEO.
Let me not draw wrong conclusions anyway.
@OP's wife: since you both are now operating a joint bank account and now jointly providing money for your needs, please ensure that you are also jointly running housechores and childcare and cooking.

I wish you happiness.

Warrabout Julius and Rochelle? I loved Rochelle mannn.....crazy woman. Like a typical gbagbati bush Nigerian mother.

She's hot.

pazienza:
Lol! You want them to introduce federal character right?

There should be equity and fairness, that's all. The shamelessly obvious tribalism displayed in the entire process is sickening.

itzlabode:
JUST A QUESTION... HOW DID DEY MAKE THE LIST? who on earth did dey sacrifice their **** to , to get their face shown?
OUT OF THE 69,086,302 FEMALES IN NIGERIA? (2006 CENSUS) THIS IS WHAT WE COULD PRODUCE? . POLITICS IN PAGEANT, LITTLE WONDER WE CANT PRODUCE ANOTHER AGBANI ...

Very heavy politics and tribalism has taken over MBGN.

It only affects Unijos?
I thought all units were affected, I would have loved for my lil sis to stay home for some time cos of strike.

Why are they all overweight?

Stop staring at girls butts to see if pantyline is visible.

Op is an obvious attention seeker.
I mean seriously, uploading a picture of your exposed cleavage on your profile and then declaring you are a virgin?
I hope you're enjoying the tsunami of PMs thirsty Nairaland guys are sending you as we speak.

She's trying to conceal the boobs with her hair.
lol
Why not just wear a sleeveless crop top instead? its far more better than this hoe outfit she has on.

Hilarious.