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Another thing that makes me doubt his diagnosis is that the man didn't do any test at all. He just felt around the right side of my stomach and listened for heart beat then prescribed muscle relaxant. He didn't even send me for a scan.

Guys I need help. I went to the hospital two days ago to complain of lower pelvic pain that I had been experiencing for the past two weeks. The thing was looking like round ligament pain or braxton hicks because the nature of the pain was:
1. It was worse if I exerted myself or did exercise like walking.

2. It usually came on sharply if I attempted to turn from one side of my body to another but it will stop if I am lying still.

3. It was majorly one sided, affecting only the right side of my lower pelvis.

So when I asked the doctor what could be the problem he said its likely to be preterm labour and he prescribed SALBUTAMOL and PARACETAMOL. Me on my part I don't want to take the drugs yet because I don't think it is preterm labour cos labour pains is constant even when resting and it affects the entire womb and even the back. I don't want to take drugs that will prolong my pregnancy just cos of wrong diagnosis.

So what do you mums think? Is it likely to be labour pains? I am 24wks pregnant by the way.

This thing is affecting so many people.
Tell them to bring prepaid meter, they will not. Yet your bill keeps increasing every month even when power supply is worse.
I went to their office to complain and the mumu customer care woman was asking me how come all the four flats in the compound can't raise that amount? How come I am surprised at the amount, afterall they give us light up to 10 days a month. Rubbish.
We are planning to tell them to disconnect it soon, this exploitation must stop.

So they were able to locate the mother? In nigeria that would never have happened.

MrMcJay:
As a married woman, you should learn to mind your business and tend to matters that concern you.
If you must talk, it's important you exercise restraint over your tongue and process your words before you spit them out.

You should consider the actual meaning, the intended meaning and the connoted meaning.

I am not interested in your opinion. Stop quoting me to tell me what you think.

Pregnant women shouldn't take pepper soup. It can cause a miscarriage.

oluplus:
On a lighter note, should happily and sexually satisfied married men keep such contents on their phones? Could it be as a result of starvation? You need not answer.
I wish you well

what kind of comment is this? did you not read where the man said his friends sent the video to him and the phone still saved it even after he deleted it? I don't know why men love blaming women for stupid things they do instead of taking responsibility. Even if the husband is not satisfied sexually is he not supposed to communicate with his wife and solve the problem instead of keeping porn in a phone that his 5 yr old son can access?

zaynie:
I'm not one of the organizers o.. I was just spreading a message.
I did my first free online lessons 2 weeks ago and now I've fallen in love with the many feelings online classes so I just brought it here.....

Ok no probs.

Your husband was obviously cheating that's how he got the STD he infected you with.

Hello zaynie, how are you? please I wanted to suggest you create the group for cooking and enterpreneurship on Telegram so as to accomodate more members that want to learn. Telegram groups take up to 5000 members.
Please help those of us that want to learn, thanks.

jamarifox:
booking space by 4am. Continue

I wasn't booking space, I wrote something there.

4. Please her sexually: Yup. Women may, on the average, have lower sex drive than men but that doesn't mean they don't want to be sexually satisfied. Find out what your wife wants you to do in the bedroom, ask her and encourage her to open up. If she is the shy type that finds it difficult to discuss sexuality then experiment with different moves till you figure out what she enjoys. Play with her ears or other sensitive parts and watch her reaction to know her hot spots. Prolong foreplay_ with her when being intimate because many women do not orgasm_ from penetration alone. They require substantial arousal from pre-intimacy activities before they can climax from sex.
It is extremely crucial to have a sexually satifying relationship with your wife because the more satisfied she is in the bedroom, the more willing she will be to have sex with you and please you in the bedroom. Many men neglect their wives intimate needs and then get irrationaly angry and cheat on her when she loses interest in sleeping with them.

2. Respect her needs and wishes: We live in a patriachal society where the duty of being respectful is emphasized as that of only the wives, many times we overlook or downplay the fact that wives are also human beings that deserve to have their wishes respected by their husbands. Marriage works best when both parties are willing to compromise their needs to make the other person happy so sometimes, the husband puts his own needs aside to respect his wife's wishes or to let her have her way in decision making. He should also take care to carefully explain his reasons to her anytime he wishes to have the upper hand in deciding anything, he should lovingly discuss his rationatale for doing anything that affects her in the house instead of just taking decisions like a tyrant and expecting her to just go with it. No.

3. Be sexy and neat for your wife: This goes without saying. You have to keep in top physical shape and have good hygiene, smell nice, look attractive to your wife to keep her lusting over you.

Seeing as how there are so many topics about 'pleasing your man' or 'making your man happy' and barely anything about making wives happy, I want to do something unusual and suggest ways men can be better husbands. Marriage takes two to succeed; the husband and the wife, so effort has to come in from both angles.
Lets talk about what husbands can do to preserve their marriages and keep their partners happy with them.

Ways To Please Your Wife
1. Be loving: And by this, I mean find out what makes her happy and endeavour to do it. If she likes to talk about her day, try to ask questions and show concerns on what goes on in her life so as to initiate conversations. If she likes having assistance with her house work, do what you can to help around the house. You both live in the same house so chores should not be the sole responsibility of only one spouse.
You can also surprise her with occaisional treats like back massages or random gifts to make her smile.

Op how far? Has ya self centered irresponsible papa come back?

kelizosuy:
When I had those pains was when I fell down and something like water came out, Dr had to place me on bed rest at home for 4weeks(choi) but I wasn't scared though. I was already 28weeks then. But I think for some people it's normal and for some it's stress induced

My own water no come out o, just incessant pain. No unusual discharge. I will go for scan sha.

Bomgirl:
Google is a crazy doctor. You no know?
If your anc date is close, then you can complain. But I feel it's a pregnancy symptom. Pele.

It will end in praise.

Amen dear. Thanks.

ebonychic18:
I've been having same pain since 24 weeks. Even when lying down a Times it comes so I have to change position or use pillow in between my legs. My doc said it's the head of the baby. He checked me said I was okay. The pain is even worse now at 34 weeks. So remove your mind from preterm labour. It could be the position, weight, head of the baby or expansion of your pelvis. Better still see your doc to rule out any other issue.

So it gets worse sef? Lord help me o. Cos even at this stage its quite painful as if I got punched several times in my vag regions, doesn't let me walk properly even. Maybe my own will improve with time, people differ.

Giddyperson:
Choi preterm labour kwa. It is not that deep biko. Lie down more often, I feel it's just a phase that would pass

Lol, no be my fault na for thinking the preterm labor thing, I was curious and had to do research. Well, I will try to lie down more. Thanks

Liftedhands:
panic will do you no good! Have your doctor check you out instead. All the best .

I intend to go soon. I know they will send me for scan to confirm all is well.

Hi everyone. Please I need advice, I am about 23wks so far and 3wks ago, I started noticing this pressure and pain in the upper outer part of my jajaina. I for ignore am as regular pregnancy symptom but I researched google and they said feeling pressure on jajaina is one of many signs of impending preterm labor.
Pls who knows anything about such pain? It gets worse when I walk around and I don't feel it when lying down. I dont know whether I should ignore it or start panicking.

EponOjuku:
You think all men are like your father and brothers?

Why don't you start your corrections from them. After all, they never taught you not to generalize from an ignorant point of view and draw conclusions based on the personalities of the men in your household.

Don't make me insult your fathers and brothers in return. Go back and read my post and come and tell me where I mentioned all men. Nonsense.
And it's your mother that didn't teach you how not to draw ignorant conclusions before understanding a post you read.

So Nigerian men are now telling themselves its a man's world to justify hypocrite and unfair treatment? And some foolish idiotic Nigerian women are settling for shit_ treatment by telling themselves its a man's world.
Which dirty man's world. How is it a man's world for heaven's sake when all religions forbid adultery by both males and females? Men these days don't want to be accountable for anything or responsible for anything. Even the part of the Bible that says men should be providers they have forgotten that one and are now preaching women should equally provide but their hypocrite asses will never preach that men should submit to their wives. Rubbish.
Now they are doing their best to make women accept infidelity and randy behaviour from husbands because 'its a mans world'.
I only pity the fools that meekly tolerate cheating from their husbands. If I can't divorce you I will make your life miserable. Forgive a cheating partner my foot.When the same partner will not hesitate to throw you out if you do so

They will only come here to insult women for having realistic expectations about what good husband means and then make noise about how women are lazy and not good enough etc. They never take corrections.

@my cappo, curvilicious, thanks for asking after and constant updating of january teamies list. You too gbasky

Tushmom:
B.A!!!
My princess made her grand entrance yesterday around 12:40pm weighing 4.0kg via V. D without tears..
Baby Bouncing and sucking seriously,
Mother doing great,
Big brother acting like a small mum,
Father doing great too.. .

Only God can do what no man can do!
B. S coming soon.
Cc:katachycouture

Congrats!
Wow, 4kg via VD without tears? You really get luck o.

tiredoflife:
Some good news came my way...got busy....and got some profits of $1700.....waiting for alert now

How did you do it please share

I know this thread is old but I just have to say it. People like OP are big fat hypocrites because they will never tolerate another person shouting at them the way they shout at others so easily. And can you imagine her wanting people to do things her way and nagging others because they didn't do what she said? Your friends and family really love you sha. If I was a friend and you treated me so shabbily I will so cut you out of my life and if you were family I will endlessly look for ways to undermine you and make you look stupid so you will realize you don't know everything and humble yourself.

You should post pictures of what kind of view the camera picks up. Maybe screenshot the surveillance

sophiawisdom:
Your father is like mine,
though he is here with us but we don't know is essence. It is very painful sometimes tho

Many are like that. Lives with family but shows almost no interest in their lives apart from money he drops

bongolistik:
sorry to disappoint you, I am not any of what you mentioned.. I have a decent job, receiving decent payment in foreign currency monthly, in addition to that, we get on side offers within the month with either foreign or local media companies requesting for our services. If you doubt, message me, I will show you my inbox. , I have one on side offer/proposal already chilling in my mailbox waiting for finalisation on Monday or Tuesday as this is weekend and we can't proceed for now.

What of ya mama and sisters and female relatives? which job on your list are they involved in? your future daughters nko? which job on your list will she do?

GoodMum:
Oh! Dear sorry about that, it's part of the preggy package. Don't worry, it will end in praise.

Amen. Thanks, I claim it