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Crime / My Bitter Experience At The Police Station by Thuglife2020: 7:18am On Jun 23, 2023 |
We still have a long way to go in this country regarding police brutality. This happened on 16th to 17th of June, 2023. This happened in Ado-Ekiti. Admin, please, push to front page This is an account of the events that unfolded yesterday night. We received a call from a friend at approximately 9pm, informing us of their arrest for an alleged assault on a civilian and urgently requesting our presence at the police station that same night. We promptly proceeded to the station, where we encountered several police officers stationed at the entrance. They inquired about the purpose of our visit, and we explained that we were there to support our arrested friend. Upon our explanation, we were granted access to the premises. Upon reaching the designated area, we encountered a group of officers, and a female officer assumed responsibility for assisting us. She informed us that the suspect was unavailable for visitation at that particular time and advised us to return the following day. Despite our attempts to persuade her otherwise, she remained steadfast in her decision. Consequently, three of us departed and waited outside, while one individual who had initially accompanied us continued to engage in conversation with the female officer. Unfortunately, all his efforts to persuade her were futile. At that point, I noticed a worrisome escalation in the woman's demeanor, suggesting that she intended to exacerbate the situation. Sensing trouble, I stepped aside and retrieved my phone. As soon as the police officers noticed that I had my phone out, they swiftly approached and confiscated it, subsequently grabbing me by my clothing and forcibly dragging me back into the police station alongside my friend. Inside the station, the woman locked the door and immediately began accusing us of attacking the officers present. Another officer arrived, and without giving us an opportunity to explain our side of the story, he resorted to physical violence, repeatedly slapping us and demanding that we sit on the floor. The officer then escorted us to his office, where we had a brief conversation with him about the purpose of our visit. The DPO came, and he inquired about the individual who had taken out their phone during the intense argument, and I acknowledged that it was me. Consequently, he instructed one of the officers to detain me while allowing my friends to leave. These events transpired within the confines of the police station. The officer led me to the counter, with the DPO (Divisional Police Officer) accompanying us. Upon reaching the counter, my slippers were confiscated. While waiting there, before being taken to the holding cell, the female officer levied an accusation against me, claiming that I had assaulted her by pushing her. I vehemently denied the allegation, emphasizing that such an incident never occurred. During the argument, she had been holding onto my friend's clothing, while a male officer had a grip on mine because I had taken out my phone. This denial seemed to anger the DPO, who deemed my speech aggressive and labeled me as stubborn. He threatened to teach me a lesson and asserted that I would be taken to court the following day. Subsequently, I was placed in custody. Shortly after being locked up, I was escorted out again to provide a statement. I recounted the events that transpired prior to being returned to the cell. The following day, an officer approached me while I was still in the cell and informed me that the DPO had decided to release me on the condition that I offer an apology. I firmly and unequivocally expressed to the officer that the DPO was fully aware of the events that transpired the previous night and that my confinement was merely a result of my refusal to comply. I made it clear that I was not prepared to apologize to the DPO for something I did not do, as it would be an infringement upon my rights. The officer realized that I was not willing to comply with the demand. Despite this, the DPO ordered my release. If I had committed a grave offense, I would have been willing to apologize, but I firmly believed that my rights had been violated, and I refused to apologize for something I did not perpetrate. Later on, another officer arrived to effect my release and escorted me upstairs. This officer informed me that the DPO had instructed him to prepare my case file as I would be taken to court. I was taken aback by this development, as I questioned the basis for such action. What charges would be brought against me? From where did these accusations arise? The officer responsible for preparing the case file was fully aware of the actual events that took place, yet he had to adhere to the instructions given to him. Subsequently, another officer entered the scene and proceeded to read both my statement from the previous night and the statement provided by the female officer involved in the incident. This officer expressed a refusal to accept the contents of my statement, citing that I had included too much detail. To my astonishment, he presented a different statement and instructed me to complete it according to his guidance. It became evident to me that he intended for me to incriminate myself by accepting responsibility for assaulting the police officer. When he began posing questions and directing me on what to write, I firmly stated that everything that had transpired had already been documented in my initial statement, and that was the only account I would repeat. This response infuriated him, and he accused me of being stubborn, threatening that they would take punitive action against me. Meanwhile, my friends had arrived at the station and were working towards resolving the situation. They sought an audience with the DPO, engaging in conversation to explain the circumstances. The DPO instructed them to retrieve me, and they proceeded to the office where I was writing the statement. They accompanied me to the DPO's office, where the female police officer was also present. The DPO requested that the woman provide an account of what had transpired the previous night. Unfortunately, she proceeded to fabricate numerous falsehoods in front of my friends, taking advantage of their intervention in the matter. She accused me of assaulting her; and my friends, despite recognizing the untruthfulness of her claims, were unable to intervene as their primary objective was to secure my release. The individual accused me of assault, and my friends, who were present, had to prioritize my removal from the situation. Consequently, despite any claims made by the accuser, I acknowledge my involvement in the alleged incident. However, I was only afforded a brief opportunity to speak before being instructed to remain silent. This led to a situation where everyone, including myself, showed deference (prostrate) to the District Police Officer (DPO), who subsequently ordered my release. Before my release, I was required to sign a document indicating my understanding, and a friend who accompanied me was also asked to sign a similar undertaking. Reluctantly, I was compelled to accept responsibility for assaulting a police officer in uniform while they were on duty. My mugshots were taken. Although I was disinclined to accept this, I recognized that declining or asserting my rights would likely result in continued detention. Before leaving, there were extensive discussions among the on-duty police officers regarding the incident. Some even directly stated to me that I had assaulted a police officer. However, my friends strongly advised me against defending myself, as they feared the repercussions of challenging the prevailing narrative. It was apparent that these officers had formed their opinions solely based on the statement provided by the accuser, without expressing any interest in hearing my side of the story. Interestingly, the officers who were present during the incident and were aware of my innocence chose to remain silent, abstaining from participating in the discussions. 123 Likes 10 Shares |
Crime / My Bitter Experience At The Police Station by Thuglife2020: 9:49pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
We still have a long way to go in this country regarding police brutality. This happened on 16th to 17th of June, 2023. This happened in Ado-Ekiti. Admin, please, push to front page This is an account of the events that unfolded yesterday night. We received a call from a friend at approximately 9pm, informing us of their arrest for an alleged assault on a civilian and urgently requesting our presence at the police station that same night. We promptly proceeded to the station, where we encountered several police officers stationed at the entrance. They inquired about the purpose of our visit, and we explained that we were there to support our arrested friend. Upon our explanation, we were granted access to the premises. Upon reaching the designated area, we encountered a group of officers, and a female officer assumed responsibility for assisting us. She informed us that the suspect was unavailable for visitation at that particular time and advised us to return the following day. Despite our attempts to persuade her otherwise, she remained steadfast in her decision. Consequently, three of us departed and waited outside, while one individual who had initially accompanied us continued to engage in conversation with the female officer. Unfortunately, all his efforts to persuade her were futile. At that point, I noticed a worrisome escalation in the woman's demeanor, suggesting that she intended to exacerbate the situation. Sensing trouble, I stepped aside and retrieved my phone. As soon as the police officers noticed that I had my phone out, they swiftly approached and confiscated it, subsequently grabbing me by my clothing and forcibly dragging me back into the police station alongside my friend. Inside the station, the woman locked the door and immediately began accusing us of attacking the officers present. Another officer arrived, and without giving us an opportunity to explain our side of the story, he resorted to physical violence, repeatedly slapping us and demanding that we sit on the floor. The officer then escorted us to his office, where we had a brief conversation with him about the purpose of our visit. The DPO came, and he inquired about the individual who had taken out their phone during the intense argument, and I acknowledged that it was me. Consequently, he instructed one of the officers to detain me while allowing my friends to leave. These events transpired within the confines of the police station. The officer led me to the counter, with the DPO (Divisional Police Officer) accompanying us. Upon reaching the counter, my slippers were confiscated. While waiting there, before being taken to the holding cell, the female officer levied an accusation against me, claiming that I had assaulted her by pushing her. I vehemently denied the allegation, emphasizing that such an incident never occurred. During the argument, she had been holding onto my friend's clothing, while a male officer had a grip on mine because I had taken out my phone. This denial seemed to anger the DPO, who deemed my speech aggressive and labeled me as stubborn. He threatened to teach me a lesson and asserted that I would be taken to court the following day. Subsequently, I was placed in custody. Shortly after being locked up, I was escorted out again to provide a statement. I recounted the events that transpired prior to being returned to the cell. The following day, an officer approached me while I was still in the cell and informed me that the DPO had decided to release me on the condition that I offer an apology. I firmly and unequivocally expressed to the officer that the DPO was fully aware of the events that transpired the previous night and that my confinement was merely a result of my refusal to comply. I made it clear that I was not prepared to apologize to the DPO for something I did not do, as it would be an infringement upon my rights. The officer realized that I was not willing to comply with the demand. Despite this, the DPO ordered my release. If I had committed a grave offense, I would have been willing to apologize, but I firmly believed that my rights had been violated, and I refused to apologize for something I did not perpetrate. Later on, another officer arrived to effect my release and escorted me upstairs. This officer informed me that the DPO had instructed him to prepare my case file as I would be taken to court. I was taken aback by this development, as I questioned the basis for such action. What charges would be brought against me? From where did these accusations arise? The officer responsible for preparing the case file was fully aware of the actual events that took place, yet he had to adhere to the instructions given to him. Subsequently, another officer entered the scene and proceeded to read both my statement from the previous night and the statement provided by the female officer involved in the incident. This officer expressed a refusal to accept the contents of my statement, citing that I had included too much detail. To my astonishment, he presented a different statement and instructed me to complete it according to his guidance. It became evident to me that he intended for me to incriminate myself by accepting responsibility for assaulting the police officer. When he began posing questions and directing me on what to write, I firmly stated that everything that had transpired had already been documented in my initial statement, and that was the only account I would repeat. This response infuriated him, and he accused me of being stubborn, threatening that they would take punitive action against me. Meanwhile, my friends had arrived at the station and were working towards resolving the situation. They sought an audience with the DPO, engaging in conversation to explain the circumstances. The DPO instructed them to retrieve me, and they proceeded to the office where I was writing the statement. They accompanied me to the DPO's office, where the female police officer was also present. The DPO requested that the woman provide an account of what had transpired the previous night. Unfortunately, she proceeded to fabricate numerous falsehoods in front of my friends, taking advantage of their intervention in the matter. She accused me of assaulting her; and my friends, despite recognizing the untruthfulness of her claims, were unable to intervene as their primary objective was to secure my release. The individual accused me of assault, and my friends, who were present, had to prioritize my removal from the situation. Consequently, despite any claims made by the accuser, I acknowledge my involvement in the alleged incident. However, I was only afforded a brief opportunity to speak before being instructed to remain silent. This led to a situation where everyone, including myself, showed deference (prostrate) to the District Police Officer (DPO), who subsequently ordered my release. Before my release, I was required to sign a document indicating my understanding, and a friend who accompanied me was also asked to sign a similar undertaking. Reluctantly, I was compelled to accept responsibility for assaulting a police officer in uniform while they were on duty. My mugshots were taken. Although I was disinclined to accept this, I recognized that declining or asserting my rights would likely result in continued detention. Before leaving, there were extensive discussions among the on-duty police officers regarding the incident. Some even directly stated to me that I had assaulted a police officer. However, my friends strongly advised me against defending myself, as they feared the repercussions of challenging the prevailing narrative. It was apparent that these officers had formed their opinions solely based on the statement provided by the accuser, without expressing any interest in hearing my side of the story. Interestingly, the officers who were present during the incident and were aware of my innocence chose to remain silent, abstaining from participating in the discussions. 2 Likes |
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Echoban: He’s a lagosian.. He’s from Badagry in case you don’t know |
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mattmogan88: Yes, it’s eatable. I’ve eaten it countless times .. it’s called “ETA” in my own tribe.. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: FG Deactivates Sowore’s National ID Card, Voter Card, Passport - SR by Thuglife2020: 5:31pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
SadiqBabaSani: Prove he brought this administration to power |
Romance / Re: I Need Help Dear Nlanders by Thuglife2020: 12:39pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
fati2001: The question is that, why are you avoiding sex with her? When a woman gain admission into university, consider yourself single that very moment.. I’m not sure there is a way you can get her back. I’m pretty sure she won’t have the feeling she used to have for you before she gained admission.. she’s in love with someone else because she spends more time with the new guy now, hence the feelings grow stronger… for your own sanity, Just let her be. Delete her number, her pictures and everything related to her on your phone and in your life and move on.. |
Music/Radio / Re: List Of 250 Of The Greatest Nigerian Songs By Naptu2. by Thuglife2020: 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
OP, you shouldn’t have omitted all these na.. Eedris Abdkareem - Mr. Lecturer Eedris Abdkareem - Jaga Jaga Eedris Abdkareem - Oko ashewo Tony Tetula - My Car African China - Mr. President Beautiful Nubia- Owuro Beautiful Nubia- Seven days Danfo driver- Danfo driver Ayinda barrister- Reality Paso, Saheed Balogun, fada u turn, Milaika & adex labule- Fuji Gyration Klevar jay- Koni koni love Ice prince- Oleku |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Wisconsin State Asks Trump To Pay $9.7 Million As Charges For A Recount by Thuglife2020: 6:37am On Nov 17, 2020 |
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Celebrities / Re: CDQ Calls Out Seyi Tinubu For Disrespecting Him At Davido's House by Thuglife2020: 10:12pm On Oct 01, 2020 |
solmus: At least he can afford anything he wants but you can’t.. shame! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: Inter Milan Planning To Sign Chelsea's N'Golo Kante by Thuglife2020: 10:54am On Jul 13, 2020 |
internationalman: Dude stop saying shit. So you think football isn’t among top earning professions in the U.K?? Tell me one profession that earn upto that $250k on yearly basis... 4 Likes |
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Romance / Re: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by Thuglife2020: 5:17pm On May 13, 2020 |
dom80: Like I said before, I wouldn’t advice you to quit her. I’ve got dude who his girlfriend cheated on him and I’ve got brother who his girlfriend cheated on him as well and they never quit them after they’ve plea and realized their mistakes. When such happened to me, I never state any condition for my girlfriend.. she will be the one to cut communications with any guy disturbing her. You don’t have to tell her to change her contact.. don’t ask her to do anything .. just let her know it’s the last change and if she mess up again.. you’re done for good. It’s hard to quit and forget all the memories you guys have had together. She cheats, fine but let it slide and don’t use it to react bro. It’s hard to quit someone you love. But I”ll urge to give her second chance. Blessed! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by Thuglife2020: 11:12am On May 13, 2020 |
Forgive her and always use your brain but trust is gone. Although she shouldn’t have done that from the start since you’re always there for her. Although it’s hard to forget but you can still give her second chance. I had a baby that cheated on me too and I forgave everything. And we good. Although she always feel insecure and never trust me because she know she messed up big time |
Politics / Re: Hotel Demolition: Sowore Reacts "Wike Is Mad, He’ll Pay For His Sins One Day!" by Thuglife2020: 11:56am On May 11, 2020 |
Notateflonguy: Go say that to Trump! |
Politics / Re: Wike: Why I Demolished Two Hotels In Rivers State (Video) by Thuglife2020: 7:19pm On May 10, 2020 |
ndcide: Stop displaying your ignorance dude.. the hair salon owner has been ordered to be released by Supreme Court and one senator even visited to cut his hair. Learn Dude! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by Thuglife2020: 9:57pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
If I should say something, plz trust me because I have. No reason one lie. My ex won’t have anything to say. My ex started cheating when she gained admission which I sponsored. This particular is aware. She knows everything about my ex how she’s been cheating. When I eventually broke up with her, that was then when she told me she has been cheating on me for a very long time. missimelda01: |
Family / Re: I Need Advice On What To Do by Thuglife2020: 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
If I should say something, plz trust me because I have. No reason one lie. My ex won’t have anything to say. My ex started cheating when she gained admission which I sponsored. This particular is aware. She knows everything about my ex how she’s been cheating. When I eventually broke up with her, that was then when she told me she has been cheating on me for a very long time. |
Family / I Need Advice On What To Do by Thuglife2020: 4:46pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Please, folks I need an advice. I met this particular girl through my brother’s girlfriend. She came to our side with my brother’s girlfriend and she met my ex at our side. They know each other because they are both in same school (one college like that). It was love from the first sight. I later wooed this particular girl but she told me she has a boyfriend and she can’t date me because of my ex (she believes we are still dating then and that’s the fact but I love her this girl). I tried to convince her but she wouldn’t succumb to my pressure then. I stopped talking to her then because I told her I can’t be friends with someone I love and wish to date. Me and my ex finally broke up because of infidelity. And it was messy. This particular girl is aware of it. She knows everything I did for my ex then (I financed all my ex school expenses but she still went ahead to cheat despite everything I did). And this particular lady is aware of everything. My ex used to tell this particular girl’s roommate in school how I’ve been financing her. But my ex and this girl are not very close. While with my ex then, I used to ask about the girl because I have intentions of dating this particular girl and she used to tell me how sincere and decent this particular girl is. I once asked my ex if I can date her but she boost then to me that she can’t date me because so many guys in their school have tried it and they all failed and even their school provost tried it and failed. After I broke up with my ex, I developed interest in her again and I started talking to this particular girl again after I stopped talking to her then when she told me she can’t date me. I tried to convince her and explain things that transpired between my ex and i after a couple of weeks we broke up. I wooed her again. She told me she would give a chance. She gave me a chance and I caught myself fallen in love with this particular girl along the line to the extent that I can’t go without calling her at least 3 times a day. I’ve been inviting her to come my side but she felt reluctant to come. She told me if I want her to come, I will have to come to her home and know her sister or any of her family. I wouldn’t agreed to the condition. There was this fateful day I called her, she told me she’s at her boyfriend’s shop. I got mad and I dropped the call forthwith but I wouldn’t let her know. Because of that, I promised to come home so that we can meet. We both discussed that and we agreed to yesterday (Saturday). When I got to home. I told her and she promised to come, she came to my side, we were in same room sitting on the bed. We had a lot of conversations and when I tried to kiss her, she was like NO, she can’t kiss me as she can’t cheat on her man. She begged me to give her time and we can only do anything if she end things with her current boyfriend. I love this girl wholeheartedly and I wish to date her. We’ve been dating for 2 months now and I only spent 3k on her. I believe she needs help. She told me about her boyfriend that she love him but the guy doesn’t have money. ( I’m aware of her boyfriend situation). Although they started dating not upto a year and the guy hasn’t given her anything since they started dating. She knows I’m able to afford anything for her but she insists she love the guy and she wouldn’t want to cheat on him. I once asked her over the phone to end things with her boyfriend but she told me she need time because she wouldn’t want to break her heart. She told me the problem she’s having with her boyfriend is her dad as her dad won’t want to have anything to do with Christian but I told me she should follow her heart and she know what’s best for her. I let her realize her parents won’t be the one to dictate to her (I believe she told me that because she still want me to stay) I made it clear to her that I won’t be able to continue with this because of the condition. Although she has promised to end things with her boyfriend but she needs time. I don’t know when she would end things with him and I can’t keep waiting. The fact is that I love this girl. I think I can still date her. But I need advice as I don’t know what to do if o should continue with her and let her quit her boyfriend along the line or end things with her finally. |
Romance / Re: This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 3:57pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
MannieA: Thanks for the advice. I never entice her with money. She learnt about me from my ex because my ex used to tell her roommate how I used to send her money. I’ve been financing my ex in school but stopped already. |
Romance / Re: This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 2:48pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Olachase: Comot woman matter for your life then � 1 Like |
Romance / Re: This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 2:47pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
MARX77: I love her and I believe she truly needs help. But I can’t do anything for her if she’s not � with me. |
Romance / Re: This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 2:43pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
kushercain: I never stop thinking of making more money. The thing is that, my ex which she know, I spent more than 100k while in school but she wouldn’t be faithful with me. I dated another woman when I broke up with my ex, I spent more than 150k on that one too wihin a couple of months but I was suspecting something.. when she came my side, she switched off phone, I created a thread then and from the advice I got here. I end things with her. But this particular girl I’m talking about, she’s very sincere, she knows I can get her anything she wanted but she still insists she love her man but she can only end things with her but I will have to give her some time |
Romance / This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 2:06pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Please, folks I need an advice. I met this particular girl through my brother’s girlfriend. She came to our side with my brother’s girlfriend and she met my ex at our side. They know each other because they are both in same school (one college like that). It was love from the first sight. I later wooed this particular girl but she told me she has a boyfriend and she can’t date me because of my ex (she believes we are still dating then and that’s the fact but I love her this girl). I tried to convince her but she wouldn’t succumb to my pressure then. I stopped talking to her then because I told her I can’t be friends with someone I love and wish to date. Me and my ex finally broke up because of infidelity. And it was messy. This particular girl is aware of it. She knows everything I did for my ex then (I financed all my ex school expenses but she still went ahead to cheat despite everything I did). And this particular lady is aware of everything. My ex used to tell this particular girl’s roommate in school how I’ve been financing her. But my ex and this girl are not very close. While with my ex then, I used to ask about the girl because I have intentions of dating this particular girl and she used to tell me how sincere and decent this particular girl is. I once asked my ex if I can date her but she boost then to me that she can’t date me because so many guys in their school have tried it and they all failed and even their school provost tried it and failed. After I broke up with my ex, I developed interest in her again and I started talking to this particular girl again after I stopped talking to her then when she told me she can’t date me. I tried to convince her and explain things that transpired between my ex and i after a couple of weeks we broke up. I wooed her again. She told me she would give a chance. She gave me a chance and I caught myself fallen in love with this particular girl along the line to the extent that I can’t go without calling her at least 3 times a day. I’ve been inviting her to come my side but she felt reluctant to come. She told me if I want her to come, I will have to come to her home and know her sister or any of her family. I wouldn’t agreed to the condition. There was this fateful day I called her, she told me she’s at her boyfriend’s shop. I got mad and I dropped the call forthwith but I wouldn’t let her know. Because of that, I promised to come home so that we can meet. We both discussed that and we agreed to yesterday (Saturday). When I got to home. I told her and she promised to come, she came to my side, we were in same room sitting on the bed. We had a lot of conversations and when I tried to kiss her, she was like NO, she can’t kiss me as she can’t cheat on her man. She begged me to give her time and we can only do anything if she end things with her current boyfriend. I love this girl wholeheartedly and I wish to date her. We’ve been dating for 2 months now and I only spent 3k on her. I believe she needs help. She told me about her boyfriend that she love him but the guy doesn’t have money. ( I’m aware of her boyfriend situation). Although they started dating not upto a year and the guy hasn’t given her anything since they started dating. She knows I’m able to afford anything for her but she insists she love the guy and she wouldn’t want to cheat on him. I once asked her over the phone to end things with her boyfriend but she told me she need time because she wouldn’t want to break her heart. She told me the problem she’s having with her boyfriend is her dad as her dad won’t want to have anything to do with Christian but I told me she should follow her heart and she know what’s best for her. I let her realize her parents won’t be the one to dictate to her (I believe she told me that because she still want me to stay) I made it clear to her that I won’t be able to continue with this because of the condition. Although she has promised to end things with her boyfriend but she needs time. I don’t know when she would end things with him and I can’t keep waiting. The fact is that I love this girl. I think I can still date her. But I need advice as I don’t know what to do if o should continue with her and let her quit her boyfriend along the line or end things with her finally. |
Romance / Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend Or Breakup With Her? Please I Need Advice by Thuglife2020: 10:22am On Aug 10, 2019 |
aysnoopy: This has happened to me before but mine is more than 2 times and she will come to my side and beg . She will even threatened suicide This is a conversations whilst explaining to a friend 3 Likes
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Spanishmilf: I used to get 12gb for 2,500 naira. But it has to be new sim. I used to change my sim every 3 months of using |
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Romance / Re: I Need Help About My Girlfriend by Thuglife2020: 8:41am On Jun 20, 2019 |
Korllami007: When she’s at my side, I sat and pretend like I was thinking about something, she asked what I was thinking and I told her I was thinking about her unfaithfulness, she bursted into tears .. I had to beg her.. another thing I notice about her, she never feel jealous of me talking to another girl over the phone |
Romance / Re: I Need Help About My Girlfriend by Thuglife2020: 7:06am On Jun 20, 2019 |
ledamaster: That’s why I don’t ask her to put it on status but DP. But she declined. She chose not to talk for hours before coming back to say “hello my love “ I wouldn’t say anything but had to play along. I wouldn’t let her know I got mad because she might feel it’s because of the help .. I’ve promised to finance her again this semester.. but I’m stopping already without her consent. |
Romance / Re: I Need Help About My Girlfriend by Thuglife2020: 7:23pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Michelle55: I wouldn’t know why. I feels she’s tryna respect me |
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