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Baldwretch:
I can't send money to other users. I have unsuccessfully tried to get Payoneer support to assist me in that regards but it hasn't worked.

Are you sure you are doing it the right way. I don't think you should have problems moving funds from Payoneer to Payoneer.
Maybe you should chat them on messenger. Their customer care is not really bad in my opinion.

Baldwretch:
I would like to know Payoneer current rate for bank withdrawal. The last time I withdraw two month ago, I did at 398. How about now?

Also, any suggestions on what to buy with Payoneer new digital MasterCard and sell for profit

Importers, What do you buy? I am pretty sure I'd get more money than withdrawing to my bank account since my account cannot send funds to other users.

I honestly don't mind hitting the streets begging people to buy, but I would like to know choice buys and which site to use.

Simply sell it to a trusted exchanger here on nairaland. You'll make more money that way than using our fraudulent banks.

GRACEGLORY:
We do appreciate your looking in our thread, Tickles001.

Yeah. Looking to know if you updated your stock.
Maybe I would find a budget TV that I might like.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

You're weak. Very very weak.
Better go soak yourself in the red pill right this moment. I just can't understand why you should allow an old woman use your head like that.

This is saddening.

geolabious:
Abeg my people kindly help me with recommendations for a phone within the budget of 70-80,000.

All I need is the best phone with great speed. I don't want the one that lags or slow down. Abeg ooo.

I don't care about the camera or design. Just speed.

Suggestions Biko

Look towards Xiaomi product. Find the ones within your budget and ask people that use them for reviews.

In those days. Teachers are the most feared human being for a pupil.
How times fly

akoniyong:
Please i want to ask., isnt their Bagged food Carbs inclusive ?? because i'm afraid of giving her any locally made food.,

How do you even know the food is original.
Fake pet foods in the market are more than the original, because they know pets don't talk.

See the small number of people reading the thread. If it's some immoral something now ground go full.

JerkyChan:
....and I’m still paying for my sins so far. Sales have been sooo slow

Which sins did you commit?

Octopusssy:
If you must write nonsense, at least let it be properly written and readable. What the actual fúck is "Sluttines Of mordern women are is innevitable"?

He doesn't hold a noble prize in literature. He may not be grammatically correct, but his message is clear and evident in our today's society.

Your body your choice? Is it all the baby's choice?
Did you consult the baby to know if it wants to live or die?

This is similar to rape, where you forcefully take away something from someone without their consent. Simply because they're defenceless.

I think this woman right thing is what will get us all killed. Imagine the nonsense words they have on their cards. I can't even spot any good reason there.

If you must go raw. Then have a plan to not get pregnant. I use withdrawal with my main chick for more than 2yrs and no story.

byrron:
I haven't fixed a price yet for the course since I'm still doing some recordings but trust, it won't cost an arm and a leg once I'm done.

I did pay $1450 to learn how to publish effectively and be profitable too from a 6 figure monthly earner that is a self publisher and that has turned out to be one of the best investments I have ever made on self development.

It won't exceed $300 when I'm done and my audience definitely would the tier 1 countries.

At $300 it's an easy buy for tier one countries. But I think it's too high for us here in Nigeria.
Maybe you create another version with a reduced price. Or split it into separate sections.

byrron:
Did you see the extracted quote below from my response which you quoted?

Oh. I see.
How much does it cost?

byrron:
I can create 20 low content books in a week if i want to or create some trashy books in a month.

I do a thorough research, determine the profitability and then write a 30k nonfiction book within 3-4 weeks. Takes me 6-weeks to research, write, get my review team on standby and then publish my book live on Amazon.

I'm not into the quantity game since that's for those that have very limited knowledge and strategy but resort to gambling by publishing so many books at a time.

1 Quality book + effective launch strategy = $s.

One well written book that is properly launched can make you so much money and if you master the art of effective publishing then creating more profitable books becomes a fun excercise since it means more $s.

A minimum of 30k words has always been my target since it generates more royalties especially on paperback and much more on Audible but your book launch strategy determines much more the fate of your book at the long run.

I'm actually creating a course at the moment on how to publish and launch your book to the moon. This is my 5th month on the project and I'm not even close to finishing it because I am adding so much value by pouring out my brains on what you won't find anyone teaching it and not even on YouTube.

The first 30-days after publishing your book matter's a lot and if you don't launch your book properly then such book is heading to what we call the Amazon's book graveyard.

I'm currently writing my 3rd book on the same niche but I already have a minimum of 300 review team waiting to write a review on the book within 2 days after I publish it on Amazon, that's a million $ strategy I can only share right inside the course.

I always have my review team on standby before going live on Amazon since that is a sure way to get Amazon algorithm to embrace your book and show it to more eyeballs and people buy books with reviews compare to books with zero reviews.

Publishing on Amazon is an art but some publishers are practically gambling instead of being strategic.

Wishing you the very best.

This is a lot of helpful info. I started using the review strategy but the person working for me started duplicating my books and reduce my sales so I stopped.
How do I get a good review team?

chingle5:
Please i really need help with this, i have some fund on my payoneer and i want to know if i can you my payoneer atm card to buy crypto on binance....

I'm not sure you can as Payoneer frowns at crypto. Though their card is issued by a different company somewhat.

LagosInter:
Tired of talking to naija girls.

They are only interested in talking about their issues-- issues that only money can solve.

No meaningful discussions. Nothing. They will always talk about issues indirectly from hair to data to food

I asked one - - an acquaintance, I haven't asked her out or anything, she should be around 30 years-- why she hadn't been to work one morning, she said no transport. She indirectly hinted she hadn't eaten too.

I pitied her and asked her to come wait for me at the bus stop by 9 am at Zenith bank ATM at 7 and 8 Ajao Estate, because I was going out as well.

We met there and gisted a bit and she was complaining about low salary from workplace .I gave her 3k, it was folded.

I intentionally did this to test her sincerity and sense of responsibility (because same morning I bought 43 inches TV for over 200k.
I was making inquiries for it on this thread :https://www.nairaland.com/6755501/samsung-lg-sony-television-please )

She thanked me and bade goodbye.

She hasn't chatted me since then.

I called her twice after like 4 days, she didn't pick. I haven't bothered chatting or calling since then.

Maybe she was expecting to get 50k from me. Lol.

...lol
Most girls are just bags of problem with a heightened sense of entitlement.
Assuming everything is okay with her, then she just doesn't like you enough to get closer. Though it would have been a different story if you had overcompensated.

Kobojunkie:
Most dads? So we should forget all cases that resulted in shattering of marriage units and lives because you wish to cling to a delusion not founded on reality?

It seems you don't understand me.
I'm didn't it doesn't shatter families, and I don't see any delusion here.
The op is already a grown individual. How can the dad just chase him away without giving him chance to decide where he wants to belong. How does chasing him away reward him for 20yrs of raising the child.
Except the op goes siding the mom.

This is tricky situation of 3 parties now.

Okay let me ask you.
1. Would you chase away a child you raised for over 20yrs, even when he wants to continue staying with you?

2. Would you not listen to such child if you see that he understands your pain in the disagreement. And didn't side his mom one bit?

3. Is it child you hate, or the betrayer wife?

If you are finding out just for confirmation of what is very likely. Then don't go wasting money, just fake it like someone already advised.
But if you want to find out so you can take any serious action, then you should really do the test and confirm so you don't go acting on assumptions.

But it's late. You had to wait 30yrs before you grew the mind to investigate what's not right. What are you going to do now that will matter.
The time has passed too much to make any ammends.

murphyibiam15:
All these you're saying is in the situation the man wants to listen. What if the man sends the mom and him out which is very much likely

That's very unlikely to happen. Most dads won't have annoyance towards the child, as he has no hand in the betrayal. It's the wife that gets to feel any action he might take in anger.
Since the boy is now a grown up capable of feeling the pains of a fellow man, I think the dad will listen.

The only thing I know that will spoil everything is him trying to advocate for the mom.

Only him can truly save the family sef. This is his chance to be a hero.

SmellySperm:
You just corroborated with what I said earlier na. No point for the show off

Not really. Your first comment is more of condemning virginity, than condemning the public show of it.

SmellySperm:
Yeah highly commendable but must you snap and show to the world? All this social media marriages sha

Though I don't see the need to show it to the world. But what do you expect when we live in a world that a 14yr old is already well into sex.
The decay in the society made her think what should be a normal is now worth celebrating

SmellySperm:
Virginity doesn't guarantee perfect marriage.

Are you deliberately bending things now?
No one said it guarantees the success of anything, but it's commendable.

Though virginity might not add any material thing to the marriage. But I still think marrying a virgin version of a particular girl is always better than marrying the non virgin version of the same girl.

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

For you to be afraid shows you have ample doubt he's your dad.

Just allow him do the test and don't in anyway try to discourage him.

If it turns out you're not his. Have a man to man conversation with him and tell him you still want to belong with him. Reassure him you would always be as much of a son as his own child could be.

Make it very evident that you're mad at your mom for holding up such high level of betrayal for over 20yrs. The big mistake you will make is to side your mom, or try to defend her, or try to advocate for softer punishment. Allow and support him in any way he wants to punish your mom.

Afterwards. When things get cooler, you can talk to your dad to possibly forgive your mom.
You stand ten times more chance reconciling and saving your family, than a thousand village elders. But for you to wield this power, you must totally support your dad in the disagreement that will come up and show zero support for your mom.

That is if you are not his

A305:
You explaination pertaining to Earth is the affirmation of Earth 9% gravity.

Mars has 30% gravity, this is why Gravity on Mars is slower than on Earth.

Umm. Make me understand please. Does it mean I've been wrong thinking earth has a stronger gravity than Mars?

A305:
You truly mixing things up. And i don't want to make this seem like a back and forth argument because that fact(s) is scattered right here on the internet.

I take lessons from Neil Dygress Tyson and Prof Lawrence Krauss, so I will not argue what i know and spend more time still learning.

If you say your answer right over mine — then you right, but your answer won't change the objective fact of knowledge.

Astronomy and physics are so fun to learn and same time humbling that they changed my world view from being Atheist to Agnotic.

And by the way:

We know the other 3 dimensions, just study harder to figure it out yourself.

Oh. I see I've been conversing with Einstein himself. I would also not want to continue conversations on this particular aspect, because it appears we both can't agree.
And I didn't number the dimensions, and didn't know where you got the 3 quoted.
I think you should read more carefully even as you study all the things you claim. Maybe that would help.

A305:
This is very correct. And Earth has about 9% gravity. Mars 30% gravity.

Earth has far more surface gravity than Mars. I think you mixed up the figures.

A305:
You got this slightly wrong.

Light bends around space NOT space bending itself.

Space is a mere vacuum that comprises of 3 dimensions but for us (human) to fit in, the 4th dimension had to be included (space time).

My bro Einstein had to do some mental gymnastics to come up with the 4th dimension, which altogether was a different ideology from that of my man Isaac Newton.

No. I'm not talking about bending of light. Space is not just a vacuum as you think, except you are limiting your definition to the absence of air.
The space is said to be a mesh of what they called space-time. And yes. We could bend this space-time, just that I wanted to keep it simple that's why I called it "bending space." Bending of light doest not change the distance between two points, but bending space-time does.
The 4th dimension is simply the time dimension. Other higher dimensions exist, but we don't have full understand of those yet.
Science has added a lot of things in the past few years. We don't have only three types of matter anymore. I think it's now up to six.

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