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abdulrazaqtukur:
can you do wedding when your spouse dey abroad? but her picture is available.

I can't do it,rather I will travel to meet him and do something small there while the families do absentia wedding for both of us here....

What about men a lady does all these things for and does not prove to be a man? Some men no matter how loyal,submissive and caring you be,they are just not men but dogs

I can understand how he feels,I wish him best of luck...I could introduce my sister to him,that's if he is interested

I also stay in sagamu.

I also stay in sagamu,where do you stay?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]But do you have to turn it into a Man vs Woman thing?

Your boss slapped you over 8k. Simple! That's the reason he slapped you and not because you are female. Stop trying to turn it into a gender abuse of some sort. It could have also been a male staff he would slap like that and what do you expect the male staff to say about it?

Some of these women sef. They experience something but they complain for the wrong reasons. [/color]

why would my boss slap me?Is he mad or trying to be mad?Because of 8K,if he knew he could do the job alone,why employ someone...Any employer wey try am with me go enter am o....

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

but they expect you as a woman to forgive when they cheat...MEN!!!

andymola:
Your advice will really save a brother. I'm in a relationship that's causing me pains right now. My woman accepted to marry me. We had done our introduction and have been working towards our marriage later this year. Last month, her attitude changed. She started getting aggressive. I pleaded she tell me what's wrong but she refused. I later found out she was communicating deeply with a certain man who wants to marry her. They communicate morning, afternoon and night. If she visits me, she always puts her phone in silent or sometimes puts it off. In all, she never told him she was in a relationship. This caused us so many troubles. I decided I back off since she's considering another man. She then promised to stop all forms of communication with him.
Always, she complains of been confused cos too many people are asking for her hand in marriage. Since Sunday, she's been very aggressive, she gets so angry anytime I complain abt how men call her. Anything I say now she gets angry. We were speaking on phone this night and she mentioned abt been confused again. That she doesn't want to make a mistake abt life partner. That three men are seriously disturbing her for marriage. I asked her why put other men on the line when she has accepted to marry me and I had done her introduction, she got angry and said she's a woman and she's allowed to entertain other men and asked me to cut the phone.
I'm really confused right now and need your advice. I'm typing with a phone.

if you marry that lady,you will never enjoy that marriage...she has probably accepted the other guy too but don't know how to break it to you,that is what is making her more aggressive towards you....A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage..

darkenedrebel:
There's nothing he can possibly proffer in rebuttal.
When parallels are drawn, the circumstances prevalent in the two things in comparison - in this case in the two different eras - have to be brought to the front and centre, and have to, in spades, bear similitude before it can be bucketed as a reasonable line of argument.

I thought this was entitled: 'What is the African marriage about and what is its values?'.

Discussions as usual have gone off at a tangent with little to nothing to take home.

Thank you,just what was on my mind.

I know the joy of parents is to boast of their child going for NYSC but I don't see any reason why they should hype over it like their lives depend on it...To the young man,U were supposed to go february,U dint...maybe God is preserving you against evil,don't be bothered,just keep on praying to God&talk calmly to ur parents about it.

EroticAngelina:
Very annoying especially stalking and trying to make others jealous(what should they even be jealous of)

buh PDA is bae!! I love PDA sometimes I love daring my boo to kiss me in a bus, and people'll be looking at us like "Una head dey touch bah?"
buh who cares? its fun when ur doing it with someone you love.

cool bae,I also love PDA as long as ts coming from my man,it makes it more romantic..

Regenerated:
52D57196...Ladies from sango ota or environs

I like your signature,ts nice

You've said it all,thanks

BellaElla:
Oga let me tell u wat ur wife is passing through so that u go tell me if Na u, u go allow person touch u.
1. Her throat always feels like something is climbing around it. 2. If she eats, she feels the food coming back into her mouth.3. She is having heartburn ( her chest is always on fire)4.She can't say one sentence without her mouth filling up with saliva.5. Her v.j is tender and hurts most of the time.6. She retches whenever food passes down her throat.7. She is having waist pain, feels feverish, pees every two minutes.8. She is sharing her energy with another human being. Imagine producing all the cells, bones, tissues and blood needed to form a perfect human being.
9. She is constantly worried about the safety of the baby, she worries that the baby is forming well, getting all nutrients needed.
10. Nothing tastes good to her cos her mouth is sour and excess saliva.
11. She still has to do housework and feed u despite all these feelings.
Oga trust me, seducing u is the last thought on her mind. If u want to kpekus at all, ur best best is helping her out at home, preparing food for her, encouraging her, telling her u understand how she feels, helping her research on pregnancy, praying for ur baby with her. She will most likely get wet down there out of gratitude and appreciation. She will likely give u without being asked. But if u start groping and handling her at night when she dey find way to sleep, u no go gree her sleep, u go dey prod am with ur umbrella, then get ready for a conji filled one year plus. Because she is more likely to feel resentment towards u now than passion. Welcome to marriage oga.

talk2alabama:
yeah yeah.. nice siggy by the way

Thanks

talk2alabama:
That man is what I call a Boss!

there is no way he would run down...

Awwww so cute....the bath has space for the baby's head now. Some Nigerian men are blessed,ts not a matter of the wife's responsiblity alone,I wish I marry a man that can help me out like this..

wintersnow:
Thank you... you're such a darling

You are welcome sire.

You can get her a nice necklace or a set of jewellery with a beautiful card that has sweet words in it.

I wouldn't have asked for anyone better,you are my rock,confidant,bestie,partner in gisting and if I come back to this world a million times,I still want you to be my mum...I love you MAMA for everything

layla129:
See someone that said girls are meant to be fvcked and disposed writing love letter

the only constant thing is Change,even experiencing it in the country....So don't be surprised

Ayeesharh:
I'll pay if i have and friend zone him

GBAM#endofstory# first impression lasts longer

Nigerian men,over sharpness dey worry una....

AfroKnight:
Abeg forget test. When I don see quality babe wey dey trip for my looks and money, no need for test. Na to follow up sharp sharp. She gat what I want and I gat what she wants. Account don balance.

4 all the way..na money sure pass

swaggzo:

......... AND HOW MANY GIRLS HAVE YOU SHAGGED?
DON'T BE A SISSY!

SHE WAS AN OLOSHO AND REPENTED AFTER HE MET HER, DOESN'T THAT SOUND PALATABLE?

YOU CAN STILL GET MARRIED TO THE "HOLY SAINT MARY " GIRL YOU MET IN A CHURCH, OR THE PRAYER WARRIOR DEMONS FIGHTING ANGELA YOU MET FASTING AND PRAYING ENDLESSLY IN THE WILDERNESS.... .... AND IN THE END SHE'LL TURN OUT TO BE THE BIGGEST HARL0T IN THE ENTIRE HISTORY OF HARL0TS!

you have said it all,ts all about the person in question. That I went to a club to have doesn't make me a bad chickato.

so many memories,I remember wen a night before Valentine,I called him&I was angry with him for not coming over to my place and he told me we would celebrate our own val the following week only for him to show up with a cake infront of my room 9am all the way from Bayelsa to Ede..which means he travelled all night,I was speechless and I dint know when I hugged&kissed him. We had to brk up cause of blood genotype,still good friends though.

AfroKnight:
99% of prayer ladies will follow you. Fine boy with money is their heartfelt prayer every morning and night.

sure you can always give a test or go low profile..

jimfarayola:
what's your opinion about this assertion?

possibly 85%of any lady you would get but even with that,there are still some ladies you won't get..God help you

whirlwind7:
The reason for such impunity is that we have such a weak ass, almost nonexistent judiciary.

If these policemen know they could be sued for damages, and the sentence will get enforced in a matter of days, they wouldn't be such assholes.
Imagine asking the woman to pay them for meting such undignified treatment to her. Pay for what, exactly?

I have had this hatred for police officers since I was younger because that black uniform they put on always spread a virus to their brain and makes them act stupid#bunch of assholes#

kenonze:
Define "serious"?

Every relationship has a goal.
Marriage must not be the final destination

why can't it be marriage? What is the goal? To waste our time and eventually break up..

olihilistic:
N200K for ordinary nail

while I'm still struggling to pay my school fee.

God go punish them ijn

ts like you feel my pain,in the same shoes....I feel like cursing her right now