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czarr:
I want just 2 children, and i haven't met a nigerian woman who doesn't want more than 2 children. some tell me they want at least 4, some say 5.

maybe baby mama is the way.

Marry late. Marry a 47 yr old lady. Menopause will make impossible to born more than two

Money no get value again

Shanklee:
I don't know why I just automatically pity every married man I see.
Like you'll be forced to eat one woman's food.
You mustn't step out very early and you mustn't get back very late
In-laws will feel like you must be dropping something for them Everytime even more than you do for your family members.
After giving birth, you'll hustle from East to West just to make your family happy, at the end, your wife will make the kids feel like you do not care about them.
Life nor just balance for men.

a self imposed prison

You are better off single.
Marriage can be an obstacle in achieving your personal goals

The best age to focus on giving birth to children is after your retirement
You will have all the time to give your children full attention

Infolenka:
Yoruba movies have better acting, directing and better story telling than typical Nollywood movies

By better acting, they talk too much and shout alot

It is called envy

Martinez39:
Are you studying medicine? Is your first class degree giving you a good job? Are you doing very well in your class? Congratulations, a lot of people envy you and are jealous of you. Secretly, your downfall or struggle delights them a little even though on the outside they may sympathise with you. It all boils down to the basic human nature, a nature that wants others to be doing well and better but not better than you. People feel bad when they get a D but brighten up when their friends/mates get D's or lower grades. If the person's friends had gotten A's, the sadness would have worsened.

It is always true that people envy very brilliant and intelligent students and the envy is pronounced if it clear that they are certainly going to immensely benefit from it financially in the future. Many people hate and degrade the good things they can't have so as to feel better. Many 3rd class wish that they got a First class but they console themselves by thinking and saying "even the guys that had first class in my set hasn't gotten a job for years, who book epp?", "you don't need school to make it?" (this is true but it's still an effort to downplay the achievement of the bright student). Internal disaster, discomfort and envy starts when they receive the news "Bankole, who got a first class in your set, has landed a 150k job per month", a bitterness and envy then preceed the "I am happy for him" lie .

If you are medical student, the academic "losers" or "unfortunates" would take pleasure and comfort in hammering the idea that doctors are not well paid in Nigeria or that medicine is overrated. They get so caught up in discussing doctors' salaries and feel better when they hear an amount that isn't worth much to them. SMH. If everything fails, they try to attack the professionals and label them "arrogant", "proud" etc. Just tell them that doctors are really suffering and are paid peanuts and they would feel better. In fact, as a medical student, you wouldn't know all those that would be happy to hear that you've failed medical school. You induction would pepper them and travelling and succeeding abroad would shatter them.

So please, be more careful when you are doing well academically. I am not saying all are like. We all have this nature but the good ones among us don't let it rule them.

Medical students hate themselves.always competing to reach the quota

RedPanthar:
Even though he's overly nice to me I don't see my self indulging in Anal sex with him sooner or later. He said we go Anal or we are done. How could he shove a huge instrument inside my butt hole. Perhaps he wants to hurt me. Perhaps he doesn't love me anymore. advice please is anal sex worth trying? Enlighten me


Thanks for ur contributions.

Try it once, if it hurt stop.if u enjoy it, continue. A trial will convince you

doayt09:
Hahahaha. What you need is an alpha male, not other way round.

No, controlling girls love submissive guys

Gimmeballs:
I'll start scrutinizing men. Once I find out you're an Alpha I dump you no time

Are you an alpha girl?

Next time trust a Fulani soldier

APC are on a mission to cause disunity among south east. They are succeding because Igbos can be greedy sha

darocha1:
Why is at Sanusi, Soludo and other CBN governors silent on the emefiele issue.

The man is just stamping anything to remain in office.

Nawa o.

They understand he is highly influenced by the cabals

Ginaz:
Cos of money you will fuk someone's wife. Do yourself a favor and have stense cos obviously you don't .

I am not interested in fucking his wife, just a condition so he doesn't come begging for money again. You need to draw the boundaries attimes.
Imagine single guy who should be saving for his own marriage is spending the money helping someone who got married when he knows he is not capable of taking care of himself talk less of wife and child.
. tomorrow,they will see single guys as irresponsible and immature while we are the one helping them take care of their family

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techmo:




They use taxis too


Ignorance of Police act... And law.... Police world wide can operate with unmarked. Vehicle, infact special police regulations and departmental guidelines requires that for CID, CIB and other Departments


If they vacate their duty post, you'd also complain, now they used their own personal vehicles you are still complaining, throwing cameras in their faces, embarassing them on duty



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Don't mind the guy, so he should wait for police vehicles that are not sufficient. The police Troup should be promoted for using personal car for official purpose.

State CID do not operate with official car and official uniform only ID card and it is allowed.

Police can carry out official arrest without an official vehicle. Provided they are on uniform and identify themselves.and in emergency situation

Do a police man sees bunker s ,he should keep quiet

The OP should not make things difficult.

Sad

Thief no dey thief thief
So your safety is guaranteed.

Anti_ witchcraft laws should be made in the country

She was the side chick,
No be only girls sabi friendsone.
She should continue her role as side chick

Being a side chick means you giving out something that the number one woman isn’t, let’s all admit that to some level, this is flattery. But being a side chic is hell of a task, juggling the innocently clueless girlfriend, scandals and drama, headache and a never ending love triangle. But who knows, you may eventually be the main, don’t count on this though, just have fun.

Self-made rules to being a side chick.


Always keep the secret.

LOL.
Keep your mouth shut even from your best friend. This whole affair is clandestine, nobody wants to hear your story. You are a secret, your relationship is a secret and letting it out there would just ruin the fun. Learn to stay in your lane always.

 You may find yourself in situations that may twist your mind to make you think you need to admit that you are a side chick, do not! Let the man be the one to do it, if he wants to. With millennial, you may have the urge to profess this affair on social media, don’t listen to that devil please. Nobody wants to hear about your coastal vacation with the guy.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/19/laws-of-being-a-side-chick-just-for-laugh/

What a woman can do, a man can do better

Envy and greed are worse than SARS

The judge was a Christian.

Show me where Sharia court pardoned those who terrorised in the name of Islam

ImadeUReadThis:
I followed this case very closely when it broke out.

This dude is innocent .

So happens his father had serious dirt on Obama , Clintons and the CIA and he confided with his son on it.

The CIA killed the father a few days before the mass shooting incidence occurred and will later frame this dude for the killings to get him locked up forever .

Both this dude and his father were outstanding and law abiding citizens .


Throughout his first court hearing the guy looked drugged out and dazed and knew nothing about his surroundings .


This is one case where the CIA and their media enablers can get anyone framed up or killed .


Don't believe every narrative you read or hear from the MSM

I admire your ability to carry out your own thinking and not believe anything the media and security agents bring to the public

Neonspook:
These Athiest are doing great work I hope they win their cases. Just a reminder Athiest Society of Nigeria also litigating against Akwa Ibom worship center. Donate to them if you got the funds. A win for them is win for the country. The nonsensical religiosity must be purged from the government.

FG used public fund to build ecumenical center in Abuja
Efcc used million to organise prayers against corruption
The judge is religious.
The case is dead on arrival- does not involve loss of life

dawnomike:
I am sure when all this is over... He would have learnt a whole lot of lessons about life in general if he survives it

No ,he did what many of us were not able to do. There are millions of people who doubt the scripture but will not admit it openly. He is courageous. Whether he wins this or not, he has shown his willingness to sacrifice himself to know the role of blasphemy laws in the twenty first century with respect to freedom of religion.
If he wins the case, many fearful Muslims who have had their doubt about the Religion will come out
Not every northerner is comfortable being associated with a religion that is linked to terrorism.

Many northerners do not feel free .Hisbah is curtailing basic freedom.
The Nigeria army are tired. Imagine blocking the road and preventing drivers from moving. When Army tried to free the road, Army were confronted. Does religious law supercede Constitutional laws?
This is what this lawsuit is all about not about the loss of one's life.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-rise-of-religious-rebels-in-the-north/

No be only naija

Hoodlums

General Buhari

Na waoooo, people dying like cockroaches

Speech less