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During Biafra war, there was famine in the land. Some Catholic priest donated food items to Igbos despite nigeria Anglican Church were silent

Igbos do not forget the hand that fed them in times of trouble.

If not for Sharia law on leaving Religion, many women would have left the Religion long time ago, Imagine having to choose between becoming the only wife or becoming the 4th wife.

That is why Muslims must promote Sharia law. Without it, the religion will loose it's members

Alright

Choose your friend wisely

Congratulations to him

So any day he wants to sleep outside, he causes disagreement

Mermaid is a common world in other countries,in nigeria, it is stigmatized
We have been fed superstitious story about mermaid. Now we want to crucify her.
Her birthday,
She loves water the same way we love swimming pool
She took pics inside water,
She chose a name she likee- mermaid
Why don't we let people love their own life

Animals live their true identity

Not chained by the expectation of society

Eat when hungry

Mate when Hot


Without feeling ashamed

No clergy to place blame

A New born child is a sinner

So says a book that praises murderers

The gods created us nude

Yet unclothedness is a taboo it makes no sense

But we do not want to look different

So we put on a covering

And betray our true feeling.

We hide our true self

And show our false self

We tell children not to cheat

We are no different from hypocrite


Stop the pretence

Break the fence

Speak your unpopular opinion

Though it may conflict with established institution

Be yourself in the face of death

Your killers will oneday loose their breath

It is better to say your mind

Than to live a lie

How will someone else accept you

When you cannot love you

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/10/world-mental-health-day-are-we-mentally-free/

Arsenal cut e tickets

This is not financial problem. It is based on principles. She had no shame.wants to sort three courses.
If she can cheat in academic,
She can cheat in marriage without shame

I hate video calk- simple

As he expected

Make your own sex rules

Because wen got the money over women. It doesn't happen oversees

He made Sence sha

Just hug kwa

Society conditioning

Be free to be herself. That is how she wants to dress. Let her be. It is her style

Family education focused on duty. I learnt to be obedient to authority- my parents,elders, etc. I heard to do whatever they asked me to do whether I felt like or not under the assumption that they meant well for me.Failure to comply resulted to punnishnent. I learnt my first lesson- suppress your feeling and comply to avoid punnishnent.


The Religious education focused on submission. We are to submit to the instructions as written in the holy books. I must pray at a particular time and place whether I like it or not. If I fail to comply, I would be sentenced to eternal punnishnent. I learnt my second lesson. Suppress my feelings and submit to what the gods say or risk going to hell

The third education is societal education.We had to obey the written and unwritten laws of the land or risk getting jailed. No one cares if you enjoy paying taxes. I learnt my third lesson : suppress your feelings and conform to societal expectation.


All these education taught me to focus on ideas outside of myself. My parents, religion and society had little or no concern for my feeling . Pleasure and humor are to be swept underground.I am not to search for my own happiness even when my happiness does not interfere with that of others. I feel guilty for pursuing my dream. It means I am deviating from the dreams of the religious group,parents or society. It means I am a selfish fellow. I am a rebel for not living a duty oriented life.


Selfishness is synonymous with evil. A selfish person is one who is concerned with his own need. when did that becomes a terrible thing . we are encouraged to sacrifice our desire . Is self sacrifice really a virtue? Teaching of self sacrifice encourage one to value others more than oneself. It may lead to low self-esteem.Self sacrifice teaching has prevented many of us from achieving our dream.


Animals live their true identity

Not chained by the expectation of society

Eat when hungry

Mate when Hot


Without feeling ashamed

No clergy to place blame

A New born child is a sinner

So says a book that praises murderers

The gods created us nude

Yet unclothedness is a taboo it makes no sense

But we do not want to look different

So we put on a covering

And betray our true feeling.

We hide our true self

And show our false self

We tell children not to cheat

We are no different from hypocrite


Stop the pretence

Break the fence

Speak your unpopular opinion

Though it may conflict with established institution

Be yourself in the face of death

Your killers will oneday loose their breath

It is better to say your mind

Than to live a lie



How will someone else accept you

When you cannot love you

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/05/fed-with-guilt/

So sweet that you posted about it here

Congratulations,you are now a man. Woman no fit do shakara for you. Women have led many into trouble because of this.you are above that, celebrate

Sence of power.blike am MD that sack somebody

Lopo of rivers

Translate

I never learn pigin finish

Their system is transparent.

APC why
Umahi had a very good name until he signed that document needed to.priscribe APC as a terrorist
Now he is making enemies within.his kinsmen
APC bringing confusion

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/23/game-leaders-play/

Here, we imoort anything from anywhere

They will soon call them terrorist

Sahara report were quick to register their website using USA domain.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/23/game-leaders-play/

E remain nigeria

Ikpeazu relation is APC lawyer, no wonder rumors are flying of possible defection

Who owns the rock?

Did you. Notice that manynfo not believe this story.Are they trying to frame someone up
The police has lost its credibility in our eyes


https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/17/we-want-the-police-we-can-trust/