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Many teenage girls from poor homes are lured into pregnancy by older men then he absconds.

Her strict parents disown her for spoiling family name
She cannot abort it
She cannot sell it to childless couple


Dillema

My physics teacher will be like
Ehat units are the x and y axis.
Your graph had no label
You did not state error due to parralex
- 5 marks

I will not pull off because she asked me to.. I will not stand there and watch her flog me in public...I would rather go to prison.

Mercisharelove:
Do you mean you are cursed inside out??

I love the message. I thought you were really spiritual until you began to engage him in insults.
Jesus said Follow the message but not e the messager. I will do that

Canada ko Madagascar ni

Whenever she gives you money first

If a girl sleeps with one man per month in a club from 19yrs to 29 yrs , she would have slept with 120 men.
Truth is any girl that smoke,drink ,gyoes to club has slept with more guys

As if she is trouphy

I didn't loose my virginity. My virginity lost me

fati2001:
because you are so weak.... and ur mindsets are already reacting in negative ways....... ..



AND WORST...YOU ARE NOT CLOSE TO GOD ( AND PROBABLY YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HIS WORDS).


C

Why do we act like sex is a terrible act
Don’t get me wrong, abstinence is a good thing and it wonderful but not when it is forced on people. Instead of teaching and encouraging purity culture, instead of teaching girls to associate fear, shame and guilt with sex why not teach girls good and quality sex education. Teach them their body belongs to them alone and not to their fathers or the church. Talk to them about the clarity that comes with abstinence, tell them abstinence is a choice they can make without the pressure of the church. Teach them that they are not responsible for the sexual purity of men. Teach girls to love and embrace their bodies instead of seeing it as a weapon the devil uses to lure men to hell.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/

These pastors have withnessed the influx of money from local various parishes to headquarters and desire to own the money. They left the previous church over money issue. Deny him access to church fund and watch him abscond to build his own.They see church as fastest means of generating fund. Their sermon focuses more on giving even when topic has nothing to do with money. Meet him for marital counseling and he mention tithing as condition for blissful marriage. They are the prosperity preachers. They need you to prosper so you can donate more to the church. The church has an open door policy. There are less laws on dresscode and less emphasis on morals . Pastor hardly preaches hell. He knows that such would make members sad and scare them away . Rather, positive messages are preached. There are lots of singing and dancing to make members happy.They invite comedians, non – gospel artist to perform on the alter. Happy people are more likely to donate more. Do not be surprised to see POS machine and ATM machine inside the church. You have no excuse not to give. Everything is permissible provided their finance is not meddled with. They install camera at the room where money is counted to ensure no one takes from the money. He does not trust his own officials in money matters.They are the ones kicking against the CAMA law. Using the generatee fund for the things of the church is acceptable. These pastors use money to make more money. You will be surprised to here they own estates, lands, and other non gospel related buisnesses. I heard of a pastor who co- owns a construction company and lobby’s for government contract .


These kind of pastors are externally motivated. They use the church as a means to get what they want. The quest for Fame ,power and wealth supercededs all. They can misinterpreted the scripture and bend rules to achieve such craving. How do we identify the general overseer that was sent by God?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/26/what-makes-pastors-to-abandon-former-church-and-form-a-new-church/

The girl and you fit each other

In a region where over fifty percent of citizen live in abject poverty,It is not uncommon for one to use any available means to put food on the table. Men use their physical do menial jobs like carrying block, pushing wheel barrow etc. Women resort to trading their punny to put food on the table.


The society is to quick to condemn the later while praising the former. Both group do not like their job. An American based research revealed that about 85 percent of prostitute would leave their job if they were in a better financial situation. The statistics would rise in third world countries. Environment that breed hardship also breed sex workers.

No parent who have children he cannot train would fold his arm and watch the child die of hunger.He would send him out to hawk for himself. Of course that is child labor and the parent ought to be punnished. The child is the victim here. To protect the child from harm, parent provide a framework- a shop close to the house – where the child can assist behi

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/25/any-hope-for-the-LovePeddler/

Why are men do obsessed with breast

Scientist has it that we desire what we lack. Men crave for boobs because men lack one. We do not crave for eyes or nose . We have them . Men are curious in nature. They want to know what is that that makes her chest bigger. As man desires to explore, women wear bra to cover them. Covering boobs with bra makes it impossible to be seen. This is like a resistance. Men love challenges. By covering then, men are challenged to see them the more. This makes men want to see them more. The act of covering bra creates more boobs desire in men. While sane men use subtle legal approaches to uncover them, others use force to see them. Wearing bra has created more problems than it solves. In ancient times when men and women walked around stack naked, the frequency of rape cases is less.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/13/october-13-no-bra-day/

Perfectsouth:
if everyone was a hardguy or repiller, this world won't be a better place, he no go sweet jaree so leave we simps united to our faith o

I admire your ability to own up to your past mistakes. Many redpillers of today were once simps of yesterday.
Your sins are forgiven go and sin no more

He wore his partner pant
There is love in sharing

Family pressure is on her to bring a man home. She needs you to relive that pressure. I will say do not do it. Reason, a narcissist does not deserve her

technicallyrich:
my girlfriend has been forcing me to come and see her mother.
she says i should tell the mother that, she is in my hand.
what is realy the meaning of ,she dey my hand.
please does these marriage, because although i love her so much, i m not ready for marriage now.
what do you think.
right or wrong.
no bashing, i m a narcissist.

So why tell us you are narcissist. Make we fear you? A true narcissist is not concerned about anyone but himself. Will not bother asking what she means. He will see it as an opportunity to blow his trumpet. Someone asking a narcissist to claim ownership of her will swell his head. Dear, you are not a narcissist,stop claiming one.
Narcissism is not something to be proud of.

Human in general

Sad

The Nicky. I know get hips. Can We see her full pics without hijab

Scientists:
Lies.

The topic said lies so I listed a lie

Yorubas have learnt not to trust Fulanis

Deardoveylove:
The truth is, I desire to marry him because we already have a child together. I love the relationship between him and our son. I want to have a peaceful family. But everything went bad when he traveled out and decided to stay mute without supporting me. I would have gotten married to someone else all along, but my dad wouldn't let me. He's of an opinion I must marry the father of my son.
He's back, not doing well financially. He has explained all that happened, appologied and everybody still wants him for me. He's been so committed and caring since he came back. we're preparing to get married by January, but the issue is this,

I'm confused.

We are always having disagreement and each time we had, I can't seems to forget all the bad ways he treated me in the past.
I always emphasize it to his face. Severally times, he would go down on his knees and appologies over and over again.
Yet, I can't feel that love in me.
Secondly, he don't want me associating with my friends.
These are people who were there for me all through the time he left, especially my male friends. Who always buy gifts for my child. The last time. My ex bought a wristwatch for my son from US, he personally hide it and wouldn't let him use it.
He calls me more than 20 times a day. That alone drives me crazy.
He's always calling to know where I am, who is with me and who calls me.

He always wants to be around me. No breathing space at all as if I'm going to run away.
I can't even have my life outside him anymore.
The last time we had an argument, I told him I can't marry him, I saw his reaction.
He behaves as if there's a diamond in me he needs to own.
I feel scared sometimes. I don't know if this is love or something else.
He has been away all this years, while all these just of a sudden.

I'm confused, once I marry him, we're married forever and I don't want to make mistake.

How, what should I do to make him stop acting all he's doing? He act as if he's in competition with all the men in my life.

Experienced people in the house please, advice.

What about sex? Talk true. Does he Bleep you better ? That is the main reason you are confused. Nothing confuses a lady better than an abusive , useless guy who perfom well in bed

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When a gold digger gives relationship advice