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I accept. But whenever she asks for money,vtell her the previledges is only for your girlfriend.

She should ask her boyfriend

Poverty is not bad. God brings poverty and riches

Yeye Blogger

What age did Sarah give birth...that is the age

Most girls have no dream in life and cannot assist you in achieving yours
. Until u meet a girl who has a purpose and I'd working towards achieving that purpose, and the purpose is similar to yours, flee

Relationship is no longer about two individuals who want to get married and raise kids.because they have come of age or teaming up to meet our basic need of food, shelter, sex etc Relationship is about one person who is on a mission and discovers another person who is on a similar mission and they team up to embark on facing the challenges together .Relationship is a journey not a destination.Your partner inspire you to become a better version of your self. Not all relationship should lead into marriage. A relationship Should make you better version of yourself while pursuing the mission. The mission is the focus of the relationship and not the partner. You do not complete your partner or look for a partner to complete you. No, you focus on something outside yourselves .


The mission could be to render legal services to those who cannot provide one or to design a more efficient way of generating electricity or reform the lives of ex convicts or to impact values and principles to preteens or to spread the Marxist philosophy to the world or to build a mediation center for conflict resolution or to speak for the freedom of the oppressed.You grow with your partner. When the mission is a long term mission of over twenty years , They may decide to get married. Marriage should never be the mission for any relationship. Marriage may be introduced for long term journey .


https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/16/relate-dont-marry/

She is already in love with someone,but if you up your game,she might consider you.
Upping your game means more attention, more benefit

Better let her be

The long standing question has always been, “Does it make a woman cheaper if she lets a man sleep with her on the first date?” “Does it make her less of a woman?” The answers definitely differ depending on different women and men. I should say, if a woman believes that sleeping with a man on the first date makes her cheaper then that’s it, that’s her perception but then if she thinks it doesn’t make make her cheaper, then why not. Surprisingly, it doesn’t even seem to matter what women themselves think of this, because even though a woman take weeks or months saying no to this man, when she finally gives in,she will still be termed as cheap, it doesn’t make sense, does it? Society always finds a way to put women in a corner, but what about the men? I haven’t even heard of a man that’s called cheap because he spent a night with a stranger!!! In fact, they even get praised for this, but then for women, slut shaming is all they get out of the experience.





Sex is a choice people make due to attraction,adulthood and probably other personal reasons. This whole stereotype leaves me baffled and with so many questions but among them is, “What does it make men?” Is it only women having sex on the first date,do they do it single handedly? Men are equally involved. Why should women be termed cheap, aren’t men just like them? Why are women being judged for something men also do? Wait, are men special, some kind of special that women are not? Ha, I doubt, I think it’s just a society that’s obsessed with manipulating women!





Sex shouldn’t be termed as bad according to gender, to start with, sex is not even a bad thing! Well maybe according to belief and religion, all religions I know speak against sex that’s not within the bounds of marriage, but yet again,who are we to question people,we should leave all this to God. None of us, neither you nor I, have the right to judge anyone for the choices they’re making, henceforth at no point should women be the only ones answerable for sex on the first date unless it wasn’t consensual.




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Model peace foru

Life is pain and pleasure

Pinhead: demon to some, angel to others
If you ask me, and you kind of are right now, life is paaaain. Sounds dramatic doesn’t it? Well yes, this is my dramatic opening statement, but bear with me, it gets better. On the most part life is about experiencing experiences, and through pain we grow, learn, and have better experiences. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger – pain is the flip side to pleasure, and through first experiencing pain we later experience more pleasure than we were capable of experiencing before. Otherwise, a pleasurable experience is just normal, and we take it for granted, so it loses its meaning. The more pain we experience, the more pleasure we can appreciate. Not always though. Only if we choose to, as happiness is a choice.

Life is Heaven and Hell
Pain is heavy maaan, literally, it’s a denser lower vibrational energy than pleasure, and it literally sucks us down. Physical, mental, or emotional, pain sucks us down into our own personal hell, and life on Earth is then lived out as if we were in Hell – which essentially we are. Most people live in ‘Hell’, as this world is setup for humans to do so, it keeps people under control, a cruel but clever management technique. People in hell work hard to try to find their way out of it, and in this society we think that money brings us pleasure. Sometimes it can, and sometimes it traps us in a hellish mindset where money becomes more important than love, and we forget what real pleasure is actually about. We numb ourselves to life through work, over thinking, TV, sex, food, drink or drugs, addictions of all sorts, anything to make us feel a little better, in the moment.

Humans are kept working hard to buy things they don’t really need, so they can feel temporarily happy. True happiness awaits us at retirement when we are often too old to fully enjoy life, especially if working has damaged our mind, body and soul. Humans are kept working hard to increase their country’s GDP, too tired to become a problem, and too numb to remember what life should really be about.


There’s a reason it’s called ‘retail therapy’
Who do you know is truly happy rather than content, or struggling on through life? What’s the ratio to unhappy people you know? Usually we don’t have enough time, we don’t have enough money, we don’t have a good enough partner, we don’t have enough friends, we don’t have the perfect face or body, we don’t have the perfect home or family, we don’t have enough stuff, etc. Capitalism and marketing provides us a drip feed feeling of emotional lack and pain, which keeps us in an emotional state of ‘Hell’
https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/10/world-mental-health-day-are-we-mentally-free/

They quarell, they don't fight.
Quarrelling intention is to voice out grievance
Fighters aim to kill

Why should someone leave the nearest street that sells the same item to order from you ?
What comparative advantage does yours possess?

Year of confusion

Bluezy13:
It means I am intruding into your privacy with my inquisition; consequently, you perceive my question to be a dumb one.

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Not dumb one. The recruiter want to be sure that you have a vision to take the organization to the next level. You embrace personal and organisational growth.
Those without vision do just enough to get their monthly pay. Not interested in promotion. As they remain stagnant, so does their department. Those who aspire to grow to senior managers have to work extra hard to beat the current senior manager. That is who the candidate they prefer

Bluezy13:
Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years ??

Confidential

It is not a dumb question. I ask girls that on a regular basis. I ask strangers I just met. It is a way of knowing a person with a vision

Traininghub:
You think? Anyways, I am doing this for some reasons I'm not obliged to mention.
You said poverty, it's like you prefer robbery, prostitution etc to doing this.

I prefer prostitution to this actually, but I respect your decision.
Goodluck in your endeavors

An eye for an eye make the world go blind

For presidency

Kai Mohammed will soon accuse UN of inflating the figure from 43

Aoc will surprise him in 2023

iluvdonjazzy:
not just 24 hours but the question should be, can it carry heavy load, like air-conditioners, refrigerators, pressing iron, electric cooker and the rest.

It is for rural areas. Most villages do not have cooker, air conditioni etc na bulb and phone charging

Eye don open

When you call them straight! ;, Does it mean the gays are curved

He should gently carry his baby home.

Is he angrier that she is with another man?

He is matured
He feels you cheated because he has not been attentive to you
Now he is making it up.
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lessonsoflife:
I believe that I am introvert reason because I don't talk except maybe about football and politics. I do give little advise too base on how I see things. But here is the thing.
1. I just cannot express myself to a woman
2. I lack maintained conversation
3. I can be indoors for the whole day or just stroll by walking some few meters.
4. I don't have vibes.
5. I kill women vibes and men alike.
6. No creativity.

Now I don't know if I am an introvert or just being fearful and lazy. I sleep a lot.

..can you play ball, every Saturday morning, go to any secondary School soccer pitch,join them and play
You love politics, go register in any political party of your choice. Start from what you love . From there,.

debbydams:
U are lazy. Engage yourself nd meet People

to early to conclude,he may be doing work from home.

Well done

Zzor:
Please go and sleep, not every man is like you, some men, I mean real men, as in masculine men will not want their wives to stress themselves. Yeye man

I thought you were a feminist

Go find 46 yr old woman

Covid 19 break made me improve in blogging