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Christianity Etc › Re: If You Want A Lasting Peace In Your Life by tobechi74: 9:40pm On Nov 14, 2020
I love the path where we should not lose friends because of buisness

I am pissed off. Can you Imagine a friend just ripped me off? He sold a counterfeit product for the price twice the authentic one. I usually buy the product myself. This time around, I got no time to go to the market to identify the authentic one so I asked him to deliver one for me since he is a dealer. The price he called was expensive. Yet I decided to go ahead with the transaction hoping to get a super- original grade. Lo and behold, he delivered a substandard product. What annoyed me most was he had the courage to look me in the eye and lie to me that they were authentic. He felt I was a novice that would easily fall for his deceit.


I recounted this experience to a mutual friend. He did not look surprised .

This is a dog eat dog world .There is no friend in buisness . Treat your friends the same way you would treat a stranger is one unwritten law of buisness.

These words hurt me more. As much as I felt angry, I could tell it was true. My attention drifted to the entire economic system.we live in a world that priorities loosing a dear friend to loosing a penny. Competition is favored over cooperation in this masculine led society. To get up, one must step on the toes of others .To win, others must loose . To retain the job of a marketer, one must make a certain number of sales before a given deadline . It does not matter how you do it .- manipulate clients, sleep with them etc The end justifies the mean. The system promote cheating . Those who can break their values climb faster. The compassionate ones loose
https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/14/dog-eat-dog-world/
Christianity Etc › Re: Homosexuality Is A Shameful Act. by tobechi74: 9:36pm On Nov 14, 2020
Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
Christianity Etc › Re: My Dreams Of #endsars Protest Coming Back. Please, Pray For Nigeria by tobechi74: 9:34pm On Nov 14, 2020
Is this supposed to be a good or bad news
Education › Re: Logarithmic Question by tobechi74: 9:32pm On Nov 14, 2020
banky200:
I need a genius to solve the logarithmic question number 20
Using the logarithmic table
Show us where you solved it so we correct your mistake
Education › Re: China Ranks 1st In 4 Major Areas Of Scientific Research by tobechi74: 9:31pm On Nov 14, 2020
Chinese are taking over
Education › Re: Pls, Suggest A Course One Can Study With O'level Results by tobechi74: 9:29pm On Nov 14, 2020
Repeat
Education › Re: 6 Types Of Toxic People You Should Avoid In Your Daily Life by tobechi74: 9:29pm On Nov 14, 2020
What about toxic parents
Education › Re: 3 Mistakes Nigerian University Students Make After Graduation by tobechi74: 9:28pm On Nov 14, 2020
I love what you do
Education › Re: FG To Engage 1st Class, 2nd Class Upper Graduates As Teachers - Official by tobechi74: 9:26pm On Nov 14, 2020
Sad
Education › Re: Gender Studies Is Not Science But Politics by tobechi74: 9:25pm On Nov 14, 2020
Topics like Homosexuality should be taught in gender studies. Are people born gay? I have heard of homosexual animals. Can injecting a girl with high testerone make her behave like a guy?

All these are scientific study of gender but in most universities in the country, political science and sociologist lecturers handle it not Biologist or psychologist or psychiatrist.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
Education › Re: Proud Futites, Your School Has Disgraced You All. by tobechi74: 9:13pm On Nov 14, 2020
All university Memo goes with its logo and letter head. This is not true
Education › Re: Only First Class & 2:1 Graduates Will Be Employed As Teachers - FG by tobechi74: 9:12pm On Nov 14, 2020
That one is first class does not mean he will make a good teacher.
In short, most first class graduates know the course but find it difficult to transfer the knowledge to children



does subject create terrible teachers ?” That is

Will a good teacher suddenly turn terrible simple because he is assigned to teach a particular course ?”

I examined the course in question and realized the subject itself are difficult to understand. Mathematics for example is dreaded by student. These students manage to learn enough to graduate and forget a large amount of what Is learnt immediately after graduation. Because of the unemployment problem in the country, these students find themselves as teachers and lecturers and are asked to teach the subject they once hated. The hatred for the subject resurfaces coupled with the fact that they do not know much. As a teacher,they have to maintain the illusion that they know. They do this by putting up a wicked looking face to scare students from asking much question so as not to expose their incompetence.

Secondly, some subjects are difficult to teach. Some phenomenon can be explained best using computer stimulated teaching aids which are unavailable in most academic institution. It takes a genius teacher to use an a better concept to relate the subject to the student interest for better comprehension.

But terrible teaching is not just a function of subject. Teachers personality. have a role to play. Highly Temperamental teachers make terrible teachers.impatient teachers do not give students enough opportunity to make mistake. They expect students to get it right at first attempt and would rush the scheme of work despite student slow comprehension ability. People who do not enjoy being around children make terrible teachers.

Becoming a better teacher requires a great deal of effort to know and understand the subject more,and be willing to change bones behavior in the classroom.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/08/30/great-teachers-vs-terrible-teachers/
Sports › Re: Should Gernot Rohr Continue As Super Eagles Coach? by tobechi74: 9:06pm On Nov 14, 2020
Abusadiq01:
Why u too dey lie like dis? Messi no score Nigeria for 2018 world cup
https://www.goal.com/en/match/nigeria-v-argentina/dnelgqreazv7u1ovoebgwh1bd
Romance › Re: Ten Commandments Of Eating Pussy (vagina) By Yetunde Bakare by tobechi74: 9:02pm On Nov 14, 2020
Do they eat or lick it
Romance › Re: Advice Needed, My relationship is about to crash. Please guys help me out by tobechi74: 8:59pm On Nov 14, 2020
Explain to them that not all relationship lead to marriage. Tell them you attend celestial church or you are a Muslim or something that will make them advice the daughter against the Marriage
But I trust Kanayo, he will find out you are lying
Romance › Re: There Are No More Virgin Girls, A nairalander cries out! by tobechi74: 8:56pm On Nov 14, 2020
Why you dey find slut

Women are more likely to be punnished for putting on revealing clothes,purchasing birth control pills, expressing sex urge and prostitution. A study reveals that bye standers are less. Likely to come to the aid of a woman when she is dressed in revealing outfit. A woman who plays good and hides her sexual appetite is considered a potential awife.



Men are attracted by sight . A woman who reveals a lot gets the attention of guys who desire to have her and take her to bed. In the ancient times, women are seen as men possession. She is either owned by her parents when single or her husband when married. He tells her how to dress so that other guys would not invade her territory.Every guy protect his property from invaders.A sexually looses wife could get pregnant from another guy and bring the baby home to the man . He would not like to spend time, effort and resources raising another man child. Sexually reserved girls are valuable and sought after by suitors. A naive girl does not know any better. Any sex with his first partner would be satisfactory. Girls are attached to whoever disflowers her. A slut is assumed to have a wide farmland. It would be difficult for a guy with a narrow pencil to cultivate the land. Morever, a slut has numerous experience and could differentiate good from bad men in bed. A virgin may see a guy as a king but a slut knows he is just a learner. This account for the preference for virgin’s over sluts for men considering marriage.Fathers slut shame their daughter so top suitors can ask her hand in marriage. He hardly slut shame other ladies he is not related to. Men love slut as long as he is not related to her.He loves the short term sex they offer .

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/07/dirty-miracle/
Romance › Re: Why Do Southern Girls Secretly Bleep Northerners by tobechi74: 8:51pm On Nov 14, 2020
It is vice versa
Romance › Re: Why Do Southern Girls Secretly Bleep Northerners by tobechi74: 8:49pm On Nov 14, 2020
Stevengerd:
Maybe because of there uncircumcised preeq.
Long gbola
Lol
True talk.
Sports › Re: Should Gernot Rohr Continue As Super Eagles Coach? by tobechi74: 8:34pm On Nov 14, 2020
Nigerians are bunch of ingrates. This guy has tried. Before now, we find it difficult to qualify for ordinary nation cup but he came and qualified us easily to world cup.

He took us to third position in nation cup with seven of our players injured.

His tactics is wonderful. Do not forget the players are relatively young. He is building a team for the future.


My problem with him is that you do not try young goalkeeper. You may experiment with a 16yr old attacker but not defender.

Chelsea made a mistake selling Cech for Curtois. They bought another young coach Arinze Abalaga and he flopped. Even 30 yr old Cabelero was better. It was not till they bought 28 yr old Mendy that Chelsea had balance.

Rohr first tried Uzoho and then Akpeyi. There are better experiencd goal keeper in Nigeria league but they are above 25years. Rohr is looking at under 25. Uzoho could have saved Messi goal at world cup. Akpeyi could have done better in Mahrez goal. Maduka concerned four mot- difficult goals.

Use young squad but experienced backline.

https://tobechispeaks./2018/03/09/ten-ways-soccer-is-turning-into-religion/
Crime › Re: #EndSARS: Has Your Area Witnessed A Surge In Crime Rate? It's Tripled In Mine by tobechi74: 8:33pm On Nov 14, 2020
Are u in Edo, na released prisoner
Crime › Re: The Face Of The Man Who Always Send People Fake Alert Finally Caught by tobechi74: 8:32pm On Nov 14, 2020
Next is to track that voice that says YOU DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH CREDIT
Politics › Re: ENDSARS: ONLY BUHARI CAN ORDER DEPLOYMENT OF SOLDIERS, GENERAL TELLS PANEL by tobechi74: 8:30pm On Nov 14, 2020
In essence, bubu has questions to answer
Politics › Re: Comparing Nigeria And Ethiopian Satellite by tobechi74: 8:29pm On Nov 14, 2020
If you are a woman, which of the two would you choose if they were dick size
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: Most Businesses Looted & Destroyed In Lagos Were Owned By Igbos – Army by tobechi74:
Army is inviting tribal violence

Nigeria is a blessed country made up of different ethnic groups. These groups find it difficult to live peacefully among each other.There is an eye of suspicion that arises whenever come in contact with one who is different from us. We do not trust them.

The ability to get along with those with different mindset is essential to build a brand new country. It involves patience, understanding and acceptance of those of different ethnic group, language, religion and political views.


We ought to understand that when everyone thinks and behave in the same manner,the nation would be boring. Variety is the spice of life .diversity is central to humanity. A tolerant person recognises that his enemy has the right to think his own thought and live his own life as long as he doesn’t interfere in that of others. It gives to others the same freedom we crave.


A tolerant Muslim ignores hurtful remark from a thirteen years old. A tolerant Christian does not loose his cool when handling difficult situation.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/30/a-missing-ingredient/
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: We’re Unhappy Sanwo-olu Denied Inviting Army, General Tells Panel by tobechi74: 8:19pm On Nov 14, 2020
Whenever there is a curfew, army is invited to maintain law and order.

The question is, did governor ask you to shoot ? No, governor do not tell army how to carry out their job. That is job if army commander
Romance › Re: Guys, Don't Ever Give Women Your Money! by tobechi74: 8:37am On Nov 14, 2020
Help only guys
Romance › Re: Confessing Adultery, Right Or Wrong? by tobechi74: 8:36am On Nov 14, 2020
Can your husband handle it maturedly
Romance › Re: Why Are Most Yoruba Men So Heartless? by tobechi74: 8:36am On Nov 14, 2020
Spoilt food atract flies
Romance › Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by tobechi74: 8:35am On Nov 14, 2020
If the supermarket was bought in his name,it is his property. He can burn them
Romance › Re: Do Working Class Girls Still Need Guys, And For What? by tobechi74: 8:33am On Nov 14, 2020
Sexual need
Politics › Re: See What "ATIKU" Did As Soon As Death Penalty Was Abolished For Drug Pushers by tobechi74: 8:26am On Nov 14, 2020
So these military men had morals in them
Politics › Re: The US Army Has Raided And Sized Servers In Germany by tobechi74: 8:24am On Nov 14, 2020
If it is true, then it is also possible that Russia meddled in the list election that brought Trump to power

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