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delkuf:. Thanks for understanding.I thought I made it simpler enough |
Kobojunkiee:A 3 year old dad thinks his dad is the wisest, strongest man in the world who can beat up everybody. As l time passes, he withnesses a tiny mosquito bite his dad to illness. He changes his theory. My dad is no longer the strongest. Later, his dad looses money to MMM, THen he realized his dad is not as smart as he thought. Did his dad change all this while? No, his belief about his dad changed. Religion is an / change evolution of man idea, belief about the creator(s) |
In the northern part where I stay, I cannot really say whether the ladies are wearing bra or not. The Hijab is covering every where. What about in your place |
Religion can be an obstacle to enlightenment |
What I see is nude party |
Buy cryptocurrency instead |
DenreleDave:prisoner go tear your nyansh...gay tendency |
AntiChristian:Man perception of God changed over the years . |
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Are you comfortable with it? If not tell her no, her phone may fall in the wrong hands and someone will have it and upload it online which will tarnish her both of you image. Tell her to imagine her sex video on Facebook. |
Obaseki vs oshiomole continue |
You can believe in Jesus and not in the Bible |
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Sex’ – Because of the existence of a word, most of the people have forgot to clearly and strongly enforce a matter – “Sex Education”.The one and only long term solution to the problems faced by women in the society is this.Explain to us about the body of men as well as women correctly.Teach us that body is a temple not a lodge or inn.Educate us how to respect body,like how we learn ethics in Value Education.Tell us that sex is not a word that must be narrowed only to pleasure,but a divine means of existance of the world. Teach us that one who loves women and respect her is a real man.Instruct us that any touch without her permission is a violation.Make us understand that umbilical cord of a woman is also a mark of relation between a mother and child. I have only one thing to tell the womenhood.If a boychild is born from you, grow him to be the best son.Clearly teach him that any touch without love or permission is wrong in itself.Like how “Thatvamasi”(That thou art) is taught in Vedas,declaim into his ears that she is also a part of his body frame. Respect HER : Her Body; Her Mind; Her Decisions If you please,Lord, allow we men to live women’s and women to live ours lives atleast for one day. Let women understand, how difficult it is to live life of a man where he is walking with the live coal of lust and desire that wakes up in a matter of seconds. And let the men understand the sea of pain that women go through only because of being a woman. Let us know each other….and kiss with our hearts. https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/11/communities-where-women-are-powerful-2/ |
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SenecaTheYonger:Buissness men shy away from controversial issues . They do not take side with any group . By being neutral, they enjoy patronage of both . That may not be moral but that is the rule of buisness. |
In our homes,We are worse than SARS when we devalue women as male property and excercise control over their lives. We want to dress how we want while we tell the ladies what to wear. We are worse than SARS when we use her as punching bag. We are worse than SARS when we act like dictators in our home to be feared by the entire household. We are worse than SARS when we maltreat our househelp and prevent her from attending same school with our children . We are worse than SARS when we sexually harras her and threaten her into silence. We are worse than SARS when we team up to born down the shrine of the elderly man worshipping the gods of his ancestors. We are Worse than SARS when we confine one to psychiatric ward or jail for choosing not to belong to any Religion. We criticize SARS for their brutality against those who wear tatoo while our religious police punnish us for the same act . We are worse than SARS when we take advantage of our students poor academic performance to lure her to bed.We are worse than SARS when we destroy farmlands and farmers except states donate their land to us to practice our trade . We are worse than SARS when we use our political and financial strength to remove effective but non- submissive governors from seeking reelection . We are worse than SARS when we take official decision favoring one tribe or group at the expense of others. The security agencies are not the only one guilty of intimidation. Any act of public humiliation, physical attack, disrespectful language,discriminatory comment, or name calling against our subordinate or minority promotes abuse of power. Subtle acts of manipulating the naive for personal gain also fuels oppression. The victim fear reporting the act could be worse than the original form of abuse. This enable perpetrator get away with the crime thereby empowering then to continue the maltreatment. Cowardice on the part of the victim feed tyranny. Any society that prevents one from critical thinking and promotes submission to a higher power creates an avenue for abuse. This is why many cases of abuse go unreported among security agencies and religion institution .Obey what the boss says whether you agree with him or not and get a chance of getting promoted.security agents are also victims of abuse by their superior.The anger is suppressed until they find a subordinate they can vent the anger on without any side effect . The junior staff are cruel to their own subordinate until the most junior ranked officer who have no one to be cruel to pass their aggression to civilian . This is why top ranked security agents are less harsh than low ranking ones . The #endsars protest is a call to all victim of all kinds of abuse to unite together and take a stand. When the abusers realises that the victims would rather die than persist in such ill-treatment, they would be forced to reconsider their ways. No condition is permanent Centuries of abuse of patriarchy has led to the number of self identified feminist and single motherhood-. Parents who bring up their children in love would be cared for when they get old and weak. Garbage in Garbage out. What we sow is what we reap. We need to focus towards an egilateral society.- a society that is based on equality. Moral reasoning should be introduced as a subject in secondary schools. Children ought to be taught character development with emphasis on equal respect for all devoid of gender, religion, power, wealth or Fame. https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/11/before-you-cast-a-stone/ |
Has dangotw done that? You do not mix politics with buisness |
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Good You must not rush into marriage but decide whether marriage is meant for you. If marriage were compulsory, Jesus would have done so.I am not against the idea of getting married. I am only saying marriage is not for everyone. The assumption that one can only be fulfilled while married is false . Many propeller of this fallacy quote the Bible to back up their claim. It is not good for man to be alone It is not good for anyone to be alone . Eve was to be a companion and not a marriage partner . One can feel alone while being married . The verse only validates the fact that no one is an Ireland. We need someone to lean on . Marriage is a concept created by man to bring order in the society. No one has been arrested for choosing to remain single. Many of us get married because we need kids. There are many orphans down there craving to get married. Go adopt them . Except off course you are searching for your own child to shower selfish love . Everyone is meant to have children. Eli the priest was not meant to have children as that would disturb his mission on Earth so his wife womb was shut for years. Having a wife would not affect his goal. After persistent prayer, he finally had a child. He had to choose between disciplining his children or spending time in the church. He chose the later. His children became wayward. Zaccharia was another priest who had difficulty in having a son.It was not until he was very old that he was permitted too. This tells us that those who are called to work in God institution are not meant to have children as that could affect their work .They are permitted to have a helper, a partner, a wife ,a maid etc. This brings me to the only reason to get married .We should get married when getting married enables us to achieve our life purpose. Jesus knew his mission on Earth .He knew it involves wandering from one place to another spreading the message. The stress of travelling with his family all the Tim would slow down his movement. He could not afford to take them to the mountain and through the sea. He knew his message would invoke the wrath of the pharasees who would happily transfer their aggression to his wife and children . Peter who was already married had to leave his wife behind to follow Jesus. His wife must have felt sad as a result. His children must have been angry with their father for being unavailable. It is better not to get married than to abandon your partner midway. one had to pace way for another. Marriage is settling down . Those whose purpose involve moving around have no business settling down.A Catholic priest could be posted to three different countries in a year as part of missionary work. Relocating their family all the time would prove cumbersome. This is why Catholic priest do not get married. I am not condemning clergy who get married. I only ask that each should examine the nature of his calling. One who is fixed at a particular place to grow an already planted church can marry. Missionaries who go about converting people and planting churches can abstain. https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/25/the-major-reason-jesus-never-got-married/ MORE IN THE OBJECTIVE NIGERIAN |
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chose to stick with a mentor. It is easier than for a growing child to combine series of mentors and trying to find a middle line amidst the cobtrafiction. No two individual think exactly in the same way. ..Jesus is the mentor . . His philosophy is more humanistic. |
The numerous death stories made me anxious that I stopped reading old testament and concentrated on new testament. The Gospel God was a God of Love, compassion and forgiveness.I found it impossible to reconcile the two. It is either they are two different gods or one God who repented . I prefer to go by my third explanation + MAN PERCEPTION OF GOD CHANGED OVER THE YEARS. The old testament toman perceived God the same way they perceived their elders- one to be obeyed blindly and feared. Jesus saw God as a friend to be loved and treated as equal to oneself . Jesus philosophy seemed to resonate with me. As I studied further, I realized a variation in the teaching of Paul. Jesus seemed to break down patriarchy. Paul supported patriarchy. Jesus taught faith and works as requirement for salvation. Paul promoted only works. I am saddled with the same task of reconciling the two. |
grew up in a 4 Catholic family. I attended cathceism and the block rosary and accepted whatever was fed into my ears . One teaching that kept troubling my heart was the story of Abraham obeying Gods’ directive to kill his son. I left the church a sadder person . I wondered If my dad would kill me If he were instructed to do so. I could not muster the courage to do ask him. I feared him more than a mouse feared a cat.I was convinced he would. I asked my mom .She avoided the question the first tine. I could sence the discomfort it caused her the second time.I learnt not to raise the question again Things began to change the moment I began to read the Bible. I discovered more ethical issues. God servant instructing wild animals to devor children for mocking his bald head. I remembered my youngest brother had earlier mocked my granddad for having wrinkled face. My grand dad laughed at the boy . If he could wave such aside without getting angry,why would a prophet of God kill children for such? While I was battling with the best way to make sence of this? The story of God killing the man who tried to save the ark of the covenant disturbed my spirit. By now, you must have guessed that I have a phobia for violence and death. |
Whenever we hear the word journey, our natural instinct assume it to be a physical movement from one place to another. My own journey was more mental than physical. It involved a gradual shift in my belief. |
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