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Family › Re: Woman Dies 3 Days After Delivery Of Set Of Twins, After Waiting 18 Years by tobechi74: 2:54am On Aug 01, 2020
she used incubation.. desperate
Family › Re: Wife, Side Chick Give Birth in The Same Hospital (picture, Video) by tobechi74: 2:54am On Aug 01, 2020
The man had to be given discount ..........for him to afree
Family › When.marriage Affects Your Sleep,can One Get Divorce For Poor Sleep by tobechi74(op): 10:09am On Jul 25, 2020
The poor sleep I’ve been getting has had a direct affect on my mood and creative abilities, creating a vicious cycle of resentment and disappointment. Rather than just bitch about it, I’ve decided to take the next logical step

But the fact is, the crappy sleep I’m getting is only doing more damage to my union. Seeing my spouse wake up rested and ready to face his day while I have to spend an hour orienting myself before struggling out of bed has left me disaffected, and some days (like today), flat out angry. I feel like I’m dying. This is not healthy for anyone who lives in my house.

In researching some of the sleep divorce options, I’ve discovered that there are several ways to go about it. Some couples share a room, but sleep in separate beds. Others merely create a “pillow wall” to establish boundaries. Some occupy their own private rooms, while others split their time by cohabiting on some days and returning to their own space on the others. The latter is the method I’ve chosen. I’ll be sleeping on the pullout bed in the sitting room Monday – Friday and then return to our bedroom on the weekends, when my mental sharpness is no so critical.


We’ve talked about sleeping apart before, and it’s not an idea that my husband has been warm to. He’s previously discouraged it. However, this is the first time I’ve committed wholly to the plan and it’s moving forward. To his credit, he’s recently done as much as he can to make our bedroom a place that we can both enjoy and hopefully remain in together – but he can do no more to stop his snoring than I can do to stop being Black. The aesthetic changes can never make the significant differences to make co-sleeping a pleasant reality, no matter how much we might want it. The grim/exciting reality is that sleeping apart is one of the adventures in adulting that no one ever talked us about and is one we will have to confront. Besides, if we were a proper African couple, I'd have my own hut and would only have to see my husband at night when




mindsof malaka
Romance › Re: 6 Causes Of Sagging Breasts by tobechi74: 5:09pm On Jul 22, 2020
Too much of wearing bra
Nairaland General › Re: Psychologists Say There Are Several Types Of Narcissists: Which One Are You? by tobechi74: 5:09pm On Jul 22, 2020
What is the Fulani group kind of narcissistic that say you must give me ur land or no peace
Family › Re: Did Your Parents Flog You In The Middle Of The Night?(share Your Experience) by tobechi74: 9:06pm On Jul 13, 2020
no,they did not. if they do, they will not sleep that night
Family › Re: What Was The Craziest Thing You Ever Did/said To Your Parents? by tobechi74: 9:03pm On Jul 13, 2020
bought bitter herbal medicine for them..... they gave me maziquine and bitterleaf and bitter drugs as child
Family › Re: Why Is That Men Can't..? It Starts With Mum & Sisters. by tobechi74: 9:00pm On Jul 13, 2020
patriachy
Family › Re: The Lot Of Daddies by tobechi74: 8:55pm On Jul 13, 2020
ladies who grow up without father figure lack discipline
Family › Re: Nigerian Couple Welcomes A Set Of Twins Three Weeks Apart (video) by tobechi74: 8:53pm On Jul 13, 2020
one man put sperm today

three weeks later another man put e own

iask 4 dna
Family › Re: . by tobechi74: 8:52pm On Jul 13, 2020
INTROVERTS ARE THE ONLY GROUP THAT ENJOYED THE STAY AT HOME LOCKDOWN
Politics › Re: Ondo APC Expels Success Torukerijoh For Anti-Party Activities by tobechi74: 2:25am On Jul 13, 2020
so impeaching is a party. agenda not people agenda.
Politics › Re: Buhari Loves Igbos, The Problem Is Igbo Elders- Ohanaeze Youths by tobechi74: 2:24am On Jul 13, 2020
He proved his love for igbos by sending operation scorpion dance to its citizen
Politics › Re: Buhari Loves Igbos, The Problem Is Igbo Elders- Ohanaeze Youths by tobechi74: 2:23am On Jul 13, 2020
Officialgarri:
The youths on this forum will soon come on this thread to tell the Ohanaeze youth to shut up cheesy

For those who might doubt Buhari's love for the country, there are at least 69 massive federal government projects going on or completed inthe South East alone.
-The Nnamdi Azikiwe Mausoleum (awarded by Abacha, but abandoned by all governments before Buhari)
-Payment of pension of all Ex-biafran affected police
- completion of Ekpene-Alaoji-Ugwaji
-Ariaria market electrification
-Onitsha to Akwa road
-Onitsha to Enugu road
-Enugu to PH
-of course, second Niger bridge
-Construction of Modern medical center at FMCU
E.t.c

But won't show us any of these
how many projects are going on in borno despite insurgency?/300.now compare
Politics › Re: How Buhari Cabal Shared $800million From Secret Oil Sale. by tobechi74: 2:20am On Jul 13, 2020
i font blive this
Politics › Re: How Buhari Cabal Shared $800million From Secret Oil Sale. by tobechi74: 2:18am On Jul 13, 2020
this Jackson guy still dey talk.e get mind sha
Politics › Re: Arthur Eze: Only God Can Make An Igbo Man President by tobechi74: 2:18am On Jul 13, 2020
was it devil that was making other tribes presidentt
Politics › Re: Wole Soyinka Celebrates His 86th Birthday Today: Uncommon Facts About Him by tobechi74: 2:17am On Jul 13, 2020
i love the fact that he still worships his tradituonal rekigion rather than imported one
Health › Re: Man Dies After Attending 'COVID Party' In US, Thinking Virus Was A 'Hoax' by tobechi74: 2:16am On Jul 13, 2020
Enough of this fear. covis is real we know. so we should not live again
Health › Re: Man Dies After Attending 'COVID Party' In US, Thinking Virus Was A 'Hoax' by tobechi74: 2:03am On Jul 13, 2020
They want to spread the fear the more.we know itbis real.but we have to live with it since we cant cure
Romance › Re: Lets Embrace Open Marriage by tobechi74: 4:04am On Jul 12, 2020
swingers,,,best friends swap wives
Romance › Re: Someone Keeps Leaving Things On My Car In My Neighborhood by tobechi74: 4:02am On Jul 12, 2020
a sign that he livesvu
Romance › Re: Never Be Like This Husband: A Debt Gone Wrong by tobechi74: 3:59am On Jul 12, 2020
who read till the end should summarise
Romance › Re: What Is That 'good' Quality That You Will Want To Put Off by tobechi74: 3:58am On Jul 12, 2020
I feel the same way bro
Romance › Re: How Covid 19 affect Our Marriage Because Of Our Wedding Day by tobechi74: 3:56am On Jul 12, 2020
she loves event. do not be surprised if she spends one million naira for child dedication
Romance › Re: Between Boys & Girls Who Is Mentally & Emotionally Stronger? by tobechi74: 3:54am On Jul 12, 2020
GUYS ARE PHYSICALLY STRONGER.
GIRLS ARE EMOTIONALLY STRONGER
GUYS ARE mentally STRONGER
GIRLS ARE SPIRITUALLY STRONGER
Romance › Re: Why Women Want To Meet In Public & Why Men Need To Respect This by tobechi74: 3:51am On Jul 12, 2020
noted
Romance › Re: Will Smith's Wife Jada Pinkett Admits She Cheated On Him With August Alsina by tobechi74: 3:49am On Jul 12, 2020
one little mistake happen. not the endnof world
Romance › Re: My Best Friend Wants Me To Have Sex With His Wife by tobechi74: 3:48am On Jul 12, 2020
outside the country, best friends swap partners and nothing happen.Nigeria is not ripe for that

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